learning to love myself like i love the moon

[pavlovaprin]

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bnx2M1XlF-C/

[atinys]

kang yeosang……. ༼ ༎ຶ ෴ ༎ຶ༽

[fairylilies]

i’m so sorry if someone made you think it’s hard to love you

[khizhina]

mjhere_

[se1fcare-deactivated20181009]

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bl7kg1ZAQcl/

[ohghiblies]

https://www.instagram.com/p/BsQrjlHh6Tv/

[monstaxnight]

This Polaroid of Wonho from Kihyun’s exhibition is honestly stunning.

[3months-shop]

Ordinary people ecobag. -www.3months.co.kr

[kues]

afternoonlive

[basmatis]

https://www.instagram.com/p/BYFtpGOHFcO/

[synqra]

https://www.instagram.com/p/BRcggjdFVvx/

[milk-hooney-archive-deactivated]

Monsta X + color moodboard series

Wonho + white

Others: Wonho, Minhyuk, Changkyun, …

[petalya]

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!

[petalya]

With this in mind, this also makes me think of the ways people describe us. When people say the reasons that they love/like you or describe you as a person, are they only naming ways that you serve them? Are they equating your worth with how much you do for them?

ex. “You’re such a good listener. You’re so generous, you’re so compassionate. You’re always there for me. You always hold me down. You’re reliable”

vs.

“You’re so funny! You’re very vibrant. You’re creative, passionate, and intelligent. You’re optimistic. You’re so talented at ____” , etc. I think that’s very telling.

[sadunit]

yeyo_kr

[jkks]

“I really want to say that everyone in the world is lonely and everyone is sad, and if we know that everyone is suffering and lonely, I hope we can create an environment where we can ask for help, and say things are hard when they’re hard, and say that we miss someone when we miss them.”

— Yoongi (Billboard Article)

[1vintage]

https://www.instagram.com/p/BWeI0YHj81e/

[vividspark]

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