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I hope the writings I write from within my heart touches your heart

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I met you and now I can see why people belive in saying, “right person, wrong timing.”

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“I don’t miss you. I just miss the idea of you.”

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“We were just too different. I looked for the beauty in love and you looked for the reason in it.”

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I came across your page and I really love what you have to say. I’m here asking for some advice/opinion. I’m currently in a relationship and I’m not sure what to do. I truly love him and I just feel that it’s just one sided. At times i seem to just question it all, i feel that he’s gotten comfortable so he just simply doesn’t care anymore. I’m such a hopeless romantic so I want that spontaneous love because I know that its out there. he doesn’t treat me how he should, but I find it so hard to go

Thank you for reaching out to me. There’s something really important that you need to know: you deserve good things. You deserve someone who’s going to make you feel appreciated. And if he’s not doing that for you in your relationship, then he doesn’t deserve you. I think it’s really easy to be caught up in the “idea” of love and the “idea” of him that makes it so hard for all of us to let go. Consider this, would you want your friends to date someone like him? If the answer is no, then leave. Love is out there in the world for you so don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

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Hey I have a question there’s a guy that we been “friends” and “family friends” for almost 5 years now we talked in junior year as lovers and after a 2 month or so broke-up and talked again and I broke up with him and we are back again and i feel that the same reasons are what make me wanna stop and the feeling that he’s mine makes me back and he always promise that he will change and I promise that i will do my best but he hasn’t changed anything I really don’t know what to do

Actions speak louder than words. I think you should take a moment and think, “do you like him? Or do you like the idea of him?” Many people fall into this situation. We are constantly reminded of all the wonderful memories we’ve had with a certain person and we keep coming back to those feelings. But your feelings for him are not him. Focus on the present. Is he, now, the same guy you fell for? And lastly, if he has told you time and time that he would change and hasn’t, then he’s not probably not worth investing. Anyone can easily say something and not mean it, but if he shows you he has changed through his actions then it means he cares more. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this helps.

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Maybe in between forever and nothing, there’s a place for us.

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I found new light in your eyes.

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“I found a guy that makes me want to write again.”

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“I’m no me, without you.”

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“I’ve never believed in this right person, wrong timing thing because to me, the right person is always timeless.”

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“I want a guy that makes me want to write poetry.”

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Winter Days

We were stuck in the middle of the biggest blizzard of the year and out of just curiosity, you suggested we go for a walk. I laughed at your silly statement and to my surprise, I found myself agreeing. And so I engulfed myself in my new black parka, slipped on my fuzz coated boots, and reached out for your hand. You led me first, making imprints for my following steps. And without me knowing, you stopped in your tracks and so the tip of my nose bumped into the broadness of your back. You turned around and looked down at me and I swear— as cliche as it sounds. The moment your eyes fell on me, my whole body felt like summer. Heat from within flourished every inch of my body and I felt like it was August 28th; the day we first met, all over again.

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I really thought that if I distanced myself, and if I let go first; then I could move on. I thought that my feelings for you weren’t strong enough to foster. Until we were stuck in the same 10 am biology lecture, and you approached me with your autumn eyes, that I then knew why some feelings couldn’t simply go away.

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The Moon’s Love

You’ve always told me about your obsession with the late night sky,

How the stars lay across the bleek black canvas like white dotted paint,

As the moon stood for all to see,

I remember that night when you had no complaints,

You sat amongst the ruins with your head towards the moon,

And you asked, “Why is the moon so lonely?” on that very day,

And I could only utter out a small answer to your lingering question,

“Maybe its lover is too far away?”

You looked at me with confusion smothered all over your face,

“But why is there distance when there is love?”

The moon doesn’t see the sun often but it still loves the same,

That kind of love is, well--hard to get rid of,

Because distance doesn’t always break people up,

Distance teaches people patience and trust,

And without all of that,

The moon and the sun’s love would just be stardust.

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A Guy I Once Knew

Autumn eyes,

You remind me of a guy I once knew,

His name no longer rings a bell within my mind,

But I do remember the day when he turned twenty-two,

He told me that he adored the freckles dotted on my cheeks,

I laughed and told him that those freckles were rather gold specks,

He chuckled with his deep dimple smile,

And asked me what’s next,

I told him that his eyes were like pumpkin spice and colored leaves,

“Why do you say so?” he’d say,

“Because those things are -- warm,” I’d shyly reply,

His smile grew larger as he told me that I was so cliche,

But he is now just apart of the past,

My memory of him is now buried deep within the library of my mind,

In a book labeled, “Autumn Eyes,”

The pages within his book are sloppy and unlined,

But I don’t know why autumn still reminds me of him,

I guess warm feelings never go away,

Those warm autumn feelings,

Is still with me till this day.

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i keep thinking about this guy that i know doesnt deserve me. he hurt me and completly dropped me when he messed up. have any advice on how to help get over him completly?

My best advice to you is to know your worth. Know that you are someone that is cherished by others and that you deserve so much more. Imagine if you had a kid, would you want your kid to be treated poorly by their significant other? I know that you could be attached to that person, but being in a relationship when both parties hurt each other is fatal. So just choose what’s best for you. To wrap it up, you should not be wasting your time with someone that is incapable of showing you mere respect. You are so much more than a rebound. To get over someone starts with you and the regards you have for yourself. Lastly, I can only hope that one day you’ll find a lover that appreciates you more than you can imagine.

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As I grow up, I realized how much I was hurting myself. Not intentionally, but with my choices. I chose others over me repeatedly, and in the end, that’s what hurts the most. Love yourself first before you love others. It all starts with you.