[myaurelia]

if you remember that life is fluid you’ll never feel stuck. nothing is the end all or your only option. when something ends it’s your time to start something new. it doesn’t matter how often doors close if you’re always moving forward. don’t dwell or try to open those old doors. the more you keep moving, the more you’ll see life is working in your favor.

[powerfulwizard]

We’re getting pretty close to having adults who weren’t alive during 9/11, and we really need to admit at this point that the overemphasis on 9/11 in the US is just a propaganda machine to indoctrinate the younger generations into nationalism and to justify all the horrible war crimes the US committed in the Middle East, and the continued mistreatment and distrust towards refugees.

[browngirlsgang]

more people died in hurricane maria than in 9/11 but nobody gives a shit because we can’t use it to justify imperialism

[hatchet1013]

Comparison of a natural disaster to a organization of planned death and destruction is absolutely ridiculous, more people died during the black plague than the Holocaust so apparently the government is just using the Holocaust to make people hate Nazis? Makes sense right

[fuks]

eatin tha pussy like 

[australiansanta]

you know what’s so fucking hot… being able to have open healthy communication and feeling understood, validated and appreciated. ughhhh fuck yeah

[bejuls]

“to want a rose you must respect the thorns. to know anyone you must not choose what to like and what to throw away.”

— Malanda Jean-Claude

[wholesomegirlfriendmemes]

[serialchilller-deactivated20240]

Fuck me as hard as my anxiety does

[nananana-bpdman]

Me: I’m totally independent, I don’t need anyone’s help

Also me:

[toocooltobehipster]

To donate £5 to the charity supporting the male victims of domestic abuse, text the message: MKDV46 to 70070

Click here to watch the video

[yogaboi]

At first I though this was a joke

[hypo-thermic]

Don’t ignore this Tumblr

[kerplunkers-deactivated20200804]

Yet they still do even when it’s right in their face.

[theouijagirl-deactivated2014062]

This reminds me of how a friend of mine was abused by the mother of his child. She was mentally unstable and used to berate him constantly and would smack him in the head all the time. It really pissed me off. Then one night she threw hot coffee in his face and tried to stab him with a screwdriver. The cops hauled him off to jail because she made up a sob story that painted herself as the victim.  Once he left her, he stayed with me and it was a nightmare. She stalked him and me. She would drive by my house obsessively at all hours of the day and night (her muffler made a weird sound so I know it was her). She started showing up at my job, showing up at the places I frequented around town, and filling up my voicemail with dead air. The cops were no help. One day she got bold enough to talk her way into my home by conning my elderly grandmother, whom I was taking care of, while I was out. She went in my room and went through my stuff (creepy), then found him napping on the couch and attacked him. My grandmother witnessed the whole thing. He grabbed her by the arms, forced her out the front door, and locked it. The cops were called again. They said they’d go and ‘talk’ to her.

The next day we were watching a movie and there was a knock at the door. The police had come to arrest him. She filed a complaint against him and shown off some bruises on her arms from the altercation that she swore were completely unprovoked. My grandmother saw the whole thing since she was in the living room too and testified on his behalf. He still ended up serving jail time. No one takes male domestic violence victims seriously. They only see males as perpetrators.

[laraleecupcake]

#standing up for male victims takes NOTHING away from female victims #this isn’t an either/or scenario #you can pursue justice for male victims and still be 100% feminist #safer world for EVERYONE 

[unfortunatelysirius]

This is important. Just… everyone needs to see this.

[reveurh]

“Sometimes we expect more from others because we would be willing to do that much for them.”

— (via unpresentable)

[squid-in-a-party-hat]

i got mad lmao

[dignitea]

[animalbody]

depressed kids in the media: I don’t wanna go to therapy! I don’t need help! I’m not some specimen for you to dissect!

me, rollin up to my therapist’s office and collapsing in relief: what is UP my homeboy I fuckin missed you,, hope ur ready to hear some Bull Shit that fuckin happened to me this week

[gay-jesus-probably]

families of depressed kids in media: okay sweetie we’ve researched depression for ten hours straight and signed you up for therapy and re-arranged your school schedule to be less stressful

actual parents of depressed kids: look i get you’re sad but someones gotta do the goddamn dishes stop being lazy get up. why didn’t you go to school today, what’s wrong with you, you’re such a burden on this family.

[kremeroyale]

Therapists in the media: *understanding head tilt*

My real live therapist whom I adore: Natalie, that is the DUMBEST thing I’ve ever heard.

[nullannddvooiid]

Therapists in Media: Lets do some art therapy and be really quiet while we talk about your feelings :)))))) also I’m prescribing you 500 different medicines

My therapist Brian who I love to death: Jack, I think your first problem is you stay up too late looking at memes, so let’s try taking a nap

[exjwthings]

My real life therapist: Okay, before we start, I found this hilarious video I know you’d love.

[atheistjw]

Therapist in media: serious face the whole time

My therapist: *laughs awkwardly*

[skirris]

therapists in media: refined, cultured, poised, “I’m afraid I haven’t [heard of the nerdy thing their patient just referenced]”

my old therapist derek, from across the reception area, seeing me for the first time after the summer of 2015: HEY DID YOU SEE AGE OF ULTRON?? IT SUCKED, RIGHT???

my current therapist ian, in our very first appointment: do you like star wars? anxiety is like the force, it can consume you, or you can learn to keep it in balance… you’re my padawan now

[mmmm-gross]

Actual things my therapist has told me:

“You’re bassicly a glorified sad lizard.” (It makes sense with context)

“Damn girl you need to get your shit together.”

“Go home and cry. Stop drinking in bathtubs. Eat something that isn’t bleach or memes.”

I’ll add more tomorrow after I see her again.

[brandnewattempt-deactivated2018]

[beefyrat-deactivated20190401]

Painfully average looking with a great sense of humor and always down to get drunk

[latenightskates]

do you ever wake up and just crave intimacy? Like you’d give anything to have woken up with someone’s arms around you and to be able to feel their breath on your neck? Idk i’m lame

[redportrait]

which ptsd emotion r u right now

1) vast, twisting emptiness

2) I Think The Body Is Cold And Hungry But I’m Also Pretty Sure It’s Not My Responsibility To Fix It

3) I want to snap my abusers neck like a fucking twig

4) small

5) everything on earth is my fault and I should die

6) Dirty™

7) *repeatedly makes shitty decisions because I’m already dead*

8) terror so thick you could choke on it

9) this deep feeling of unease in the pit of your stomach that kinda feels like someone’s holding a gun to your head and you know they’re gonna pull the trigger but you don’t know when

10) huh would you look at that… I’m shaking

11) can I get some uhhhhhhhhhhhhh jump off a bridge?

12) I can’t believe I lied about everything and made it all up wow…

13) drugs……… will make this better somehow

14) according to this list I just wrote, I made them do everything so not only is it all my fault, but I actually abused them by making them hurt me

I’m currently 7, 10, and 13 (don’t rb if you don’t have c/ptsd)