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im practicing non-attachment. accepting what comes and allowing it to leave when it’s time. what is for me will be for me effortlessly

feministism

can we get rid of the concept that boys don’t like mushy romantic lovey-dovey shit? boys can like dates. boys can like flowers. boys can like gentle kisses. boys can like rom-coms. boys can be overwhelmed with adoration and appreciation. they need to be taken care of emotionally just as much as anyone else does. spoil them, treat them like kings. let them cry without having to worry about judgement. play with their hair. be the big spoon sometimes. give them spontaneous gifts. let them rant and whine. comfort them. guys have emotional needs. they need to be taken care of, too. love your boy the way you want your boy to love you y'all

comforting-suggestions

dear the person reading this,

i know you probably see a thousand posts that tell you how wonderful and important and special you are and that you are worth the fight.

i know that some of you will think, “yeah, that doesn’t include me.”

i know that some of you don’t recognise how wonderful and important and special you are.

i know because i have been there.

but i promise you that even if you don’t believe it, it is true.

you don’t have to be what the world considers smart, beautiful or funny.

you don’t have to be doing something deemed incredible or important.

you being here is a miracle all on its own.

you are you, and you are a unique and wonderful individual who is unlike everyone else on this planet.

the odds of you coming into this world are insane, but you made it.

even if all you did was wake up this morning, that is enough. that is wonderful because you are here and you are trying.

and you being here alone is wonderful and special.

please allow yourself to believe in that and to believe in yourself.

keep fighting and keep taking every day at a time and i promise you will be just fine.

we just have to keep going.

corporationkills

god made a mistake when he made me a person instead of a friendly little cat on a midwestern apple orchard

coffiend-jackalope

The brain is an organ. Mental illnesses are illnesses of that organ. Brain scans show that there is a physical difference between a healthy brain and a sick brain. Telling someone “You’re not really sick. It’s all in your head.” is like telling someone with asthma “It’s not real, it’s all in your lungs.” The brain is an organ that can malfunction as much as any other organ.

its-syrupp

PLEASE READ THIS OVER AND OVER AND OVER

thebatblog-deactivated20171126

do you ever just get really overwhelmed because of how adorable someone is

like they do something or say something and you physically have to stop and smile because it’s so cute

lesbian--not-a--unicorn

j-m-an

the-words-blog

poetic-pics

Distance…

onlinecounsellingcollege

“Avoid people who mess with your head. Avoid people who intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. Avoid people who expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. Avoid people who can’t and won’t apologize sincerely. Avoid. Avoid.”

— Unknown