This is what happens to a person when harm becomes environment instead of incident, and how many people will help maintain it as long as they aren’t the one bleeding. Think less “healing journey,” more autopsy report on the kinds of humans who can look directly at suffering and still ask the victim to keep their voice down— who am I kidding, you know exactly what you do.
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Not the kind
people recognize
quickly enough.
That would require
pattern recognition.
And most people
mistake escalation
for surprise.
This Beast, Grief
didn’t find me.
It was already there
when I opened my eyes.
That matters.
Because people love
the idea of monsters
that arrive.
Something external.
Something obvious.
Something you can point at
after the damage
and say:
Clean.
Contained.
Fucking convenient.
But Grief
was already breathing
through the floorboards.
The house knew it first.
Children usually do.
Adults wait for proof.
Children learn trajectory.
Learn weather.
Learn which version
of a parent
just walked through the door
by the weight of footsteps
alone.
Learn silence
is rarely empty.
Learn “calm”
and “safe”
are not synonyms.
That one
should probably
save some of you
a few years.
Most people think
violence is the danger.
Amateur mistake.
Violence is loud.
Permission usually isn’t.
That’s the terrifying part.
Nobody thinks
they’re helping
build the cage.
They just keep
handing it
fucking nails.
And every room
has people
holding hammers
swearing
they’re innocent
because they never
swung first.
Did you catch that part?
That’s alright.
Most people miss
the architects
while staring
at the wreckage.
I learned early
that honesty
changed the temperature
of a room.
You could feel it.
The pause.
The recalculation.
The tiny shift
between:
we know
and
don’t say that here.
Children notice this shit.
Not because they’re wise.
Because they have to.
Because survival
is pattern recognition
with consequences.
Because once you learn
love can turn
without warning
your nervous system
starts studying
teeth.
And hands.
And doors.
And breathing.
Especially breathing.
Notice yours?
Mine too.
That’s the fucked part.
The body adapts.
Learns
which sounds
mean leave.
Which silences
mean stay quiet.
Which smiles
have teeth behind them.
Don’t confuse adaptation
with safety.
Did that feel cruel?
Good.
Now you’re paying attention.
People love
calling children
“mature”
when what they mean is:
Quiet.
Helpful.
Hyperaware.
Already apologizing
before entering rooms.
That one
should bother more of you.
A child
should not know
how to scan a face
faster than a fucking exit route.
But survival
rewrites priorities.
By then
I already knew:
anger had footsteps.
grief had weather.
love had conditions.
And every room
came with rules
nobody said out loud.
You just learned them
or got hurt.
That’s the part
people keep missing.
They think survival
looks heroic.
Like fighting.
Like screaming.
Like refusing.
Sometimes it does.
Sometimes survival
looks like becoming
exactly manageable enough
to keep the room stable.
Smaller.
Quieter.
Easier to explain away.
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