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So it begins ....

So it begins ….

Being married for less than 24 hours had already began taking its toll, I discovered Mrs N was in a relationship with Mr X. From a wedding full of laughter, tears and family politics it all came down Mr X betraying me. I tried to keep calm but I was so broken. I didn’t tell anyone as we were due to go to my parents house for the final wedding traditions.

I continued to live, Day by day breaking a…

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So it begins .....

So it begins …..

Being married for less than 24 hours I discovered Mrs N was in a relationship with Mr X. From a wedding full of laughter, tears and family politics it all came down Mr X betraying me. I tried to keep calm but I was so broken. I didn’t tell anyone as we were due to go to my parents house for the final wedding traditions.

I continued to live, Day by day breaking a little more. Mr X mother had…

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Domestic abuse relationship, the warning

Despite all the problems, we were actually legally married so I guess it felt official. I spent a week with my family and friends some were close some I don’t know who they were but I guess they were there lol. It was an amazing week, I felt like a Queen, there was a glimmer in my parents eyes, a happiness, I can’t explain. I had never seen it before, it was like everything was happening and I…

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The thrill of adventure

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#adventure #dreamtheimpossible #Seizures #solotravelling #worldtravel

Travelling with Non Epileptic Seizures

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Love or abuse?

Every love story has villains, every love story has its own unique climax. My story will be mine, but will be recognised amongst many other women out there in similar situations. My engagement gave me hope, it gave me a glimmer of what an amazing life I had the potential to lead, but it soon came crashing down. It came to light he has been dating someone prior to me, and they were still in…

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The start of a New beginning

I knew my parents would be hesitant but maybe they would be able to see this guy in the same light as me. Being the eldest girl in the family, I was about to start something big……I wasn’t having an ‘arranged’ marriage, but I had chosen a partner I wanted to marry. Now let’s clear this up…… an arranged marriage, has been lost in communication and transition since the elders generation. A 21st…

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The struggles of relationships - NES life

The struggles of relationships – NES life

NES has never worn me down enough to make me feel I cannot do anything. I am way too strong minded. I have always found a way to overcome any obstacle. NES has had a mental and physical impact on me without a shadow of a doubt. I have to be true to myself and my readers. I share my story not to say yes you can handle NES but to share a story of how I accepted NES and the battles I had to…

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By now I was 21 years old, life had already taken lots of crazy turns. I was promoted, I had been mums battle partner in her journey. Dad was plodding on with work and stress levels we’re fluctuating, he always seemed calm. It was when he sat on his own, I would sneak a look from the lounge door window, that’s when I’d get worried. He was always in deep thought, you could just see the intense…

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Becoming resilient..... who said NES won??? I think not!!!

Becoming resilient….. who said NES won??? I think not!!!

My mums battle begun, I couldn’t be the one draining her energy. She never refused me support, but I wanted to be there for her. The same way she was for me! I completed college, I soon found a job!!! Yes me the girl who was a no hoper, got a job! Although later than my social group …. I found my feet. In December 2007 a local newsagent took me on for only Saturdays but, guess what?! Within weeks…

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College life and NES, the journey makes your stronger

School was a hard ride, it wasn’t easy. I decided that after the schools management of my education and how poorly I was accepted and the impact it had on me and my family I did not want to be part of that anymore. I decided to go to college. College was an amazing experience, the college helped me so much. I studied Media, it was always in the back of my mind – one day my voice will reach the…

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A teenager living with NES

Being diagnosed with nonepileptic seizures changed my world. From my first seizure day by day, the seizures increased. Not knowing what was happening to me made me feel anxious, scared and frightened. Collapsing into a seizure was never easy, it could happen anywhere anytime. What if I was alone? Coming from a British Indian background wasn’t easy explaining what was happening. My seizures became…

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Non-epileptic seizures

I’ve been having non epileptic seizures NES for 18 years. I was approx 11-12 years when these started. I remember going to school, parts of my body would seize, I could be writing, sitting or walking and I’d fall as I lost the feeling in my legs. My body would tire from this and cause me to sleep excessively. It became difficult, my school teachers, my friends thought I was making it up to get…

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The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me! My name is Harminder, you can call me ‘H’ as some do. I started blogging because I have so much I wanted to share. I welcome you in Daring to Dream with me and take you on a journey with me. I will explore different aspects of my experiences. I look at my weight loss journey after my divorce, after years of piling on the weight from an abusive marriage how I become a work…

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