the actions associated with physically caring for another human being are so intimate and sacred that theyāre often not even spoken about, just felt. like someone combing your hair or putting lotion on you or fixing your outfit or bathing you or caressing you, itās almost familial. thereās a sentiment in it that equalizes both parties, shouts āiām here like youāre here and weāre here together, not aloneā its powerful and balming

















