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hi im addict
this is a side blog to talk about my experiences and icks with ageism because it’s normalized and i hate it
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aroace, autism, depression, suspected npd
semi-active ig
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#yappingaboutbullshit
my blog theme has genuinely nothing to do with my content btw. i just like animal crossing and penelope scott aaaand if you want general posts from me go to @addictbwn
fuck the authoritarian mindset
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i hate the word "discipline" and how abusers have twisted it to mean something completely different.
discipline originally meant to learn / teach. as in what teachers do in school. they teach you. they're disciplining you on whatever subject they're teaching. then abusers began abusing and calling it discipline, and now the word is strongly associated with punishment.
the practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior, with punishment or other undesired consequences for those failing to comply.
train (someone) to obey rules or a code of behavior, using punishment to correct disobedience. (google definitions)
this is not what discipline is.
not in the fucking slightest.
abusers have ruined this word. it's genuinely lost its meaning. they say it to sound professional when they're recontextualizing the word to fit THEIR standards. bitches.
discipline (n.)
c. 1200, "penitential chastisement; punishment for the sake of correction," from Old French descepline "discipline, physical punishment; teaching; suffering; martyrdom" (11c., Modern French discipline) and directly from Latin disciplina "instruction given, teaching, learning, knowledge," also "object of instruction, knowledge, science, military discipline," from discipulus "pupil, student, follower" (see disciple (n.)).
source: etymonline
the FUCKING french.
hey. hey mom. mother dearest. stop comparing me shipping fictional characters to you shipping real people. one of them is silly fun headcanons and the other is dehumanization and overall creepy (most times bordering on or being harassment)
there is a difference between shipping me and my friend multiple times despite both of us claiming we're uncomfortable & shipping animal crossing villagers. one of these is way worse than the other
i hate the word "discipline" and how abusers have twisted it to mean something completely different.
discipline originally meant to learn / teach. as in what teachers do in school. they teach you. they're disciplining you on whatever subject they're teaching. then abusers began abusing and calling it discipline, and now the word is strongly associated with punishment.
the practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior, with punishment or other undesired consequences for those failing to comply.
train (someone) to obey rules or a code of behavior, using punishment to correct disobedience. (google definitions)
this is not what discipline is.
not in the fucking slightest.
abusers have ruined this word. it's genuinely lost its meaning. they say it to sound professional when they're recontextualizing the word to fit THEIR standards. bitches.
You used to be such a good student
You used to love waking up early.
You used to take pride in completing all your work.
You used to be the first one raising up your hand
Where did that go?
You used to talk,
Non-stop,
About the people you called your friends.
Where did that go?
You used to laugh
At the stupidest things
Until you looked stupid yourself.
Until the world was staring and laughing along with you
And that only made you laugh more.
You used to freeze,
Heart racing,
Living the torture of life to its fullest,
Moments stretching into decades of trying to calm down
All because someone acknowledged your presence.
You used to be annoying.
God, you still are annoying.
You’ve just learnt how to hide it a little better.
You used to trust the teachers that told you they loved you until they treated you like the assets they thought you wanted to be.
You used to follow the rules you thought were easy to keep until you forgot one and they decided you were unredeemable.
You were so sure, so confident, that they loved you.
Where did that go?
Who took that from you?
How many fuck-ups happened before you realised that you lived in a world that has no use for those who do not beg at the feet of authority?
You believed you could keep the rules forever and the titles and the power and stay out of trouble.
You belived in the filth they flung at you from every other speech, lies and hatred disguised as a caring parental figure.
You believed what they told you, that the noose around your neck was a guideline placed there in your best interets.
You believed and believed and forgave and forgave and they kept breaking your trust and you kept coming back because you believed they still cared for you, despite it all. You believed they still loved you. They probably still believe they love you.
You used to be such a good student.
Where did that go?
this got a lot more notes than I expected. are y’all okay
dude i was shopping & my -> toddler <- siblings were being annoying & my mom joked about putting a shock collar on them. ah yes i wish i can dehumanize & abuse my not even 5 year old naturally curious kids when they act up im suuuch a good parent.
being under 18 means you're not a person and people have the right to disrespect you all the time BUT you can't fight back. that's crossing the line. also you'll always be wrong no matter what so don't even try to fight back. ok? you small clueless piece of shit
if you find joy out of scaring / triggering your child you are not a good person
for context i was just ranting about my stepdad & i remembered one time my sister (3 or under at that time) was Not Happy so my stepdad, belt in hand, looked her in the eye & deadass repeatedly slowly snapped(?) the belt as if he was threatening to hit her. for NO REASON. which just scared my sister & made her cry. & my stepdad was laughing his ass off & he then said "this is the best part of having kids" while giggling. Hey so you're actually evil fuck you
i didn't know the best part of having kids was abusing them. thanks for letting me know dude👍👍👍thank you!!👍👍👍you are a totally good father & not at all a crusty ass👍👍👍💖💖💖thanks
if you find joy out of scaring / triggering your child you are not a good person
for context i was just ranting about my stepdad & i remembered one time my sister (3 or under at that time) was Not Happy so my stepdad, belt in hand, looked her in the eye & deadass repeatedly slowly snapped(?) the belt as if he was threatening to hit her. for NO REASON. which just scared my sister & made her cry. & my stepdad was laughing his ass off & he then said "this is the best part of having kids" while giggling. Hey so you're actually evil fuck you
if you find joy out of scaring / triggering your child you are not a good person
yo can this mid-30s loser make it any more clear he doesn't like me & expects little of me. i don't even know why dawg. fucking bum is genuinely beefing with a child get a life
actually i think adults need to learn a lot but they've shown time & time again they're not ready for that conversation
just realized i forgot to turn on asks here🥹
mom saying she'll never give me my phone back and continuing to be an asshole just because i said respect is earned😹😹😹good one
favoritism between children is so stupid why are you coddling one and abusing the other. they aren't characters
parents be like yeah im stripping 90% of your rights for [thing] BUT you're an ungrateful little bitch for not being grateful you still have that 10%. even though you should have that full 100%. actually you don't worship my bad decisions enough so i'm gonna take all of it away. why are you upset fuck you
fun fact: children aren't sims. if you have a kid, it might come with things you aren't used to. you should accept that.
