Horrible reality

25: Misanthrope, political nihilist

[horriblereality]

Terfs are the one evil demographic I feel bad about picking on.

Because they always have a supervillain origin story. Kind of like incels but with a lack of any real institutional  power. 

[horriblereality]

Genuinely stop being a dumbass male lover

Stop sending people Anonymous asks. What the fuck do you think is going to happen? My audience is going to harass you? I don't have an active fanbase anymore they're gone. They left when I stopped updating for a year.

[larme-kei-terf]

I genuinely find it funny that there are people who think gay men can like vagina and Lesbians can like penis.

That's it...that's the post

[horriblereality]

Why not?

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

this might surprise you but some people are gay

[horriblereality]

Yah and there’s chicks with dicks and dudes with pussies.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

yeah gay foids love pussy and gay dudes love dick. glad we cleared that up <3

[horriblereality]

Some do.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

all do. thats what being gay means dumbass

[horriblereality]

Not really. It’s more nuanced than that.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

being exclusively same sex attracted is nuanced how exactly

[horriblereality]

There’s a small group of people called trasgenders. And they exist. Which necessitates that we re-examine how we define these categories.  Sexuality is on a spectrum so there are some lesbians that are okay with trans woman and some that are not because they do not like penises, and that’s fine. I just don’t believe it’s reasonable to suggest that a lesbian who dates woman and transwoman would have to be bisexual. Because a transwoman has very little in common with a cisman.

[larme-kei-terf]

Also "has little common" they are both males, that's all they need for a lesbian not to like them. And before your "wah wah man op trans people" it's extremely obvious to anyone who isn't a virgin

[horriblereality]

"Also "has little common" they are both males" No one is clearly a woman.

[crazyalien87]

What makes a transwoman "clearly a woman"? Are you reffering to transwomen who superficially look female? Becuase plenty of them don't look like that. Do you mean those who have medically transtioned? Some haven't, and some don't even plan to. Hmm. What do all transwomen have in common that cis men don't have? They "identify" as women. So they claim to be women, or at least that they want to be women. One does not become a woman by claiming to be one or by merely wanting to be one. Can someone be tall by saying they want to be tall? No, that is ridiculous.

Regardless, transwomen are male. Lesbians are only attracted to female people, not people who look female or want to be female. No amount of existing transition technology can change a male human into a female human. A male human with extra estrogen & some plastic surgery is not a female human. You can't chop parts off of a male person and make him female. Female people are not amputated males with estrogen & boobs.

[horriblereality]

What do all transwomen have in common that cis woman? They “identify” as women.

[crazyalien87]

yes. but that doesn't make them women. ciswomen aren't women because they identify as such. they are women because they are adult female humans. lesbians are only attracted to other female people, not people who "identify" as women.

[horriblereality]

Genital preferences.  

[sapphobless]

It's so weird having women i looked up to when i hadn't even fully made this blog or even known much of radical feminism and was still just learning everything suddenly reblogging and liking my posts

[horriblereality]

Small communities desperate to cling to life are usually pretty supportive of their members. They can’t afford losses. 

[sapphobless]

We're not really a small community but. This was a positive post??? And this seems pretty condescending bud.

[horriblereality]

Well would you say you’re a large community?

[horriblereality]

"cis" women don't identify as women, we are born female and the world knows we are women. trans "women" are men and so they have to actively 'identify' as women because the world knows they are male.

Of course cis woman identify as a woman. Otherwise they’d be trans or something else.

[sapphobless]

It's so weird having women i looked up to when i hadn't even fully made this blog or even known much of radical feminism and was still just learning everything suddenly reblogging and liking my posts

[horriblereality]

Small communities desperate to cling to life are usually pretty supportive of their members. They can’t afford losses. 

[larme-kei-terf]

I genuinely find it funny that there are people who think gay men can like vagina and Lesbians can like penis.

That's it...that's the post

[horriblereality]

Why not?

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

this might surprise you but some people are gay

[horriblereality]

Yah and there’s chicks with dicks and dudes with pussies.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

yeah gay foids love pussy and gay dudes love dick. glad we cleared that up <3

[horriblereality]

Some do.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

all do. thats what being gay means dumbass

[horriblereality]

Not really. It’s more nuanced than that.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

being exclusively same sex attracted is nuanced how exactly

[horriblereality]

There’s a small group of people called trasgenders. And they exist. Which necessitates that we re-examine how we define these categories.  Sexuality is on a spectrum so there are some lesbians that are okay with trans woman and some that are not because they do not like penises, and that’s fine. I just don’t believe it’s reasonable to suggest that a lesbian who dates woman and transwoman would have to be bisexual. Because a transwoman has very little in common with a cisman.

[larme-kei-terf]

Also "has little common" they are both males, that's all they need for a lesbian not to like them. And before your "wah wah man op trans people" it's extremely obvious to anyone who isn't a virgin

[horriblereality]

"Also "has little common" they are both males" No one is clearly a woman.

[crazyalien87]

What makes a transwoman "clearly a woman"? Are you reffering to transwomen who superficially look female? Becuase plenty of them don't look like that. Do you mean those who have medically transtioned? Some haven't, and some don't even plan to. Hmm. What do all transwomen have in common that cis men don't have? They "identify" as women. So they claim to be women, or at least that they want to be women. One does not become a woman by claiming to be one or by merely wanting to be one. Can someone be tall by saying they want to be tall? No, that is ridiculous.

Regardless, transwomen are male. Lesbians are only attracted to female people, not people who look female or want to be female. No amount of existing transition technology can change a male human into a female human. A male human with extra estrogen & some plastic surgery is not a female human. You can't chop parts off of a male person and make him female. Female people are not amputated males with estrogen & boobs.

[horriblereality]

What do all transwomen have in common that cis woman? They “identify” as women.

[queenboudicaa]

This is so embarrassing, imagine being this dense

[horriblereality]

“So you don’t respect woman with opinions different to your own? Sounds like great feminism.” “So you don’t respect neo-nazis? Then you must hate all white people.”

[radfem-woman]

You say as if there isn't a decent chunk of transwomen who are or were actual neonazis. The neonazi to trans woman pipeline is surprisingly strong and not uncommon.

[larme-kei-terf]

@horriblereality did you forget about the neonazi to trans timeline?

[horriblereality]

@radfem-woman​ didn’t provide me with evidence that being trans and being a nazi were related. They just showed me trans nazi’s. You can’t just show people are doing a thing, and act as if that thing is somehow related to the group in question unless you make an argument for that. Which I’m still waiting for one. Since we’re in the process of waiting. How do you feel about character’s like  Jason Vaughn (gay republican)? I’m assuming you’re American 

[queenboudicaa]

This is so embarrassing, imagine being this dense

[horriblereality]

“So you don’t respect woman with opinions different to your own? Sounds like great feminism.” “So you don’t respect neo-nazis? Then you must hate all white people.”

[radfem-woman]

You say as if there isn't a decent chunk of transwomen who are or were actual neonazis. The neonazi to trans woman pipeline is surprisingly strong and not uncommon.

[larme-kei-terf]

@horriblereality did you forget about the neonazi to trans timeline?

[horriblereality]

You have evidence for nothing. This is just a bunch of trans people who happen to be nazi’s...That is in no way an indication that being trans creates a higher likely hood for being a nazi, and you’d have to make an argument for that. A lot of Neo nazi’s own guns, they have jobs,  they have wives. Are any of those things related to nazism? No.   Just because two traits exist within a group of people does not mean those groups are related. Now I might be wrong and I want to see where radfem goes with this. But as things stand now you lot seem like a scizo posting facebook group.

[queenboudicaa]

This is so embarrassing, imagine being this dense

[horriblereality]

“So you don’t respect woman with opinions different to your own? Sounds like great feminism.” “So you don’t respect neo-nazis? Then you must hate all white people.”

[radfem-woman]

You say as if there isn't a decent chunk of transwomen who are or were actual neonazis. The neonazi to trans woman pipeline is surprisingly strong and not uncommon.

[horriblereality]

You missed the point I was trying to make. But this response is interesting enough to warrant a replay, and it was my fault for being too vague. So, do you have any sources that suggest that being trans contributes to a person's likelihood of becoming a neo-nazi? Or...Is an overabundance of trans people being neo nazis (something you haven't provided evidence for) due to unrelated social factors? Also I've spoken with a lot of Neo-nazis. As a black man it's important for me to be aware of the people who want to split my skull open. Honestly it seems like most of them are just scared and misguided than explicitly malicious.

[radfem-woman]

It's a lot more prevalent then the trans community lets on and is something that mostly gets ignored. Idk what the causation is but the correlation is there and the trans community just jokes about it and never actually addresses the presence of neonazis in their community.

[horriblereality]

And how is Nazism related to being trans?

[larme-kei-terf]

I genuinely find it funny that there are people who think gay men can like vagina and Lesbians can like penis.

That's it...that's the post

[horriblereality]

Why not?

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

this might surprise you but some people are gay

[horriblereality]

Yah and there’s chicks with dicks and dudes with pussies.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

yeah gay foids love pussy and gay dudes love dick. glad we cleared that up <3

[horriblereality]

Some do.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

all do. thats what being gay means dumbass

[horriblereality]

Not really. It’s more nuanced than that.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

being exclusively same sex attracted is nuanced how exactly

[horriblereality]

There’s a small group of people called trasgenders. And they exist. Which necessitates that we re-examine how we define these categories.  Sexuality is on a spectrum so there are some lesbians that are okay with trans woman and some that are not because they do not like penises, and that’s fine. I just don’t believe it’s reasonable to suggest that a lesbian who dates woman and transwoman would have to be bisexual. Because a transwoman has very little in common with a cisman.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

yes some people have a mentall illness that makes them feel like they should have a body different to the one they have now. doesnt change the fact that there is also a phenomenon called homosexuality, and including non-homosexuals into the definition is disrespectful to gay people and strips the word of its meaning. uwuwu same sex attraction is invalidating to trans people :((

trans women and cis men are both male hope this helps.

[horriblereality]

But what are we going to do about those dangerous gays wanting marriage? Marriage after all is a sacred union between a man and a woman. ^ This is what you sound like. Now I might be entirely wrong. What value does the term homosexual have?

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

me: gay people are gay

you: you sound homophobic :/

whos talking about value? gay/homosexual means attracted to the same sex exclusively. if we include people who dont fit the definition into the definition it will lose its meaning. how fucking hard is this to grasp

[horriblereality]

"if we include people who dont fit the definition into the definition it will lose its meaning." Sure it might. I think it's more reasonable to assume that the definition of what constitutes "woman" will just expand rather than break. Not that I even fully understand the use of insisting on one term being used in a specific manner and never changing.

[horriblereality]

You're homophobic. Sexuality isnt a spectrum like that. Gay men like dick. Lesbians are women who like pussy. They do not like the opposite sexs genitals, and of they like both they are bi. Literally the trans movement is killing everything LGB people fought for and now we're being erased. You are a fucking homophpbe. Gay men will never like pussy. If they do they arent gay. Lesbians will never like dick. If they do they aren't lesbians and are instead bi. Say whatever the fuck you will, but you are a fucking homophobic pos who only pretends to support gay people. Saying a gay man can like pussy is conversion therapy rhetoric. Full stop.

Your inability to grasp that sexuality is on a spectrum. Is a skill issue.

[queenboudicaa]

This is so embarrassing, imagine being this dense

[horriblereality]

“So you don’t respect woman with opinions different to your own? Sounds like great feminism.” “So you don’t respect neo-nazis? Then you must hate all white people.”

[radfem-woman]

You say as if there isn't a decent chunk of transwomen who are or were actual neonazis. The neonazi to trans woman pipeline is surprisingly strong and not uncommon.

[horriblereality]

You missed the point I was trying to make. But this response is interesting enough to warrant a replay, and it was my fault for being too vague. So, do you have any sources that suggest that being trans contributes to a person's likelihood of becoming a neo-nazi? Or...Is an overabundance of trans people being neo nazis (something you haven't provided evidence for) due to unrelated social factors? Also I've spoken with a lot of Neo-nazis. As a black man it's important for me to be aware of the people who want to split my skull open. Honestly it seems like most of them are just scared and misguided than explicitly malicious.

[larme-kei-terf]

I genuinely find it funny that there are people who think gay men can like vagina and Lesbians can like penis.

That's it...that's the post

[horriblereality]

Why not?

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

this might surprise you but some people are gay

[horriblereality]

Yah and there’s chicks with dicks and dudes with pussies.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

yeah gay foids love pussy and gay dudes love dick. glad we cleared that up <3

[horriblereality]

Some do.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

all do. thats what being gay means dumbass

[horriblereality]

Not really. It’s more nuanced than that.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

being exclusively same sex attracted is nuanced how exactly

[horriblereality]

There’s a small group of people called trasgenders. And they exist. Which necessitates that we re-examine how we define these categories.  Sexuality is on a spectrum so there are some lesbians that are okay with trans woman and some that are not because they do not like penises, and that’s fine. I just don’t believe it’s reasonable to suggest that a lesbian who dates woman and transwoman would have to be bisexual. Because a transwoman has very little in common with a cisman.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

yes some people have a mentall illness that makes them feel like they should have a body different to the one they have now. doesnt change the fact that there is also a phenomenon called homosexuality, and including non-homosexuals into the definition is disrespectful to gay people and strips the word of its meaning. uwuwu same sex attraction is invalidating to trans people :((

trans women and cis men are both male hope this helps.

[horriblereality]

But what are we going to do about those dangerous gays wanting marriage? Marriage after all is a sacred union between a man and a woman. ^ This is what you sound like. Now I might be entirely wrong. What value does the term homosexual have?

[larme-kei-terf]

I genuinely find it funny that there are people who think gay men can like vagina and Lesbians can like penis.

That's it...that's the post

[horriblereality]

Why not?

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

this might surprise you but some people are gay

[horriblereality]

Yah and there’s chicks with dicks and dudes with pussies.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

yeah gay foids love pussy and gay dudes love dick. glad we cleared that up <3

[horriblereality]

Some do.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

all do. thats what being gay means dumbass

[horriblereality]

Not really. It’s more nuanced than that.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

being exclusively same sex attracted is nuanced how exactly

[horriblereality]

There’s a small group of people called trasgenders. And they exist. Which necessitates that we re-examine how we define these categories.  Sexuality is on a spectrum so there are some lesbians that are okay with trans woman and some that are not because they do not like penises, and that’s fine. I just don’t believe it’s reasonable to suggest that a lesbian who dates woman and transwoman would have to be bisexual. Because a transwoman has very little in common with a cisman.

[larme-kei-terf]

Also "has little common" they are both males, that's all they need for a lesbian not to like them. And before your "wah wah man op trans people" it's extremely obvious to anyone who isn't a virgin

[horriblereality]

"Also "has little common" they are both males" No one is clearly a woman.

[horriblereality]

If you think a gay man can ever like pussy or a lesbian could ever be into dick, then you are just a homophobe. It doesn't fucking matter that SOME people like to play pretend at being the opposite sex, by avoiding being "transphobic" you are just blatantly homophobic and in denial of reality. Sex is real. It is actually what sexual orientation is based off of. Fucking homophobe.

You not being able to grasp that sexuality is on a spectrum isn't my fault. Like bro it's a skill issue, not an issue with my supposed bigotry.

[larme-kei-terf]

I genuinely find it funny that there are people who think gay men can like vagina and Lesbians can like penis.

That's it...that's the post

[horriblereality]

Why not?

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

this might surprise you but some people are gay

[horriblereality]

Yah and there’s chicks with dicks and dudes with pussies.

[shefoid-deactivated20221227]

yeah gay foids love pussy and gay dudes love dick. glad we cleared that up <3

[horriblereality]

Some do.

[larme-kei-terf]

How are you a full grown adult and confused about this?

[horriblereality]

Confused about what?

[larme-kei-terf]

Homosexuality

[horriblereality]

And what’s the confusion? 

[larme-kei-terf]

The fact you think lesbians can like penis and gay men can like vagina, aka the point of the post

[horriblereality]

Honestly. I’d say that if a lesbian decided to date a trans woman. She’d still be a lesbian because trans woman are woman.

[larme-kei-terf]

Lol K sexuality has nothing to do with gender

[horriblereality]

I disagree.