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Maria / 17 / Aries / Canada

[queenrhaenyras]

if this isn’t the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen i don’t know what is…………..

[champagnexproblemss]

This makes me sad :-(

[noamchimpsky]

anyone else having a…hmm. what’s the word? Really Shit Time? 

[champagnexproblemss]

Smiley Ash is my favorite Ash

[queercatmermaid]

I just realized how fucking disgusting it is that it’s considered healthy and normal for teenage boys to eat everything ever yet teenage girls are obviously also growing but are fucking dieting all the time and shamed for eating while they’re growing

[segweg]

Shit

[rainbofiction]

That’s not even the half of it because

- often when a teenager (male or female) puts on some fat it’s in preparation for a growth spurt. Grownups know this. 

- teenagers grow in weird gawky ways, like a girl’s hips will spread out and look “fat” until her legs get longer, or they’ll shoot up super tall and then slowly put on muscle and fat. Grownups know this. 

- it’s very common for a women’s body weight to fluctuate plus or minus 5% with her menstrual cycle

but in the diet mentality all of these things are considered personal moral failures, a failure of control, when controlling it is literally impossible. I am so incredibly saddened by women who weigh themselves multiple times a week and fuss over ten freaking pounds when that’s well within the bounds of menstrual fluctuation + just-ate-lunch. It’s horrible.

[welkinalauda]

“A culture fixated on female thinness is not an obsession about female beauty, but an obsession about female obedience. Dieting is the most potent political sedative in women’s history; a quietly mad population is a tractable one.” – Naomi Wolf

[thunderboltsortofapenny]

Grown ups really do not know this. I tell this to parents at least once a week, your child is sleeping/moody/putting on weight because their body is preparing to more or less jump the Grand Canyon of maturation stages. Hormone changes start a full YEAR before first menses.

My own mother, who works in the medical field and has worked solely for OB/GYN for the last 16 years, gave me grief about all of those things. And she knew about hormone level changes and weight distribution changes and she STILL did it. Don’t think hard facts will outweigh societal norms. Keep talking about it until they can’t ignore the facts

[hogna-lenta-deactivated20160930]

And it’s no wonder that so many women struggle with so many chronic health problems in adulthood, especially things like chronic fatigue, anemia, joint pain, osteoporosis, and hormone disorders. Starving yourself at a time when your body needs the most nutrition is an absolute disaster. I was anorexic during puberty and I have absolutely no doubt that this is a huge contributing factor to my fibromyalgia and hormone issues.

Your body is strong, but it is also very, very sensitive. It takes a long time to repair itself, and some things it’s not going to spring back from. Refusing to eat so that you can look like a Photoshopped model during puberty is going to set you up for lifelong problems because your body will steal the building blocks it needs from what it already has, causing things like scoliosis, joint pain, and chronic fatigue. Don’t do that to yourself. Eat.

[the-wag]

Seriously, tumblr. This needs to stop.

[chubbyarcanine]

Tag yourself I’m abused-anal-sluts

[thecommonchick]

THIS IS TOO MUCH 💀😂

[calums5os-deactivated20180510]

y'all I don’t like smoking, especially calum smoking but you know what?? writing mean comments and basically bullying him on a photo that he had to delete because of all the hate is UNACCEPTABLE and no one deserves that. give him the respect her deserves !! respect calum ALWAYS

[oomshi]

[maurypovichofficial-deactivated]

watching a boy unbutton his pants to take his dick out makes me have the same feeling like when I’m in a restaurant and i see my food coming to my table 

[drakefam-deactivated20191130]

[godsharon]

Me

[theslaybymic]

What it’s like to be slut-shamed when buying birth control

Even when pharmacists do let people access contraception, whether emergency contraception or condoms or prescription birth control pills, the process isn’t always free of judgment. In a series of recent online discussions, people across the country have begun to share stories of the stigma they’ve experienced. As many have pointed out, this can be especially damaging to teens.

[roseykins]

DO YOU SEE THIS? PHARMACY EMPLOYEES IN THE U.S. ARE NOT LEGALLY ALLOWED TO DO THIS. THAT GOES FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE FRONT AS WELL AS PEOPLE IN WHITE COATS BEHIND THE CAGE.

If an employee in a pharmacy makes a snide comment - Front store workers, pharmacists, or Pharmacy Techs give you shit? Gently (Or not so gently) remind them that the waiver they signed upon being hired legally binds them from commenting on your purchase, as it is a violation of privacy laws. Doing so is grounds for INSTANT termination and hefty fines.

Pharmacy workers (white coats) are legally obligated to ASK if you need an explanation of how medication works and any side effects, any medication conflicts etc. If you decline, THEY ARE NOT ALLOWED AT ALL TO MAKE SNIDE REMARKS OR FARTHER COMMENT ON YOUR PURCHASE. FRONT STORE EMPLOYEES CAN NOT AT ALL COMMENT IN ANY WAY, IN ANY STORE WITH A PHARMACY IN IT.

Know your rights. If this shit happens? Call them the fuck out and ask to speak to a manager. Get worked up. Cause a scene. Threaten a Lawsuit. If you see this happening to someone else, and they seem to be struggling, speak up for them. 

As a Pharmacy worker, you bet your ass I’ll protect you and your privacy. IT’S MY JOB.

[hipster-and-thoughts]

[vietbit-deactivated20201010]

*collapses on my king sized canopy bed with lavender satin sheets and goose down pillows in a baby pink silk robe holding an empty (but once full) swarovski crystal wine glass, throwing a maincured hand loosely over my eyes* im in love

[kontrollsysteme]

[shampooligan]

give me every single embroidered bomber jacket

[hemmingswannabe]

How I flirt: *stares from distance*