Iāve only heard the word kin when referring to what anime character you relate to. For example, I kin Emma because she has self confidence issues like me. Or, Iām an emma kinnie because we are so similar!
Apologies for the late response - my work schedule has been hell on me these past few days.
As for your ask - no, that is not the correct definition ofĀ ākinā. To be kin - otherkin, or fictionkin, or whatever else you might call it - you must identify as that character, in some nonphysical form or another. It is not relating to that character, or being similar to that character. If that were the case, and beingĀ ākin was just something we did because we found a character relatable... then Iād have a lot more kintypes on my already-too-long list!
Fictional characters are meant to be relatable in some way. Even villains can be relatable, provided theyāre being written well. If you relate to a character, that is a writer doing their job! We are meant to sympathize and feel for fictional characters, because our current human species has spent its entire history telling stories. Itās ingrained in our blood to seek out connections with others, be they animal, or human, or fictional, or whatever. Itās completely natural to relate to a fictional character.Ā
So seeing a character with self confidence issues and sayingĀ āOh, me too! I kin them!ā is both fundamentally and grammatically incorrect. Itās more than just relating to them. Itās always been that way, and it always will be.Ā
To be fair, relating to a character absolutely can be a part of being kin with them, but thatās not the true nature of the concept at all. For example, I have unapologetically evil villain kintypes, but itās not because I relate to them. My god. I can hardly see the person I am now reflected in those characters. But, on some level inside myself, I still recognize them as me.
To identify as kin is to identify as that character or animal or what have you. And perhaps more than that, it is an identity that you do not choose. Yes, fictional characters are relatable. Theyāre meant to be. That doesnāt mean you can pick your favorite, or the one you relate to the most, and be kin with them. Thatās just not how it works.
I know itās been somewhat popular (especially on Twitter, it seems...) in lots of fandom spaces lately, and bastardization of the wordĀ ākinā has been running rampant, but please know thatās not what itās supposed to mean. We have had a documented history since at least the early 70ā²s, weāre not just some fad terminology teens use to get clout or whatever in their favorite fandoms.Ā
(Not to mention - itās not just anime characters. Itās all fictional characters, even fictional species.)
Apologies if I sound harsh, Iāve been thinking about this ask since I got it and Iām still not sure Iāve explained it well enough. If you need clarification on anything, go ahead and ask - it might be another day or two between responses, but... Iām anĀ āessential workerā, so, you know. Patience is a virtue.