How to Live Fat and Happy

Kinda sorta still active. Find me on Tiktok and Instagram: @voluptoraptor

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Oh, hello. 😂😂 Are any of y'all still around?

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Fatkini in the Keys!

(Not for porn blogs)

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Okay wtf? I still reverse image search some of these occasional to see if people are using them without permission. (Sometimes they do.) and I found this: 

First of all, I look terrible, second....wtf? lol. 

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Oh, tumblr still exists! hahaha, Hello there.

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Living my best Cottage Life.

I just finished(ish) making my sim a farm retail store and thought I'd share it in case anyone is looking for that kind of thing. Could be used as a residential building, but I wanted to be able to sell my eggs/milk/veggies directly. I'm OoMeSoCorny on the gallery. I don't usually upload my stuff so it should be easy to find, it's the Jones Family Farm Store. (It shows up as using CC, but I can't for the life of me figure out what. It's 99% Maxis only.) Feel free to edit to your liking but please don't re-upload without asking first. Enjoy!!

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I am also Muslim and I got emotional seeing this

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Bugs bunny in an evening suit: I wish all MUSLIM FOLLOWERS a very pleasant RAMADAN

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Fellow broke folks doing their taxes: You can file for free if you click one of these links from the IRS website https://apps.irs.gov/app/freeFile/browse-all-offers TurboTax wanted to charge me $135 to file, but clicking the IRS link allowed me to file for free. (Fuck capitalism.)

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here’s some fun black history for you guys!

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She's always been my fave voice actress and I was always super excited to hear her anywhere. 😍😍😍

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How to make friends.

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[programmerhumour]

Schooled

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Damn schooled every single one of them

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Yaaassss.

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It's your girl Princess NoFucks bringing you all the 2021 energy you need.

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I hope the internet really is forever so that your grandkids can read your comments and be like, “Dang, our grandparents were racist af, let’s not be like that.” 

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So y’all know that I am honest about my struggles and where my mental health is. Today I am starting to see that I give people way more of me than they deserve and that sometimes I allow myself to get into pointless discussions and debates because I don't like feeling misunderstood. It's okay to set boundaries, and I don't have to engage people that suck the life out of me. It isn't my job to save anyone and I certainly shouldn't sacrifice myself for people who don't care what it's costing me. 

I have a hard time identifying when I am being gaslit because it was normal for me for a very long time. It’s okay to just let shit go and let people learn hard lessons from someone else. 

How are y’all today? How ya looking? Submissions are open if anybody wants to show me how cute you are! 

[askfriskandcompany]

So here is what you are missing: Being considered a monster is a fantasy for you. It has no bearing on the way you are viewed by strangers in your everyday life. Black people have the experience of genuinely been treated like we are not human and there is nothing fun about it. It is terrible to know that there are whole subsets of people that believe your life is worthless. Monster Lives Matter feels the same as using Ann Frank as a fun fanfic thing, cuz lol the Holocaust sucked.

Point taken. That’s hella cringe.

-TQ

[misshorrorotaku-deactivated2024]

I don’t get the problem with it though. It’s a statement. Saying certain lives matter. Acting like black people have the monopoly on saying “____ Lives Matter” is like saying the LGBT+ community has a monopoly on statements like “____ Rights!” It’s stupid. There’s nothing racist about some other gorup using the bloody statement, let alone in a bloody fantasy world where it fucking applies!

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This seems willfully ignorant. We say Trans Lives Matter, and Indigenous Lives Matter a lot as well. The Black Lives Matter movement is meant to empower communities who are regularly killed and abused just for existing. Using the real struggles of actual people whose lives are at risk as a form of amusement is a problem, End of story. The fact that you are deciding that it isn’t racist because it makes you uncomfortable and applies to something you like is also problematic. If actual Black people tell you something is hurtful and your response is “Not it isn’t,” that is your prerogative, but it doesn’t look good and suggests you have some internalized bigotry to work through. 

I say Black Lives Matter because I could literally die the next time I encounter a police officer or a white person that thinks I seem suspicious, regardless of whether or not I am doing something wrong. That is my reality, and it is incredibly unkind to use that as a plot point. 

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When said people are talking about fiction, and using a statement they have no right to deny usage of to anyone else in a scenario in a story where it applies and is used 100% respectfully, they can kiss my fucking ass. I ain’t got no bigotry to work through just because black people think their words mean more than mine. Using a statement that is not black people’s is not offensive just because y’all say it is, especially when it’s done as respectfully as it was here in the right fucking context.

Guess what, sweetie? :3 White people can die the next time they meet a cop too. In fact, there’s more white victims than black. And if you think a white person isn’t in danger if someone decides they seem suspiscious, you’re also wrong. Yeah, the fact that these happen more often to minorities are real problems (I’m part of multiple minorities, I know) but a fucking oppressed group in a fictional story using a statement THAT IS NOT YOURS is not a real problem, even if it upsets your delicate sensibilities.

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Y’all, is there a word in the anti-racist community that is similar to the word TERF? Because there should be for situations like this. Whoa buddy. 

Non-Black people don’t get to decide what context it is okay to use our pain any more than straight people get to bastardize the struggles of LGBTQ+ people. I don’t see how that’s hard to understand. We should have the right to tell our stories if we want to, and not have them used in ways that feel harmful. Comparing us to monsters is harmful. 

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Actually, I take that back. TERF Is wrong because TERFs are actually members of the feminist community. You cannot be anti-racist if you are unwilling to consider whether or not your actions are harmful to BIPOC, so I guess we already have words for white people who feel that Black voices hold little weight. I think I just hold out too much hope that people will give enough of a shit to want to listen. Shoutout to OP for actually hearing me instead of telling me why I shouldn’t speak my truth. 

[askfriskandcompany]

So here is what you are missing: Being considered a monster is a fantasy for you. It has no bearing on the way you are viewed by strangers in your everyday life. Black people have the experience of genuinely been treated like we are not human and there is nothing fun about it. It is terrible to know that there are whole subsets of people that believe your life is worthless. Monster Lives Matter feels the same as using Ann Frank as a fun fanfic thing, cuz lol the Holocaust sucked.

Point taken. That’s hella cringe.

-TQ

[misshorrorotaku-deactivated2024]

I don’t get the problem with it though. It’s a statement. Saying certain lives matter. Acting like black people have the monopoly on saying “____ Lives Matter” is like saying the LGBT+ community has a monopoly on statements like “____ Rights!” It’s stupid. There’s nothing racist about some other gorup using the bloody statement, let alone in a bloody fantasy world where it fucking applies!

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This seems willfully ignorant. We say Trans Lives Matter, and Indigenous Lives Matter a lot as well. The Black Lives Matter movement is meant to empower communities who are regularly killed and abused just for existing. Using the real struggles of actual people whose lives are at risk as a form of amusement is a problem, End of story. The fact that you are deciding that it isn’t racist because it makes you uncomfortable and applies to something you like is also problematic. If actual Black people tell you something is hurtful and your response is “Not it isn’t,” that is your prerogative, but it doesn’t look good and suggests you have some internalized bigotry to work through. 

I say Black Lives Matter because I could literally die the next time I encounter a police officer or a white person that thinks I seem suspicious, regardless of whether or not I am doing something wrong. That is my reality, and it is incredibly unkind to use that as a plot point. 

[misshorrorotaku-deactivated2024]

When said people are talking about fiction, and using a statement they have no right to deny usage of to anyone else in a scenario in a story where it applies and is used 100% respectfully, they can kiss my fucking ass. I ain’t got no bigotry to work through just because black people think their words mean more than mine. Using a statement that is not black people’s is not offensive just because y’all say it is, especially when it’s done as respectfully as it was here in the right fucking context.

Guess what, sweetie? :3 White people can die the next time they meet a cop too. In fact, there’s more white victims than black. And if you think a white person isn’t in danger if someone decides they seem suspiscious, you’re also wrong. Yeah, the fact that these happen more often to minorities are real problems (I’m part of multiple minorities, I know) but a fucking oppressed group in a fictional story using a statement THAT IS NOT YOURS is not a real problem, even if it upsets your delicate sensibilities.

[howtolivefatandhappy]

Y’all, is there a word in the anti-racist community that is similar to the word TERF? Because there should be for situations like this. Whoa buddy. 

Non-Black people don’t get to decide what context it is okay to use our pain any more than straight people get to bastardize the struggles of LGBTQ+ people. I don’t see how that’s hard to understand. We should have the right to tell our stories if we want to, and not have them used in ways that feel harmful. Comparing us to monsters is harmful. 

[askfriskandcompany]

So here is what you are missing: Being considered a monster is a fantasy for you. It has no bearing on the way you are viewed by strangers in your everyday life. Black people have the experience of genuinely been treated like we are not human and there is nothing fun about it. It is terrible to know that there are whole subsets of people that believe your life is worthless. Monster Lives Matter feels the same as using Ann Frank as a fun fanfic thing, cuz lol the Holocaust sucked.

Point taken. That’s hella cringe.

-TQ

[misshorrorotaku-deactivated2024]

I don’t get the problem with it though. It’s a statement. Saying certain lives matter. Acting like black people have the monopoly on saying “____ Lives Matter” is like saying the LGBT+ community has a monopoly on statements like “____ Rights!” It’s stupid. There’s nothing racist about some other gorup using the bloody statement, let alone in a bloody fantasy world where it fucking applies!

[howtolivefatandhappy]

This seems willfully ignorant. We say Trans Lives Matter, and Indigenous Lives Matter a lot as well. The Black Lives Matter movement is meant to empower communities who are regularly killed and abused just for existing. Using the real struggles of actual people whose lives are at risk as a form of amusement is a problem, End of story. The fact that you are deciding that it isn’t racist because it makes you uncomfortable and applies to something you like is also problematic. If actual Black people tell you something is hurtful and your response is “Not it isn’t,” that is your prerogative, but it doesn’t look good and suggests you have some internalized bigotry to work through. 

I say Black Lives Matter because I could literally die the next time I encounter a police officer or a white person that thinks I seem suspicious, regardless of whether or not I am doing something wrong. That is my reality, and it is incredibly unkind to use that as a plot point. 

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Also since you understand what a TERF is, please understand that if we had a word like TERF in the anti-racist community, this is what you sound like to us.