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Most favorite In The world
This is my favourite thing
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I'm happy to have these two in my life. With all the stress I've been through the past week, it's amazing to come home to these nuggets. I dunno what i would do without them. #diokitteh #dio #sparcokitten #sparco #teamtrouble #mylittleguardians
Botanical Resin Necklaces, Beekeeper Jewelry and Ring Cones and Vintage Spoon and Flower Necklaces, by Bloom Spoons on Etsy
I need one!!
The photographer calls the effect of this fog viewed from Mt. Tamalpais State Park near San FranciscoĀ ācotton candy wavesā in the clouds. What do you think?
I've always wanted to see this!!
Please ask away!
Simple date ideas
Cuddle and play games
Cuddle and watch tv
Go to a park
Go to the movies
Go to a cafe
Go to a library
Go to a mall
Go to a museum
Go to another city and do something
Go to the beach/a lake
Go play with shelter puppies and kittens
Dates donāt have to be expensive, just with the one you love
Partner has gone nonverbal, what do I do? (info)
So I am one of the unfortunate souls who goes nonverbal whenever I get severely stressed out and/or self-loathing (because I think I screwed something up between me and my partner)
SO,
To help others out Ā who have possibly had this issue (or have a partner who have this issue), hereās some tips that might help you!
BE PATIENT! Give them time to formulate words. Give them time to ground themselves. Donāt get mad at them if itās only a 1-5 word response, and/or they stutter. They are TRYING to speak to you, but their anxiety is preventing them.
Ask questions that will be simpleĀ āyesā orĀ ānoā answers. This requires precision with your words (for example:Ā ā Do you want me to hug you? Do you want me to put a blanket around you?ā).
Offer them a notepad with writing utensil. If they canāt speak for whatever reason, they might be able to write down what is on their mind. There are some applications out there that helps individuals who are nonverbal
Give them something cold to hold that has texture (such as an orange).This can help ground the individual and bring them back to reality.
After the incident, offer to talk about it in a safe, comfortable setting. Your partner might be able to better talk about the specific incident after the incident has taken place. They will have had time to process what had happened.Ā
Ā Take them out of the stressfulĀ environment. If there is something (or someone) in the room stressing them out, offer to remove it. Be specific with your questions. This might help them be able to form words again.
Mmhmm⦠š
Things that mean a lot to a little
Praise!!! Even just āgood girl/boy/littleā
Attention in any amount
Checking up on us randomly in the day
Falling asleep on the phone together
Any pictures you send
New cute pet names
Doing anything/everything to encourage little space
Not necessarily understanding breakdowns/triggers, but helping us through them
Messages consisting of any action between ** (like *kisses you* or anything else)
Reading to us. It can be a news article just read. A cgās voice is sooo soothing
Joking around
Treating us like you treat your friends
Supporting major decisions
Being super patient with us
These are my boys. Dio (the orange one) and Sparco (the grey one, technically my roommates cat). They are the best of friends. Dio takes care of the kitten so well. So proud of my boy
Hope everyone enjoys their Friday! Itās been quite awhile since Iāve drew something for myself with so much freelance & commissions, so hereās a Space Otter.
I've been trying to find a way to get shit off my chest. My anxiety and ptsd are through the roof the last couple of days. Feeling like I've done something wrong. Not good enough. Pretty enough. Worthy enough. And I feel no one cares. I put on that smile that everyone knows but I've worn it for so long that no one can see past it. See the pain. Mistrust. Sadness. And I feel no one cares.
I just want to be loved. Cared for. Held. Kissed. I want him to call me his and mean it. And in return I want to encourage him. Praise him. Hold his hand. And I want to say I'm his and believe it.
But the pain is becoming too much. I feel like I'm being crushed by it. Suffocated. Drowned. I reach my hand as high as I can above the water and weight, just to barely crest the surface. I pray to any deity that will hear me that there is someone up there, just enough to pull my head above the water. But there hasn't been. Not for a long time.
So I sink. Further. And further.
Playing around with a snapchat filter. Kinda like the whole cat ears and collar. I really want a collar.
Me: ⦠Daddy?
Daddy: hmm?
Me: can I call you? I havenāt heard your voice in a while
Daddy: of course you can princess
Me: *immediately calls*
Daddy: hi baby
Me: *smiles and melts into happiness*