Busu Kawaii

Mai / ♊ / INFP / Buenos Aires, Argentina / I like cats, candy and rain

[hugyou-remade-deactivated202101]

https://www.instagram.com/p/CJZsdCdAx1E/?igshid=bj08tccpae61

[butterflypeaflowertea]

trees are very 🥺 because sometimes i’ll stand under the shade of a tree and look up at it and it’ll sway its branches about in the wind and i’m like oh my God i’m alive and YOU’RE alive. we are alive together and made up of the same starry stuff and standing right next to each other in this moment on this earth. do u feel it when i reach out and press my hand to your trunk? can you hear me? i think you’re so neat. and then the sunlight filters through its leaves just so and that lovely green color leaves me dazzled. it’s just very nice to be an alive thing next to a different sort of alive thing

[tikkety-tok]

POV: Ethel brings you a leaf

[official-lucifers-child]

do you know how thrilled i was to realise this has audio and the audio is gorgeous???

[andreandkarl]

12.20.20

[3rd-world-elite]

[hotboyproblems]

what she says: I’m fine

what she means: What the fuck kind of custody arrangement does The Parent Trap family have? Whose idea was it to take one kid each and never speak to each other again? Never even tell the daughter they’re raising that they’re a twin? Nobody hates their ex-spouse that much, and if you do you definitely don’t want that person raising one of your kids. Why are the extended family and friends going along with this? Were they sworn to secrecy? Why? How did they choose who would take which twin? Did they both just have a clear favorite? How do you not eat yourself alive with guilt over a decision like that? Why did they make it in the first place? Did a judge make the decision? Who the fuck was THAT guy? Either the family in The Parent Trap have some incredibly dark secrets that weren’t explored in the movies (original or remake) or they’re the worst “good” parents in fictional family history.

[animatedtext]

requested by pixiealderson

[cindysuen]

It’s pumpkin season! 🎃

~ also on my society6 / instagram / tiktok 

[fresh-and-hot-tiktoks]

[sharketypes]

You know what?

I am annoying sometimes.

And that’s okay. It’s not the death sentence I was led to believe. People will love me even if I can’t read their signals sometimes. Not understanding is forgivable. I don’t have to hold myself back so I don’t annoy anyone ever.

The people who love me know I get excited. And I am still loved.

[space-fey]

Well shit

[bluestem-archive]

someone posted this on a pigeon facebook group and i am losing my mind

[catchymemes]

3Dpainting in Virtual Reality Space.

[dicksmasher]

if you tried to explain this to a person from the 1500s they would try to kill you

[feedyourlocalgoth]

Man I hate people who are like, super verbal about hating cats. NOBODY cares that you don’t like cats. Also I think you’re a bitch ass

[babyanimalgifs]

Slinky boy 

(via)

[stepdaughters-deactivated201701]

all those self-care posts would be so much better if they didn’t include getting dolled up, putting on make-up etc. honestly in a society where women’s mental health already relies on their appearance this is such an unnecessary thing to advise people to do. like i get it, applying makeup can be comforting for some people (including myself) but why exactly? why do we never question why changing our natural faces makes us feel more confident, and instead just accept this as something that just is and can’t be changed? when i’m feeling sad or anxious the last thing i want to do is care about my appearance tbh. it’s so incredibly important and mentally healing to accept that your natural face without makeup is beautiful. and it’s possible to pamper yourself without putting on makeup. taking off your makeup however is the biggest liberation and empowerment. 

[lesbian-lily]

I’m too tired to find sources and images and whatever, but this is literally how they used to assess women’s mental health and still is a lot of the time. If women wore baggy clothes, didn’t wear make up, didn’t have perfect hair or rejected femininity in any way it was used as a sign of their mental health, a sign that they were crazy and needed fixing. Women wouldn’t be able to free themselves from institutions until they began to conform to femininity. Associating self care with femininity is kinda really fucked up considering we used to get sectioned purely for not being feminine enough.

And this shit is still happening. I’ve been told that my eating disorder would be fixed if I just took more care of my appearance, I’ve repeatedly been told that my appearance is just a result of my mental health, that once I feel better I’ll be more feminine again and I should ‘fake it till I make it’.

The whole thing is fucked up and I highly reject any ‘self-care’ that is rooted in beauty standards and forced femininity.

[theoldestchorusgirlintheworld]

From Beauty and Misogyny: Harmful cultural practices in the west by Sheila Jeffreys, which talks about this subject in depth   

“I’m troubled with using “beauty” as a synonym for feeling valuable and powerful and magnificent. It’s not far removed from nominally inspiring, but ultimately shallow, slogans like “Confidence is sexy” and “Nothing is more attractive than happiness” that treat emotional well-being as an accessory. I seek happiness because it feels good, not because it makes my hair shinier. Happiness, confidence, self-esteem—these things should be ends, not means.” 

From Pretty Unnecessary by Lindsay King-Miller

[1-420-666-6969]

How the fuck has this site become so bearable. This place was a shit show a few years ago but now it's actually good and not full of instant discourse the way Facebook and Twitter are

[expcake]

everyone is just tired

[nerdgul]

The site hasnt improved the rest of the world just crash and burned so hard that this palce looks like a haven in comparison

[thenon-fictiondays]

If anyone had told me tumblr would be the most tolerable social media site in 2020 I would've called them crazy, yet here we are

[cortue]

One of the things I like about this website is that there are people I’ve been following on here for so long that it has been literal years since we shared a single fandom thing in common and basically never talk and yet when I see their posts, another gifset for a show I don’t watch and have no context for, I still feel a friendly warmth like – hey, glad you’re out there still enjoying random shit.  Here’s some content on the niche thing I’m hyper fixating on in return.