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Leo Sun, Pisces Moon, Scorpio Rising! Preferences: Aries Gals😍😍😍 Note: Geminis, you lot better be on ya best behavior😈

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Venus in Composite

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I’m so excited to start where I left off with this series :-)) I missed doing it.

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Aries Venus in Composite indicates a couple whose love for each other never loses the spark. These couples are always finding new ways to sprout their love, for each other. Meaning like, if you had a hobby that your partner didn’t really enjoy, with this Aries Venus, the disinterest will balance out, and soon the partner will grow to love the hobby just as much as you 🥺❤️ I don’t know why but Aries Venus in Composite gives off “first love” vibes, just type feelings you haven’t really felt with someone else, or perhaps you’ll meet someone w a Aries Venus in Composite w you, and you both will feel as if this relationship was very much needed and began at the right place & right time. As I said in the beginning of this interpretation, Aries Venus in Composite can also indicate you both mirroring each other’s love, having the same love language, ugghhh the love in these relationships just balance out so mf well 😭 I’m jealousssss, Mashallahhhhh!!! The thrill these relationships have, just going out to new places together will keep the spark alive 💖⚡️

Taurus Venus in Composite creates a couple who both are very emotionally invested into each other & the relationship. Be careful of attachment issues when you have a Taurus Venus w someone. Funny how these couples Venus’s are literally RULED by Venus 🤣 These couples love language is the acts of gift giving, they love to spoil each other!!! Whew imagine a valentines w your partner knowing you both have Taurus Venus together 😩 I’m talking all out for your lover! Also not to mention, these couples love paying to the small details about their partner 👀 So some gifts may seem strange to society but to them all their gifts they give to their partner has a special meaning, a deeper meaning. Roses are semi in the picture but Taurus Venus couples love to gift things that match their partner’s interests or small details they’ve noticed about them. Say is Valentine’s day and you noticed at the beginning of the relationship w this person that they talked a lot about how breadcrumbs and boppleheads remind them of happy memories with a passed loved one, so for Valentine’s day instead of the “normalized” gift other couples get their partner, Taurus Venus will go out their way to get their partner that specific breadcrumb & bopplehead that their partner referred to because that’s just their love language in the relationship 🥺 So so cute love this placement! Also Taurus Venus the way to keep the spark alive in your relationship, is letting your partner know you WANT to keep the relationship alive, reassuring your partner 24/7, THE LITTLE THINGS MATTER !!! Literally listening to your partner tell you a silly story about their childhood, and remembering the little details of the story, telling your partner how your day went, and what you did, with detail. Swear Taurus Venus couples got it way too easy🥲 Bare minimum is the highest bar for these relationships.

Gemini Venus in Composite makes a couple’s love language def quality time. The “boring” days are the best days for these couples. Peace is key to these relationships being harmonious. Gemini Venus couples also could’ve met their partner by “accident” or “luck”. Like a unexpected situation, bumping into them and spilling coffee on them by accident. Meeting by accident. A lot of people say Gemini Suns are “two-faced” , well I notice when Gemini in placed in Venus in Composite it can cause both partners to have a different side for their lover, example: partner1 is usually mean, and not very talkative to anyone else but when they’re with partner2 they have a major soft spot for them 🥺 All that reserved energy goes into partner2 & their relationship. Have you ever heard someone say “I want my bf/gf to have a soft spot for me and be mean to everyone else” , what they don’t know is in astrology language that translates to “I want my bf/gf and I to have a Gemini Venus in our Composite chart”. Oh also I want to add, that the spark in this relationship is kept alive from quality time! Spending time and acts of affirmation are great ways to keep Gemini Venus relationships alive.

Cancer Venus in Composite creates a very private couple. Not secret but private. Cancer Venus also makes a couple that are easily comfortable with each other. Feeling like you’re both eachother’s emotional home. Be careful of codependency issues. Cancer Venus reminds me of Aqua Venus smmmm, words cannot express the affect they have on comfortability in the relationship. Cancer Venus makes it feel like this relationship is unmatched to anyone else’s in these couples eyes, the relationship is secured, have you ever heard someone say “He/she know where home is” that literally translates in astrology language to “He/she know we got a Cancer Venus 🙄” Literally guys if you want to feel naturally secure in your relationship find someone you share a Cancer/Aqua Venus with, I’m telling you 😌 Cancer Venus in Composite is one of the best Venus placements (in my opinion) if you’re the type of person that is independent but enjoys spending time with someone romantically, because Cancer Venus relationships rarely have codependency issues. Cancer Venus in Composite can also indicate a smooth understanding relationship, meaning the breakup won’t be that tough on either, especially if you have 12H Cancer w this person 👀 Also a indication you both may start a family w each other. Cancer & Capricorn Venus in Composite are the BLUEPRINT for celebrity couples !!! (Notice how Kim & Kanye have this placement 🤭) Cancer Venus couples.. doing weird things with your partner, and letting your true self shine through the mask you show to society is what keeps the spark alive in your relationship, literally just SHOWING your partner you are 100% comfortable with them, and reassuring your partner that they’re the only one you wanna be with, is what keeps the spark alive.

Leo Venus in Composite indicates a couple that’s romance for each other goes deep 😭 I imagine the love of this relationship to feel so “warm” like the relationship being a bandaid to all their personal problems. The relationship being a blanket on a cold night. Leo Venus couples love to cuddle, their love language for each other is physical touch. Usually people would say Capricorn Venus couples live to put their relationship out through since Capricorn rules 10H, that could apply but I feel like it’d be more common in Leo Venus couples tbh. Also I notice Leo Venus couples are naturals at attention catching. You’ll literally fall in love with this couple, I think Ariana & her husband has this placement too? Not sure, correct me if I’m wrong. Anyways I also notice Leo Venus couples are comfortable with expressing their love & passion towards each other. Example: Partner1 has a weird obsession with yellow marbles, they’ve been collecting yellow marbles for years and hasn’t told A SOUL about their obsession. Partner2 comes along, and Partner1 instantly feels like they can share their obsession with them because sun they share a Leo Venus?! Also Leo Venus couples goes way out with their gifts 🥰🤲🏼💐💌 I’m talking bout 17k gold filled letters with a 929292929292 length essay inside 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Gift giving is what keeps this relationship’s spark alive, making creative gifts, is what keeps this relationship stable, gifts are like fuel to these relationships ⛽️🎁⚡️

Virgo Venus in Composite reminds me of Taurus Venus sm 😭 Maybe is because they’re both earth signs? Anyways this placement in Composite indicates a couple who takes each other’s wellbeing very seriously. Virgo Venus couples are the type to wait til marriage to have kids or talk about having s*x. These couples wait A LONGGGG time for things, even their first kiss, they’ll be on their 10th month of being together and haven’t even kissed yet 💀 Reminds me of Knight of Pentacles in Tarot. Usually a indicator this couple was like friends to lovers. Big maturity indication too. The type of couple to stay together TIL DEATH! And grow older together. Oh also I see this couple as the type when they get old together they’ll become each other’s caretakers 🤣 Won’t even need to hire a personal nurse or go into a nursing home because they both will be there for each other no matter what. Very creative with how they show their love too x Usually these couples love language are very different from others, a more older love , mature love. Puppy love doesn’t last long in this relationship, maturity is a big thing for this relationship, they love each other but also have set boundaries (As all relationships should tho) Virgo Venus babying your partner & treating the relationship like a plant, is what keeps the spark alive.

Libra Venus in Composite AHHHHHH SO SO CUTE OK OK.. So LMFAO 😭 I just love Libra placements smmmmm, like I said Libra placements ALL give off the SAME energy! So Libra Venus couples are prone to being clingy with each other & staying in the puppy love phase for a long time, if these couples got a chance to have a surgery to literally live underneath each other’s skin, I promise you they would 💀 Libra Venus couples love learning new things about their partner, new facts about their partner every nanosecond isn’t even close to enough, these relationships thrive off of each other’s wellbeing, their love language is quality time. They’re the type of couple to stay on the phone with each other and never get bored even with saying nothing or doing nothing, type to fall asleep on the phone too and text each other cute cringy messages throughout the day 🥲 Be careful of overthinking the little things. Oh also this placement can usually be seen in charts between people you normally wouldn’t think would be attracted to each other, so this means this couple is mainly to each other’s energy. This relationship reminds of Aqua Venus, don’t even have to try to make the relationship look perfect, it looks perfect naturally ✨✨ Can also feel like it was fate for this relationship to bloom 🌻 Libra Venus the cheesy things matter so much in your relationship, is what keeps the spark alive in your relationship. Literally acts of affirmation is the key to keeping the thrill of this relationship.

Scorpio Venus in Composite is another one of my favorite placements besides Libra & Aqua Venus in Composite 😏 Scorpio Venus in Composite indicates a couple who’s very involved in all aspects of their partner’s life’s. Scorpio Venus couple’s feel often lucky to have a relationship like this in their love, communication about feelings are important to these couples, it is important to know their partner’s feelings & opinions on things 24/7. These couples put this relationship before any other connection in their life, this relationship is on a pedestal, before anything else. Indication of a strong relationship, strong romantic feelings. A relationship you often feel stuck in, like quick sand, relationship often blooms (meaning this placement is most common after a tough loss in your life) after a loss of something or someone else in your life, causing this relationship to leave a mark on you. S*x also may be very important in these relationships. What keeps the spark alive in these relationships? S*x. LMFAO. Literally if you feel like the love is fading, bebe, just keep the intimacy alive and you both will be fine.

Sagittarius Venus in Composite creates a couple who both takes the love of the relationship very seriously. These couples spend time studying their partner’s love language a lot, remembering the little details, may even blend their love languages into one (acts of affirmation & act of giving= i love you here’s a gift that reminded me of you🥺🤲🏼💝💐🍫) Let me elaborate more on the first sentence, what I really mean is these couples take each other seriously, not entirely the love, but they both just value each other equally. Sag Venus couples may also be prone to opening new doors for each other, say if partner1 didn’t like ice hockey or didn’t think they could ever play ice hockey good, partner2 would push them, in a positive manner to show them their hidden abilities, open a new opportunity for partner1, letting partner1 express themselves in more ways. I adore that about Sag Venus couples. I also think is so cute how Sag Venus couples are literally the main zodiac Venus placement that can actually tell their partner what they like about them. Most people would just be like “oh you just different than other people I’ve talked to” or “you not like these other girls/boys” 🤣 Sag Venus couples can literally write a whole essay on why they love their partner & certain attributes other than physically speaking, what they like about their partner. Swear if you want a serious but playful relationship find someone you got a Sag Venus w 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Also Sag Venus in Composite could be most prominent in couples who are from a different ethnicity from each other , or different belief background. Sag Venus so so cute 🥺 Bro I randomly channeled that drive in movie theatres for what keeps the spark alive in these relationships (not the exact but you get the idea) random night car rides, traveling new places with your partner is what keeps the thrill in these relationships. BRO I BET THESE ONE YOUTUBERS THAT HAVE A COUPLE CHANNEL WHO JUST TRAVELS THE WORLD TOGETHER, HAS A SAG VENUS IN THEIR COMPOSITE 😭 I can’t remember their channel name, when I do remember I’ll update!!

Capricorn Venus in Composite reminds me of those corny love movies that is about the worker and boss having a affair 😭😭 LMFAO!!! Anyways 💀 have you ever heard someone say they’re dating to marry? Well for one they’re most likely a Capricorn Venus theirselves or for two they’re unintentionally saying they are only interested in having a Capricorn Venus w someone. Capricorn Venus couples are another perfect example of the love language quality time, just being next to their partner is enough for them. These relationships function off of independence. Capricorn Venus in Composite usually are common in open relationships, this is because Capricorn is one of the independent zodiacs. The love in these relationships are more of a mature love, like “honey I’m home” , a love that you go to when you’re lacking security & need to feel stable and back on your feet again. Capricorn Venus couples nurture the relationship like a baby, and take things very slow at start. Usually there is a need to do big things or start big projects together in the relationship to keep the spark. Be careful of taking advantage of this relationship, personally I don’t really think Capricorn thrives in Venus in Composite, because the standards can sometimes become way too high, thinking every aspect of the relationship has to be 10/10. (Um a weird observation: you could have Capricorn Venus or a Earth Venus w your boss 💀) Capricorn Venus in Composite if it is rx can second guess the relationship a lot, or the love of the relationship. Rx can cause insecurity issues in the relationship, feeling as if the relationship is one-sided or unstable. Capricorn Venus, literally all you have to do to keep your spark alive in your relationship, is SHOWING your partner that you WANT and INTEND to keep the relationship in your future! Actions speak louder than words in these relationships.

Aquarius Venus in Composite IS MY PERSONAL FAVE !!! Swear AQUA VENUS COUPLES RISE UP ! First of all the comfort in this relationship is 👩‍🍳🤌🏼💋 Aqua Venus couples are the type to be on and off and feel comfortable coming back into each other’s life randomly 💀 Aqua Venus relationships scream codependency, I notice Aqua Venus is more prominent when one or both of partners have low self esteem or depend on the other person for mental support? Anyways back to the “comfort” in these relationships, these couples are masters at making their partner feel better, their partner’s sibling could’ve died and as soon as they receive that comfort from their partner they feel better about the situation. Aqua Venus is the placement you’d want w someone after not being in a relationship for a long time, Aqua Venus in Composite indicates a long term relationship and a relationship that’ll help you heal and grow as a individual ❤️‍🩹 Ummm also I notice that Aqua Venus is prominent in connections that are between people that have known each other for a long time, friends to lovers placement (like Virgo Venus). Aqua Venus couples, your relationship’s spark is kept alive from quality time, spending time together, even on the boring days like Gemini Venus will keep the love alive, Aqua Venus couples you both are your best friend, this relationship is apart of your identity, don’t be afraid to communicate to your partner too (randomly channeled that)

Pisces Venus in Composite indicates a couple that is very devoted to the relationship emotionally, Pisces Venus couples can often find themselves daydreaming of their partner or just doing cheesy things for their partner. During breakups Pisces Venus in Composite can cause the breakup to be horrid, especially if Venus is in RX, this means the breakup can cause obsessing over the break up & draw the two back together countless times. Pisces is also a independent sign, so this can cause the two to take a lot of breaks from the relationship, the relationship can become overbearing for the two, and the standards of Pisces Venus is extremely high, meaning the two often feel like the relationship has to be perfect with no flaws, be careful of delusions in a connection with those you have a Pisces Venus with. Pisces Venus couples just want to literally engrave themselves in their partners skin 😭, the relationship feels almost unrealistic, dreamy, like their dream relationship, like a unexpected manifestation come true. Like w Scorpio Venus, be careful of attachment issues, and hiding your feelings a lot in this relationship. Is kind of funny how Pisces Venus couples often try to mask their true feelings about the relationship & hide from the flaws, like Pisces isn’t the most intuitive sign 🤣 Bebe I promise you, you can’t hide no feelings with Pisces Venus in Composite. Umm and since Venus is also represents the passion and what keeps the spark alive in the relationship, I also want to add on that, to keep the spark alive in a Pisces Venus relationship, literally just be around your partner 24/7 💀 You could both agree on going on a break for a couple months, but as soon as you both are together, face to face, all the feelings will come back. Hey hey hey another update guysss, so I also have observed that Pisces Venus couples can be open to trying new things for the sake of their relationship. Angela & Michael on 90 day fiancé has this placement in their Composite and tbh you’d just have to watch their scenes to understand! Anyways I’ll update this frequently :-))

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I hope ya enjoyed!!!

I apologize for the long wait for another part to this series 🥲

Atleast this posted just in time for Pisces New Moon😏

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Hey Luca, how's it going? I'm really not if you've ever done this before a long time ago but now I want to know your observations on the red flags in composite. Specifically romantically, like case in point 'forget commitment, could this possibly lead to heartbreak or a tragedy full of regrets'? Just to keep in mind of them since I know we each have to give our inputs in a relationship :D

𝕮𝖗𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖈𝖆𝖑 𝖆𝖘𝖕𝖊𝖈𝖙𝖘 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖕𝖑𝖆𝖈𝖊𝖒𝖊𝖓𝖙𝖘 𝖎𝖓 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕮𝖔𝖒𝖕𝖔𝖘𝖎𝖙𝖊 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖗𝖙

Hello! I've written a post about 'key placements' in synastry and composite and what to look out for, you can look at it here, maybe it'll help you too! x

A reminder, that your natal chart and synastry will play a huge role in how you'll personally experience and deal with these aspects and placements! And yes it's true, regardless of certain aspects and placements in composite you can still have a succesfull and loving connection! I can confirm, the people that are basically my soulmates and the loves of my life that stuck with me through thick and thin share stereotypical 'horrible' composite with me lmao not even our synastry is that great but we lead very healthy and loving friendships <333

Disclaimer: I will focus on the WORST outcome of these aspects, if you are easily triggered by these hypothetical possibilities I'll advice you to NOT read this post! Thank you x

✦ First of all, I want to talk about Pluto in the Composite: critcal placements of and aspects to Pluto can create power struggles, mind games, secrets, paranoia, insecurities and at worst (I repeat, this is only the worst case scenario!!) forms of abuse due to that in a connection. I would say every harsh aspect to Pluto and the personal planets or the angles can feel deeply uncomfortable over time, but I will focus on a few aspecs that I want to highlight since I think they can be especially precarious in a composite chart.

✦ Moon square/Inconjunct Pluto: Will start out with this banger aspect and just straight up say that especially if Neptune and Mercury are also critcally aspected and you have 8th and 12th house placements ON TOP of that then there's going to be lots of build up emotions, trust issues, fear if re-living old trauma, assumptions, and power struggles due to that. Attachement issues. One person might be more visbly emotionally distressed due to the paranoia and feel unsafe in the relationship, the other person might withhold information/feelings and will grow the resentment quietly, but both parts will try to control the situation on their own. The advice here is to be open and upfront with feelings, to talk about worries and especially to be open with any sort of trust issues/past bad experiences you fear of resurfacing! No power plays, both partners need to be willing to be honest and be completely vulnerable. Emotions should be validated, heard and the worries of the other handled with care and grace. This aspect can harvest a lot dark and negative emotions quickly, watch out for it to not become a self fulfilling prophecy.

TW ✦ Mars square/inconjunct (would even say conjunction has the potential too) Pluto, especially if it's in a water house: The build up to the explosion might take a while, but both can probably easily feel the underlying tension. Both want to have it their way, and here, values and deep rooted fears and intenalized beliefs play a role in it. We deal here with the instinctive flight, fight or fright response, only in this case chances are high that this will be pure fight (in the passive way Pluto plots its revenge though). It can be an aggressive aspect and in my opinion way nastier than harsh aspects between Mars and Sun, because at worst (!), this can be about emotionally, mentally and physically controlling and therefore abusing the other. While Mars and Sun in negative aspects can be equally frustrating, this aspect can point and reveal to painful truths, fears and insecurities about the people involved. Lovers to enemies trope, seeing each other as a thread. I think water houses make it worse because these houses deal with our psyche and emotions, our uttermost vulnerable parts, great damage can be done here. For example if you'd have this aspect in the 4th house, your home could be a psychological battelgound. The fighting could happen at home, behind close doors, etc. END TW

✦ Sun square/inconjunct/opposite/conjunct Pluto: The theme of power and power struggles can become the core themes of the connection. Therefore this can be rally exhausting over time, both people feel like they are constantly trying each other (even if the other didn't do so) and that they can't catch a break when they're together. It's like there's always something waiting around the corner they have to tackle. One or both can be too demanding of another. If feelings fade, both might be afraid that the relationship loses its meaning and becomes too dull. This is were the constant emotional highs and intensity will show their addictive side and cause fear of the mundane, the healthy.

✦ Pluto can be tricky in every house, but I'll say in the composite I'd say the 1st, 4th, 6th, 7th, 8th, 10th and 12th house can be the most complicated ones, but it's really dependent on other aspects and influences. The 12th house especially can point to the relationship ending by some bitter truths being revealed, leading to a painful end.

✦ Neptune square/inconjunct the personal planets: Do I have to say it? You called it, it's mainly about the dellusion aspect and yes, it's necessary to acknowledge that both parties can chase a dream that might not be really found in reality. It can lead to deceiving behaviour, idealization, lying, strong disappointment and even resentment when finding out the other person/relationship is not living up to your dreams. It can also talk about trying to make the relationship work, when outer circumstances are working against it! Here, I want to mention Uranus. While Uranus in harsh aspects to the personal planets can point to on-off behaviour and feelings, I think more often it can also lead to outer circumstances forcing you to be physically apart. Due to sudden events, you might spend lots of times apart, having to rely other forms of communication and socializing to keep the connection alive.

✦ Generational planets conjunct/in close harsh aspects to Saturn: Can feel like outer circumstances breaking your foundation apart. It's not like you can't work this out, but can feel like your world is falling apart in one minute, with Saturn being nvolved the two people can feel way top defeated and pessimistic to try again or fight against outer circumstances and individual shortcomings to try again and make the connection work.

✦ Personal planets conjunct/in harsh aspect to Chiron:This doesn't have to be a dealbreaker, but given the nature of Chiron, definitely worth a mention. Especially when Moon and Venus are involved, loving each other is working through pain and healing together, Being vulnerable and intimate with each other can bring the biggest pain, but also the biggest reward. Love that feels heavy and dutiful, love that requires high amount of maturity (!). Both need to be responsible for their own pain. Being together might feel bittersweet. Similar feelings can arise with Chiron in the 8th, 7th, 12th, 1st.

✦ Black Moon Lilith being strongly present in the composite chart: I'm talking close aspects, contacts to the personal planets, the angles, NN/SN. BML can point to self destructive behavior. Two people acting out on their desires too much, indulging fully in chaotic energy without caring about the consequences. This pair might have to undergo a lot of judgement and stares from the public, which can tear them apart too. One part tries to controle the Lilith nature of the other. In general, in order to benefit from srong Lilith energy in composite and synastry both people have to respect the other and have to align their individuals powers! Disputes due to different values and ownership can occure as well with Lilith being prominent in this chart.

✦ This is not an aspect, but look at aspect patterns in your chart and potential apex planets in order to identify re-occuring themes and problems in your relationship!

✦ People often are often afraid about (personal) planets in the 12th/8th house or stelliums there, since they can indicate secrets or hiding the partner/relationship from the public, but I would digress and say that these placements grand two people extreme intimacy, the only thing I'd suggest is to always communicate, be transparent and give each other the emotional space and time to open up and grow together in a very natural and authentic way.

✦ Sun in conflicting aspects to Moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn, more so when multiple of these planets form tight, critical aspects with the Sun: Can indicate that there are just certain parts 'missing' in the connection that would lead to emotional and physical fulfillment that you need to address and work on. Again, Mars and Sun can talk about a clash of egos and pulling towards different directions, too much egocentrism, no team player mentality, lack of direction, Saturn often hints towards outer circumstances making it harder for two people to be together, both can be very pessimistic and have a hard time continuing to invest into the relationship.

✦ Having a very prominent, very afflicted Jupiter: Jupiter is the point in composite were our (shared) hopes, desires and talents come together, were we collaborate in order to create our own luck and strive for it, it's the soul of the relationship. Having Jupiter in a critical position can lead to a lack of fulfillment, we feel like our soul can't grow and expand in the relationship, uninspired to make the best out of life.

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Synastry & Composite Chart Observations

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An Aquarius rising in a composite chart can show a couple who go against societal norms and expectations. They can seem like an “odd-pairing” or perhaps there is something unconventional or eccentric about how they appear to the world. Unless Venus or Mars is conjunct the composite ascendant they can seem like friends or a couple who has built a relationship that is strongly based on friendship. Interestingly, couples who have Aquarius on the descendent tend to be more open to long-distance or any other relationship patterns that are considered unconventional (an open relationship as an example).

A Sagittarius rising in a composite chart can indicate that the pair will travel together or learn a lot just by being together. They tend to expand each other’s world views and belief systems. Expansion, knowledge, and exploration are key themes here.

Mercury square Neptune in a composite chart can point to certain misunderstandings or miscommunications in a relationship. It is important for both people to be open and transparent to avoid intentional or unintentional deceit.

Couples with Saturn in the 5th house of their composite chart may have trouble expressing affection towards each other unless there are other mitigating factors. Feelings of ‘fun’ and ‘pleasure’ in the relationship can be stifled with this placement, unless the couple are actively working towards incorporating frequent date nights, vacations, and creative hobbies into their relationship. Some couples with this placement choose not to have kids or have very few.

Many married couples either have a composite Libra rising or have their Sun, Moon, or Venus in the composite 7th house. Saturn on an angle in a composite chart tends to be present in long-term relationship composite charts.

Uranus in the 8th house of a composite chart can indicate financial uncertainty or instability in a relationship. As a couple, they can handle their shared resources and taxes in a manner that can be seen as “haphazard” by some. Their investments as a couple can also undergo many unexpected changes.

When someone’s Moon falls into your 4th house, you may find yourself telling them about your childhood, family life or just very personal/intimate things about yourself. When someone’s Moon is in your 12th house this can also happen. However, you may not always feel very comfortable with how vulnerable you feel around the Moon person (as the 12th house person). It’s almost as if they can see right through you with this overlay. It must be said that the Moon person can at times find the 12th house person to be emotionally elusive (even if the 12th house person feels as if the moon person intuitively understands them).

Composite charts with Venus or the ruler of the composite ascendant in the 12th house often indicates that the relationship is very private or has to be kept hidden for some reason. The composite Sun in the 12th house can also indicate a relationship that is not very public.

When someone’s Venus falls into to 8th house in synastry, they completely transform the way you view or even handle matters related to love, values, and finances. Relationships that are 8th house heavy can be difficult to let go of or forget but they often trigger major personal transformations.

If I were to assign a planet to ‘situationships’ I would definitely assign Neptune. Composite charts that are highly aspected by Neptune or have Neptune closely conjunct the Ascendant, descendent, or midheaven can indicate that the relationship is not always clearly defined or perhaps the two are not always on the same page regarding where the relationship is heading. I read a composite chart for a married couple with Neptune in the 10th house. For them, this just meant that they both had to make career sacrifices to make their relationship work at some point in their marriage. However, I’ve also read a composite chart where Neptune was exactly conjunct the descendent. In this case, the relationship was undefined as one partner refused to commit fully. Although Neptune can create feeling of confusion, it can also show you where the couple can each other immense compassion, selflessness, and grace.

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Synastry House Overlay- Jupiter in the houses

First house-

Having someone’s Jupiter in another’s first house in synastry can bring the house person an expansion of their self view and self confidence. The Jupiter person talks and is able to open up house’s view of themselves and encourage the house partner to be their true self. Jupiter can also make the house partner feel larger than life and give them such confidence when the Jupiter person is around. The house person is able to help the Jupiter partner put into action their social, domestic, educational, or philosophical goals, they are also able to provide a way for the Jupiter partner to express their wisdom and develop on their leadership skills. This is good for any kind of relationship.

Second house-

With second house synastry with Jupiter, the Jupiter person is able to come up with plentiful of ideas on how the house partner can increase their income, Jupiter is able to see talents in house that the house partner may have not noticed before and use it to increase personal wealth for house. With the second house also representing our self value, the Jupiter person is able to bring an increase in the house partner’s self value and give them confident. The house person is able to show the Jupiter partner how to spend and budget their money better as it can feel for the house person that Jupiter is just always wanting to spend money and feels pressured by them to spend. If Jupiter is badly aspected, money then could be a sensitive topic to talk about. 

Third house-

The house of mind and communication is where Jupiter lands in when they land in someone’s third house, helping the house partner learn to expand their mind. The Jupiter person is able to bring idealism and optimism to the house partner’s world view. The house person can feel like they are uplifted with the Jupiter partner around. Nothing but endless conversations between the two, the house person is able to help the Jupiter partner find ways or outlets for their wither spiritual, educational, or cultural ideas through writing or socially. Jupiter in a ways can work as some sort of amplifier for the house person, being able to get out their ideas, house is also able to expand Jupiter’s social network. This is an excellent synastry for a teacher-student relationship as there is an ease to chat forever.

Fourth house-

Fourth house synastry with Jupiter brings the need to have a home together, the Jupiter person has a sense of security with the house partner around and being nurtured by them and is always wanting to be around the house partner. The Jupiter person is always going to want to find a bigger home for the two of them or if house person lives separately, they want to expand the house person’s home with some project. The two could notices either similarities in their family or how they were raised. The house person reminds the Jupiter partner of some important heritage or root lesson that has been forgotten. Jupiter could possibly bring the dreams of a big family or big home of the house partner’s to reality. An excellent synastry overlay for a relationship.

Fifth house-

To have someone’s Jupiter land in another’s fifth house in synastry is like an amplifier to the house person’s creativity talents, they are able to show house how to really live and enjoy life. A trigger for constant chase for recreational pleasure happens to the house person as well whenever the Jupiter partner is around. This synastry is excellent for a romantic relationship, there could even be a want of children for this couple. The house person brings out the inner child of Jupiter, helping them learn how to enjoy the luxuries of life. Jupiter can make life seems like there is no slowing down to it with the house partner. There could be difficulties for the couple to stay grounded here on earth while they are busy chasing the clouds together for the next pleasureful activity.  

Sixth house-

Sixth house synastry always brings us wanting to help others out, no difference for Jupiter here as well. The Jupiter person’s kindness can make things easy for the house partner, Jupiter is willing to help out and go above and beyond for house on chores and errands even though both partner here could really enjoy doing them together. The house person truly appreciates all that the Jupiter partner does, but there needs to be cation as the house person can easily take advantage of Jupiter and start to become demanding. House is also influenced by the Jupiter person to start doing better with regular routines and a healthier well-being. This is good for either romantic or work relationships, for work conditions, Jupiter’s presences makes the job pleasant for the house partner.

Seventh house-

The house of partnerships and relationships is where Jupiter lands when there is seventh house synastry, a happy balanced relationship can exist here, depending on all other aspects of course, these two partner can listen to each other without judgment. There may be an urge to just be together, whether that being married or just in a long term relationship and this could effect the house person more than the Jupiter partner. The house person can view the Jupiter partner as someone whose charming and generous, they are also inspired by Jupiter’s compassion. There is a sort of freedom feeling that comes to this relationship with Jupiter but the two partners will still love to be around each other. If this is a business relationship, this would be an excellent synastry for both as Jupiter can help bring in ideas for jobs together.

Eighth house-

With someone’s Jupiter falling into another’s eighth house, there is a deep intimacy that the Jupiter person brings. Jupiter is able to break down whatever walls and limits that the house partner has put up, being able to get them to open up, they are also able to help the house partner learn how to expand their consciousness. The Jupiter person may challenge the house partner’s into trying and experiencing new things and to see the world in a new view. This synastry can bring a ‘give and take’ type of effect to a relationship, and Jupiter could be the one who takes more than they give if badly aspected. The house person is able to help the Jupiter partner see things deeper, able to probe into Jupiter’s subconsciousness and can help them go through some kind of transformation. 

Ninth house-

There is much comfort for Jupiter when it lands in another person’s ninth house in synastry. The house person can look up to the Jupiter partner as some type of role model or guru and admires Jupiter’s great intelligence and knowledge. Jupiter is able to help expand the house partner’s desire to explore and learn new things or the both of them can develop a mutual interest in some sort of religious practice or some type of meditation/organization activity together. The Jupiter person is drawn to house because they can sense the higher wisdom that house posses and feels like the house partner really understands them and can act very responsive when house is talking to them.There is a mutual interest in higher education, religion, and travel together, they may even have similar views and values with domestic and family affairs and this could make good for a marital and family type relationship.

Tenth house-

There is a gain in status, position, and public recognition when there is tenth house synastry, the Jupiter person may have some background that is able to benefit the house partner’s career and they are able to get house motivated to really go out and reach their career goals. Jupiter inspires house’s vision and ideas, giving faith to house that they are able to reach their highest potential with their career. The house person could have the resources for the Jupiter partner that can help them build up their reputation for a leadership roles in their career life, they can also help keep the Jupiter partner on the ground. This pair together can seem to dazzle when they are together, they encourage each other for public success, if this is a working relationship, productivity in business can be amplified and this pairing can really help expand said business.

Eleventh house-

The house of friendship, humanity, and community is where Jupiter lands in someone’s eleventh house, the house person is able to show the Jupiter partner new ideas for technologies, humanitarian, and social issues. Jupiter here can expand the house partner’s social connections and give confidence to be a leader. Jupiter is intrigued by the house’s rebellious side and they could help house reach whatever goals they have. The two of them could have their friend circles mix with each other, the house person will be very supportive of Jupiter partner’s hopes and wishes and find that they have many things in common and because of this make very good friends and supporters. If they choose to support some social cause together, the Jupiter person will come off more optimistic and generous while the house partner could be a bit shocking and radical. In a love relationship, this will feel like you have the best person to be both your best friend and lover.

Twelfth house-

There is a deep connection on a spiritual level with Jupiter landing in twelfth house overlay. The Jupiter person is able to go and enter the deepest parts of the mind and help the house partner overcome some intense emotional lows. House could help Jupiter connect with their own emotions and empathy and make them feel admire as Jupiter can encourage house with their enthusiasm and idealism. In some occasions the house person may feel a bit intruded on by this synastry and because of the insights and strong unconscious bond the Jupiter person has into them and their mind, and this can be unnerving at times they can feel vulnerable or exposed, house is unable to keep any secrets from Jupiter and won’t really know why hey just spill themselves. There is a chance for a romantic relationship if the house person doesn’t fear too much of the expansion the the Jupiter partner brings.

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Rulers of the 11th house☕🍪

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 1st☕

These natives are people who have great magnetism and are able to make friends and please others with ease, however, many of them prefer to spend more time with themselves. They are really unique, creative and highly intelligent people. Their curiosity and magnificent mind can make them stand out or practice multiple activities in a formidable way. They tend to have a leadership role with their friends, even if they do not intend to lead, they will always be someone whose words influence many. Excellent communication skills and making others think like them.

Consciously or unconsciously they seek to surround themselves with people like them, whether in terms of personality, way of thinking, ideals or hobbies. They usually have friends who are very similar to them. Its originality is usually the target of people without personality and inauthenticity. People may want to be like them, many out of admiration and others out of envy. They are people who attract a lot of attention even when they want to go unnoticed. Despite how easy going and sociable they appear, they only have a few friends to whom they confide their major issues, very private matters, thoughts or opinions.

People with this placement are more likely to have a blog, and the Ruler may tell us what the blog is about. They would do very well in social media and achieve some prestige through it. Their friends are usually a very important part of his life and it is very likely that they see things about themselves reflected in them. Friends can bring you a lot of happiness. Many of these individuals tend to show themselves as they are through the internet as they may feel somewhat limited in real life. They are people who find it difficult to show themselves as they are and precisely for that reason they resort to unconventional means such as the internet. They are highly analytical and thoughtful individuals. Their minds are absolutely incredible, and they often feel like they are way ahead of their time; their inventiveness is something that is distinctive of them.

These natives can last a long time without being in contact with their family, and not because they do not like or love them, but because they are extremely independent people. I've noticed that these folks are very scared to open up too much to others for one of two reasons: either that people learn too much and will use it against them, or that people will lose interest in them. Throughout their lives they may meet many people with Aquarius/Aries traits, placements or 11th/1st house Stelliums. Although many times they deny it, these natives can make friends more easily than others, their unique personality makes them people that many consider unrepeatable and makes them wanting the natives in their lives. They treasure their independence very highly and will always keep in mind that their emotional and psychological well-being is what counts most, in all types of relationships, they detest being overwhelmed with unneeded controversy or jealousy. Another thing that I have noticed is that they attract competitive friends.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 2nd☕

Many of these natives can attract friends with a lot of money or stability at all levels. They tend to attract people who want to help them in many ways and are usually lucky in the social arena (mainly if the Ruler is Sun, Jupiter or Venus). This placement may indicate that the native may have different sources of income or that they may constantly change jobs. It is not recommended for these people to work all the time in an office, as they are easily overwhelmed. They are constant friends, honest and very detailed. They are the typical friend who advises you, hugs you and listens to you when you need it. Their friendship makes you feel safe, protected and very valuable.

Feeling that they belong to a group makes them feel safe. It is very likely that in early ages they have felt difficulty fitting in with their "friends" or even with their own family, so it is usual to see them being very close, constantly interacting with their friends. These natives can play the role of a mom-friend and will be willing to fight anyone who threatens their friends. These natives have the goal of achieving stability of all kinds, both emotional and economic. It is very likely that at some point in your life you have felt unsafe or limited in some way. They are people who take time to know them fully. They do not usually make friends easily as they have learned to be on their own, but believe me you will know true loyalty, genuine affection when you have them as friends. They always give their place to their friends, and they try to do the right thing and the fairest thing.

Possible jobs for these people are: Sales, Marketing, Public Relations, Artists, Astrologers, Teachers, Psychologist, Researchers, Writers, Economists, Entrepreneurs, or Social Workers. They are people with fixed ways of thinking that are difficult to change, and also a mentality guided by constantly doing what is right. I have noticed that these natives can be somewhat jealous or possessive of their friends or that they can attract possessive friends with them. They are people with enough talent for any artistic activity, coming to stand out a lot for their sense of aesthetics. These natives may have as an extra source of income (or even main) something related to social networks.

Many may see the native's dress as eccentric, innovative, or very unique. They may be pretty good at makeup or fashion design, too. These people must learn to manage their money correctly, since although they can get money suddenly, they can also lose it suddenly. These people may feel a need to constantly change their appearance, way of dressing, aesthetics or in general their life. They are not usually fans of monotony and routines.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 3rd☕

Being versatile is something that characterizes these natives; they can fit in with any group, however they like to hang out with individuals who share their interests. Astrology, drawing, digital art, having a blog, photography, travelling and playing video games are some of the hobbies that the native may have. They enjoy activities that challenge them somehow. Some of them may encounter (and get along pretty well) either many people with Gemini placements/3rd house placements/dominant Mercuries in the course of their life. Something that I have noticed in many of these natives is that they tend to be quite intelligent, and despite this, they do not study a lot or participate in class. They tend to like to learn on their own and hate wasting time studying, even feeling overwhelmed by the idea of ​​studying, unless they are studying on their own.

These natives feel a very deep connection with their friends, coming to consider them family, to be more specific, they usually see them as brothers. They tend to interact in a friendly and witty way when wanting to forge new friendships. They tend to keep their friends from school regardless of the passage of time, however, remembering that astrology is ambiguous, I have also noticed the other side of the coin, and that is that it may have been difficult for them to make friends at school or feel that they fit in. with their classmates. Their relationship with their siblings is usually somewhat complex and changing. The relationship can be a bit extreme, oscillating between getting along very well with each other and sometimes not wanting to see each other. Siblings of the natives can have strong Aquarius, Saturn, Uranus or 11th House energy or placements.

Something that perfectly describes them is their curiosity, being people who seek to find a deeper meaning to everything that is mundane or part of their day to day. They often have a huge desire to travel to know and explore or to have a job that allows them to travel. They are people willing and open to change. (If the Ruler is badly aspected, their dedication to achieving their goals can give them a lonely life and perhaps fewer social contacts than they would like). Do you want to get their attention? Don't be afraid of being judged. Something that they find admirable is people who are able to express their thoughts in a direct and unique way. Abstract, complex and interesting minds will definitely catch their eye. These people are hardly understood by people, especially when others try to read what they write. I have noticed that the writing of these natives changes a lot and that they tend to write very fast.

They speak and write with a unique, clever, entertaining, and easygoing style. They are quite social and have a remarkable ability to make new and helpful connections very quickly.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 4th☕

Ideals and having children merge with this placement, leading the native to desire one of the following scenarios: Adopting children, be a father or not have children in order to fulfill their goals. These people may end up living in a place somewhat far from their place of origin. Their home will always be in constant change, changing the color of the walls frequently, changing the furniture, etc. These natives may have constantly changed residence or have lived in an unconventional or difficult to explain or coexist environment. These natives tend to overthink their emotions and are prone to anxiety. When the Ruler is unaspected or poorly aspected, the native may find it difficult to understand his emotions or find a way to handle them appropriately.

Some of the native's parents can be very strange, uncertain, indescribable or strange to the native's eyes. Parents may have ideals, personalities or ways of acting incompatible with those of the native. However, it can also be the opposite, and the native may perceive the parents as friends or people they fully trust. There is a quality of camaraderie and freshness in the natives' relationship with their parents. People with this placement may feel an emotional distancing from some members of their family, particularly their parents, and they may be the ones to break a certain role / pattern of behavior between them. It's highly probable that these people felt extremely lonely as kids, or that they were the family's black sheep. Their intelligence may have surprised them since infancy, and it is highly probable that they were deemed gifted in some particular hobby or topic.

They are people with a very pleasant and friendly approach, and precisely this way of being so warm, fraternal and affectionate makes them able to have friends quickly. However, this placement also indicates a very strong tendency towards introversion and towards wanting to be alone with those they fully trust. They are somewhat private people, but of course, without losing their manners. They tend to attract many people who want to connect with them in an emotionally deep way and people who want to be very close to them. They tend to be and attract very protective friends.

It is not surprising that they tend to assume a protective role with their friends, and believe me, they are capable of doing the impossible to maintain the well-being of those they love the most, since they usually have friends that they consider family. This placement indicates that the native is happy to serve others, prepare the place, open the doors and provide what is necessary for people to meet or to feel at home independently whether they are close or not. The natives are highly susceptible to rumors, mood swings from their friends and social movements that may exist in the world. They are people who are very aware of what is right and wrong, the good and the bad of their friends, of the world and especially of themselves. They are very fair people.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 5th☕

These people like activities such as reading, blogging, journaling, cinematography, photography, video games, astrology, and driving. Similarly, they may spend a lot of time on the internet. These natives will constantly be on a journey for self-consciousness; they have a strong desire for free expression; and the ego is frequently enlarged to embrace broader cultural and social matters. Individuals with this placement can be famous, recognized or really loved on social media. They are usually people who can find a lot of happiness and friendships through the Internet. I have noticed that many of the "friends" of these natives tend to develop a romantic feeling towards them.

They are incredibly humorous yet rational individuals when they are in love. They might be folks who require more than simply physical attractiveness. They are not generally idealistic or flowery; rather, they value their individuality and want their lover to be their closest friend and crime partner. Although these people may not realize it, they are capable of changing the ideals and ways of thinking of other people, especially their friends, to positive ones. They are able to make people around them perceive things in a positive way and it is quite common for natives to try to see the good side of things. These individuals are generally the leaders or bright spots in their group of friends. They are the human brightness, the star of the show, the one who pushes, inspires, and is always there to make them happy.

They tend to attract many friends with Leo-Aquarius placements, traits, dominant Suns/Uranus/Saturns, or with Stelliums in the 5th or 11th house. Something that I have noticed about these natives is that they feel a great and genuine fascination towards all kinds of arts and tend to excel in many of its branches. Folks with this placement tend to adore and be incredibly generous with their friends, who are often numerous. Occasionally these natives choose their friends instead of their partners.The person with this placement is extremely gifted and innovative, with a strong desire to share what makes them distinct and unusual. They have a distinct and creative flame that may leave many people awestruck.

And mainly because of this, they are more likely to have a large number of imitators or persons who aspire to be like them, particularly those from the media. They are so outstanding and one-of-a-kind personalities that they may acquire quite a few jealous competitors. Their offspring will be energetic, inquisitive, ambiverts, eccentrics, analytical, and fast learners if they plan to have children. And they'll feel bored quickly. People with this placement may develop a crush towards people they meet through the internet and could get to know couples or potential partners through this medium or even playing online.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 6th☕

They are extremely empathetic and altruistic people, always seeking to help others in a selfless way. They are usually very susceptible to social problems or possible problems that their friends may have. These people can have a couple of problems feeling that they truly fit into a group, becoming somewhat introverted people. However, they will always try to make others feel welcome. They do not usually call just anyone "friend" and in fact have to spend a lot of time interacting with someone to come to consider someone close. They tend to be somewhat suspicious, but once they become your friends, I guarantee that you will have paradise as a person by your side. Possible jobs for these people are: Sales, Marketing, Public Relations, Politics, Astrologers, Teachers, Guides, Tutors, Event organizers, Veterinarians or Social Workers.

These natives tend to get nervous easily with topics related to the internet, becoming very secretive and not saying a single piece of information about them. If the Ruler is poorly aspected it may indicate some paranoia. Animals are very important to these natives, it is very likely that they are the typical ones who collect animals from the street or take care of them. They have a very special and friendly way of connecting with all kinds of animals. These people may have friends with Virgo Placements or traits, strong Mercuries, or 6th house placements.

These people can easily feel overwhelmed by the internet, it is very likely that you will see them constantly absent or see that they do not publish much. Their work may have a lot to do with marketing, and they have a knack and talent for promoting themselves over the internet, and they can help others as well. When the Ruler is well aspected, the native is incredibly noble and generous to others, while if it is badly aspected, the native can be perceived as a selfish and overly self-centered person. Like those with the Ruler in the 2nd house, these natives can work in something related to social networks or they can have a source of extra income on the internet.

They tend to have a knack for teamwork, and may actually be able to bring many people together with ease (I've seen this at its best when the Ruler is Venus or Jupiter). They tend to be very supportive of each member of their team and are excellent co-workers.These people may feel a strong desire to escape monotony, especially its monotony and routines. They easily get stressed out over things that others probably see as normal or usual. I have seen this placement in people who start working from a very young age and / or feel a lot of responsibility since they are children.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 7th☕

People usually perceive these natives as eccentric and very charismatic people. They can be somewhat quirky in the eyes of many but that is precisely what makes them love it. Something that people usually highlight about them is their intelligence and way of thinking. Since they tend to captivate others by the way they think and act, they should be careful as although they may attract a lot of admirers, many will want to copy them. Something that I love about this placement is that your spouse will be your partner, friend, confidant and counselor. The marriage of these natives is usually seen as rare by other people since the lightness and friendship are maintained, but the native will enjoy a healthy and quite fruitful marriage in many aspects. These natives can greatly benefit from doing business with friends, especially if the Ruler is Venus, Jupiter, or Sun. They can get a lot of help from friends of yours or from their partner in the workplace.

It is very likely that people with this placement meet their future epouse in a meeting, through a friend, on a blind date, at a party or in a place crowded by people. It is worth mentioning that they could meet after great changes have happened in their lives. Their future husband can be an innovative, creative and highly intelligent person. Knowing it can help the native to express those sides of themselves that they repress for fear of being judged, and their future husband may be totally fascinated by the complexity and personality of the native. It's highly possible that once they are married, they'll do something they've never done before. Many of their ambitions will be realized with the assistance of their future spouse. Marriage will definitely bring them many surprises.

With this placement it is very usual that the future husband of the native begins by being their friend. It should be noted that they could marry after a certain time of knowing each other (especially if the Ruler is Saturn). They may have either an indifferent or a little high view regarding marriage. One of the sides of the coin, people with this placement do not usually look for someone to marry, rather they look for a life partner who does not depend on a papel to love them. While others may have high expectations regarding the marriage and, if the Ruler is wrongly aspected, regarding their spouse. They tend to attract or be romantically attracted to people with Aquarius Placements, dominant Uranus/Saturn or with placements in the 11th house. While regarding to friends, they can have a lot of friends with Libra placements, dominant Venus or placement in the 7th house.

These natives are usually very consistent and considerate friends. Similar to when the Ruler is in the 4th house, they can have a protective role, only from a more rational and practical perspective. They are people who can easily mediate any type of conflict that occurs in their group of friends and it is important to add that they usually assume the role of counselor (often loving) among their friends. These people bring fun to their partners. Being with them is a unique, beautiful and very liberating experience. Having them as a couple is an unforgettable journey and they are capable of making you forget about your worries and tensions, they will always bring fun, support and trust to the relationship. Many people who envy them or feel threatened by them in some way may want to approach them for the purpose of being their friends, so natives should be careful with that, especially if the Ruler is Mars or Saturn.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 8th☕

One word that defines these natives in terms of friendship is Loyalty. They are the most reliable, private and constant friends you can meet. Friendship is very important to them and they will never make their friends feel insecure or sad, however, they expect the same devotion and dedication back. Because they are suspicious, it is difficult for them to be emotionally intimate. It is quite typical for these people to believe that it is challenging for them to be loving and open with other people. Loneliness plays a very important role for the natives with this placement, and it can be either extreme, or a fear of being alone and not finding their place in society or feeling uncomfortable when there are many people around them.

People with this placement have a very curious and inquisitive mind, they like to get to the bottom of things and have a detective mentality. Don't bother lying to them, they will know the truth sooner than you think. Those with this placement are more likely to attract or have friends that have Scorpio qualities, placements, 8th house stelliums, or a prominent Pluto/Lilith. Do you want to make them angry? Tell them that their dreams or thoughts are silly or very immature. They are very stubborn people and it is very difficult to make them change their minds. However, they are easy people to accept the opinions of others very well. Something that is admirable about these natives is that they speak even their most controversial opinions without fear of getting into trouble. They will always be loyal to their ideals and very consistent with their way of thinking and acting.

These natives may resent feeling like the black sheep or that people see them as strange people. They may be afraid of being judged by others. They have a distinct, independent, and rebellious attitude that tends to captivate others. People are generally drawn to them, and they are likely to have a large following. These people are very attracted to topics such as psychology, crime, the supernatural, the esoteric or sex. I have noticed that they are usually judged by their interests, but this does not matter to them completely. They frequently struggle with “friends,” since they might acquire a large number of unhealthy, destructive, or obsessive mates throughout their lives. If the Ruler is negatively aspected, their "friends" may become obsessed and controlling over them.

They like novels, shows, or films of the following genres: thriller, mystery, criminalist, drama, or futurism. They are persons who are drawn to things that cognitively challenge them or are unexpected. This placement indicates that the native is a person with a great sense of justice, it is very likely that these natives have seen or experienced many situations of discrimination. They are people who genuinely fight for the acceptance and inclusion of those who are pushed aside. They can attract enemies who disguise themselves as friends and are hypocritical. And it is even very likely that they have enemies due to the luck that the native can have in their social sphere or because of the powerful position they can have in society.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 9th☕

They stand out for their curiosity and desire to have more and more knowledge, especially about themselves. These natives have a huge fascination for self discovery and their spirituality is often very important to them. It is very likely that not many members of your family are as spiritual as the native. Friendship with these natives is a fascinating and incomparable journey. Their friendship can become the engine of your happiness, the light at the end of the tunnel, that breath of fresh air. With them you will meet and rediscover many sides of yourself that you thought were forgotten. Their internet persona radiates joy, wisdom and freshness. Being natives they can be more carefree and optimistic on the internet than they really are.

They are naturally introverted people who enjoy a moment of introspection alone. Moreover, they enchant people with ease. There is something remarkable about their aura, something indescribable, foreign and not seen before that makes people approach them with curiosity. They are really fascinating people, whose opinions always leave an impact on the people who listen to them. They can meet their great friends or more significant people at school, taking a trip or changing house. As many may suppose, this placement suggests making many friends who are foreigners through the internet, or learning about other cultures through social networks and friends.

Many of these natives have a natural talent for writing or for engaging communication. This placement is very common in people with blogs, in writers, in speakers and even in teachers. People with an adventurous, wise and relaxed soul. Able to inspire others a lot, able to help others to find themselves and find their true motivation or passion. A genuine desire to connect with other people and cultures, to explore the unknown in the world, as people and in themselves, and a love of travel are some of the things that define some of the many dreams of these natives.

People of great intelligence, fun, positive and optimistic tend to attract the attention of the native. Although they do not express it openly, they look for a partner (not necessarily romantic) with a vision of life similar to theirs, with a unique way of seeing the world and with an ability to see the positive side of things. They are looking for someone to keep that flame of intrigue and curiosity burning. They are usually the Sunshine friend. That friend who distributes happiness and funny moments to others. These natives have natural light, and many times they don't even realize it. Ability to make others see the bright side of life. They are not interested in sending, and they are interested in being sent. These natives will never cut your wings, and they will never let them cut theirs. They are rebellious and independent people by nature.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 10th☕

They have an easy time making friends at work and might become extremely respected and admired by others. These people have no inclination towards being a leader or a follower, but they have fairly a developed ability to lead and may unintentionally assume the role of "leader" in their circle of friends. Those who have this placement have the capability to capture the public and bring numerous people together. They are folks who have a strong sense of conviction. They may have had an unconventional, friendly, and highly intelligent father. In case the Ruler is badly aspected, the native may think that his father was cold, they may not have felt their father's support regarding their aspirations and desires, or even feel that the father was too different from them.

The individual will be recognized for their brilliance, originality, and inventive side. Many folks may see the native as fascinating, special, and irreplaceable. Folks with this placement may feel their father distant either physically or emotionally. They may lack trust towards him and, if the Ruler is badly aspected, a desire to stay away from him. In order to the native to be truly satisfied with their job, they must have the freedom to do and undo as they like, but most of all, they must be able to express themselves in some manner throughout their work. They are visionary and idealistic individuals who continuously dream big and work hard to make their aspirations come true regardless of what people think.

Persons with this placement are continually looking for ways to serve people via their job; they are highly philanthropic, and others appreciate them for their strong desire to aid those in need. Jobs that are recommended for these natives are: Astrologers, teachers, engineers, scientists, social media managers, social service, public relations, astronomers or artists. Many may see these natives as indescribable. It is not surprising that people have differing opinions regarding the native's personality, the most ironic thing is that there are great probabilities that these differ from reality.

I have noticed that they are like to hang around to serious and mature people, and they can be quite picky while choosing their friends, leading them to have a small number of friends, however, friends that are loyal and trustworthy. They have many friends that are older than them and if not, then they are the older ones. They value protection, sincerity and support in friendship. Their friends may have motivated you to pursue a certain career path, and spending time with them is prone to make you feel more positive, confident and appreciated.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 11th☕

Natives are open-minded, liberal friends who foster open-mindedness and horizons. Unconventional with intellectual tendencies, these natives are able to easily inspire others. Something that I have noticed is that these natives do not usually place expectations on people, because they may have set them in the past and they may have been disappointed. And despite this, these natives can be generous, altruistic and agreeable with all people. These natives have the opportunity to become highly recognized, and can become very appreciated by their community due to their polite and charming attitude towards their fans. These natives can make their fans their friends, and it is not surprising that this placement is common in people with multiple friends abroad.

They tend to be affectionate, funny and bright with many and the number of acquaintances they have is very large, however, only very few are called friends. They are people of just causes who will always be willing to defend those who are separated, discriminated against or singled out for any difference. It is very common to see these natives supporting communities that suffer from constant attacks. The friends they usually have are people with a way of thinking very similar to yours. Friendships are undoubtedly a great source of happiness for the native. I have noticed that these natives always express their opinions and thoughts freely, but for some reason they find it difficult to express their most intense emotions, and if the Ruler is badly aspected, they may repress their feelings.

Many of them are ambitious dreamers. They tend to set very high expectations and dream big. Their main objective is to enjoy everything that makes them happy and, incidentally, to make others happy as well. These natives have a natural ability to make others feel accepted and integrated into a group. Their friendly and non-judgmental approach towards people makes them have this ability. Their creativity is on another level. They tend to be incredibly talented and have a devotion and fascination for different things at the same time. This placement is very common in multitalented people. Many tend to describe the native as someone very capable and can put him or her as superior in many aspects, they easily earn the friendship and admiration of others.

They can do quite well in the world of the internet, where they can win great friendships, recognition and a lot of satisfaction. They are people who treat others with charm and their internet person can easily be loved by others. They have an ability to motivate others to follow what their heart dictates. It is very likely that these natives have heard many times "stop being so delusional", or "your dreams are very fanciful" from people around them. It is precisely because of this that they encourage others to do what they want as long as it makes them happy. After a while the native becomes able to ignore these kinds of comments. I like to call this placement the placement of the influences. Since I have seen two very common scenarios, in one of them, the native can be very influential and unconsciously take the behaviors of their friends or their friends can be very influential towards the native’s attitudes and behaviors.

☕Ruler of the 11th in the 12th☕

These natives may feel that they are not very lucky in the field of friendship, this can lead them to be very introverted and reserved people. Being a friend of these natives is a beautiful and unique experience, since they give everything in their friendships, they always try to unconditionally support those they love the most and their friends will never lack devotion and compassion. These people have a tremendous fear of being betrayed by "friends" possibly due to many such experiences they have had. Since sadly they tend to attract a lot of people who drain their energy.

People with this placement are highly sympathetic individuals with a very pleasant and kind attitude to other people, even if they are quiet on a daily basis. Because they do not want to concern anybody, these people generally suppress their grief or suffering in their daily lives from others. They can have a blog oriented to: Aesthetics, Art, Astrology, Music, Character Design. And indeed your blog can be addictive to other people. Many of these people find it difficult to share their colleagues about their problems since they do not feel heard by others. They are distrustful of others and prefer to operate on their own. They are people who can create very deep relationships with their friends. I have noticed that when the Ruler is in water sign or when it is Pluto, the native’s friends can be obsessed with them and want to have them just for themselves.

People with this placement are likely to have some toxic experiences with their friends, either them being the toxic one or staying in that pattern of attracting toxic friendships. Individuals with this placement are frequently worried of giving a lot and receiving nothing in exchange. Their potential and abilities are many, but they don't usually believe it. They are somewhat pessimistic people with a tendency to limit themselves due to their negativity. They are people who are always providing comfort, security, and understanding to their friends. Many people tend to open up to them easily.

People believe that these natives are secretive, that they are overly reserved, and that they are complex and difficult to grasp. It’s really hard to get to know this natives fully. These natives are either the ones who read the minds of their friends or attract friends who tend to understand them so much that they feel they can read the native's mind. This placement is very likely in people that attract friends with a huge interest towards astrology, music or esoteric matters. People might get captivated with them because of their ideas, view on life, and peculiarities. These individuals typically have followers, or individuals that honor and admire them for their distinctive style.They tend to attract friends or acquaintances with Pisces placements or traits, a strong Neptune, or planets in the 12th house.

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Gonna have to pin this. I always wondered why people thought I was so sweet and bubbly. I'm not sweet actually. Turns out my 11th house ruler is just in the 9th. 🤣

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8th house lord through the houses ✧˖°

vedic astrology

disclaimer ~ this is based on my own research & opinions, so if it doesn’t resonate please let it go. this should go without saying but please do not plagiarise heh

how to find your 8th house lord ~ for starters please only use your vedic/ sidereal chart & whole sign house system. the 8th house lord planet is indicated solely by the sign that falls within the 8th house of a chart. look for the house in your chart where your 8th house lord planet is sitting in. i have included a guide at the very bottom of this post as well but if you need clarification feel free to dm me x

✧˖° 8th lord in 1st house

these people are very seductive & alluring! high physical sex appeal & most likely has very high sex drives. they have a very mysterious & hypnotic presence. highly mystical & intuitive - it is very hard to deceive these people. sensitive & has a very emotionally vulnerable side to them - they try to keep this side of them low-key. comes across as mystical, deep & sensitive. may have health issues that deteriorate their vitality whether mental or physical - keep on top of your well-being. these people have powerful potential to transform one’s self physically - like they can drastically transform other’s perception of them. as per stereotypes, may be prone to seclusion & secrecy on a characteristic level

✧˖° 8th lord in 2nd house

people with this placement have very sexually attractive facial features, especially the eyes & lips. seductive voices! these people are very ‘sensually seductive’ - if that makes sense. may have very deep issues related to self-worth. may be prone to disordered eating & consumption of intoxicates as a means to pacify psychological issues - please be careful of diet culture & intoxication if you have this placement. ability to benefit off other people’s money - just saying reminds me of sugar baby archetypes (8th house is the finance of others & 2nd house is material items). other wise, benefits financially from work related to investigation, research, psychology, astrology, mystical practices, sex, finances or health 

✧˖° 8th lord in 3rd house

people with this placement may be very interested in occult, fantasy, mystical, true crime or mysterious topics. has a mind for mystery. these people are most likely shy - especially when it comes to talking to others. seductive & hypnotic way with words - other people may often take what you say as suggestive even if it’s not. amazing placement for creative writing, especially fantasy or criminal genres. these people may be very sexual inclined, however be careful of not over doing it with sexual activity or becoming too infatuated with it (8th house is sex & 3rd house is hobbies). may be interested in longevity & anti-aging

✧˖° 8th lord in 4th house

highly intuitive, empathetic & good at supporting others. has a great need to connect with others intimately & usually does so intensely, especially within emotional & sexual relationships. for this reason sex & love tend to go together for these people, they often desire devotional bonds/ relationships. these people may harbour or bottle up feelings of shame, isolation & victimhood. usually these feelings are associated with the mother, childhood or home environment in some way. mother may be a scorpionic person or if there are no afflictions the mother may just has interest in spirituality/ mysticism. these people should be very cautious of attracting people who treated poorly within their intimate relationships 

✧˖° 8th lord in 5th house

these people most likely express themselves creatively in a scorpionic way, whether that is intentional or not - megan fox has this placement & she has always been subject to roles that objectify & sexualise her (8th house is sex appeal & 5th house is theatrical entertainment). these people likely enjoy having sex very much, especially within romantic/ committed relationships. has a good understanding of occult, taboo, sexual topics although may be to overly obsessed with these themes. their creativity comes in sudden bursts of energy. if this person has children/ is wanting to the relationship with them may be challenging & dramatic. most likely able to financially support their children. people with this placement should be extra wary of accidental pregnancy

✧˖° 8th lord in 6th house 

profound ability & strength to overcome their obstacles whether they are financial, emotional or psychological. prone to feelings of victimization & vulnerability, be very cautious of others who may try to take advantage of you especially sexually or monetarily. prone to other’s competing with them due to their sex appeal, attracts jealousy from other people - jealousy could even be very low-key, ik this sounds bad but it’s just because you’re so gorgeous! may routinely deal with unwanted attention. very talented in research & investigation. monetary gains can come from disasters, health issues, insurance or injuries. take special care of your own health & the health of your pets x 

✧˖° 8th lord in the 7th house

these people relate to others in a very primal, seductive or intimate way, vice versa. people with this place have many admirers for this reason but be cautious of other people maybe getting the wrong impression of where your interests lay. may be the types who may are good at stalking/ gathering information on a love interest usually via social media. enjoys having sex & is sexually skilful. likely to desire marriage/ commitment. your partner may be passionate & mysterious, a scorpionic type of person. may have sudden disruptions or changes in relationships & marriages

✧˖° 8th lord in the 8th house

deeply interested in occult or taboo subjects, understands & contemplates things deeply. may be detached & caught up with fantasy rather than reality. may be prone to disturbing fascinations related to occult, hidden aspects of life or sex. psychic & intuitive. highly sexually appealing & connects with others intensely during sex. likely to desire commitment & marriage. sometimes this applies but work toward bettering negative thinking patterns & emotions like spite, meanness & manipulative tendencies. additionally, always take care of your mental, emotional & physical health x

✧˖° 8th lord in the 9th house

non-conforming & breaks traditional faith/ beliefs. challenges, tempts or even disturbs other people’s moral compass & faith whether this is intentional or not. greatly intelligent, opinionated & insightful on topics of occult, mysticism, sex & death. most likely occultist or atheists. may be very lucky & experience sudden increase in fortunes. most likely able to benefit from inheritance, wills & insurance - by any legal means. powerful & skilled at manifestation through intention & prayer. that being said, manifestation is so powerful that these people need to be very mindful of negative thinking as this may also manifest itself. be very wary of teachers or older men who may cross boundaries or establish inappropriate relationships. may have sudden disruptions or changes in your higher education - beyond high school

✧˖° 8th lord in the 10th house

people with this placement may seem to be shy, reclusive or deep in thought in the eye of the public. otherwise in more extroverted people the sexual side of the 8th house can be more aligned with their public prominence. these people may be overlooked by other’s but when they do receive attention from authority figures or older men it is intense & overwhelming - always be wary of older men who are sexually interested in you, particularly if they are of a higher status than you. great research & analysis skills which makes them well suited for careers related to secrets, scandals, psychology, investigation, death & surveillance. avoid scandalous behaviour as it will most likely hinder your public image or even career. may experience many sudden changes in status & work     

✧˖° 8th lord in the 11th house

people with this placement may have trouble fitting in & feels like an outcast usually due to issues w/ social anxiety. often attracts friends & people within their social circles that are sexually interested in them - so be cautious of people in your circle for this reason. prominent placement for people who gains financially through sexual, mysterious, investigative or esoteric activities - i noticed this placement to be prominent in top only fans creators. may  experience very sudden rises in wealth/ gains & fame/ social status, although be wary of scandals as they may cause sudden negative turns in luck the same way. generally these people will have a better adult life than their childhood

✧˖° 8th lord in the 12th house

these people are highly skilled at spiritual practices such as detachment, yoga & meditation. they have true understanding of spirituality & reincarnation. most definitely can be shy & introverted types. people with this placement may have emotional or psychological issues that stem very deep. deeply fascinated with fantasy or mystical topics. prone to feeling victimised, at a loss or trapped. high sex drive although may be frigid toward sexual intimacy with others. may have sleep troubles or disorders - please take care of your sleep. be wary of taking bad/ negative actions as they may lead to loss. be very cautious of sexual relationships that debilitate your energy especially via pressuring  

guide ✧˖°

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Rulers of the 8th in the houses

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 1st👥

They may find it difficult to show their emotions, and it may be difficult for them to accept their emotional side. The natives are very carried away by their emotions even if they pretend not to. It is very likely that your early environment was somewhat tense and somewhat conflictual, especially if the ruler is Mars or is afflicted by Mars. They are people who may have experienced very tense situations either physically, emotionally or psychologically. Individuals with this placement tend to have a very high sex appeal, likewise, they have a very high sex drive. Sex can be very important to them. They are people who are very in touch with their dark side, they are not ashamed of it, on the contrary, they accept it and try to include it little by little in their life. (Unless the ruler is the Sun).

These people can have a highly developed sixth sense, a very acute intuition and, if the ruler is the Moon or is well integrated in the chart, the native could develop psychic abilities or learn about esoteric subjects, such as the tarot. The native is a very reserved, observant person and is guided mainly by his intuition. They have a very sharp perception and can appear to be quieter than they really are. Death is a very important issue for them. They can directly fear the idea of ​​dying (especially if they have Retrograde Pluto) or on the contrary, they could see it as something normal. Natives with this placement can be quite extreme, they can love you with great intensity, but they can also hate you with the same intensity. For them there is no "maybe", it is a "yes" or a "no". Throughout their lives they will experience many "rebirths". Life guides them through a path full of changes in which the lessons are the reward. These natives are often involved in tense situations and in which they must act decisively.

These people can be very in contact with their spiritual side and are usually very devoted to whatever their belief is. Their sexual style is passionate, fiery, spontaneous and it is definitely something very important to them. They may like topics like domination, hair pulling or role playing. They are able to "read people", to read their intentions, motivations, fears and aspirations. Their excellent ability to really pay attention to someone is impressive, they are excellent listeners and have excellent memories. They are people who do not talk much about their private life, they like to go unnoticed and the more people know about them, the safer they will feel. These natives may have a hard time letting go, they are people who do not forgive or forget easily. Betrayal is a very serious matter for them and they don't let it be overlooked. People can easily become obsessed with them and they can attract a lot of envious people into their lives. In the same way, they attract people who admire and respect them a lot. They also have a certain charm and an evident attractiveness (Marylin Monroe had this placement).

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 2nd👥

Something that these natives hates is owing money and much more, that others owe them money. They tend to handle their money very well and be responsible for their purchases. These people may have an interest in psychology and a natural ability to make people feel comfortable enough to talk about their emotional problems. Dressing well, shopping, brand new things, eating / cooking / buying food are things that tend to lift their spirits when they feel bad about themselves. They could have a lot of money due an inheritance. (If the Ruler is harshly aspected, the person may have trust issues or be very jealous of their partners). I have noticed that these natives really like to wear black or they tend to look very good in black clothes.

Their way of dressing is usually very attractive to other people, their style is very sexy, so it is common that they like to wear or that they like their partner to wear lingerie. These natives usually have a lot of financial support from other people, to know who can provide that support, it is necessary to check the Ruler. If it is Venus, the couple will provide economic stability to the native. If it is Sun, the father. If it is the Moon, the mother or some grandparent. They are people with a very attractive and sensual voice. Many could enjoy singing and could do well if the Ruler is well aspected. These natives tend to attach great importance to sex in their relationships. Their sex style is more sensual, slow, seductive and romantic. Your erogenous zones can be your neck. They could also scratch a lot in sex. Many of these natives meet many generous people throughout their lives. The natives can be the typical ones who others always invite to eat or those who receive many gifts from acquaintances / friends / partners, and it may be that when the native wants to invite someone to eat for example, the other person insists on being the one to pay.

Do you want to make them feel safe or comfortable? Trust them. Trust is everything to them, show them that you trust them and their solidity / loyalty, in the same way show them that they can count on you. Share your experiences with them, share your secrets, but also allow them to do the same. These natives can earn money working as: Economists, Entrepreneurs, Accountants, Notaries, Tarotists, Astrologers, Psychologists, Psychiatrists, Doctors or Therapists. It is very likely that these natives become very attached to some of their things because of the emotional value that they can find in those things. I have noticed that they also tend to associate things such as smells for example to specific situations, persons or moments. They can be attracted to people with seductive/deep voices, a thick neck and wide backs. Also, it is a plus if you wear perfume and have soft skin (according to some that I’ve met).

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 3rd👥

These people may enjoy reading or writing erotic novels. And as a bonus, they tend to like dirty talk a lot and are quite good at flirting. I have noticed that many of them tend to be very competitive, distrust or dislike a cousin or brother. They have a very frank and direct way of speaking. They tend to have a sarcastic, ironic, crude, or even dark sense of humor. Individuals with this placement have no problem talking about sex, in fact they may really like to talk about it. In the case of having a blog, they can talk about these topics directly and openly. They have a natural interest in everything unknown. They may be very interested in: tarot, magic, astrology, witchcraft, and have a particular interest in prediction.

They are people who can have a tic, such as involuntarily moving one of their feet while talking, biting their nails, constantly touching the sleeve of their sweater, etc. They tend to be sexually attracted to intelligent, capable and independent people. Large or veined hands may be very attractive to them. Topics such as psychology, crime, horror stories, supernatural anecdotes often enchant them and they can spend hours talking about it, making you forget how possibly quiet they looked when you first met them. You really like to talk about deep topics and have existential conversations in your day to day. Your mind is very deep and you often question many things. They may be nervous or may dislike speaking in public or when there are many people. If the ruler is Mercury or is harshly aspected, the native may suffer from constant anxiety or nerves. Individuals with this placement can easily become obsessed with what they like or with their hobbies. They may even forget to eat by doing such an activity.

They can have siblings or cousins with Scorpio traits, placements or with a strong Pluto. They have detective minds, are naturally curious, and like to get to the bottom of things. Their memory is excellent and they tend to pay a lot of attention to small details that may go unnoticed by other people. They have a tendency to overthink things, even when they already know the solution. These people care a lot about mental health, they can know a lot about it. They are excellent counselors to many people and have a knack for getting people to "open up" to them.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 4th👥

They are very loyal friends / partners, they will respect you and it is very likely that they love you in a very intense and unique way. Many people tend to remember these natives a lot, since their loyalty makes them stay in the hearts of many for a long time. These natives are emotionally very intense people, for them it is everything or it is nothing. They hate wasting their time on people who have no clear intentions about them and believe me, they will always be honest with their intentions. Their intuition is very strong and they should trust it more. They know how to see "behind other people's souls" and tend to know a lot about a person even when they have only known them for a very short time. Family life may have been very tense and it is very likely that they do not constantly talk about their childhood or their family in general.

On many occasions they tend to be unaware of their own emotions, which is precisely why they question a lot about it and can be very analytical with their emotional world. They are very reserved people, and very rarely you will see them deliberately talking about their private life. They know how to keep secrets very well and people often approach them for advice or simply to feel heard. They have a great desire to become independent or to put some distance between them and their family. It is very likely that they have experienced the death of a relative at a very young age, in the same way these people could have matured before their time. These natives may have a neutral relationship with their family, but if the ruler is Mars or is afflicted, it is very likely that they do not trust a certain member of their family, especially one of the parents. The native's eyes can express fatigue, sleep, or even have a very fixed and intense gaze, (especially if the Ruler is Saturn or the Moon).

Something that I have noticed is that these natives tend to sleep a lot when their day is going wrong, they take a lot of shelter in their room and they may prefer to stay at home in their free time. These people need to feel cared for or protected in sex. They are quite loving and touchy. They can have a daddy / mommy kink and without sweat they can have partners with whom there is an age gap. These natives are very introverted and have extensive wisdom. They are curious about themselves and always like to discover themselves a little more. They are usually emotionally independent people and many of them are self-sufficient and may have been mentalized from an early age with not needing anyone. In case the Ruler is well aspected it can indicate that the native can receive an inheritance. Many of them need to be very much in love or at least connect emotionally with someone to have sex, they do not take sex lightly and are less likely to have one night stands.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 5th👥

These natives are people who can become obsessed with their hobbies, spending too much time on them regardless of whether they ate or not. They are usually very intense when something they are passionate about / like / or catches their attention. They really like "hard to get" people and someone who is not so open. They may like bad-girls / bad-boys and something they really like is that there is a certain tension / drama / teasing in their relationships. It is very likely that these individuals have a natural attraction for supernatural, esoteric themes or things that others might define as macabre. They like witchcraft, tarot and many other things that are considered taboo. These natives tend to attract or be attracted to Scorpio placements, traits, 8th house stelliums or people with strong Pluto/Lilith. Their romances are usually intense or passionate, and many of them tend to be long-lasting, especially if the Ruler is Saturn. There is the possibility of attracting or seeking jealous, intense partners. In some cases, the native is the intense one in the relationship.

No matter how calm the person seems, inside they have a deep desire for emotionally intense experiences. They tend to like adventures, feel the adrenaline rush through their body and many that I have met exude a lot of confidence and courage. Individuals with this placement have a lot of charisma and are quite passionate. People quickly become intrigued and obsessed with them. They can be quite flirtatious and they are quite aware of their power of attraction. They are usually attracted to people with intense gaze and medium-small eyes. Wavy hair seems to appeal to many of these natives and someone who is taller than average certainly catches their eye. Maybe someone that likes dressing in black and fashionable/elegant. Despite how flirtatious they may be, I have noticed that many of them need intensity and emotional connection with the other person to have any type of relationship.

These natives like sex very much, many of them may be interested in topics such as domination, role play. Many of them tend to be very dominant in sex, but I have also noticed that they like their partner to be dominant as well (they don't let them so easily). Loyalty is everything to these natives, regardless of the type of relationship they have. If you betray them a few times, don't expect them to give you a second chance. The same applies to lies, if you ever lied to them or hid something from them, I guarantee that they will pretend you had disappeared from Earth. These people can be extreme when it comes to thinking about having a child. Either they see it as something they want to do in this life and want to be excellent and protective parents or they totally dislike the idea of ​​having children. It is very likely that they do not express their "true self" or their inner child often, however, they often use hobbies for that. They will always insert a part of their soul in what they do.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 6th👥

These people do not usually like being told what to do, they prefer to be their own boss and do things their way. These people can interact with animals when they feel bad, it can even help them calm down and increase their serotonin more than average. They may have an obsession or they may want to "always have a plan" or "have everything under control." They are prone to stress and anxiety if the ruler is badly aspected, if it is Mercury or Saturn. These natives may have a school / work colleague who is envious of them, who they distrust, or who they do not get along with. These people are very ambitious and hard-working, they take their work very seriously and it is essential that they work on something that they are passionate about. These natives often find it difficult to take breaks, they demand a lot from themselves. If the Ruler is afflicted they can become workaholics.

They can work as: Doctors, Nurses, Psychologists, Nutritionists, Psychiatrists, Teachers, Criminologists, Writers, Tarotists or Healers. For these people, the satisfaction of their partner is their satisfaction, sex with them can be addictive and become somewhat more constant than normal. No matter how calm they look, they have very high sexual needs. Individuals with this placement take their physical care really seriously and can be very supportive of the body positive. They can enjoy exercising or at least have good physical condition.Natives can have sex as a way to free themselves from their day-to-day occupations or to remove or ignore their stress. They see sex as a way to relax. There is a possibility that they have hormonal problems, for example an irregular period.

Individuals with this placement usually recover quickly from any illness they may have throughout their life. People may consider that they are people who are very demanding when it comes to choosing to be with someone, but regardless of whether it is so or not many of them naturally attract quite attractive people. Many of these individuals tend to be attracted or attract Virgo placements, traits or people with a strong Mercury. Although it may be difficult for them to admit it, they are very competitive people and will always seek for their work to obtain the recognition that they deserve. These natives recognize the value of their efforts. These people have a very special ability: to listen. I have noticed that many people can feel comfortable telling them their things, let's not forget to mention their useful and great advice.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 7th👥

Many tend to envy these natives, especially "friends" or colleagues. Their magnetism sadly also attracts very negative people. These people fear being betrayed and may have trust issues. Infidelity scares them and in fact they neither understand nor see it as logical or "understandable" regardless of the context. These people may prefer to work independently as it can be difficult for you to interact with other people. Sex is very important for these natives, however, many of them tend to prioritize other things when having a stable relationship. These natives have a very extreme idea of ​​marriage. Either they want to get married so badly and find the love of their life, or they totally dislike the idea of ​​marriage.

These people may have few relationships throughout their lives, however those they do have will be long and intense. Many people tend to be interested in these people, they can admire them from afar, or stalk them constantly. Your future husband may have a lot of money, this will obviously make the native's lifestyle improve significantly after getting married. Individuals with this placement can meet their future spouse after going through a huge inner change, after the death of someone or after taking an important decision. They can attract / be attracted to people with Scorpio traits, placements, or with a strong Lilith/Pluto. These people are like spies, they tend to know a lot about many people, even very personal things.

Many big changes await you after marriage. It is very likely that you know a lot of people who are important or who can be of help to you through your husband. It is very difficult to lie to these natives, since they have their sixth sense quite developed. They know how to read between the lines and people's words, they tend to quickly understand indirections and know who they are addressed to. Their partners (ex partners too) may get obsessed with them a lot and many can consider them memorable and irreplaceable. They are very romantic people in sex and they can make you feel that they are the person who loves you the most in the world, but of course, they hope you make them feel that way.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 8th👥

Sex with them is memorable, you will touch heaven and hell at the same time and they will make you experience and feel many things that you have never felt before. I have noticed that these natives are often afraid to reveal a lot about themselves, they tend to think that others can use the information that the natives gave against them. They are somewhat suspicious. They see sex as something very intense, necessary and transformative for them and they tend to have a high sex drive. I have noticed that many of these natives tend to like people who appear to be unreachable. People with a very unique skin color (either pale or very dark). And black hair. Low voices are a plus.

They are very intelligent people and they tend to have a lot of knowledge in many things. These people are very knowledgeable about sex, they may even give advice to their friends. These individuals can easily become obsessed with things or people. Death can be a very significant topic for them. They may have a great dread towards the idea of ​​dying (in fact I have noticed that many are interested in immortality). It is very likely that they have experienced the death of more than one person close or important to them at an early age.

These people are justicers, and many times they prefer to do justice by their own hand. They do not forget or forgive easily. They attract or are attracted to people with Scorpio placements, traits, 8th house stelliums or strong Pluto/Lilith. They are often very intrigued by esotericism and the dark side of life. They can have psychic abilities if the Ruler is well aspected. They are people who are very interested in learning and mastering such subjects to perfection. The tarot draws their attention a lot.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 9th👥

These natives are very open-minded, and you would be very surprised by the number of topics they are knowledgeable about and are not afraid to speak up. Individuals with this placement tend to think very deeply. There is a possibility that things are taken very seriously. And they will definitely get carried away by their intuition when making a decision. They love learning more about themselves through esotericism or practices like astrology. Many of these natives speak a lot about how deteriorated the educational system can be, and I have seen in some cases that the native may decide not to pursue any university degree.

They may have a great desire to travel the world and meet very different people. The idea of ​​getting to know other cultures fascinates them to intense levels. These natives can experience something quite significant when they are in school. It is very difficult to make them change their minds, they are willing to debate with everything so that the one who changes their opinion is you. This native can have constant crushes towards teachers or people older than them who are very intelligent. They may have a tendency to obsess over foreign celebrities or projects. In general, you will always see them very interested in exploring the dark side of life, experiencing unforgettable adventures, entering the world of astrology, tarot or witchcraft.

They may be sexually attracted to foreigners, people very different from themselves. Physically people with sun-kissed, olive or beige skin catch their attention. They have a very acid, dark, ironic and sarcastic sense of humor. They are not easily offended. These people are introverts and are often very in touch with their emotions. If the Rules is well placed, the native will have a balance between reason and heart. These natives take their beliefs and religion (if they have one) very seriously. Many of them hold fast to their ideals. Sex with them will never be boring, they are very fond of experimenting and may like to include games or toys in sex.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 10th👥

They are quite ambitious people and in their work they can have some important position. It is worth mentioning that due to their work they can be highly respected and admired. People often think that they are very mysterious people. Many tend to add that the natives are not known because they are limited to giving a merely professional image instead of a personal one. These natives have a lot of magnetism and can easily attract people's attention. They have excellent power of persuasion and their oratorical skills are admirable. Possible jobs for these natives are: Tarotists, Psychologists, Psychiatrists, Doctors, Politicians, Paleontologists, Therapists, Musicians, Notaries or Economists.

It is very likely that these natives make a lot of money thanks to their work, their ambition and their work ethic is so excellent that it can propel them directly to success. They may have a difficult relationship with authority figures or even with their father. Many know them for their sharp intellect. People may have a lot of admiration for them, or they may feel slightly intimidated by them. If the Ruler is well aspected his life can change drastically and favorably after finding a stable job. They are sexually attracted to people they consider strong, maybe people that have been through a lot, outstanding, with an age gap and powerful. Even by people who play hard to get. These natives are usually easily remembered, they have a "something" that makes them irreplaceable and unforgettable.

Individuals with this placement prefer to keep their aspirations and plans secret, they are excellent strategists and they are quite perseverant. These people tend to feel sexually attracted to people older than them or with whom they have an age gap. Domination and daddy / mommy kink is very common with this placement.They prefer to work on their own or have a leadership position, it can be difficult for them to trust other of their coworkers or, in some cases, their bosses. If the Ruler is well placed, the native can have a lot of support of other when it comes to their work. The Ruler can tell us what kind of people, if it is the Moon, a woman or a member of their families. If it is the Sun, some man, the couple or the father. Mercury, siblings, cousins ​​or close friends. Many may see the native as domineering, stubborn, fearless and very self-confident.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 11th👥

They are very stubborn people and it is very difficult to make them change their minds. It is worth mentioning that they know how to accept the opinions of others very well. These people may find it difficult to fit into a group of people and may feel very lonely and somewhat misunderstood. Individuals with this placement have a very curious soul, they like to get to the bottom of things and have a detective mentality. They can spend a lot of their time on the internet, they can even be addicted to it and feel that they cannot be without seeing their social networks as many times a day. These people are very attracted to topics such as psychology, crime, the supernatural, the esoteric or sex.

They often have difficulty with "friends." They can attract many toxic, negative or obsessive friends throughout their life. If the Ruler is badly aspected, their "friends" may become obsessed with them. They tend to like books, series or movies of the genre of: horror, suspense, criminalist, drama or science fiction. They tend to trap others with their unique, independent and rebellious attitude. People are usually very attracted to them and it is very likely that they have a lot of followers. These natives are quite selective with their friends and do it with difficulty. They value meaningful ties.Individuals with this placement can attract por have friends with Scorpio traits, placements, 8th house stelliums or a strong Pluto/Lilith.

They may be attracted to some friends, or their friends may end up being very attracted to them. People with this placement are very likely to enjoy having existential conversations with friends. They may have friends behind their back who speak ill of them, envy them or want to be like them somehow. They can meet many significant people through the internet, and their lives can change after meeting them. These individuals often talk to themselves.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 12th👥

This is without a doubt the most secretive placement. These people are excellent at keeping secrets, especially theirs, which is precisely why many tend to tell their things to them, due to the great respect they have for privacy. These natives can have constant nightmares, and I know of many who suffer from sleep paralysis who have this placement. They usually hide their dark side at all costs. They are people who avoid being aggressive or violent. They don't like people to see them as unfriendly people. They tend to know a lot about what is going to happen through their dreams, whether the Ruler aspects the Moon or Neptune, the native may be able to see the past or the future.

These people can take refuge in music a lot, especially when their day is not going well. Sex with them is addictive and they often get lost in their partner. These natives need an intense connection with the other person in order to enjoy themselves. They are much more sexual than they appear. Sex with them can take you deep. There may be a desire (repressed or not) to possess or be possessed by their partners. These natives are the typical ones who decide to take a nap when they don't feel good emotionally. They may also like to swim or put on their headphones and listen to some music while looking at the ceiling. These people are introverts and are immersed in their own world, they have a tendency to daydreaming.

These people can have frequent nightmares, and I know several who have this location and suffer from sleep paralysis. They are spiritual individuals who take their beliefs seriously. They will not hesitate to confront you in a dispute if you disrespect something they care about. Individuals with this placement may seek solace in sex to alleviate their unhappiness or anger. These individuals, on the other hand, detest looking or being regarded as weak or fragile, and they generally mask much of who they are, what they truly desire, and what they think.

[astroismypassion]

You got this ruler of the 8th in the 4th down to a T! Woow so good really❤️❤️

[capquarius04-deactivated2023060]

Definitely LoL 😂 8th house ruler in 12th🙂..I like music so much and the respect for privacy is on point..I never play with secrets even of my enemies LoL..Thank you so much such a great post!! We need your type of astrologers!!❣️

[saturnianneptune-deactivated202]

Ruler of the 7th in the houses

Hello my charming readers! I was thinking about making some post of the rulers of the houses in the houses since many of you are asking about them, I hope that you enjoy this!🧡🐣🧡

Ruler of the 7th in the 1st house:

💘Individuals with this need their partner to be similar to them in some way, and they tend to attract and be attracted to people who act like them.

💘They have a natural diplomacy and are able to say the right thing at the right time. 

💘These people are very romantic and detailed with their partner. Their partner plays / will play a very important role in their lives.

💘They are people who usually care a lot about what others think of them, they also have a natural aura that makes them attractive and wonderful in the eyes of other people.

💘They are very likely to increase the confidence of their partners. 

💘Their marriage is meant to be passionate, dynamic, funny and full of self discoverement.

💘These native are very likely to like people that knows how to take the lead of the relationship.

💘Tendency to like or attract people that has been through a lot of difficult situations.

💘They tend to evaluate and describe themselves based on what others say about them, other people’s opinion may matter to them a lot.

💘In their synastry or composite Mars can be heavily aspected or their Mars may be aspecting each other.

💘They can be attracted to Aries/1st house placements.

💘May meet their future spouse in a place that they frequent a lot. 

💘The other is likely to be the one that takes the first step.

💘Independant, bossy and sassy people are their type.

💘The future spouse is very likely to be physically strong.

💘They can have a lot of support from partners or other people in general (especially if the planet involved is well aspected). 

Ruler of the 7th in the 2nd house

💝This placement promises a stable, constant and long lasting marriage.

💝They may spend a lot of money in the wedding, it would be really luxurious.

💝These individuals are sensuous, coquettish and romantic, they enjoy wearing stylish and elegant clothes. If they like make up, they may be incredible at it.

💝Their future spouse will be very giving and may pamper them a lot with gifts.Also, their future spouse may adore hugging them from behind and any physical touch in general. 

💝Quality time and giving and receiving gifts are their love languages.

💝They take the idea of marriage seriously and may be too demanding in the eyes of other people.

💝In their synastry or composite Venus can be heavily aspected or their Venuses may be aspecting each other.

💝 Hardworking, attractive, detailed and romantic people are their type. Voice is also a major attractive quality for them.

💝The future spouse is very likely to have a lot of money, and will take the role of the provider in the relationship.

💝The family of their special person can play a huge role in the live of the 

💝These natives are jealous and kinda possessive with their partners, and also they tend to attract jealous partners.

💝Individuals with this may receive a lot of economical support from friends, coworkers and of course the future spouse.

💝They can be really private at first and quite distrustful when interacting with others. However, the bonds that they make with others are enduring.

💝Natives with this may be attracted to Taurus/2nd house placements.

💝They may meet their future spouse in a bank, while working or while walking on a park.

Ruler of the 7th in the 3rd

🧡These people are really sociable and they can fit perfectly with many different types of people. Sense of brotherhood with friends and coworkers.

🧡They are either very close with their sibling por very distant with them.

🧡 These people feel attracted to people that think the same way than them, intellectual connection is a plus.

🧡They are better holding conversations in one-to-one instead of talking with multiple people at the same time.

🧡These natives get annoyed when their partners interrupt them while talking.

🧡 May have many short trips with their future spouse.

🧡Intelligent, witty, talkative, creative and expressive people are their types.

🧡These natives are very likely to marry multiple times if the ruler is afflicted por bad aspected.

🧡 May be attracted to Gemini/3rd house placements.

🧡 May meet their future spouse thanks to a sibling, cousin or neighbor.

🧡In their synastry or composite Mercury can be heavily aspected or their Mercuries may be aspecting each other.

🧡Individuals with this are going to adore spending the whole day with their future spouse and they are both likely to be inseparable.

🧡You can be perceived as a social butterfly or someone that easily connects with people.

🧡 Also I have noticed that people with these tend to be the types that strangers go and talk to randomly. They are the type to smile at a stranger and the stranger smile back at them.

🧡They like that the people with whom they interact have their own opinions and, deep down, they may like to argue with their partners (especially if the ruler is Mars).

Ruler of the 7th in the 4th

💗These natives are really caring, protective and constant in their relationships of any kind, they take it very seriously and do their best to keep their relationships as wonderful as the first day. However, these people can have a hard time trusting others and may be introverted.

💗Their future spouse is very likely to have a strong bond with their family and may get along easily with the native’s family. Their spouse is likely to be more family oriented than career oriented.

💗May be attracted to people that are maternal, caring, protective and tender with them.

💗Their spouse is very likely to be from their natal country. And they may marry in their origin country/city.

💗In their synastry or composite Moons can be heavily aspected or their Moons may be aspecting each other.

💗People with this may be attracted to Cancer/4th house placements.

💗The spouse is likely to baby them and emotionally pamper them a lot. Is also very likely that they get clingy with their partner.

💗If the Ruler is afflicted it may indicate that the native needs the approvement of their parents or their family in general regarding to their partners.

💗 They may prefer marrying their partner after knowing their partner for a long time.

💗Their future spouse is very likely to be guided by their heart, to be private and reserved with their lives.

💗It is very common to see that people with this placement seek a partner that fills the emotional voids that they could feel in their childhood.

💗 If the Ruler is Jupiter, Moon, Mercury or Mars they may meet their future spouse after moving from home.

💗These natives are likely to be more restless or anxious/nervous than their future spouse. Their spouses are likely to be more grounded and stable.

💗I have noticed that they love staring at their partners for a long period of time.

Ruler of the 7th in the 5th

💖They tend to be really coquettish, loving and romantic in their relationships. They can marry someone not only because they love them, but because they can bring their playful and funny side out with them.

💖This placement promises the native a beautiful, warm, loving and lucky marriage.

💖They tend to show off their partners a lot and of course, these natives need to be shown off by their partners too in order to feel loved. 

💖In their synastry or composite Sun can be heavily aspected or their Suns may be aspecting each other.

💖Having the same interest and hobbies with other people (and of course their partners) is a huge plus to these people. 

💖Their future spouse is very likely to be confident, charming, funny and playful. They can practice a sport por work out constantly.

💖They are into creative, expressive, noble and generous partners. They hate being in a relationship with someone that has a difficult time expressing their feelings.

💖 Sense of humor, beautiful smiles and dazzling hair are some things that these people find attractive in others.

💖They are show offs when they are in front of the person they like, they can become the most sassy, talented and confident if their special one is close.

💖The future spouse is very likely to be perceived younger than they really are. And also, they are likely to give the first step.

💖In order to feel attracted to someone, they need to feel admiration towards them first, they have to make sure that they can be proud of the person.

💖These people are well recognized and may find it easy to have the respect of many people. Some could even be intimidated by them. Another point that is important to mention is how big is their sex appeal.

💖May be attracted to Leo placements/traits or 5th house placements.

💖They play hard to get, and may adore the idea of teasing their partner, deep down, they are in love with love.

Ruler of the 7th in the 6th

💚This placement promises you stability, support, devotion, wellbeing and improvement.

💚People with this placement are likely to be envied by coworkers. However, they can be really admired because of how hardworking they are.

💚Their future spouse is likely to make the proposal after some time and after planning it in detail. If the Ruler is Venus por if the Ruler is aspecting Venus is very likely to be something really romantic.

💚You may meet your future spouse at the gym, at work por when you start taking care of your wellbeing. 

💚They may be attracted by Virgo/6th house placements/traits.

💚You both will be willing to sacrifice whatever in order to help the other, here it’s really visible a devoted, caring and special bond.

💚Hardworking, empathic, stable, interesting, smart and secretive persons are usually their type.

💚Your future spouse is very likely to love spending time with you, talking about whatever subject no matter how “complicated” it can be. And besides having a loyal spouse, you can be completely sure that they will be also your stable company.

💚In their synastry or composite Mercury can be heavily aspected or their Mercuries may be aspecting each other.

💚They are incredible at listening you and they would love the fact of you two being confidents, partners, friends and every word that is synonym of union.

💚Very likely to start a business, a project or making reality a goal that you had after marrying.

💚This makes the person someone that is okay with working in team, they can easily respect others point of view and they are really professional in it.

Ruler of the 7th in the 7th 

💞The native’s marriage is very likely to be long lasting and wonderful (especially if the planet is well aspected).

💞Hopeless romantic: The native may have many relationships in the course of their lives. They are quite attractive people to others and it is very likely that they are very flirtatious.

💞Their spouse can be really calm, diplomatic, charming and have Libra traits.

💞Teamwork can benefit them greatly, and it is very likely that they will receive a lot of help from a large number of people, not just couples, but also partners and co-workers.

💞No matter how independent the native is, once they are in a relationship, their partner will be everything to them. 

💞They tend to charm other people easily, this placement makes them very likely to be recognized, loved and admired by many. They tend to get along with people easily.

💞They have to be very cautious and keep their feet on the ground, as there is a risk of becoming dependent on their partner or attracting dependent people into their life.

💞May meet their future spouse in a party, most likely a wedding. 

💞Also, they could meet their future spouse thanks to a coworker.

💞In their synastry or composite Venus can be heavily aspected or their Venuses may be aspecting each other.

💞May be attracted to Libra placements or 7th house placements.

💞They are the type of person that is always talking about their partners.

💞If the Ruler is the Sun, Mars, Pluto, Jupiter or maybe Uranus you can feel more attracted to people that make the first step or dominant people.

💞If the Rules is Moon, Venus, Mercury or Neptune you are more attracted to sweet, sensible people and you may like to take the lead in the relationship.

💞You can see these natives always in a relationship and/or interesting future spouse readings (lmao).

Ruler of the 7th in the 8th 

🖤These natives are magnetic, appealing, and reserved with their private life. Others may feel drawn to them because of their enigmatic and mysterious aura. 

🖤They may have trust issues and may find it hard to work with others. They can sense the energy, vibes and true intentions of others. 

🖤Their future spouse is likely to be jealous and the natives can be jealous with them too.

🖤Their marriage will change them and their partners life a lot. This often indicates being a powerful, loyal and deeply connected couple.

🖤Their partners may get obsessed with them a lot and many can consider them memorable and irreplaceable

🖤These native can have intense relationships over the course of their life, chances are good that their relationships have been filled with jealousy, intensity, and a lot of transformation for them.

🖤Their future spouse will be passionate, strong, secretive, someone they can rely on and really devoted to the relationship.

🖤You can meet your future spouse after going through a huge inner change, after the death of someone or after having an intense experience.

🖤You may be attracted to Scorpio placements/traits or people with 8th house placements.

🖤They are very likely to have few relationships, however, the ones they have are really intense and passionate.

🖤The ones that I have known personally tend to fall for people that have been through a lot and that has not so much luck in love.

🖤Your future spouse may help you accepting your darker side and also being/feeling comfortable with it.

🖤Your partner is very likely to have a lot of money, and your wealth (obviously) may increase after marrying this person.

🖤Natives with this may have many karmic relationships (remember, they aren’t all bad)

Ruler of the 7th in the 9th 

💓These people tend to have a lot of support from people who are mostly older than them. They tend to please many for their friendly, outgoing and fair attitude.

💓You may travel a lot with your future spouse and may have either wedding or honeymoon in a place that you both don’t know/haven’t visit.

💓 Their future spouse can be older than them, yet maintaining a jovial and youthful appearance.

💓You may marry a foreigner, someone with difference of beliefs, someone from another city than you or someone that likes to travel a lot.

💓Your future spouse is very likely to be like a teacher to you. You may learn a lot from him and they may love having long and deep talks with you.

💓You may be attracted to Sagittarius placements/traits or people with 9th house placements.

💓These natives tend to be attracted to foreigner, smiley, outgoing and intelligent people. Sense of humor can be really important to them.

💓This placement is really favorable if you want to work in something related to public relationship or just interacting with people of other cultures. They can see you as someone friendly with whom they want to talk constantly.

💓You may meet your future spouse while traveling, in college, on an airport or when renewing the necessary documents to travel.

💓Optimistic, philosophical, deep and interesting people attract the attention of them.

💓Individuals have a natural charm and ability to being seem positively by all kind of people regardless of the differences they may have.

💓You may feel luckier and fulfilled after getting married.

💓They have to take care since there is a tendency to marry hastily or suddenly.

Ruler of the 7th in the 10th 

🤎They are very perfectionist people in their relationships, and it is very likely that they have an ideal type, on many occasions they look for someone who meets those expectations.

🤎Your future husband can be a very powerful person, both socially and economically.

🤎You may meet your future spouse after having a promotion, after getting a job, in your work, or after having stability in many fields of your life.

🤎The future spouse is very likely to be older than you.

🤎They can be people who are highly admired and respected by many. Your job will involve a bit of public relations, diplomacy will help them succeed.

🤎They may not have many relationships, but the ones they do have will last.

🤎You may be attracted to Capricorn placements/traits or people with 10th house placements.

🤎Their spouse is very likely to advice them in things related to their career, since they have a lot of experience.

🤎You may be attracted to people who are hard-working, professional, independent and who impose a certain authority. Competent, ambitious and reputable people.

🤎Your future spouse may teach you many things in live, you are definitely going to admire them. There is a sense of responsability and protection in this connection.

🤎You are very likely to have a long lasting, wonderful and loyal marriage with someone that is going to their best to make you feel like nothing lacks you.

🤎Many people agree that it is difficult to know them in depth, since they only show their professional side and what they want to show.

Ruler of the 7th in the 11th 

💙People often describe these individuals as nice and friendly people but a bit weird as well.

💙They tend to captivate others by their way of thinking and acting. They should be careful as although they may attract many admirers, many may want to copy them.

💙These natives may make friendships with coworkers and may have business or projects with friends.

💙Your spouse and you are going to feel that you have finally found someone that gets the other perfectly, and you will feel free to show your real selves.

💙 What interests them most in a couple is a friendship that is given and received.

💙If the Ruler is bad aspected it can lead to marrying multiple times.

💙You may be attracted to Aquarius placements/traits or people with 11th house placements.

💙You can meet your future spouse through the internet, through a friend or acquaintance or in a place full of people.

💙Independent, unique, innovative, creative and eccentric people often catch your eye.

💙It is very likely that their friends fell in love with them or the natives could even like some friends romantically.

💙Marriage will be something that will change their lives completely and it is very likely that it will not become routine over time.

💙Your future spouse can be a very particular, liberal, friendly, cunning and altruistic person. They will always be ready to help people.

💙It is very likely that after you get married you will experience things that you have never tried before. Your future spouse will help you make many of your dreams come true.

Ruler of the 7th in the 12th

💕They are people that others hardly get to know. It is very likely that many have very different opinions of this person.

💕This placement tells us about a very beautiful marriage, where there will be a lot of devotion, affection and support. Both people will accept the other as they are and will encourage them to fulfill their dreams.

💕You may be attracted to Pisces placements/traits or people with 12th house placements.

💕They are often attracted to artistic, sensitive, empathetic, mysterious, and compassionate people.

💕These natives have to learn to follow their intuition as they can attract many “friends” who may want to betray them or take advantage of them in some way.

💕Their future spouse will be someone very in touch with their emotions with a tendency to hide a lot who they really are. Chances are they’ve been through a lot when it comes to love.

💕You can meet your future spouse in a place that has water, maybe in the beach, near a fountain, while travelling overseas.

💕These people would prefer to work alone and can be somewhat introverted.

💕They are very romantic people and they love in a truly beautiful way, they are usually idealists and their love is difficult to forget due to how sweet they are.

💕Your future spouse will feel that you are their muse, there will be a lot of mutual inspiration and romanticism and happy little details are likely to abound.

💕There is a desire (either on the native or in their spouse) to “fix” or “to save” the other. There can be an intense devotion in the relationship and they can both get lost in the other.

💕They are very private people with their romantic life and, unless they are very much in love, they will constantly talk about their partner.

💕The future spouse will be a very sensitive, helpful, dreamy, protective and very expressive person.

[astroismypassion]

I’m kind of mix of the ruler in the 5th and 7th haha.

[sophie-baek]

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Your Jupiter falling in their houses

🟤In 1st house: You brighten the day of your partner immediately, your simple presence radiates a lot of joy and energy for you. They perceive you as a person with whom life is better, more positive, more interesting and much more valuable. You fill them with life and happiness, you make them think that you are a great and worthwhile person, someone they really enjoy hanging out with. You are someone whom they deeply admire and appreciate, from the beginning they were able to like you. Without realizing it you are able to motivate them, to make them feel better, no matter how bad their day has gone, they will love having you by their side. You are like their lucky charm, they feel more powerful, more confident with your presence. You make them want to be the best version of themselves and they may have a slight tendency to idealize you. They see you as a very enthusiastic person, someone they trust, have fun with, and someone they really feel that values ​​them. You are able to see a side that they don't show with just anyone, and this is because you really make them feel very comfortable. It may be that from the beginning they treated each other in a very friendly way, and that the relationship would flow quickly and harmoniously.

🟤In 2nd house: You make the person feel that they have everything, that they lack nothing. You give them a security and stability that they have never been able to feel with another person. They feel more generous when they are with them and can show their appreciation through details and gifts. You attract abundance to the life of this person, and not only in the economic sector, but also spiritual and emotional abundance. You are a person who makes them reconsider their moral values. They see you as a great and amazing person, you play a very essential role in developing their self-acceptance and you increase their self-esteem without even meaning to. You'll help them find a way to ground themselves, they might take things seriously a little more often when you spend time with them. Not only do you give them a more focused vision of what to do with their lives, but you can also help them find a balance and not take things so seriously, just what is necessary. They can work together very effectively, plus they will be very inspired by you, your vision of life and your dreams. You can help them materialize their dreams and their happiness. In some way, you will motivate them to be a better person and someone more noble.

🟤In 3rd house: Communication with you flows in a way that had never flowed with another person, you expand their mind and teach them new things, concepts, stories, anecdotes and sensations. There was a very warm beginning in their relationship, and there is and will be in that a sense of friendship and trust to talk about any topic. You are their adviser and they consider you the only person with whom they can be totally transparent about their ideas, they feel accepted by you. You can notice that the smiles and laughter are contagious to each other. You give humor and light to their day to day, you get them out of the routine, you give them unique and memorable experiences. They used to see life with gray tones, and even without much hope, but your entry into their life makes them see things much more positively, you add optimism to their vision of their surroundings. When they feel bad, you will always manage to make them feel better and you have the facility to encourage them. You have a facility to solve any problem that arises, they listen carefully, advise each other and look for solutions since it is a relationship that they do not want to ruin by a meaningless fight. They have an enormous mental and spiritual connection.

🟤In 4th house: From the beginning they will feel a sense of familiarity with you, you will be able to evoke in them all kinds of feelings, especially those that are deep and pure. They will feel like a little child when they are by your side, you give them peace, joy and a lot of satisfaction. They feel and know that they connect with you in such a beautiful way that it seems not to be true. They always remember you and will remember you with a smile on their face. Your words and teachings, or simply the memories with you are something that will stay with them for a long time. They will become close quite quickly, from the beginning you will feel that this is a connection that will mark them and that it will mean a lot to them. Even without them realizing it, you will already be someone very special to them. They can be more emotionally open with you, because they feel that you perfectly understand their emotions, they feel that you are someone attentive and careful of the way they feel, they will see you as someone protective. You can help them understand those emotions that they thought were complex. You will make them see the best of themselves and they will feel more positive emotions when you are around. There will be a lot of love from them to you.

🟤In 5th house: You make them feel more confident, more flirtatious and more entertaining, they see in you a fun, cheerful and very attractive partner. There is a lot of attraction between the two, a lot of motivation and even inspiration. They see in you a person they admire, to put on a pedestal and one of the most appealing people they have ever met. They can be flirty very fast with you, the atmosphere between you is playful and enjoyable, you make them feel satisfaction of all kinds and they just fascinate you. They see you as charismatic, talented and someone they love to introduce to others. You remind them of that spark they have to maintain to fully enjoy all the pleasures of life, you fill them with energy and desire to live life. With you they feel that they can fully express themselves, they feel that they can be genuine because you inspire them to do so. You are their inspiration, and no matter how serious they are, you will bring out their most expressive and euphoric side. You are a person with whom they either want to have children, or someone who reconnects them with their inner child. You could turn them on easily. The love and affection they feel for you will be very evident to everyone, including you.

🟤In 6th house: You give them unique and unconditional support, they see in you the perfect partner in crime, and they know that you will help them as much as they will. There is a lot of loyalty and devotion on their part towards you, because they respect you very much, admire you and adore your presence in their day to day life. You make their life more joyful, you don't make it routine and you are always able to help them see the best side of what surrounds them. You make them feel strong, vital and full of energy, you are their motivation to leave the job done, because they feel and want to make you feel proud of them. You expand their mind and make them believe that miracles exist, because you have already become the greatest epitome of it, they see you as a very fair person, with admirable values ​​and a heart of gold. They are touched by your empathetic nature, by your ability to understand things beyond the simple, and by your sympathy with other people. You make them feel protected and comfortable, because they feel that you understand perfectly what they want and need, the best thing, that you give it to them without realizing it. It seems tender to them to see how you care about their well-being and to see that it is reciprocal.

🟤In 7th house: They see you as a very radiant person, someone loving with whom they would have a stable relationship. They perceive a lot of charisma from you and that you really know how to commit when the moment requires it. You give them a sense of stability and balance, they admire you for treating people in a way that they see as charming. You are a very independent and capable person from their point of view, you provoke in them the most romantic feelings and the most attentive and protective nature. This overlay guarantees a long-term relationship of any kind. You make them see love with better eyes, you make them think that the dreams or ideals they have regarding love can come true. They love being with you, since you help them get the best of themselves with other people. They dislike meeting new people? Soon you will see them being kinder and nicer to others. You inspire them to give their best in connections such as friendship or family. They love your company, because they see in you a partner who teaches them a lot, who does not bore them and who makes them feel fulfilled. They may want things to get more serious between you somewhat soon in your point of view. 

🟤In 8th house: You will cause in them a combination of emotions so intense, fast and lasting that they will not understand them at first. You will be their favorite mystery and from the beginning they will feel very intrigued by you, by what you hide, by what you feel and think and even by what you provoke in them. There is a high degree of attraction between you, they can have a fixation on you, there is something in you that prevents them from taking their eyes off you, they cannot think of anything other than you. You will help them connect with those sides of themselves that they repress or don't show to others. They will feel a lot of trust with you, they will have a lot of loyalty to you and they will always take you into consideration to make an important decision. You will be one of the things that makes them have a great change internally, people can notice that this person will change or has changed a lot since they met you. There will be a great level of intimacy between you that will seem unreal, you will know everything about each other, even what you are not very proud of. You will make them feel powerful and capable of everything, you can even help them overcome a blockage. 

🟤In 9th house: Inspiration will come to them quickly as soon as they see you walk into the room, you will be the most radiant person they have ever met and they will see you as someone albeit funny, a person who is very intelligent and capable. There is a high degree of admiration in this relationship and they feel a great intellectual, spiritual and lighthearted connection with you. They will see in you someone with a lot of potential, both on their own and someone with whom they have the possibility of having something lasting, beautiful and almost magical. You become someone who brings them a lot of luck, someone who always enlightens them, who makes them realize things that went unnoticed. "You are my lucky charm." They see you as a charismatic person, who provokes in them the most intense and beautiful euphoria. You will be their main reason for smiles and thinking of you will make them feel good at first. You are someone with whom they feel they can share their most complex points of view, someone who resonates with them in a unique way. You make any topic, no matter how crude, sound interesting to them, just because you're the one talking about it. You will give them the most important lessons of their life.

🟤In 10th house: Somehow you make them want to go far, you are that dose of motivation they need. They feel that you are on a higher level, either to others, or even to themselves, which makes them only want to show you the best of themselves. They consider that you are the only person who has been able to see their potential, a person who supports them and believes in them and in return they want to give you their unconditional support. They will be very attracted to you, your knowledge and even your looks, which leave them speechless and stunned, there is something in your appearance that seems radiant to them. You make them want to be in control of the situation so you don't have to worry about a thing. You make them see things with better perspectives, you help them not to be so negative, and in return they give you a certain dose of realism and advice to make your dreams come true. They seem to be very opposite, but that is what unites them and augurs a lot of stability and harmony for them. Many people may think that both are good for the other, they may be delighted by the relationship, not as much as the house person that knows that both are powerful, valuable and can achieve many things together.

🟤In 11th house: You give them new concepts and ideas, you inspire them to believe that they are capable of achieving everything they want and you are a person they love to be with, because with you every day seems to be something unique. There is a lot of attraction on their part to your mind, your personality and the way you see things. Thanks to you they can make great friendships and connect in unique ways with people. They are friends and lovers, in fact, they are the closest company they have and they love that they can go crazy with each other, that you accept them as they are and they will always let you know that they love, admire and find funny that authentic and controversial side of you. Both are fascinated by this rebellious side of the other, you tease them and that is something that they love, you are a mental challenge for them, the most valuable challenge they will ever have. They see you as a very social person or someone who easily charms other people, there is a deep appreciation of them towards you. You give them back that hope that they had given up long ago, you make them want to believe in the potential of things. You have many similar hobbies, views, and aspirations.

🟤In 12th house: There is a strong unconscious bond between you, merely emotional and spiritual, you don't understand it very well but you can't help but have this feeling of happiness, inspiration, satisfaction and happiness every time your eyes meet. You do them such great good that they don't know what words to use to let you know. You fill the gaps that they may have, and they yours, you push them and motivate them to heal, you are someone who does them so much good that they fear losing. They can dream a lot about you, or you simply give them the feeling of being a dream that came true, your presence ignites a spark in them, they cannot believe that a person as bright and kind as you can exist. They feel like sharing everything with you, only with you. They have the trust to show that side or those wounds of which they are not so proud. They feel that they cannot keep any secrets from you, because they know perfectly well that you sense their feelings, and you know that they do too. Many times they feel vulnerable or exposed with you, but they trust you so much that they perceive this feeling as security and as a way for them to get to know each other. They’ll be curious to know all the feelings you feel and understand why.

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hi beautiful 💞💐

I just found your blog and it's soo lovely!

would you please say what's sun in 5th and moon in the 4th overlay synastry culture?

thank you 🌱🌱

HI<3 💐

Thanks for your words

Sun in 5th House Synastry Culture

💐The sun person sees the house person as flawless. 💐The sun person perceives the house person as funny and effortlessly confident. 💐Both like to laugh and do fun activities together.

💐Both parties are romantics.

💐 This may not take long term, but it is definitely essential for both.

💐 The Sun person loves the house person's attitude towards life.

💐 The sun person admires the house person too much.

💐 The house person feels understood and loves to spend time with the sun person.

💐 When both are together, you can feel like the energy.

💐 They laugh a lot together.

💐 People see that they are into each other; they cannot hide it.

💐 There is a mix of freedom and loyalty. If they want to explore other relationships, cheating will not take place.

💐 The sun person needs to be careful of ignoring the house person's flaws. Nobody is perfect.

💐 This synastry gives playful vibes like two little kids playing in the garden.

💐 Honesty is present between them.

💐 The house person wants to befriend the sun person right away. It's a fast connection.

💐 Friends to lovers, some can be friends with benefits, though.

💐 If they are only friends, people ship them together.

💐 The Sun person may feel like the house person completes them. The house person would teach self-love or appreciation.

💐 Physical touch as a love language, sincere smiles, "hey :)" "hey:)," lots of eye contact while talking, many compliments (sincere ones), Other people feel jealousy, random comments about their dates, touching arms, faces, and hands, sparkling eyes, art dates and nature dates (Idk), protective pair.

Moon in the 4th house synastry culture

💜 Love at first sight; it could feel like instant love, but you don't know why.

💜 The moon person would see the house person as a safe place.

💜 The relationships could bring many unhealed wounds from home or parents' relationships.

💜In friendships, the moon person would take the role of the mother, and depending on the development of the house person, they can be a counterpart or a child equivalent.

💜 The moon person wants to protect and guide the house person.

💜The house person could feel anxious about the moon person's behaviors, but this could happen for unhealed mommy issues and many troubled placements and aspects.

💜 Intuition is so high and strong in this synastry. Many unspoken conversations with their eyes and touches.

💜 They could cry a lot together.

💜 Emotions are accepted and easy to express in this connection.

💜 As friends, they are the definition of friends forever. GOALS

💜 The same as a mother, they can build you or destroy you.

💜 The moon person shares characteristics with the house person's mother.

💜 A very romantic pair in platonic or romantic relationships.

💜 This connection feels like a soulmate connection.

💜 This synastry hints at long-lasting marriage, even as a healing connection.

💜 This connection is probably romantic and soothing, but their exceptions depend on past traumas with the mother and home figure.

💜 Communication is necessary.

💜 Just be careful of being blind to the other person's faults.

💜 Soft touches, hair playing, "hey I-" *crying noises- "come here, I´m here," Knowing what to say in the right moment, sweet looks?, small hands, secret codes, expressing love constantly, "don't listen to them, you are cool," messaging almost all the time, but also respecting each other space, coordinated movements, spending time is the goal, talking about serious issues or traumas, cuddles, and coffee dates, Netflix without the chill (they like to see movies), talking about random thoughts, feeling each other vibes, knowing the other mood without speaking a word.

Take care <3

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Wealth & luck indicators :

Astrology Observations Part - 4:

Combination of the following aspects :

Venus conjunct part of fortune / Venus - Part of fortune (0 degree) : this aspect is all about luck. Luck can manifest itself as a comfortable life. That includes health, wealth and love. Especially if ur Venus is in an earth sign.

Vertex in the 8th house : this aspect means... Inheritance. U will inherit the money that is intended to be urs.. one way or another.

Part of fortune in the 11th house : 11th house doesn't only mean - friends, social circle or freedom.. it also means - wealth, material gain and profit. This aspect particularly means that the universe supports u.. it has ur back. And that u r one of god's favourite children.

Venus in the 2nd house : natals with this aspect get luxury and comfort in ease.

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Reasons Why Water House Synastry Is Karmic and Intense:

In this post, I want to address some reasons why water house (4th, 8th, and 12th) synastry can be very intense, very transformational and why it creates/increases codependency.

(the basis of this thread is the fact that there is attraction and desire within the romantic connection, and the depth of feeling will run more true if you share multiple other intense synastry aspects/past life connections. Friendships/family relations that have heavy 8th/12th house synastry overlays manifest *very* differently)

Each water house has one common factor, and that's with these type of synastry overlays; you will feel seen or accepted. In some way, some form, the severity of it depends (as usual), but

if you struggle with:

4TH House:

Showing your true character to others without the fear of being judged.

Sharing your inner thoughts to others with ease and safeness.

The fact that you never felt/had a safe home, so now you long for that feeling (of being at ease/comfortable with someones presence).

Feeling ease and comfortability within your environment or within yourself, instead you experienced that those feelings came at a cost.

Feeling secure when you're meeting others/being open to others.

Stating your inner thoughts or feelings outwardly and confidently.

Trusting others.

8TH House: If you struggle with:

Self acceptance.

Self worth.

Self love.

Self confidence.

Accepting/receiving love.

Having low respect for yourself (meaning how others treat you may be hurtful but because of lack of validation within, you allow or accept that behavior).

Having a pattern where the way others treat you either gives or takes away validation your inner wounds need.

Deeply craving emotional closeness yet fearing it at the same time.

Allowing yourself to desire love.

The fact you're emotionally unavailable; so you're unsure with how to deal with romance, and yet a part of you still deeply desires a partner.

These also may resonate if you have 8H Placements, Pluto aspecting inner planets/Scorpio placements.

12TH House: If you struggle with:

Emotionally availability/allowing someone to see you, all of you.

Receiving tangible, stable, harmonious, love.

Having a habit to/find it easier to fix or save someone in hopes of changing their self destructive habits or mental health issues. This type of tendency creates an avoidance within yourself especially if you don't focus on your own needs or problems. (it's easier to focus on someone else's pain rather than your own)

Feeling safe with the idea of not being needed, instead you choose to be the giver or other woman since it subconsciously keeps you at a distance of being openly loved (which is something you subconsciously fear)

Holding the deep desire to feel seen past the physical 3D.

Allowing yourself to receive the type of love you're able to give/shower another.

Wanting to fix or heal someone's mental health wounds or problems, you find it safer to be their savior rather than have a true give and take partnership.

(These also may resonate if you have 12H, Neptune aspecting inner planets/Pisces placements)

These are a few examples of how intense these synastry overlays may manifest if you are struggling with the above statements. I briefly mentioned a few indicators, needless to say they are more and each synastry chart or even natal chart will always paint the picture better of how deep these relationships can manifest.

then 4th, 8th, and 12th house synastry will cause internal shift within, whether you want it to or not.

4th House: With the 4th house and when someone walks into your life and they ignite your IC, the part of your character that you readily hide becomes unlocked. If you personally have struggled with being comfortable in your skin, or have struggled with feeling secure with who you are as you are, then this person to you will feel like a comfort blanket. Their presence will shift you into a mood where all you feel is safe, present, and in the moment. With them, you will feel complete in showcasing your inner world and your inner thoughts. Their presence will become this key that you didn't even knew you need. It'll feel easy with them, and there is no hesitation, confusion or worry. You can't feel worry, and it's not because they insistently tell you not to feel anxious, you just naturally won't. You guys will likely share the same humor or communication style, and if there is a Venus conjunct IC then the IC person will feel this romantic pull with showcasing their personality outwardly that they won't be able to shake towards the Venus person. Overall these feelings are especially true if you struggle with letting someone in, if it takes some time for you to allow someone else to see your personality or thoughts, then they will feel like a cure for allowing to let that side of you out and when you're next to them; you'll feel like you're finally home.

Example: you walk into a bar and they make eye contact with you, you instantly smile, they instantly smile, and the conversation that ignites feels as if you just spoke to them. It could be weeks, months even since you last saw them but the comfortability between the two of you oozes out in a way where it feels like they just came back home to you. (especially if you share heavy 3H synastry overlays as well or if their mercury softly aspects your inner planets, vice versa)

The reason why this type of connection can be hard to let go of is because their presence might cause or create a codependent need in you for them in order to feel "safe." All their presence is doing is igniting the secure feeling in you that you wish you had, you finally can look into another's eyes and feel that type of comfortability you've always been scared enough to unlock or accept. Your private thoughts and characteristics feel safe next to them, and because of that, they create this security within you won't know how to let go of. So, all they are doing is unleashing your wish of being your truest self without fearing the consequences of being seen for who you are.

In some cases, 4th house synastry may not run as intense, and some say it can be 'mundane' or boring, especially if you don't struggle with the listed wounds I stated, or if you don't share other intense or cute attraction synastry aspects with them; but in essence this individual will feel like a grounding force.

The bond you can form with them is tangible, it's secure, and it feels real. So, letting them go will feel as though you're letting go the one desire of ever revealing your private inner self with ease, especially if this is a part of you that you've been too afraid to openly show or even accept.

Songs That Relate

Look After You - The Fray

Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol

Control - Zoe Wees

Hey Stranger - Billie Flynn

8th House: With the 8th house, these type of connections are more intense, and naturally so. With this type of synastry, and if you struggle with self acceptance especially with self love or self worth, then letting go of this connection will feel near to impossible. It will feel like life or death if they walk away from you, and it will feel like a part of you dies every time they don't give you the reassurance or acknowledgment your soul wishes for. Their eyes alone, tell you it's time to let that wall down and without effort your wall crumbles. You know that if they leave, a part of you will leave with them but if your wound of wishing to be accepted runs so deep within, you can't help but take that risk. You're aware that the unavoidable low following their absence will cut deep, yet instead of walking away, you prepare yourself for its inevitable arrival.

You allow that pain to embody you because that pain hurts less than not feeling those moments of acceptance that they are able to give you, especially if it's what you've always reluctantly wished for.

With their presence that void of wanting emotional closeness that you've always longed for will feel like it has vanished, their eyes alleviate the long-ignored half-empty feeling, and so the part of you that wishes to been seen, the part of you that wishes to feel accepted, the part of you that wants to be vulnerable won't know how to let go.

You could run into them and it could be weeks, months even and if you still struggle with loving yourself in the way you wish they would, their presence will create this upheaval that will shake within you, this synastry holds cycles, loops, ups and down to the point of where if you don't hate them, a part of you will still want them.

This synastry creates a dynamic where this soul that entered your life is only igniting the parts of you that you, yourself don't accept, love or acknowledge. Their presence becomes this band-aid that somehow soothes the deepest parts of you that have been abandoned, and their presence soothes the part of you that you yourself believe you can't heal. This fear then creates a scarcity mindset that can cause you to become someone you're not, and even if you logically know what is objectively best to do in situations to not create more intensity within the connection; there's just a part of you that can't care.

The reason why this type of connection can be hard to let go of is because their presence might cause or create a codependent need in you to have them in order to feel "seen." Their presence gives you a sense of acceptance where you allow yourself to accept love in. If you struggle with emotional abandonment, or fear love, then their presence will feel like a "skip the line" pass with inner healing the parts of you that feel broken.

The reason why 8th house synastry is discussed so promptly and openly is because these feelings that persist (when dealing with inner wounds) become such catalysts of growth and ego deaths; but that is only because this connection allows in the hope for love you've been wishing for all your life. You want to be held, you want to be cared for and loved in a way that you've never received, and this person presences grants that sole wish. They bring you that one solace feeling that you've never felt and because of that, letting them go is letting go the one key that makes you feel worthy, seen, and accepted.

Their presence creates this codependent need within because they become this one "thing" that you think you need in order to fulfill that self love wound you keep repressing. You'll start to rely on them for emotional clarity or serenity, you'll start to "need them" in order to feel good, and you'll expect them to make you feel "better" emotionally and if they fail to meet those expectations, all you'd be faced with is the unwavering feeling of the lack of self love or worth you're too afraid to self develop.

The love you're so readily able to give them, is what your soul is asking you to give yourself.

*Those who have prominent natal Scorpio or 8th house placements as well as having Pluto aspecting harshly their inner planets or ascendant will feel these trials and errors more*

Songs That Relate:

Locksmith/You Don't - Sadie Jean

Addicted - Kelly Clarkson

Im Yours/Heartbeat - Isabel LaRose

Just a Little Bit of Your Heart - Ariana Grand

Heavenly - Cigarettes After Sex

Is There Somewhere - Halsey

12th house:

This post focuses exclusively on a 12th house relationship between two kind and evolved individuals. While there are other darker themes associated with 12th house synastry — such as deception, substance abuse, hidden affairs (like being the other woman or mistress), lies about one partner’s true nature, or fear that one partner is withholding information or their true self — I won’t be discussing those here. I might explore those themes in a future post, as they are important to note, but for now, my main focus will not include those themes.

“Though I barely know you, it feels as if I do. Your eyes and body language seem to speak your thoughts, even the ones I can’t fully grasp. There’s no visible thread connecting us, yet this feeling remains.” — Planet Person

With the 12th house, this synastry unlocks so many different routes and experiences. Many factors influence how each individual can feel towards this ethereal connection. One way this synastry can manifest is through the tendency for the 12th house to cloud, confuse, and bring hesitancy into the connection. In some cases, Person A (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) will feel as though they can read Person B in such a deep and subconscious way; this type of knowing may even be hidden from Person B to the extent that they are unaware of their own subconscious emotional needs, thoughts or feelings, and yet (especially if there's care or desire on their end) Person A can read Person B like a book. 12th house synastry can be so thought provoking because of the absolute depth and surreal feeling it can add into the connection. The planet person (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) will feel this innate drive to be with the house person (or the other partner who isn't as spiritual adept). It's as if one partner, driven by an innate need to give endlessly, is profusely tossing their sole bucket of water into the vast ocean of the other partner's needs. The giver (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) is so focused on giving that they overlook the importance of receiving, while the receiver remains oblivious.

If Person B remains unaware of the deep spiritual bond between them that can manifest, they may perceive Person A's actions as invasive or unnecessary. Person A, recognizing wounds in Person B that Person B may not be aware of can evoke a sense of fear in Person B, this has to deal with the issue of them not allowing or accepting a form of love that they believe (Person B) doesn't serve them.

If this scenario resonates with you, then this individual is provoking a wound within yourself that deals with the acceptance of receiving authentic love. This innate need to only give highlights your own fear of receiving real reciprocal, stable, tangible love.

In this scenario where one party wants to save, fix, heal or give, highlights that fearful nature within you where you allow to stay in shallow waters. You subconsciously know that you have such passionate love to give, but that thought of giving to someone who in turn might be willing to give back evokes fear and uncertainty within you.

This subconscious block holds more comfortability within you since it allows you to never accept a love where your soul will fully be fulfilled. It's self sabotaging and self written, you naturally already know how the story will end between you two, and so you subconsciously will find a character who perfectly embodies the story you yourself say you try to run from.

On the other hand this synastry (when desired and when it's dealing with highly evolved individuals) can unlock such deep soulfulness between both partners. Between the two parties, it'll feel as if they have found someone that can finally understand them better than anyone ever has, it'll feel dreamy and mystical. It'll feel as if their body language writes stories that you could only read.

In a pure sense, one partner that desires the other very deeply and whole heartedly wants to make sure that their partner is seen, and understood. And this comes from a very sincere place and if the other receiving partner allows that kind of love in while being okay with giving that same love back, that is when this type of connection can be ideal.

Now in this scenario, this type of codependent nature deals with over emphasizing redemption with no boundaries. If there is solid exchangeable love, a part of you may believe there is always more good than bad within them or within the relationship, and so their wrongdoings or unacceptable behavior to you or to others somehow receives justification or more understanding than he or she should receive. (especially if you also share 8th house synastry with them). As well as it's important to understand that if there is this innate understanding given by one partner that's always present when there shouldn't be, that's when the relationship can become overwhelming, or draining. Just because you know, understand or empathize with the other partner's actions or patterns doesn't make their actions okay.

This type of dynamic receives interchanging parts, with the 12th house things can lack a solid foundation and have a lack crystal clear communication, some days you both won't deal with struggling dynamics, then one day Partner 1 acts out, to which Partner 2 cuirasses and holds, then a few weeks later Partner 2 acts out and Partner 1 comes to their aid.

Truly the amount of stories, experiences, how Person 1 will feel vs Person 2 is genuinely so intercomplicated and nuanced. Each story lies within the two parties involved, with this house they are just so many different routes and avenues it can uphold, so this particular post may not cover every ounce of information on 12th house synastry. If you are curious to learn more only about this synastry I have a long updated post titled "Understanding 12th House Synastry" and it's far more in-depth (click the text).

In essence, how the other partner receives this type of boundless understanding calls for them to be a very kind and open individual. It's important to understand and recognize red flags or self undoing patterns. Staying aware of the actual real situation instead of sitting in bed thinking of the "What if's" are key. Their posts may not be about you, that song on their story can be just a song, remember that. Especially if the individual lacks self awareness or care on their end.

Finally, I don't believe water house synastry holds malicious energy or serves as a dictatorship with stating how the relationship will fail. Not every synastry overlay is set for such intense energy or uncomfortable experiences, each planet in a natal chart holds different themes. What truly matters at the end of the day are the two souls involved within the connection. Desire, care, love, and acceptance are all foundational keys for any relationship to last even those with or without water house synastry. Accepting yourself in the purest form when it comes to each water house theme (4,8,12) is key.

Your natal chart when it comes to synastry serves as a mirror within yourself, everything you are feeling for someone else is already sitting within you.

Don't forget that.

Book a synastry reading with me or purchase my karmic astrology ebook that is curated towards 8th and 12th house synastry: https://myunsaidthoughts.gumroad.com

[mercurianchild]

🎃spooky season astro observations🎃

🦇Sun in the 1st house might have a magnetic presence that draws spirits toward them. Their aura is strong that it feels like they’re channeling otherworldly energy, often feeling the presence of unseen things.

🦇Moon in the 4th house makes one deeply connected to ancestral spirits. This placement can enhance intuition and may manifest in vivid dreams or ghostly visitations from relatives, especially during the Halloween season.

🦇Venus in the 8th house attracts intense and transformative relationships, often with a hint of the forbidden. This placement can also lead to romantic connections that feel fated or karmic, often bringing a touch of the supernatural, like shared dreams or psychic bonds.

🦇Jupiter in the 9th house amplifies spiritual pursuits and a thirst for knowledge about the occult. Those with this placement might find themselves drawn to far-off mystical places, engaging in practices like astral projection or studying ancient texts about the supernatural.

🦇Neptune in the 2nd house placement can create a deep connection to the ethereal world of dreams and illusions. Individuals may have a talent for manifesting their desires through visualization and may find themselves surrounded by mysterious energies that alter their perception of material wealth.

🦇Mercury in the 3rd house can lead to a knack for communicating with the spirit world. Those with Mercury here may experience spontaneous psychic downloads, unusual coincidences, or messages from beyond during their daily interactions.

🦇Moon in the 8th house intensifies emotional connections and can lead to deep experiences with the supernatural. People with their Moon here may feel psychic waves, including heightened intuition or the ability to communicate with spirits during emotional highs and lows.

🦇With Mars in the 1st house, there is an undeniable aura of power that can attract attention from the supernatural realm. These individuals might experience spontaneous bursts of energy, feeling charged with otherworldly forces, especially during rituals or during the witching hour.

🦇Saturn in the 12th house can bring fears of the unknown and a tendency to feel haunted by past life experiences. This can create a heavy energy, pushing the individual to confront their deepest fears and engage in shadow work to break free from ancestral curses.

That’s it for now! Keep in mind that these are my personal observations and may not resonate with everyone. -mercurianchild 🦇🖤

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Venus in 9-12th House

Hello everyone! I am FINALLY back with the last part of the Venus in Houses series. I checked my inbox again and it is FLOODED with requests for this :') I appreciate your patience so much and enjoy!

Venus in 9th House

The free-spirited and worldly beauty

I notice people with this placement usually have very beautiful, well-shaped legs! Strong thighs and calves

Very philosophical. They often follow more optimistic/ idealistic philosophies and outlooks 

A love for foreign cultures; they are the type to explore local food spots, language/dialect, and live in Airbnb or host families because they want the authentic experience 

Usually date people from a different cultural background or ethnic group, or people with exotic features

Prone to escapism though, can have the “grass is always greener on the other side” in their relationships mentally if not developed

Their lesson is to enjoy the present moment and make the best out of it. The present moment is all we have. While it is great to have ideals and dreams to look forward to, appreciating the here and now is a mindset that will benefit them greatly!

Open-minded

They usually go through 'phases' in their lives and can have drastic changes in their mindset and belief system due to their constantly expanding nature. They are the type of person to completely transform after every major relationship. It is a more positive Plutonic energy.

They always strive to become a better person and they see everything as a lesson, especially in their relationships. As they grow older, they become more carefree and authentic because they understand that life is meant to be experienced and every mistake is a chance to understand themselves even more

Into charity and philanthropy

Most likely to have a map or globe somewhere in their room

"I'll throw a dart at the map and whatever it lands on I will go... um maybe not there"

Sociable and loner at the same time 

Value freedom above all else

Their self-esteem is greatly boosted from learning new things, exploring different places, and self-growth

Like to give advice and act as a mentor to people

Wise and spiritual

Like an adventurous, educated partner who matches their intellect and gives them the freedom they need

May not necessarily be religious, but they have a strong belief in a higher being(s)

People see them as very lucky because things always seem to go their way! Since this house is ruled by Jupiter, that may partly be true. But what gives them such luck is their generous, helpful, and giving nature. They give out just as much as they receive!

Value higher education and knowledge (not always have to be college)

Spend a lot of money on travelling 

Most likely to have or want to run a travel blog

They themselves often look quite exotic; people often tell them they don’t look like their ethnicity

Being in the social scenes one day, hiking alone in Nepal the next 

High chance of finding love in a foreign country

Always yearn to be somewhere else; feel like they don’t belong to the place they grew up in

Like Gemini, very versatile and multi-talented

May be prone to indulgence especially if Venus is in Taurus, Libra, Cancer, and Pisces

Will try anything once

The ones I know all have a box full of things they collect from traveling like plane tickets, post cards, and souvenirs and that is their price possession

Young soul and old soul in one

Live life to the fullest 

Venus in 10th House

Intimidating and show-stopping beauty 

Popular, or at least well-known in every setting

Always strives to leave a good impression

They are loved by almost everyone; they are often mentioned even when they are not there

Networking is their forte 

They may be interested in the beauty or entertainment industry, especially if Venus is in Aries, Leo, Libra and sometimes Pisces as well 

Affectionate and caring

They love dating someone that will make them look good in public; someone who is as successful, driven, and put together as them

They love taking charge 

Most likely to be voted for class president or any leadership position

So many people look up to them! They can be seen as a role model

The ‘pretty one’ in the friend group

Bring a positive energy to any social settings. Even if they are more introverted, they still bring in the fun to their close friend group

The responsible one. Will assume the role of the mother hen, fend off creeps, and take their drunk friends back home

Since this house is ruled by Saturn, they are very loyal and steadfast once they are committed. They value honesty, integrity, and devotion in their close relationships. Similar to Venus-Saturn or Capricorn Venus placements.

Their self-esteem is boosted through achievements, especially entering competitions and winning awards of any kind 

They love seeing their loved ones proud of them

They also strive to provide for their family as well. They are willing to shoulder a lot to take care of the people the love.

But they should be careful not to over-identify themselves with achievements and the need to prove themselves that they neglect close relationships 

Most of them are disciplined and have strong principles 

Organized; they’re the type to carry around a fancy leather-bound planner and boss you around (and you will love it) 

Style icons! Very trendy people. I notice a lot of them like high-end clothes with bold logos

They work hard for the life they want, and they get it

The type to have their life planned out since they were in middle school 

Even though they are often charming and easy-going, they are very serious people when it comes to their plans and work

Lucky when it comes to their career path! They know the right connections to make to advance in life 

Excel in marketing, business management, and the arts 

Their public persona is very well-crafted

They usually like business wear like trousers, blazers, and heels 

Very loved in their workplace and by their bosses!

Venus in 11th House

The eccentric and unattainable beauty

Very open-minded people

The person most of the people in the friend group have a crush on at some point

Very charming!

They are the type to get invited everywhere but only show up to a few

Popular loner placement. Everyone knows them but not many do on a deeper level

Underrated placement for loyalty. This house is ruled by Aquarius, a fixed sign after all. They may get bored easily and seek constant stimulation, but once they set their sight on someone, they are all in. 

Their magnetism lies in their detachment; even when they’re there, they still feel out of reach to most people

I notice they are more comfortable in large groups than one-on-one interactions 

Visionary and futuristic

Very high ideals for themselves and their relationship(s)

Since this is the house of dreams and aspirations, they may find that when they follow their true callings, help comes from everywhere for them

Prefer (best) friends to lovers type of connection

Need to be intellectually stimulated or else they will start to wander 

Value an intelligent, open-minded, and well-rounded partner

Treat their partner as their equal 

Like someone who is stable, loyal, but still give them space to be their own person and grow (and will do the same for their partner)

Want someone who is authentic and a non-conformist

Secretly enjoy showing off their partner 

Also, like someone that elevate their image/status in some ways especially if Venus is in Aries, Leo, Libra, and sometimes Capricorn as well

Like people who are the opposite or very different from them

They often have unique perspectives about life

People are drawn to the way they express themselves regardless of what that image may be

Drawn to independent, confident, and compassionate people

But they need to learn to be more vulnerable and not put up a wall with people who love and care for them. They sometimes want to be so independent that they may distant themselves to gain that space back

Love to stand out and go against the grain 

Even when they don’t aim for leadership positions, they are always trusted with them

Influential in their social groups

Potential to be famous on social media

Very creative; they are often trend-setters in their field

Since the 11th house is ruled by Saturn, they are gifted with long-lasting friendships and relationship once they find their people. However, some of them might have to go through periods of isolation and feeling like an outcast first. This is to teach them to embrace their individuality, and once they do, they are incredibly loved for who they are. 

Venus in 12th House 

The ethereal and otherworldly beauty

Extremely kind, caring, and compassionate

Truly beautiful souls

They have so much empathy for the people around them 

A healing and comforting aura 

They have an air of mystery to them; the people others admire from afar 

Often spiritual people. Their spirituality is rooted in universal love and compassion for everyone

The kinder they are, the more they receive

Their self-esteem is boosted through being selfless, helpful, kind, and caring to others. They are genuinely givers and being generous bring them a lot of joy 

Pure-hearted. Absolute angels!

Since the 12th house is about the subconscious and sometimes self-sabotage, they should be careful to protect their energy from negative people because that can influence how they feel and see the world 

Even though they love the people around them deeply, they often need to retreat and have space for themselves like other 12th house placements 

They benefit a lot from meditation and grounding practices 

A deep connection with the universe, whether they are conscious of it or not

Great at manifesting once they believe in themselves! 

Since this house dissolves whatever is in it, they can sometimes feel like love is out of reach despite being very loving

They crave a soul connection with their partner, something that transcends the physical. They often encounter very intense connections because they bring out a side of their partners that they are not even aware of

Very wise and contemplative

Guardian angel placement

They may burden themselves with others’ problems and become overwhelmed because they take on too much. Please be kind to yourselves!

Their lesson is to believe in a higher power, in the universe. Once they open themselves up to the cosmic energy and embrace who they are at the core, they will attract the right partner

Like Pisces, they are often very idealistic in love and can sometimes put their partner on a pedestal

Very self-sacrificial once in love as well

They remind me of the High Priestess card in Tarot 

Extremely intuitive, they can read people like an open book

Effortlessly pick up others’ energies and can see things below the surface

They may feel lonely and out of place quite a bit despite being so easy-going and charming and this may be a reoccurring 12th house theme

But their feeling of loneliness is teaching them to come back to who they are and know that the most important relationship they have is with themselves

They should also learn to prioritize themselves first. When they have a solid foundation of who they are, they will be able to extend their loving nature to others even more. 

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Ruler of the 7th house in the houses

Ruler of the 7th in the 1st

These natives pay close attention to the relationships they form and, throughout their lives, learn the lesson of determining who is or is not worth having in their lives. These natives, although open to meeting people, are prone to having closed or small circles, because they know that they are capable of giving everything for those they love or appreciate. The future spouse of this native stands out for their impetus, their spirit of strength and their ease in taking the right risks. They will be a very decisive person, one who does not hesitate once they decide something and someone who perseveres until they get what they want. They will not be afraid to compete in any field, especially in the professional field, which can lead them to be a person who quickly climbs to the top. Future spouse may be someone very oriented toward personal growth and will ultimately put a lot of energy and focus into the marriage. Both will be a source of strength and motivation for the other, with the presence of their loved one being what they need to recharge their batteries or feel ready to take some important step. The native's partner can be someone who, although strong and empowering in appearance, hides a romantic essence, a charming personality who loves to pamper and be very verbal with the love they feel for the native. Passion will abound in this relationship, from that strong romantic and sexual attraction between the couple to the desire to be able to consolidate a stable relationship that works in the long term. The native's partner will be very present in their process of self-discovery and self-appreciation, they will play a very important role in the native's life and will lead them to know many sides of themselves that they did not know about. In their relationships, these natives bring enthusiasm, a lot of love, dedication and a willingness to commit. In addition, they make their partner get in touch with their romantic and loving side.

Ruler of the 7th in the 2nd

These natives highly prioritize stability when it comes to their relationships, which can lead them to be very selective when it comes to forming serious and long-lasting relationships. They are people who provide a lot of commitment, support, and perseverance in their relationships, as they seek to reassure their partners and give them the security they obtain in an equitable way. Your future spouse is a person who is already at a very good point in their lives, they have many resources and everything they need to live a life full of calm and zero worries. They stand out for their patience, perseverance and business vision. They can be people who start their own business, or who have a position with a very good salary. Their future spouse may have had a significant inheritance or be heir to a large sum of money and/or assets. They are someone romantic, with a serene and fancy appearance, but with an intense emotional world. In this relationship there will be a strong sense of support, the natives will feel that they will not be alone and that they can rely on their partner in every way, because they will see in this person someone sensible, who loves them and has shown them with actions that they are protected and loved. Their partner will show them what it means to have something stable in their lives and they will be able to face difficulties without the relationship weakening. Their future spouse will have great satisfaction providing for the native and will always try to fill them with pleasures and comforts. There is a strong attraction between them and they can be perceived as very attractive. They both value each other strongly and feel that the other is the best they have ever had in their lives. During their marriage, the native can obtain many assets from their partner, these being very often tangible and movable assets. Your partner will be charming, kind, spoiling and constant with you, loyalty and honesty will be two of the many values ​​that both will share and see in the same way. The relationship will develop progressively and both will take each other seriously from minute one.

Ruler of the 7th in the 3rd

For these natives, communication is one of the most necessary tools in a relationship, especially if it is projected for the long term. They are people who will always try to be open with what they think and feel to avoid misunderstandings. The marriage of the natives will be like a song to the wind that finds an echo in the corners of life. The couple will not only be a fun and witty lover, but a confidant, an eternal dialogue partner and someone with whom there will be an excellent intellectual connection. Their future spouse will be someone very intelligent, with a lot of knowledge in different areas and will likely be able to understand the native like no one else has ever been able to. Both will have a similar vision of marriage and will see in their loved one someone who wants the same as them when it comes to this commitment, someone who understands their values, who shares their opinions and with whom daily living is enjoyable and pleasant. They will be someone with whom the native can discuss and learn, someone whom the native will deeply admire and look up to. There will be laughter, debate and promises drawn between the lines, a connection that transcends the physical and entangles the mind and spirit. They will meet on casual paths, perhaps through a short trip, thanks to a mutual acquaintance or at a social event. There is a strong closeness between them, even before taking that big step towards marriage, both enjoy sharing their experiences, their ideas and any other aspect of their lives with each other. In this relationship, communication is fair, they seek to talk and share, but also accompany and listen. It is likely that during your relationship, both of you will go on trips together, wanting to see the places that the other considers special or significant.

Ruler of the 7th in the 4th

Natives that have this overlay long for an emotional connection when looking for or forming stable relationships, those kisses that cover their wounds, flooding them with peace and a feeling of security. They are looking for something long-term and someone who, like them, prioritizes the well-being of the one they love the most, their safety and comfort. A pair of arms to take refuge in when the darkness is overwhelming, someone to finally rely on, someone to let your guard down with, and you will find it in them, your future spouse. A warm person, who although reserved, will reassure the native with support, delicacy and a love so pure as to give meaning to the deepest longings of the native. In this marriage, warmth and affection will abound, and they will be overwhelmed by that feeling of being adored and loved for being who they are. Their future partner will be someone in touch with their emotions, someone who knows what they want and need to be happy, someone who pictures themselves next to the native, caring for them, providing gentleness, understanding and even everything that is tangible. The natives will feel that their heart is exposed and appreciated by their partner. There will be a lot of fluidity between both, a strong sense of familiarity and they will awaken in each other the strongest, intense but strangely comforting emotions. Being together will feel like having returned home after the chaos and whirlwind that others left behind, you can become very close and there is this constant desire to be close and together in all kinds of circumstances. Your future partner may be reserved, with high emotional intelligence and the ability to understand other people's emotions without judging or mocking them. Someone respectful, understanding. They have strong ambition and long to achieve great things in all areas of their life that they consider special.

Ruler of the 7th in the 5th

For these natives it is important that both parties know that they are loved and that their efforts and gestures are appreciated by the other. They want a partner who loves them just the way they are and with whom they feel they can be themselves. Marriage will be a stage where both will shine, supporting each other to express the best of themselves. The partner will be someone who motivates, who celebrates your achievements as if they were theirs and who always reminds you of the importance of following the call of the heart. The union will be marked by spontaneity, warmth and the ability to turn the everyday into the extraordinary. They will feel like excited young people, sharing secrets and dreams under the starry sky, and together, hand in hand with each other, they will create a relationship, a life full of passion and meaning. Your future spouse will be someone with a lot of self-confidence, someone who believes in their potential and yours, and above all, someone who dares to go after what they want. They will love to show you to the world, show you off and shout from the rooftops that you are what they love most, their demonstrations will go beyond verbal, it will be through their actions that they will shout to your heart how special you are to them. This marriage will bring joy to your life and can give you a boost of energy, confidence and self-love. You bring appreciation and affection to your partner, they will be that force that reminds them why life can be precious, that glimmer of hope in the nights of heaviness, and that loving kiss that makes their hearts beat like crazy. Your married life will be full of love, emotion, passion and joy, it will not be a quiet and routine romance, it will be one full of loud laughs, adventures together and the warmest desire.

Ruler of the 7th in the 6th

These natives have a realistic vision of marriage, they are not looking for a fantasy utopia, rather something that is positive, effective, healthy and beneficial for both in the long term. They know that there is nothing more valuable than a person who is really there by your side, who does not sweeten your ears with promises, but who is able to tangibly demonstrate the commitment they have and the love they say they have for the native. Their future spouse will be a person with a strong devotion to the native and the relationship, someone who is hardworking, devoted and who no matter how long they are together, will notice the details of the native that could go unnoticed by others, will have those romantic and small gestures that will reaffirm the love and affection that seems to strengthen with the years. Lovers who trust each other, not only will there be romance, but there will be trust, reliability in moments of tension, meaningful conversations and emotional support when stress consumes them in their personal lives. In this marriage, both will be the classic couple that adopts each other's behaviors, habits and small details. The coexistence between the native and their future spouse will be fluid and harmonious, since their practical approach to the relationship will make them patient, understanding and supportive with each other, a great team, strong and giving. Your future spouse may not be the most verbal person, but you will feel their love. They will look for a way to express to you, in your language or in your ways, how much they love you and how much you mean to them. They will be a person who seeks to support you, from a massage after a hard day, a delicious dinner whether made by themselves or from your favorite restaurant, or even something that seems as simple as asking you if you are okay or need something. With your future spouse you will learn what it truly means when someone makes an effort to understand you and make you feel loved, someone who isn’t afraid to make changes and who includes you in their lives.

Ruler of the 7th in the 7th

This overlay makes it clear to us that the native WILL get married this lifetime. The native, regardless of any other aspect of their chart, is committed and very focused on their relationships, they hold a special place for their partner and will seek to give their all to make the relationship work, this of course, knowing that their partner also will do it. These natives will meet the type of person they have always dreamed of, something like a blessing of destiny, a connection in which they mutually feel that they are the one for the other, as if the union was written in the stars from the beginning. Their partner will be the perfect mirror, someone who reflects your desires, your desires, and sometimes even your shadows, helping you get to know yourself more deeply through the relationship. Their future spouse will be someone who values ​​equality & justice, who seeks to build a union based on mutual respect and understanding. It will be someone romantic who will fill the native with love in all its forms, tangible or intangible, actions and words. The wedding will be a beautiful event, full of love and warmth not only of each other, but of family and friends. Each interaction will be an act of harmony, a dance between two souls who find in each other a lover, a companion and a home. The relationship will be marked by commitment and connection, by a mutual dedication that is not afraid of challenges. They will be companions in every sense of the word, a team that works together to overcome the tests and enjoy the triumphs. It will be a love that finds its strength in unity, that flourishes through reciprocity and that leaves a deep mark on the heart. They will experience a harmonious romance, a mixture of love and commitment that will make people outside believe in love.

Ruler of the 7th in the 8th

When we find this overlay, the natives are people who look for something deeper and more meaningful in relationships, they do not like superficial things, just one night or empty words. They long for a total surrender of mind, body and soul in which both feel the devotion of the other. Their partner will arrive as a mystery to be discovered, a bond that transcends the superficial and takes root in the depths of your being, someone who comes to give meaning to what love had been for you. They will be someone who inspires the native to face their fears, who accompanies them in moments of change and who, in their presence, allows them to take refuge and feel safe. The partner will be someone with whom they will share not only the material, but also the spiritual and emotional, building a love that is fueled by trust and mutual dedication. Both of them may have had tense or difficult experiences in love, from loneliness due to fear of being hurt to betrayal, traits of resilience that will make them feel love and respect for the other. The union will be marked by an intense and burning passion, by the ability to share not only the joys and high, but also the shadows and lows. The relationship will be a space of authentic intimacy, where both will dare to be vulnerable and discover themselves and their multiple facets. Between them there will be a palpable desire, an enormous attraction, that obsession with the other's body and that fascination with the one you call your spouse. Both will meet after a moment of great change, some tense situation that they will experience or after the departure of someone important. When they meet they will feel a pull towards each other, an indescribable attraction and they will feel that they were both destined to meet. They will bring significant changes in the life of the other, whether in their lifestyle or their way of seeing things. 

Ruler of the 7th in the 9th

For these natives, it is not enough to just feel those butterflies in their stomach to define if someone is the one they want to marry, they look for something deeper before taking this step. They long to find someone who will show them a new side of love, someone who has something to say, many things to teach and show them, a person to love, admire and feel fascinated by. We can define this marriage as a team that is willing to explore the unknown together, a constant exploration of the outside world and the interior of both hearts. Their future spouse will be more than a life partner, they will be a teacher, someone from whom the native will learn and, to whom the native will teach a lot in return. It will be someone who awakens the native’s curiosity, who ignites their passion for the vast and the deep, and who walks by their side toward endless horizons. Both will be very curious about each other, they would like to know each other completely and give a deeper meaning to the word marriage, something beyond two signatures on a piece of paper. A fulfilling union, in which both fulfill their dreams and desires together. They will have different backgrounds, they will have experienced really different things, different family situations, even opposites, and it is also likely that this person will be from a different country or continent. Both will have this beautiful effect on the other in which they will teach themselves to see life in a different way, they will feel that next to each other it is easy to appreciate those beautiful and luminous things about love, about themselves and about life itself. They will bring mutual joy, a lot of motivation and endless anecdotes that, when lived and remembered, will fill them with warmth. In this relationship, both will be able to visit new places, travel a lot and experience everything that they thought would only be a dream.

Ruler of the 7th in the 10th

Here we find people who take the idea of ​​marriage very seriously, they think very carefully before committing themselves and not only to someone, but in any area of ​​their lives. They are people with a preference for long, lasting and less sporadic relationships, which can lead them to spend long periods of time single. Their future husband will be someone of high status, older than them in age and/or experience, and is likely to be an important figure at both work and family levels. Their spouse will be someone responsible in marriage, as they will seek to provide for their partner, give time and effort to both the relationship and the native, seeking to always progress together. With a hard-working, professional personality and with this touch of calm and control, the native's partner will lead a calm and successful life in which they seem to be at their best by the time they meet. And not only that, but it will teach the native not to be afraid to rely on someone, it will show them unconditional support and show them that they should not carry all their sorrows on their own, that they will be there for the native, lending a shoulder to lean on, a person who does not complain with them, but who resolves and finds solutions to preserve the peace of mind and well-being of the native. Their partner will seek to form a home with the native, so that both form stability together, not only in the material sphere, but also emotionally. Their future spouse will be someone who will bring clarity to the native's life, as well as empower them to discover the path they want to take, this of course, always hand in hand and with their partner encouraging them. Natives may take a while to get married compared to the people around them such as family or friends, but this overlay guarantees them a lasting relationship, since they will not do it because of the impulsiveness of the moment or a spontaneous emotion, rather because of the conviction that the other It's what they want and who they want to spend their days with. 

Ruler of the 7th in the 11th

These natives seek to have a long-term relationship in which not only their personal space and independence are respected, but also their partner and they support each other in pursuing goals and dreams, without judgments or critical views. They are not people who are afraid of being on their own, so they don't mind letting go of people who they know are not what they are looking for or need in their lives. These people can form very lasting bonds with their friends and can attract friends who become their partners. Their future spouse is an independent person who does things their own way and, despite having a strong sense of individuality, knows how to interact harmoniously with other people, becoming perceived as charming, sociable and very intelligent in any social field. They will be someone ambitious and a dreamer at the same time, someone who visualizes the future alongside the native with hope, plans together and many new experiences. Marriage becomes a journey toward broader horizons, an encounter with someone who inspires shared dreams and fuels the vision of a better future. The partner will not only be a life partner, but an ally, a friend who walks with you towards common goals. Love will come like a fresh breeze, in a space where friendship and mutual understanding are the pillar. It will be someone who shares the ideals of the native, who respects their individuality and values ​​their hopes as if they were their own. They will be able to meet each other when they least expected it, at that moment when they are deeply comfortable on their own. Both can help the other make or meet new friends and can feel that they mutually motivate each other to meet more people and/or feel proud of the person who they are. They will mutually teach each other to never put aside their essence in order to fit in.

Ruler of the 7th in the 12th

These natives may have felt a difficulty in not only finding lasting love, but also difficulty connecting with other people in general on a deeper level. They are people who long for this strong emotional connection where affection and love is unconditional, a desire that is constantly in struggle with their rational side and the fears of previous betrayals. After bad experiences, they will meet their future spouse, a person who will give them that love that they felt they would never experience. There is a very deep emotional devotion quality in their relationship, as they will understand each other better than anyone else and will always be willing to do many things for the other without needing to recriminate them. Your future partner will be someone who is reserved, very in touch with their emotions and with a tendency not to trust just anyone with their heart and emotions. They are intuitive, observant, prudent and dual, because although they are romantic and warm with the native, they can be independent and closed. Their future spouse will be a dreamer, who will love to imagine a future alongside the natives, someone who will fulfill them and can put them on a certain pedestal. In your marriage, there is a feeling of being seen, that the other deeply understands you and strives to understand you. They will have no problem making changes necessary for the relationship to progress [such as learning to open up more emotionally], they will be secretive about the relationship, and they will not let others have a say in what you as a couple decide. You will feel this strong emotional bond with your partner, it is very likely that it will give you the feeling of having already met them before. Between you there is a lot of sensitivity, empathy, and you can help the other to heal or feel better. There is an addictive quality to their relationship that seems to attract them more and more. You will bring out the poetic, sensitive and fanciful side of your partner.