high key zzz

27 | they/she 18+ MDNI

[hikeyzz]

27 | they/she | nb & queer

i'm taken. like monogamous, off the market, in a relationship, not available or interested kind of taken. proceed with caution. not particularly friendly or chatty either. more like a reactive shelter dog that will bite and bark at strangers. unless you're a mutual, my heart is yours. <3

DNI: minors, feeder/feedee blogs, maps & pedøs, terfs, swerfs, self-described assholes, raceplayers, generally anyone that wants to cause harm to vulnerable people and/or animals

No TWs for hard kinks featured on this blog. Absolutely no minors. Age in bio or pinned post or you will be blocked immediately. I don't care if you're a SFW blog, you must be able to verify you are of age to view this content. I also block blogs that don't include an age limit on their blog (18/21+, MDNI, 🔞, etc). If you aren't trying to keep minors off your blog it's sus af.

Free Palestine. Free Hawai'i. Free Guam. Free Puerto Rico. Free all oppressed peoples under military occupation.

[hikeyzz]

nothing in this entire world could make me feel better than being in his arms holding his hand laying my head in his lap looking into his eyes feeling his touch being kissed by him resting my head on his shoulder inhaling his scent him cupping my cheek laying my legs across his lap him kissing my fingertips our noses gently pressed against each others laying on top of him listening to his heartbeat whispering in each others ears feeling the warmth of his body close to me being in his presence no space between us fully enmeshed mind body and soul intertwined stealing the air from each others lungs to breathe unable and unwilling to be pried apart with the strongest tools man could ever make

[trigona-necrophaga]

my devoted but dangerously unstable knight will be hearing about this

[manuciruja]

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

[manuciruja]

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

[ashenmind]

oh the weather is hot?

you should wear a short skirt about it

[bunnypets]

by dimda_

[ah43]

Anonymously tell me a secret

[egberts]

i got that dog in me but it's poorly socialized and i don't take it on as many walks as i should

[queermania]

i think before you marry someone, you should sit down and go through the AITA subreddit with them and see what their take on those situations is

[queermania]

does your potential future spouse think it's reasonable for their mother to be involved in your family planning? or to make comments about your body? do you? how does your future spouse feel about girls and/or boys nights? situations involving exes? cancelling trips last minute? under what circumstances do they think it's reasonable to host somebody in your home and for how long? etc.

and the goal of doing this isn't to agree one-hundred percent on every single thing. it's to understand how you both view obligations, family, friends, finances, conflict, etc. and to make sure that even if you don't have the exact same perspective, you can understand where the other person is coming from without feeling like they're a crazy person. you have to be able to come to reasonable compromises and sometimes that involves one person fully caving, and sometimes it involves the other person fully caving, and sometimes it's both of you giving a little, but you need to understand what things you both are and aren't willing to compromise on because those types of situations are going to come up in a marriage.

[queermania]

also, since this has turned into actual advice: you should talk through why you think what you think, even when you agree, because you might not be agreeing for the same reasons.

[restlesshush]

I feel like it would be useful if people conceived of causing emotional harm to others more through the lens of being the emotional equivalent to stepping on someone’s foot. Like obviously you can step on someone’s foot deliberately and maliciously, but most of the time if someone tells you you stepped on their foot you’re going to go “oh sorry I didn’t realise!” and stop doing it and try not to do it again. Getting caught up in how it makes you feel to be Someone Capable of Stepping on Others’ Feet would be a transparently self indulgent distraction from the other person’s pain, but also like… that’s just a status you hold by virtue of being human. Never ever ever stepping on someone’s foot is not really achievable, and therefore is not necessary to being a Good Person: what matters is that you do not step on others’ feet deliberately, and – most importantly – that you react kindly and calmly to any inadvertent foot-stepping you have been doing being brought to your attention, so that you can make best use of it as something that will help you reduce the amount of foot-stepping you will do in the future.

[lakesbian]

people vaguely saying 'the horrors' as shorthand for 'life problems, don't worry about it' in conversations where the problems are not going to be delved into has got to be one of my favorite new Ways Of Speaking that has emerged. like it's polite and vague and succinct enough for impersonal conversation but also extremely honest. it's very funny. The Horrors. we all know of them.

[digitaldeathx-deactivated202605]

self-awareness check, list five things you like that aren't media pieces in the tags now ‼️

[reverse-timeline]

Bf who can’t control the moans and primal grunts 🤝 gf with a voice kink who is a complete dripping mess

[kosmogrl]

[hikeyzz]

sometimes chronic illness is just *experiences symptoms* *wishes i didn't have symptoms* *remembers i have medication to alleviate symptoms* *takes medication* *feels relief from symptoms* *thinks 'oh that's why i have these meds'* *repeat ad infinitum*

[fonesecks]

saying “come over” to someone who lives 92657 miles away

[kuromikiss]

sometimes you want to be a cute demon girl with horns and fangs and heart shaped pupils and that’s okay