Rite of Passage to Adulthood
This is an example of a ceremony that can be done to mark the transition to adulthood and adult sexuality. Modify and use as desired!
Introduction and First Blessing
(This can be done by clergy, or by either parent as priests in their home)
[Full Name] The world was not formed by a single act. Each and every day God renews the work of creation. May God grant you the strength to constantly renew your own creation.
May you open your heart and mind to continuous growth, unexpected change, and the perpetual unsettling, liberating expansion of being alive.
May you have the courage to name and sanctify this moment of change that is shaping your body and soul in the image of the Divine….(allow space to mention moments that we are marking, either First Ejaculation or First Orgasm).
Blessed are You, El Shaddai, our God, the Renewing One of the world, who has kept us alive and sustained us and allowed us to reach this time of transformation. And let us say: Amen!
Young man/woman is asked whom they would like to have perform the acts of worship on their body. This is oral, By hand, or a combination. For boys, this may include someone who will voluntarily receive his living seed.
For girls, this includes who the wish to choose to break her hymen with the sterilized artificial penis, or even with one insertion of a real one (if permitted by law).
If a Girl, she says the following prayer:
“Father, I offer this orgasm to you in
thanksgiving for the image of God within
me. I am fearfully and wonderfully made,
and I worship you with all of my body
and sexual strength as I climax in orgasm.
May the anointing fluids that my vagina produces be a sweet smelling
sacrifice of praise to You. Amen.”
If a boy, he says the following prayer:
“Father and giver of life, I offer this orgasm and
the living seed that it will produce as a sacrifice
of thanksgiving and praise to you. Thank you for
granting me the ability to produce seed and to
one day do so to become a father.
I am fearfully and wonderfully made, and I worship
you with all my body and sexual strength as I climax
to orgasm and release my seed. May the living seed
I produce be a sweet sacrifice of praise unto you. Amen.”
Time of self pleasuring aid by those they have chosen begins, ending is orgasm. Boy’s seed is deposited in the mouth or on the body of a female volunteer.
Person receiving living seed from the boy prays this:
“Father, I receive this living seed in my mouth
and on my body as a witness to the new life
You have placed within me. Amen.”
Final Blessing by one or both parents:
Child’s name], you are my [daughter, son], whom I love; with you I am well pleased. You are no longer a little [girl, boy] You are now a [woman, man]. You are well equipped with everything you need to fulfill your destiny as a [woman, man] of God. Before the foundation of the earth, God Almighty planned for your life and planned for you to be a [woman, man]. Psalm 139 says that He created your inmost being. He knit you together in your mother’s womb. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. All the days ordained for you were written by God even before you were born. There is nothing that you will ever need to do to become a [woman, man] because God has made you one. Tonight, we are simply recognizing publicly what God has done in you. [Child’s name], [Here, name all of the wonderful attributes and character traits of your child. For example, for your daughter you might say something like, “God has made you intelligent–you have a strong mind. God has made you beautiful. I’ve also noticed since the time you were a little girl that our Lord has given you a great ability to understand right and wrong, good and evil. You are able to quickly read and understand people. You get along with everyone and are well-respected and well thought of by others, young and old alike. You are a leader and have used your leadership skills to make wise decisions concerning your friends and in many other areas of your life.” I am beyond joyful that God has given you to our family as a gift. You are a wonderful [daughter, son]. I love you and bless you with the promises of God. You are His and have been set apart from the world for his Holy purposes. I bless you with God’s everlasting love, wisdom, peace, and joy. I bless you with sexuality and holy nakedness before God, and many children of your own. May God continue to keep His hand of favor and prosper you in all that you do, and may you serve our Lord Jesus Christ all the days of your life. Amen.
[Present ring, necklace or other symbol of the blessing.]
[Start celebration and feast!]
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