I am a 49-year-old neurodivergent, feminist queer white woman who cooks, keeps house, and smokes too much weed. My pronouns are she/her. My kinks are:
-pain
-breeding
-flowers
-cognitive dissonance
-wedding dresses
-emotional manipulation
-crying
-stiletto heels
-patriarchy/“traditional” gender roles
-androgyny
-consenting non consent
-the very real worship of spiritually and physically superior Black Men, in particular the Black Man I love and serve who I call Ben on this blog and who is the center of mine and my husband’s world.
-being someone’s“Mommy”
-inequality.
Respectful people are invited to ask me questions about any of the above. You’re welcome.





















