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holding onto the sides of his face as he fucks you and you’re mindlessly babbling about how good his cock feels, how good he’s fucking you … and he is laughing softly, kissing your lips, asking: “yeah? that feel good, pretty? yeah?”
Fucking them in doggy and trying to keep your rhythm, your hips rolling smoothly and everything, they're moaning all cute but suddenly with your tip exposed you're much more sensitive and you hit. Something inside and something in your brain clicks and your hips stutter and they turn around to ask "daddy are you o-" before you're leaning over and on top of them your hips swinging in full force you can't even moan anymore all your breath has been knocked out of you you're just wildly rutting in while they squeak and squeal for you to slow down so you push their face into the pillow and fuck it's never felt this good and you have the thought. The one thought in your mind that you want to knock them up. You want to, you have to get them pregnant, that's what your cock is for, right? And after a shuddering breath in in between the plap plap plap you manage to stutter out "baby, baby fuck, baby I'm gonna get you pregnant, you're gonna be pregnant okay, take it, just take it, take my baby okay? Just take it"
being told to take that cock while you’re pinned and getting fucked is so hot cause it’s not an ask or praise, it’s an outright demand. they’re inside you, pounding your cunt so hard and slamming into you that you can barely catch your breath and you quite literally have no choice but to take it. the phrase is a mockery, made to remind you to lay there and submit, let your cunt do what it does best
cockwarming someone while they make you confess your most embarrassing fantasies and you're like "nooooo I so don't actually like thatttt" and they're like "you can deny being into it but you can't deny the way your cunt clenches around me when we talk about it" UGH
literally just cum inside me and don’t pull out. and just when i think we're done, you should start moving again, growling and panting into my neck, rutting into me like an animal. drag my hips up so you can get a better angle to fuck into and maybe you snarl god, fuck, your cunt as you cum again, shuddering the whole way. by the time you’re done with me my hole is dripping and im almost crying into the bed with how good it all feels
hey btw nonverbal safewords also exist and you can and should use them!! especially with things like gags and giving oral but also if you're just the type to get real bad with words when super horny! a simple easy one to remember is three taps but you can discuss other ones with your partner(s)!
stay safe!
the response to this has been really lovely and educational so i thought i'd add some things people have brought up in the tags!
always discuss both a verbal and non verbal safe word before engaging in kink play of any kind with new partner(s), never assume they'll know the stop light system or know how to use safe words/gestures in general
if hands are bound/out of commission you can use a number of snaps or some kind of battery-less device that makes a noise such as a clicker or bell
try to have a way to communicate 'keep going' non-verbally as well, and if using taps/snaps/any action done more than once make that number more that the safeword amount. its better to have someone slow down or stop while trying to get them to keep going rather than the other way around!
I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.
As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.
You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.
Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.
For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.
A little addendum I think bears mentioning since this post has been blowing up my notes lately:
It's easy for doms to understand that some subs are turned on by embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation, objectification, etc. That is an easier concept to grasp. But I think that's a bit of a simplified way of putting it and a more accurate way to explain what's going on is that some subs experience embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation, objectification, etc from their dom and are turned on by it.
I think putting the emphasis back on the painful emotion the submissive is putting themselves through is such an important distinction that needs to be made more often. Sometimes the fact that the sub is still experiencing these very powerful negative emotions during sex or scenes (for your benefit by the way, doms) gets lost in translation when someone says "it makes me horny when you humiliate me."
But they're NOT just horny when you humiliate them, they're still also humiliated. And for those of you saying "well duh, of course" please just trust me when I say, as a dom myself who went through learning this and has helped so many other doms learn this, that most doms are absolutely not making this connection at all and that's why my post above has been reblogged a bunch of times by both doms and subs.
As a dom, what we are incorrectly assuming is that the input is 'humiliation' and the output is 'horny' based on what we see and how our sub reacts when we play like this. We are not registering that they are also still humiliated because in the moment they're acting horny. It's an easy logical error to make due to faulty observations and this mistake isn't just limited to male doms in my experience. A lot of folks from all walks of life don't quite grasp this at first. And once you do grasp this you can give better aftercare.
The reality is that the output is both horny and humiliation and your aftercare as a dom better contain ways to treat the emotional pain you inflicted on your sub. In this case, reassurance (I'm so proud of you/of how much you took for me) and positive affirmations (you make me so happy, you're so beautiful/smart) are a hell of a drug for making sure their psyche stays intact and recovers properly.
cute date idea: connecting my collar to your strap-on harness so I'm forced to kneel with your cock down my throat while you relax on the couch 💖
oh i need to be fucked full of cum until it’s leaking out of my holes and i am just trembling legs and teary eyes begging for someone to keep stretching me, filling me, forcing me into uncomfortable positions that feel good only for whoever is getting off inside me. fuck i need it so bad
how do intox scenes work? how can you be sure that whoever's intoxicated isnt so out of it they can't say the safeword?
Ive been meaning to answer this! Ok so for me ive only done actual intox with my partner, ive had like tipsy hookups before i was with him, but i wouldn't consider that the same as an intox kink scene. You need to actually talk and establish boundaries ahead of time while sober. You should already know likes and dislikes generally, but its also worth asking while youre both sober if yall want to go along with new things that might come up during the scene. Like maybe when ur sober and not in a kink headspace you dont really love degradation, but for some reason when ur high and in subspace you want it really fucking badly. Ask each other ahead of time if you feel comfortable playing along with a situation like that or if you wanna side step it until you're not intoxicated.
How do you know if theyre too out of it to safeword- 1) start small 2) make them practice
1) dont get super crazy drunk/ high for sex, especially when starting out.
2) literally most underrated foreplay ever is making ur partner practice saying no. Touch them, kiss them, do your standard foreplay stuff, and instruct them to randomly safeword or tell you no. As soon as they do, you stop everything and praise them for it, like "Thank you so much for stopping me, you're such a good boy. Wanna keep going?" And then continue as you were. Have them practice safewording like 3-5 times over the course of kinda intensifying foreplay as a good clarity check. Then signal the "game" is over somehow, like saying "ok, ready to go for real now?" This is fun even just for any new kink endeavor btw (i did this a lot with bondage at first!). Its really just to make it feel less scary for both of u to safeword/ react to a safeword, and build trust that youll actually stop immediately, plus it reminds them its an option even if theyre a lil out if it.
YOU SHOULD DO MUCH MORE RESEARCH THAN READING THIS POST TO RNGAGE IN INTOX KINK IRL PLS GOD ok thanks
good advice, also in the spirit of RACK i wanna add—there is no way to make absolutely sure the intoxicated person isn't too out of it to safeword, the same way there's no way to absolutely make sure someone won't die or be permanently injured through choking. this is a risk you take by engaging in intox scenes.
you can reduce the risk by doing what OP suggested, and by making sure you both are familiar with how the intoxicated person responds to the dosage of substances they plan to take (e.g., if you've only ever taken 10mg edibles, don't take 20 for the first time during an intox scene). but there is always a risk that something goes wrong. you should discuss safety plans for what you would do if this happened, for both the sub and dom.
if your immediate thought as a dom is "well, if i accidentally violated someone's consent, i'd never recover and just kill myself immediately", i would strongly suggest you not engage in this type of play. accidental consent violations happen in kink, even when everyone does everything right. so do your best to do everything right, and talk through what happens if things go wrong anyway.
also, while of course everyone get to decide the boundaries for their own play, it's generally considered best practice not to widen the scope of your play mid-scene. for example, if you explicitly agreed to no penetration during the pre-scene discussion, but the sub asks for penetration during the scene, it's best to honour the original boundaries and save that for a later scene. (the inverse, on the other hand, is fine—if you agreed to penetration beforehand, you can absolutely withdraw consent for that mid-scene.) the heightened emotion and adrenaline during a scene can impact your ability to make sound decisions, and it's easy to get carried away and agree to things outside your risk profile in the heat of the moment. especially important in an intox scene where you're literally chemically influencing your brain! remember you can always do more in the future, but you can't undo an impulsive decision.
lastly, be mindful of how many risky variables you're playing with at once. if you're doing an intox scene with someone for the first time, including other elements of CNC (like physical or verbal resistance) or combining with other risky play would multiply your risk—that's a lot of moving parts. i'd keep it as simple and safe as possible for the first time (taking impact/pain play off the table, for example) and add things in SLOWLY as you gain experience, if all goes well. i know this can feel frustrating, kink is exciting and it's tempting to try and do everything at once. but patience is a huge part of playing responsibly, and it is worth it.
All good additions i rly like!
Here’s the thing that some people don’t seem to understand about sex & kink. You have to respect boundaries before you get to push them. You have to show people they’re safe before you get to make them feel scared. You have to respect people before you get to degrade them. You have to be normal with people before you get to be dirty with them. You can’t be skipping steps. Treating them like a person always comes before treating them like a toy.
thighjob where we’re snuggling real close in bed and your cock is sliding back and forth but it’s passing over my clit each time and i’m digging my nails into you and hiding my face in your chest and one of your hands is on my ass pulling me forward and back in perfect rhythm with you like a stupid little whining sex toy made to get you off and you warn me between low groans not to wiggle my hips otherwise it’ll end up inside me and i’m fucking whining that it’s not fair and you’re saying i know baby i know baby but doesn’t it feel so good and i’m nodding reluctantly because god fucking yes it’s so wet and warm and the way it sounds— is messing with my thoughts and i can’t fucking think but it’s— it sounds fucking perverse and you’re asking me if i like how it sounds dirty like that because i’m just as filthy as you are and you can feel me getting more wet and you can feel my clit getting more swollen against your shaft and you bet i like how i can feel every single fucking vein moving back and forth over my soft wet pussy and oh you bet it feels even better because we’re so close like this right baby? so close together aww you’re such a romantic baby, do you like it when i make my dick feel good with your pretty body? and i’m nodding again but this time can’t even say it and
honestly one of the hottest things you can say is "do you want me to stop?"
bc if its embarrassing or weird or perverted, i have to confirm it. i like it. i wanna you to keep humiliating me because im a slut. i want you to keep touching me like that because im a no good pervert.
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A thigh job that turns into "just the tip" that turns into bottoming out and shooting ropes of cum in your pussy even though it's not a safe time of the month and I know it
I just want to feel the hurried thrusts as a guys about to cum in me, putting his hand over my mouth when I tell him to pull out and pushing deeper. Filling me with his seed and marking me as his.
I can’t stop fantasizing throughout the day about all the surfaces people could use to bend me over and take what they want. Anyone bigger or stronger than me could just push me over, face down ass up, across any chair, desk, or table and use me, leaving me there with cum dripping down my thighs, and there’s nothing I could do about it
