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a gentle reminder that you aren’t a disappointment. you aren’t a failure. no one knows how hard u try and you’re doing so well. you deserve so much better.

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12 Things Happy People do Differently

Happy people value and choose:

1. Love over Fear: People, who are truly happy, are less fearful and more loving. They perceive every moment, every challenge, and every person as an opportunity to learn more about themselves and the world.

2. Acceptance over Resistance: Happy people know that you can’t really change things by denying and resisting them. So when bad things happen, they don’t fight, get angry and complain. Instead, they ask themselves questions like: What can I learn from this? How can I do make this better?

3. Forgiveness over Unforgiveness: Truly happy individuals understand that it’s destructive to hold on to feelings of anger. Instead, they choose to forgive and let go, understanding that (in the end) forgiveness is a gift they give themselves.

4. Trust over Mistrust: They trust themselves … and they have learned to figure out the trustworthy people – and those they should avoid.

5. Meaning over Ambition: Happy people do the things they do because it adds meaning and purpose to their lives. They’re not driven by the need to gain acceptance, praise and approval from others.

6. Challenges over Obstacles: Happy people see problems as challenges, and as opportunities to explore new ways of seeing and doing things. That is, challenges are something that help them to grow.

7. Selflessness over Selfishness: Happy people seek out ways ways to give to others - of themselves, their time, of their money, and their gifts. That is, they’re not self-focused and self-absorbed.

8. Kindness over Harshness: Happy people are gentle and kind with themselves and others. They know the importance and power of self-love, self-forgiveness and self-acceptance - and they freely love, forgive and accept other people, too.

9. Gratitude over Ingratitude: No matter where they are, or who they are with, happy people have the capacity to see beauty where others would only see ugliness – and they’re quick to express their gratitude, as well.

10. Being Present over Being Disengaged: Happy people know how to live in the moment, appreciating what they have and who they are with. They are not constantly being dragged down by the past, or distracted by what could happen (or go wrong) in the future.

11. Positivity over Negativity: Regardless of the circumstances of life, happy people are able to adopt and maintain a positive, and upbeat, attitude and perspective.

12. Taking Responsibility over Blaming: Happy people assume full ownership for their lives. They assume responsibility for their life, choices, decisions, actions, reactions, beliefs and attitudes.

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Stay close to the things that make you feel alive. Listen to your favorite song on repeat. Watch the sunset. Fall asleep to the sound of rain. Build a pillow fort. Let the sunshine from the window pour over you. Gaze up at the stars and count as many as you can until you lose count. Binge your favorite t.v. show. The smell of old books, daytime moons, that feeling of deja vu, thrift shops, long car rides. It’s the little things in life that make everything worthwhile. And when you feel like you wanna give up, when you feel so alone that the aching in your chest won’t go away, when you convince yourself that you don’t matter, try and remember this: There are so many foods you have not tasted. Books you haven’t read. Songs and albums you have never heard and fell in love with. Words you never even knew existed. Spices you have never smelled. Cities you have never explored and gotten lost in. People you have never met. Maybe you don’t love yourself. Maybe you hate the way you look. Maybe you’ve said something you shouldn’t have. Maybe you miss someone. Maybe you’ve lost someone. Maybe it feels like the world is against you and that you can’t do anything right and that it would be better off if you just disappeared. You are here right now. That’s all that matters. What you have done, what you have said, what you have felt, it doesn’t matter. Your mistakes, your fears, they do not define you. You are alive. You are still standing. Your heart’s still beating. The sun still shines in the morning. The rain still falls from the sky. The flowers still bloom in the spring. The world goes on, despite everything. You have survived through everything you have ever went through, gotten over every hurdle they have placed before you. Don’t give up now.

fabuliz, writing prompt #64: write 5-10 things you can do to better your mental health. (via wnq-writers)

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I will love you if you don’t marry me. I will love you if you marry someone else… and I will love you if you have a child, and I will love you if you have two children, or three children, or even more… and I will love you if you never marry at all, and never have children, and spend your years wishing you had married me after all, and I must say that on late, cold nights I prefer this scenario out of all the scenarios I have mentioned.

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You’re lucky if someone writes for you, because they write what they feel and you can feel it came from their heart. You may not hear them say it, but just by reading every word, it feels like it touches your insides. They’re like bullets that aim straight in your heart.

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Do you imagine at night someone going to bed the very moment you are going to bed? Turning out the light? And isn’t it so quiet you swear the heart is telepathic. Isn’t it?

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Love is when

Love is when you take the risk just to be with someone you love. Love is when you doubtful but still you have trust. Love is when you are in your weakest point but she/he give you strength to fight with. Love is when you in tears in the middle of your misunderstanding but still you have courage to forgive him/her. Love is when you did everything with no excuses, no expectation in return, just a plain simple reason. Love is when you are in apart but it feels you’re near together. Love is when you argue and reach the point of breaking up but still find the very first reason why you are together for so many years. Love is when she/he give up but still you prove that there is no greater than your love. Love is when you have your flaws but still tells you compliments. Love is when you in pain and gives you comfort. Love is when he/she tells you he/she will keep you for the rest of her/his heart. Love is when he ask you “will you marry me” Love is when you say I do. Love is when you stay in love together no matter how rough the road. Love is when you stays together no matter what.

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1. Stop replying to unworthy messages just to keep a conversation going. 2. Don’t start forced conversations. 3. Stop waiting for Fridays, live for Mondays, live for everyday, your weekends only make a fraction of your life. 4. Be happy being alone, but learn to appreciate company. 5. Stop holding grudges, learn to forgive. 6. Be enthusiastic about everything! 7. Learn to put the past behind you. 8. Stop being afraid of silence. 9. Talk less, watch more. 10. Don’t wonder ‘what if’. If it was meant to happen, it would have happened. 11. Read more, you’ll be glad you did. 12. Learn to be apathetic about people leaving, hold the door open for them. 13. Know your own self-worth, love yourself most. 14. Accept mistakes, perfection is often fake. 15. Draw stuff, make stuff, make art. 16. Spend more time outdoors. 17. But know that sometimes just getting out of bed is enough of an achievement. 18. Listen to happy music, listen to sad music, listen to something that keeps the silence from your ears. 19. See your friends more often, but also find comfort in spending time just watching the world go by on your own. 20. Don’t be afraid of terminating toxic relationships. 21. Smile more, smile at everybody. Sometimes they’ll need a smile more than you. 22. Find a reason to get up every morning, and a reason to go to sleep smiling. 23. Follow through with your ideas, no matter how small or silly they may seem. 24. Take more pictures, they’ll be perfect for nostalgia later on. 25. Plan for the future, but don’t live in the planning, things can change in the present while you’re too busy looking ahead 26. Get good sleep. but stay up until 4am every now and then, and observe how you change. 27. Write. Write songs, write stories, write poems. Write. 28. Sing, nobody really cares whether you’re bad. 29. Stop waiting for people to miss you, if they’re not with you, they don’t deserve to be. 30. Curse less. 31. Love more. 32. Become as happy as it’s possible for you to be. 33. Repeat.

33 Ways I learnt to get by without you. (via blandsilhouette)

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I’d be the type of wife who owns a heart locket with a photo of her husband within.

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If you end up with a boring, miserable life because you listened to your mom, your dad, your teacher, your priest, or some guy on television telling you how to do your shit, then you deserve it.

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