Drifting Thoughts of a Forgettable Girl

29•Virginia•Middle•Single 🔓🐱🐙☘

[highonslurpee]

[babyvivienne]

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[jencat74]

Most favorite In The world

[everythingfox]

This is my favourite thing

(Source)

[direwolfdominant]

[highonslurpee]

I'm happy to have these two in my life. With all the stress I've been through the past week, it's amazing to come home to these nuggets. I dunno what i would do without them. #diokitteh #dio #sparcokitten #sparco #teamtrouble #mylittleguardians

[sosuperawesome]

Botanical Resin Necklaces, Beekeeper Jewelry and Ring Cones and Vintage Spoon and Flower Necklaces, by Bloom Spoons on Etsy

[highonslurpee]

I need one!!

[earthdad]

[earthstory]

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The photographer calls the effect of this fog viewed from Mt. Tamalpais State Park near San Francisco “cotton candy waves” in the clouds. What do you think?

[highonslurpee]

I've always wanted to see this!!

[highonslurpee]

Please ask away!

[c0smic--princ3ss-deactivated201]

Simple date ideas

Cuddle and play games

Cuddle and watch tv

Go to a park

Go to the movies

Go to a cafe

Go to a library

Go to a mall

Go to a museum

Go to another city and do something

Go to the beach/a lake

Go play with shelter puppies and kittens

Dates don’t have to be expensive, just with the one you love

[mxponysyn-deactivated20190620]

Partner has gone nonverbal, what do I do? (info)

So I am one of the unfortunate souls who goes nonverbal whenever I get severely stressed out and/or self-loathing (because I think I screwed something up between me and my partner)

SO,

To help others out  who have possibly had this issue (or have a partner who have this issue), here’s some tips that might help you!

BE PATIENT! Give them time to formulate words. Give them time to ground themselves. Don’t get mad at them if it’s only a 1-5 word response, and/or they stutter. They are TRYING to speak to you, but their anxiety is preventing them.

Ask questions that will be simple “yes” or “no” answers. This requires precision with your words (for example: “ Do you want me to hug you? Do you want me to put a blanket around you?”).

Offer them a notepad with writing utensil. If they can’t speak for whatever reason, they might be able to write down what is on their mind. There are some applications out there that helps individuals who are nonverbal

Give them something cold to hold that has texture (such as an orange).This can help ground the individual and bring them back to reality.

After the incident, offer to talk about it in a safe, comfortable setting. Your partner might be able to better talk about the specific incident after the incident has taken place. They will have had time to process what had happened. 

 Take them out of the stressful environment. If there is something (or someone) in the room stressing them out, offer to remove it. Be specific with your questions. This might help them be able to form words again.

[lil-rainbow-princess]

Mmhmm… 🙊

[c0smic--princ3ss-deactivated201]

Things that mean a lot to a little

Praise!!! Even just “good girl/boy/little”

Attention in any amount

Checking up on us randomly in the day

Falling asleep on the phone together

Any pictures you send

New cute pet names

Doing anything/everything to encourage little space

Not necessarily understanding breakdowns/triggers, but helping us through them

Messages consisting of any action between ** (like *kisses you* or anything else)

Reading to us. It can be a news article just read. A cg’s voice is sooo soothing

Joking around

Treating us like you treat your friends

Supporting major decisions

Being super patient with us

[highonslurpee]

These are my boys. Dio (the orange one) and Sparco (the grey one, technically my roommates cat). They are the best of friends. Dio takes care of the kitten so well. So proud of my boy

[jessiedrawz]

Hope everyone enjoys their Friday! It’s been quite awhile since I’ve drew something for myself with so much freelance & commissions, so here’s a Space Otter.

[highonslurpee]

I've been trying to find a way to get shit off my chest. My anxiety and ptsd are through the roof the last couple of days. Feeling like I've done something wrong. Not good enough. Pretty enough. Worthy enough. And I feel no one cares. I put on that smile that everyone knows but I've worn it for so long that no one can see past it. See the pain. Mistrust. Sadness. And I feel no one cares.

I just want to be loved. Cared for. Held. Kissed. I want him to call me his and mean it. And in return I want to encourage him. Praise him. Hold his hand. And I want to say I'm his and believe it.

But the pain is becoming too much. I feel like I'm being crushed by it. Suffocated. Drowned. I reach my hand as high as I can above the water and weight, just to barely crest the surface. I pray to any deity that will hear me that there is someone up there, just enough to pull my head above the water. But there hasn't been. Not for a long time.

So I sink. Further. And further.

[highonslurpee]

Playing around with a snapchat filter. Kinda like the whole cat ears and collar. I really want a collar.

[c0smic--princ3ss-deactivated201]

Me: … Daddy?

Daddy: hmm?

Me: can I call you? I haven’t heard your voice in a while

Daddy: of course you can princess

Me: *immediately calls*

Daddy: hi baby

Me: *smiles and melts into happiness*