Whenever I think that my opinion counts or when I feel that I am right and my wife is wrong, this happens. It does put me in my proper place and it reenforces the fact that my wife is in charge of our marriage. When she tells me that my head is too big, I do know I need to assume this position. This did start right after we were married when I knew I had to do things her way and up to her standards. I did start to complain and then she made sure I knew she was the boss. Many times this happens after my spanking, when she wants to be sure that never happens again. But this way, we do not fight or argue like other couples because any problems or issues are quickly resolved so that they never happen again. But I do trust my wife’s judgement, and that is true even when I was dating her. She does know what is best for me and our marriage. We do have the same beliefs and values.


















