Hard Fucking Soft Stroking

The shared blog of a bi male switch and his decorated whore, who share a non-24/7 D/s relationship. We see dominance and submission as the consensual adventure of equal human beings. This is a collection of images and ideas that we like. Feel free to like, share, ask questions, etc.

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Absolutely adorable and apropos for some hidden bondage.

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Reminds me of my whore's playful side, which is delightful.

[redcell4400]

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Last night the whore and I were discussing the way that so much femdom imagery involves reducing the man's status by turning him into a woman, and raising the woman's status by turning her into a man (typically with a strap-on). I like this image because it shows male submission in a masculine way, and female domination where power is assumed through rank rather than strictly by becoming an object of male fantasy. (The woman is, of course, a transsexual, but that doesn't negate the power of the image.)

[zuyoii]

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And this is just cute. I think my slave will find these amusing.

[bratty-brat-brat]

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Another charmingly mean-spirited idea.

[zorro11-deactivated20140331]

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Delightfully mean-spirited (and probably not something I'd actually do)!

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For my whore, who likes grids.

[rage--and--grace]

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Tender.

[seeking-submission]

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Idea for charm school slave whore training. 

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sub space and degradation

[continually-inappropriate]

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Aw...

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I love the vintage, European look and the eyelet lace trimming on these maid uniforms. Simple and sweet, their function is immediately evident. That's one aspect I love about uniforms and why I find them an important element in d/s play. They mark the wearer with his/her role. In this case, one of subservience. (Mmmm….sexy class struggle.)

The fact that my maid's uniform is a real one gives me a thrill. Not such a politically correct statement coming from a working class bitch, but that's the wonderful world of human sexuality. 

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She's a sassy maid. These gifs represent quite well the sexually aggressive side of my submission.

[demondickhotbidom]

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Pet, pet, pet.

[vintagemarlene]

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Classy whore fashion idea: classic tight black dress with a high slit.

[pragnanz]

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Ravaged geisha.