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Ed Sheeran about his favorite song on Fine Line - 28/06

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are y’all really calling olivia a stunt

yeah and what about it

sunsbleeding

Hold on to love //

veinitas

men are so awful. reblog this if ur a girl with brown eyes

ruephilia

i love bisexuals who don’t conform to society’s view of gender!!! i love nonbinary and trans bisexuals and bisexuals on HRT or who’ve had top/bottom surgery! he/she bisexuals, she/they and he/they bisexuals, bisexuals who use all pronouns or neopronouns! butch/femme bisexuals and gender nonconforming ones!!! i love all of you!!!

laracroftpussyshedied-deactivat

excuse my ego cahnt go incognito every time u see me its like winning big in reno don't fuck w me ho take u down like judo make it rain am taking names from london to meguro

ottermatopoeia

hot like a fevah make you a believah write my name up in the sky from Paris to Shibuya Miu Miu Prada Mugler Virgil Ross Nicola elevate your vision when you put me on the covah

pro-gay

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ytphobia-deactivated20210908

“we need to start kink-shaming again” idk what y’all are on bc i never stopped and neither did a lot of women. what so many ppl online call kink is just abuse again women and thinly veiled, if it’s not just outright, pedophilia and you should be shamed for it. get a grip and examine your own behaviours.

ytphobia-deactivated20210908

it’s not actually healthy to pretend to be underage and have sex with one or more people pretending to be children to get off. i can’t believe i have to type this shit out.

it’s not actually healthy or okay to want to be beat up or to beat up a partner during sex. it’s not ok. if you’re a young person and your partner wants to physically abuse you to get off, fucking run. if you want to be physically abused during sex, PLEASE seek out help and therapy and unpack what it is that’s making you think you need to be hurt like this.

i had to see a tik tok where a young woman said she went to the hospital after a man she was having sex with began hurting her and when she cried for him to stop, he only went faster. that’s rape. the grand majority of the comments were making fun of her and joking about it, calling her too vanilla and saying shit like “if my man doesn’t fuck me so good i have to go to the ER he’s not doing it right” and “crying isn’t always bad during sex” like oh my god???? oh my god i’m mortified??? y’all have been seriously brainwashed into thinking sex that isn’t painful is boring or not pleasurable and it’s gotten to the point where a sexual abuse victim is mocked for not wanting to be sexually abused.

like honest to god i’m freaked out and so concerned over the way this dumbass “sex positivity empowerment kink shaming is puritanical” bullshit has actually rotted brains. abusing your partner during sex and thinking them crying is hot is sincerely fucked up behaviour and you should not be allowed near people.

and if anybody gets on this post to talk abt ppl wanting to do “age play” and/or be abused during sex as a coping mechanism: 1) as somebody who actually got sexually abused and assaulted by a man i considered to be my good friend when i was a minor, go to hell. you’re scum. pedophilia, abuse and sexual assault are NEVER hot, they’re never pleasurable, they’re never sexy and 2) i don’t care if it helps you cope. so you cope by traumatizing others and getting off on other ppl’s trauma and normalizing a culture of sexual abuse that is obviously very fucking prevalent among young sexually active people? you’re scum too.

oh-my-sparkle

Very true... sexual liberation has , I guess, cheapened sex and normalized a lot of debauchery and unethical things.

Kinks are not wrong - but people mask these abusive behaviors as kinks , and in the spirit of “not being a prude/acting inexperienced” people go along with it. These things aren’t kinks, and it’s important to discern them from kinks - which a lot of these online kids who interact with fictional content do not understand.

All of this stuff has a place in fiction, and art, in the news, media, you can write about and express whatever you want so long as you don’t use it to beguile people into these weird narratives and rationalizations. You can show a toxic and abusive relationship in a fictional work, for the sake of a story for example, but not as a mechanism to misguide people and promote that kind of dynamic. You can write about the complexities of abuse and unhealthy coping, but readers need to be informed and responsible in order to not assume that it’s a glamorized form of suffering that’s “cool”.

And, just because a kink exists, does not mean you have to enjoy it or partake in it. You do not need to be having sex, or having sex in a particular way, just because you are surrounded by the message that it is the norm. If you want to go off and have insane amounts of sex, as kinky or as vanilla as you like, because you want to, that’s valid and correct. If you don’t want any of it, that’s valid and correct. Whatever you want, so long as you respect consent and boundaries and ethics, is valid and correct. You should be doing this on your own terms, and it’s your responsibility to understand what you like and are comfortable with, and be wary of misinformation, grooming and pressure for you to behave and be treated in a way you don’t like.

That’s the problem with “sexual liberation” it’s that people think it’s about doing every and everything because you can, and if you don’t it’s a fault on your character. Sexual liberation is having the freedom to do what you want, ethically and with consenting parties, without prejudice or discrimination, not doing everything you can and facing pressure if you don’t.

curioustfrancis

a relationship should be 50/50, you buy me books and i read them to you while playing with your hair

mrspider-deactivated20221213

murderers are so embarrassing like how does a grown ass adult have so much free time on their hands that theyre out killing and attacking people…. dont you have like a job or something 😕 idk just like pick a cuter hobby

mrspider-deactivated20221213

if i got attacked by a serial killer i would feel so embarrassed for them like thats so sad. youre like obsessed or something dont you have anything else to do

firegf

u could kill someone and girls would be like no literally i get where ur coming from

queenophydea

Women in STEM (slut, transgender, egirl, milf)

ratcity

Can’t wait to have an extremely offline boyfriend who is 6’5’’ to whom I say “hey do ever think about how 100 gecs is the mindless self indulgence of gen z” and he picks me up and puts me over his shoulder and takes me to the top of a mountain