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What kind of femdom is gentle femdom?

The kind where, instead of telling you you’re pitiful and beneath us, we tell you that you’re a cute little slut. Instead of wearing latex and beating you up we wear matching lingerie and cuddle and tease you until you whimper. Instead of laughing at you and hurting you we giggle and give you kisses. We tell you that you’re a good boy and that we love you and we cuddle and kiss and take care of you. We can still be rough with our boys and some of us are even a bit sadistic, but there’s always an undercurrent of affection and we make sure that our boys know how much we adore them. Idk if everyone would agree with me, but this is what gfd is to me.

Edit: I should say “subs” instead of boys, sorry I wasn’t being very inclusive of all genders… I just woke up, please forgive me 😅

HELP! My wife wants to peg me but it's just too painful. Everything seems too big to fit. How does everyone else manage taking huge cocks and strapons in their ass? Is there something wrong with me??

Dear Anonymous,

Relax! There’s nothing wrong with you at all, it’s just a matter of training and a bit of patience. In fact, everyone has the ability to take large objects in their ass. If you’re doing it right, it feels wonderful - if it’s painful, stop - you’re doing something wrong!

First of all, you need to relax and let go of any tension or stress. Your ass has two muscles (the inner and outer sphincter) and both can be trained to easily stretch to accommodate a cock or dildo. If you’re stressed though, the muscles will tense up and prevent penetration..

Use plenty of lube and never use a desentizing product! Pain is a natural signal to stop and take things easier, and you never want to ignore something which is warning you of possible damage. The trick is to start with a small object, take it sloooow, and gradually build up the size. Slide them inside you and keep them in for 15 to 20 minutes so your body adjusts to being filled. Do these stretching exercises daily and gradually build up the size over a period of a few weeks.

Over time you’ll find that your ass learns to relax and will easily be able to take an average cock or dildo without a need for long warm-up sessions. And contrary to gossip, no - it will not make you incontinent. Your ass goes right back to tightly closed afterwards, so no worries there. In fact, regular anal stretching exercise is good for you and improves your general muscle tone, just like any other form of stretching exercise. So it helps prevent future injury.

I highly recommend you buy a a good quality water based lube, together with a set of rectal dilators such as these:

https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=15697

So that’s all there is to it. Be patient, do the regular exercise and soon you’ll be amazing yourself at the size of the dildo your wife is thrusting into your eager ass. Believe me, once you get the hang of anal penetration you’ll soon be yearning to be filled with more and bigger! Good Luck!

Followers Confession

Sent in by “Anna”

Your tumblr is my favorite!!! I’m a girl who always liked watching gay porn ever since I discovered it on the internet when I was 14. I found it by accident when I borrowed my bros computer and kinda got curious about the porn sites he was searching. Only I was looking for boys not girls like he was. Anyway that was a few years ago and now Im a student at NYU. I never told any boys I went out with about my interest until a couple of nights ago, and it was all because of your blog!! I get so turned on the idea of a threeway with a couple of guys who want to have sex together that I just had to make it happen before I burst from sexual frustration. I love the captions you do, there so hot, and they make me want it for myself too. A lot of my sexual fantasies now involve two guys fucking me on command, just how I like it. Then I instruct them what I want them to do together while I watch or maybe join in. Just like in your blog. It’s your fault LOL. So anyway I was out with my bf the other night at a party and we got pretty wasted. At some point we got talking about sex fantasies after there was a lesbian couple kissing on a TV screen somewhere, and he said seeing me with another woman would be hot. It was obviously turning him on so I said okay, I’ll do that for him if he agreed to trying something for me first. Shit. I really said that, and he agreed!! I’ve never been with a woman and it feels super exciting and crazy scary too that I said I would. But it will be totally worth it if I can get my bf fucking another guy in front of me. Oh my, I’ve been feeling totally horny and wet ever since the party, thinking about it. I know he never went anywhere near another guy and he doesn’t know what I’m gonna ask him to do yet!! Shit. Is he gonna flip? Can I really pull it off? I really really want this to work cos its my biggest turn on. I’m super-hoping he likes it and we can play around a lot more. Make it a regular thing. He isn’t bi but I totally get off on the idea that I could make him that way. I want to have two horny guys I can train to be my sex slaves, just like on your blog!!!! It feels totally unreal that it might possibly actually happen for me. xxx

Wow - what an amazing and totally horny story! Thank you so much for sharing.

There’s no reason why it can’t happen Anna. Just remember to stay in control and be firm in telling him what you want when the time comes. If he thinks his biggest fantasy might come true and he’s going to see you having sex with a woman, he’ll pretty much do anything you tell him to make it happen, believe me. I suggest you tell him that he can only get his fantasy if you get yours first, and he has can’t wimp out or it’s no deal. Don’t say anything about sex with another guy just yet. Tell him you want a threesome with another guy of your choice. Best choice would be either someone who’s already bi/bicurious or maybe a guy who would be equally keen to see you with a woman, so would share the motivation to obey your directions. If you have a girl friend with a similar interest to you perhaps you could even team up and arrange it with her. That way you’d both get what you want, and could share your guys between you in future. Remember, you have to get the guys to agree up front that if they want to see you with a woman they have to agree to obey you during the threesome. Then just follow the tips on the blog. Let them ease into it without noticing. You can be more direct later, once they’ve actually got over the hurdle of touching another cock, or having their cocks rubbing together. Actual physical sexual contact is the biggest barrier. Once you get past that (arranged by you) and they realise it’s no big deal after all, it’s much easier.

Wow, what a lucky boyfriend you have! I really hope it works for you, and I’m dying to hear how it works out for you. Please let us know!! And if you want any more advice or support or whatever, get back in touch any time. You can message me privately too if you want. I’m always here to help if you want it.

Have fun you lucky girl !!! And you get to lose your virginity with another girl too, afterwards. What could be better :-)

I absolutely love this page!!! Love it. How do I go about telling my wife I'm bi. That I want to suck cock for her. I want her to watch me get fucked. I'm so sure she's never accept it and I fear shed leave if she knew I was a closet fag

Thanks :-)

Hmm - you don’t want to go and wreck your marriage, so you need to sound her out carefully. Here’s an option: Take her away for a romantic weekend somewhere nice! Make it all about her pleasure, and doing what she’d like. Sweep her off her feet and make a special effort to show her a really good time romantically, and in bed.

At the right moment tell her how much you love her, and say also that you’d like to like to do something new for her - fulfill one of her sexual fantasies that she’s never tried or hasn’t told you. Allow her to feel safe telling it to you. Then do it for her and have some fun! In return, you could tell her one of yours. Start with something she’ll be okay with. Suggest making a regular thing of this fantasy swap - try once a month for starters. It’ll inject some excitement and edge into your relationship, and you’ll each have a few weeks to be able to savour what happened and what might come next. Build on it and see how it goes.

You can expand each others boundaries steadily and see where it takes you. You never know, she might want to secretly have a threesome for instance. In which case half the battle is won. Or she might wonder what being with another woman is like, if she hasn’t tried already. That would also make it a lot easier for you to say “Ooh, that really turns me on, thinking of you with a woman - I want you to have that. I wonder how much it would turn you on if you saw me sucking another man” Just take it steady and be subtle. And if you meet resistance back off so she she stays feeling secure. But you can still approach it from different angles that might feel safer to her. Every destination has many different paths you can take to get there.

It’s difficult to be too specific because I don’t know your existing dynamic, but I think you might be pleasantly surprised. If you make a fuss of people and allow them to feel confident and non-judged, they generally open up and tell you all sorts of surprising stuff about what they’ve done, or what they’d enjoy trying! So long as they know they can trust you, and you NEVER betray that trust!

Good luck - I hope you get what you want! Let us know when you do, we’d love to hear about it. And if any followers want to pitch in with advice please send it in.

Hey. I just discovered your blog and its totally amazing! I'm a student, just finished my A Levels and I'm off to Uni in the Autumn. I've had boyfriends at school but I NEVER realised this kind of stuff is an option!!! Wow, it really makes me wet seeing two men together. Its the first time I ever saw actual sex between guys or thought about it really, and it's sooo sexy. Seeing your blog has definitely peaked an interest in me and I really want to try a threesome with two bi guys now :-)))

Thanks for your nice compliments, and I’m pleased you like the blog. A lot of girls love seeing guys together so you’re not alone! Same as men enjoy seeing women together. Good luck with your A-Level results and Uni. You picked a great time to discover your interest in threesomes - Freshers week is one long party, and you’ll be able to experiment as much as you want, you lucky girl. If you end up in a threesome with two straight guys remember to use the tips here on the blog to persuade them to try bi for you. They’re all tried and tested ;-) Just promise us one thing - come back here and tell us how you got on exploring your new interests!!!

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My Mistress forced bi me many times. And I loved doing it for her, But she loved to make me suck cock which I usually don’t do. But the joy it gave her and the power over me she had made it a beautiful experience.She would never let me orgasm, just get fucked in the ass and suck cock. I loved doing it for her. It gave her a special kind of power she said she never had felt before.

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The Use of Hypnosis In Cock Sharing Training

Hypno recordings can be an excellent addition to training. They have a proven ability to deepen your students sexual longing, and can open their mind and body to new experiences. I have used them extensively and to great effect, and they’re especially good for removing unwanted blocks which sometimes appear in a student. Basically the student might want to do something, but an unknown subconscious block prevents them.

Blocks only occur in a small minority of students, but can be frustrating. When they do appear it’s usually either during oral training when the student is expected to learn to swallow cum, or during initial anal training, when he will face anal penetration for the first time. Reluctance on either of these occasions can easily be handled using hypnosis. Remember, it’s important to only use a properly trained professional practitioner when dealing with psychological issues such as these!

I’ll be posting a longer piece about Hypnosis in the next month or so. It will include some background, case examples and a list of resources. So, look out for it!

In the meantime, here’s a link to a short and fun recording created by The Church of Cock. Plug in your headphones, sit back, close your eyes, relax and enjoy!

I Need To Suck > https://soundcloud.com/thechurchofcock/i-need-to-suck

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Hey :-) Your blog is totally horny, I love it!! I have a question. I tried to introduce the idea of MMF to my boyfriend but he refused. The thought of seeing him suck another guy off makes me very wet, but he's scared and thinks its 'gay' What can I do to change his mind, because I'm getting very frustrated here and really want to make it happen. HELP!

Hi there! First off, don’t worry, your problem is quite a common one. Guys can get worried about their image and what other people might start thinking about them. And they can feel scared of being teased and labelled if found out.

So, first off you need to reassure him that whatever happens in your bedroom STAYS in your bedroom. Nobody else will ever know - unless he decides to tell them. In reality there are HUGE numbers of couples that enjoy things like threesomes and pegging. So he wouldn’t be doing anything unusual if he sucks a cock during a threesome, believe me.

Second, you could tell him that sucking a cock is not an orientation, it’s an activity! Tell him he eats pizza but that doesn’t make him an Italian. Also, it’s you that’s asking him to do it, so that makes it normal and fine, and just a sexy thing you really want him to do because it’s a fantasy of yours that would turn you on a lot. It could be fun offering to swap fantasies - tell him you’ll try his for him if he does yours for you.

Above all, just keep it light and un-pressured, and let him come around to the idea. In the meantime watching a bit of light threesome porn might help sway him, and using a dildo during sex together can arouse interest too. Just don’t force it on him, unless you’ve already established a consensual dominant relationship. Guys usually agree once they realise it’s normal to experiment, and they often just need “permission” to play. Whether they admit it or not, most guys have fantasized about sex with another male at some point in their life. So you probably have the same fantasy only he hasn’t admitted it yet. Give him permission and the confidence to admit his own fantasies to you and I think you might be rather surprised by what he’ll agree to do!!

Good luck, and do let us know how it works out for you!

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So my wife and I like to watch each other have sex with the same sex. We totally respect our sexual pleasures. One day she walked in with me at the gay porno theater in West Hollywood. She sat a couple rows behind me. I I was a approached by this guy and quickly began feeling our cocks and kissing each other all over. We walked out the theater and went straight to the car where we sucked each other’s cocks. My wife enjoyed every minutes. When we got home she fucked me with the biggest dildo in our collection. We love sex. We just can’t get enough

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Just discovered your blog and LOVE it! Been wanting to peg my bf for ages and didn't know how to begin but yr blog has loads of grate ideas to ease him in :-))) I'm deffo buying a strapon to use on him now. Can you advice me on how to choose? Seems like a big choice so I feel confused. Thx sooo much, Sumi xxxxx

Hi Sumi, It’s great to hear you enjoy my blog, and thanks for your question!

Yes, knowing how to bring up the topic of pegging your man (fucking his ass with a strap-on dildo if you’re new to all this) for the first time, can feel daunting for the beginner. Loads of girls want to go there but just don’t know how to start. And getting your first moves right is important because it can make all the difference between horny success and an embarrassing flop that goes nowhere. And we don’t want that!

Well, that’s one reason I started this blog - to help you turn your secretly cherished pegging fantasies into actual hot and sweaty, orgasm filled pegging reality! Like you say, the captions actually give a lot of good tips already. I wanted to mix erotic with educational, and all the tips given have been tried and tested on real guinea pigs... err, lucky guys!! As to the question of what kind of dildo to buy, and how to choose - there’s a fair bit to consider.

You’ve asked a great question Sumi, and it’s given me an idea to write a proper article about it, rather than a short thing here that can’t cover everything you need to know.

So, keep a lookout here on the blog, and I’ll post an article about choosing and buying your first strap-on dildo in the next few days.

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Hey fabulous people :-)

This is just the start of my new blog, and I’ll be adding loads of good stuff over the cumming weeks and months. It’s all about #sharing!

As I discovered from personal experience, nothing is hotter for a couple than to share cock together. What could be sexier or more exciting than having a shared sexual passion with your partner - one that you can indulge in together, in all sorts of variations! Sex is never dull if you both love cock. Or pussy for that matter!

I hope you can join me here - I always join back. And please feel free to add comments or your own stories too. I’d love to hear them.

#sharing is caring! xxx

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