about me.
19 year old (borderline aroace) gentle mommy domme; trichophiliac.
NOTE not looking for anything, please no self-inserts/roleplay, I'm not looking to dom anyone. Do NOT MESSAGE ME about wanting me/wanting to talk to me sexually in any way. I also prefer you generally don't interact with my blog if you're more than 5 years older than me and/or if you're into domming women, since that makes me uncomfortable.
i also don't like reblogs that change the dynamic of my post. i have nothing against gay/t4t kink but that's not what this blog is about so please. make your own stuff. don't repurpose mine. i will block accounts that i simply don't fw if they make me uncomfortable
It is ONLY OKAY to ask me about objective questions and discussions about me and about kink. No "you and i".
I only reply to asks if it seems interesting (i love psychoanalysis and scientific questions!) and if it doesnt seem like you're trying to talk dirty to me.
*this post is subject to periodic changes based on my experiences
things I'm into: (TW it's.... yeah)
purely emotional sadomasochism (poor mental health, crying, codependency, toxicity) (im not actually evil i promise im working on it)
cutting boys hair (in a caring way)
watching boys have their hair cut
pretty much all things gentle femdom
pretty much all things mommy kink
praising
mommy dom/little boy dynamic (can include age regression or not; can include both sfw and nsfw activities)
gently pegging/fingering boys
extremely shy boys/virgins/inexperienced guys/nerds/sexually repressed dudes (I have issues)
boys in skirts (NOT sissies. or non-cis men)
dubious consent/cnc/free use
thumb sucking, bed-wetting, nursing.... basically cgl stuff but slightly older age range
fujoshi/mmf stuff where i'm not directly involved but im watching/directing it
things im NOT into:
vaginal sex. or giving oral. or receiving anal. or having people touch me. Getting head is nice but thinking about it doesn't do anything for me. I'll do those things eventually but they just don't ... turn me on really. im asexual but kinky; my arousal from sexual activity comes from the power dynamic not the sex itself
Older men 😐 if you're over 5 years older than me please don't interact with me directly
hard/rough domming/being a "mistress". not into the mean shit. No degrading either
hardcore bdsm of any kind (a little bit of bondage is okay)
being submissive or receptive in any way (i might try it in the future but not interested in exploring that here)
women or non-cis men (maybe one day)
having my own hair cut. like i said not into receiving anything
extreme or bald hairstyles (hnts, mohawks, mullets aren't for me)
Non-head hair play
any impact play/pain (other than light smacking or choking, which is fine, I'll do it if asked)
Hardcore abdl. I draw the line at feces 💀
Pet play/puppy play of any kind. The cat ears are as far as I'll go
findom
tickling and/or feet
anyway. uh. be nice. this is just an outline but there's obviously more to my wants and icks than this so feel free to ask