I feel maybe this post doesn’t really tell how much of an emergency this is, I just thought I’d make it simple since the link explains everything but maybe it would be good to explain further here
my Dad lost $4000 on his bank account and is blaming me and my mom of stealing from him, the bank told him that someone stole money from it, but he refused to believe it and the bank won’t help us any further.
my mom has had many surgeries in the last years because she sufferered from Cancer (Non Hodgkin Lymphoma) so I had to leave my job as a manager in a coffee shop to work at the family store without pay for a good while, so that she could recover. The money I earned from the coffee shop also went towards her surgeries mostly.
my dad is an extremely aggressive and abusive man who is sadly not listening to me and is making me and my mom pay him back but sadly, i don’t have a stable job due to me working on the grocery store for two years without him paying me anything at all and my mom also works there and cannot look for a job elsewhere due to her health condition.
I also am suffering from depression and its a struggle to be able to afford my medication every month, i have been doing so with the help from my best friend for the past few months.
as a result, in the last week I’ve been selling all my merch on facebook and returning what I can, but since I didn’t spend $4000 on it all like my dad claims, it won’t even reach $1000, I’m even selling my switch and TV.
i’m currently looking for a job but i am scared of my father taking other measures if this money is not paid soon to him
i’m also scared of him physically abusing us, In the past he has done it. Im scared my mom’s health worsens, she has a surgery on the 20th of this month and with this situation we are not sure if my father will support her financially anymore.
While I would like to leave this household, I can’t bring myself to abandon my little brother as well, he’s only 12 years old and i am afraid of what could happen if i go.
I know working and selling my stuff can repay some of the money, but i don’t know how long we can endure his abuse. I am trying my best to do anything i can, i don’t care to lose my belongings or having many jobs as long as i can pay him back soon and possibly work hard enough to get out of this household where we are constantly in fear of him abusing us. So if you could please donate, even if its just a little bit, we will be eternally grateful, I just want to protect my mom and be able to live a life without his constant abuse.
If you read all of this, if you could share it, if you donate, know i am really thankful and i will work really hard to get out of this situation, Thank you, Any amount would help us. I just want to protect my mom and little brother from him.
https://www.gofundme.com/help-me-amp-my-mom-from-my-abusive-dad