mims 𐚁

[hugsforblyth]

this is the last post i am going to be making before i log out.

i would like to make it EXTREMELY clear that i have not been bullied off this platform. this is not an invitation to go harass any other blogs on here. i do not condone that behaviour at all. this decision is mine and mine alone.

after reading through all the anons i recieved, i would like everyone to know i have taken what has been said on board.

i am very aware i am not a perfect fan. no one is. im not a moral compass and have never tried to be. i apologise if it has come across that way. of course people are allowed different opinions. i just wish they could be more respectful with how they say it sometimes. again, i know that won’t always be the case and i have to accept that. it’s something ive never liked in fandom spaces but i need to come to terms with the fact it unfortunately wont change.

please do know i only call out the genuinely malicious and hateful comments. if it’s just general and constructive criticism, it is not aimed at you and again im sorry if it came across that way.

i also apologise for my contribution to fandom and any other dramas. at the time i genuinely do not see it that way as in my head it seems like that behaviour needs to be called out but i can understand now that my posts aren’t always helping and im not going to stop every bad thing said or done within the fandom. i will be more careful with what i post and ensure im not adding more traction to things that really should just be left alone.

the reason i defend tom so much is because he’s a huge hyperfixation for me. hes not just a comfort for me, he’s someone who has saved my life. someone who’s fandom has saved my life. i would not be alive today if it were not the friends that i have made within this space. so yes, he’s become a massive hyperfixation and i suppose that’s why i get so defensive etc. i’m aware that’s not healthy and i still focus mainly on his projects rather than his private life as it does not concern me! but i do struggle to focus on other spaces and fandoms as thats not where i want to be or where i can be. toms fandom is my safe space and as sad as it sounds, my home away from home.

i do genuinely want to take a step back and i am trying but when i do, it reminds me how lonely i am irl. i won’t go into details of my mental health or my personal life but my online life and my online friends are practically all i have. its all that’s keeping me together some days. again, i know how that sounds and im trying to build my life up but its hard. i am dealing with a lot of struggles right now. and before people do the usual ‘go to therapy’, ‘get a job’, ‘go outside’, it’s not that easy. i cant afford therapy. i have been actively applying and working to get a job for well over a year and nothing is happening. some days i wake up and cant get out of bed. i have bad days. i have okay days. i am not saying this for pity or sympathy, this is just trying to explain what a lot of people are asking in regards to why i act the way i do.

i am really trying. i keep messing up, i know. but i am trying. i’m trying to get my shit together. i’m trying to make a life for myself. i’m trying to be the best version of myself that i can be.

i love this fandom more than anything and the people i’ve met really do feel like a family. i don’t want to leave. and i don’t want others to be pushed out and feel like they need to leave.

bye.

<3

[hugsforblyth]

i’m not gonna answer any more asks because despite me knowing i’ve never harassed other blogs and that i rarely (if ever) send in asks, i know there are people who aren’t going to believe me and i cannot keep having the same discussions.

however, to the anons who have raised some points i want you to know that i am taking all criticism on board, i am listening and will be more careful with what i post and how i word things from now on.

:) x

[hugsforblyth]

the day you will shut up will be the day the world find peace. always acting like the victim when you bully people and then go cry saying that you didn't think about the consequences. never learning at your big age is embarrassing.

block me if you hate me anon it’s simple.

[hugsforblyth]

i was gonna keep this private but this is genuinely annoying and some of you just need to get a grip.

i really do think some of you need to unstan tom at this point because it gets to a point…

actors are ALLOWED to take a break if they wish. they do not have to work 24/7 just to be taken seriously or to please their fans. if they want to spend time with their family and friends then they can. if tom wants to do that right now, that is HIS choice. actors are allowed to have a life outside their work!

to add on to this, we don’t know if he already has projects lined up. they may just not have been announced yet and the assumptions i’ve been seeing about why he’s ’not booking roles’ is just crazy. his girlfriend wearing a sheer dress (something that’s normal and i will never understand why people get so scared about nipples being shown. i understand it’s not going to be to everyones taste but it’s really not that big of a deal) and him partying and going on vacations is not causing the industry to not take him seriously enough. we’ve seen enough proof that tom LOVES acting. that he adores the arts and has a huge amount of respect for the industry. a sheer dress is not going to end his career and neither is him partying…

like i don’t know what to tell you… if his relationship and ‘lack’ of announcements about his work is THAT upsetting to you then maybe you need to just leave the fandom. i promise you your negativity would not be missed and you would feel so much better. ❤️

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" wasn’t thinking about what other people may send " yeah that's the whole point, you never do, you talk, you shade, you post and then you come and act surprise when people tell you what happens after. you post a whole tumblr problem on twitter, whenever you see something being said about tom you go and make 214 subtweets, you can't accept him getting negative comments and maybe it's time to realize that if he doesn't speak, he doesn't need you, he is fine oh my god stop taking everything too close to heart, because people on an HIDDEN account once again get harrased but oh no dannie is getting hate... yeah you create the same thing by trying to defend them. start to THINK please

i’m not trying to act surprised. thank you for informing me and i will be more careful with what i post.

however, i will not apologise for my post today. that behaviour that i called out needs to stop. the blog (which everyone seems to know without me naming it… says a lot) does NOT deserve hate and i do not want them receiving any harassment.

however, i do think the remaining admin needs to wise up and start listening to the many people respectfully calling them out. that blog encouraging hateful and harmful behaviour. there are a LOT of issues there that need to be resolved. i really hope the remaining admin takes on board the criticism they recieve and that they grow and learn from it.

and i’ll take my criticism on board as well.

harassment and bullying is not welcome on my page and should not be done anywhere else.

[hugsforblyth]

not gonna name names out of respect but i was friends with a few of them and i know that after you made a tweet talking shit about one of them, they + other blogs (including the one you're complaining about now) got threatened with being hacked and doxxed for weeks and that's when the harassment started. a bunch of other stuff happened, esp with the kmb blog and everything kind of spiraled from there. so no... you're not the only person to blame for what happened, but you absolutely contributed to it. one of those blogs even defended you when people were giving you shit, but after that, you and your friend who runs a dannie fan account started sending them crap anyway. tbh i have no idea why they kept defending you because they were warned that you were one of the people behind those asks even if you're never going to admit it. but yeah. you kept shading them and all that did was send more hate their way because it brought attention to their private spaces. they had to make multiple posts asking people to leave them alone if their content wasn't their thing all because you can't seem to mind your own business and feel the need to make a statement about everything so everyone knows you're the fandom's moral authority

okay so that’s literally a lie… the only tweet i’ve made about a blog was an ask they posted with an anon that had a take i didn’t agree with and i don’t think i included the blog name as i didn’t want them receiving hate. if i did, then i do apologise! ive posted shitty asks from tumblr before as a lot of other people have and wasn’t thinking about what other people may send. please know i will be more cautious in the future.

i certainly NEVER harassed them or any blog in their inbox so don’t even try with that. 😭 i’ve been continually harassed in my own inbox and i would never want anyone else to experience that. the blog that defended me, i wasn’t even aware they were receiving hate at that time and i so appreciate them defending me and i hope both of these blog owners are okay.

unless you can provide solid proof, don’t waste my time making up lies. i’ve never harassed any blogs and would never do so.

[hugsforblyth]

I DO NOT agree with the blog that's currently active either and I've called it out myself. But there were two other discussion blogs on here and they didn't post anything harmful nor did they allow hate toward Dannie. The problem is that you drew attention to them by shading them on Twitter even though one of those spaces was hidden and the other mostly shared photos, GIFs and the occasional ask. The result? Both of them ended up deactivating after facing harassment. You DO create unnecessary drama just because you disagree with someone

when did i cause blogs to deactivate on here? i’ve recieved similar asks and im so confused because i BARELY send asks to other blogs lmao 😭 i only did when there were asks about me and i was being harassed.

if you could provide insight, i’d appreciate it because i’m so confused by this.

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https://www.tumblr.com/hugsforblyth/818604546779643904/oh-my-gosh-tom-looked-so-good-in-that-new-photo-i?source=share

y'all are reaching, tom doesn't have curly hair at all

oh wow you guys make issues out of ANYTHING. just enjoy the new content.

[welcometounicornworlds]

TOM BLYTH at the Guggenheim Museum in Bilbao for “House of Gestures,” presented by Dom Pérignon (June 4, 2026)

[hugsforblyth]

Oh my gosh Tom looked so good in that new photo! I always like when his hair is super fluffy he looks like a such a boyfriend when it’s styled like that 🥰

it’s so curly too i’m OBSESSED!! please keep him away from scissors. 😭

[hugsforblyth]

I feel like I can see all sides of the argument when it comes to Tom and being a fan in general but here are facts that come without feelings: he’s a 31 year old man who is perfectly capable of defending himself, his relationship and his privacy. And for the most part he is a very very private person and most of what we know from him is either from interviews or from what is posted on social media, most of which is public even if it’s not straight from him which yes, is a weird way to find photos of him but if someone’s account is public and they’re posting a celebrity then I promise they know the risks that come with it.

As for how much he and Dannie see, I think she probably sees more simply because she is more online than he is. But I really genuinely do not think they see much. Like truly I don’t think they’re on tumblr and I know you mean well but like I promise you neither of them are that conceited to come on here let alone to some shady blog to read weird asks on their page about them.

I know you mean well, Mims, and I think it’s great that you’re in his corner and Dannie’s corner too but please do remember that he’s got this! He can respond to comments and handle hate or criticism sent towards his life or career. That doesn’t make it right but don’t feel like it’s your job to always defend him because it isn’t and it’s a very taxing mindset to have when you’re constantly seeing and reading negative stuff even if it’s not about yourself. It’s not healthy for anyone let alone a fan who isn’t even on the receiving end of any of that hate.

I think Tom is just taking a break. He was moving nonstop last year and I think a lot of people just forgot since it was a year ago but he did The Fence, wrapped up Billy the Kid, did multiple film festivals, fashion shows, traveled, did award shows, screenings, red carpets and more! He deserves a break! But let this break be a break for yourself and other fans too.

I know what you see might be upsetting but vague posting on twitter may come off as a little random especially if what’s upsetting you is coming from a different platform.

Just be aware of what you put out there and know that it will be perceived and some people may see it as helpful and others might see it as unnecessary or as you fighting other peoples battles that they didn’t ask you to fight.

Sending you good thoughts and feels for the second half of 2026 🫂

thank you for this anon and i take everything you say on board and do agree as well!

i will make sure to be more careful with vague posting on x as i do understand how it can come across.

and yes, if tom is on a break he’s earned it especially (as you said) with how busy he’s been.

sending you good thoughts and feels as well! 🫂

[welcometounicornworlds]

TOM BLYTH  at the Guggenheim Museum in Bilbao with Dom Pérignon (June 4, 2026)

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Following on from that anon. Tom was out last night and there are no clear pictures of him.

We neeeeeed them now

NEED THE HD PICS BC HE LOOKS SO GOOD IN THOSE PIXELS 😭

[hugsforblyth]

Am I the only one who is fed up with all of this. I follow blogs because sometimes have info or pictures of an actor I like.

All the stuff. People blaming blog is to much. I hate seeing all the negative stuff you are getting and I hate seeing all the negative things another blogs get to. So many have left or quit because people can't just be nice.

I understand gossip and I understand wanting to know a bit about someone you admire but why all this bitching. I don't mean you as I get why you voiced your opinion but seriously why can't this just be about tom, his films and how hot he looks in pictures.

yeah no i get you and i agree. i just wish we could focus on tom, support his projects and enjoy any new content we get. there’s been too many people bullied out of fandoms and it’s so sad to see.

at the moment, the fandom is growing more negative by the day and it’s just not a nice place to be in some days. especially if you are a blog on here and are just trying to focus on tom (like yourself anon and others)!

i’m not painting myself out to be perfect. i can certainly be bitchy on here but there was a reason i spoke up today and im glad you saw where i was coming from. 🫶🏼

i hope fandom spaces go back to being enjoyable and positive again and that any nastiness or bitterness really does stay completely private!

[hugsforblyth]

thank you for your message and further insight anon and i completely agree with you! 🫶🏼

[hugsforblyth]

https://www.tumblr.com/hugsforblyth/818594887566016513/i-think-people-blame-you-because-you-again-put?source=share

Calling someone out on another platform is pretty pointless, especially when it only ends up drawing more attention to something that would've otherwise stayed contained. A lot of the time, it feels like you're bringing things from other spaces onto X just so you can position yourself as the reasonable one, and then acting shocked when it gains traction and creates even more negativity.

The situation with your Instagram comment about Tom and Dannie is a perfect example. You posted "poor Tom and Dannie, they don't deserve the hate," and all that did was direct more attention to the post, which led to even more people showing up to send hate. Yet you never seem willing to acknowledge that possibility because, from the outside, you always come across as someone who refuses to admit when they've contributed to a problem.

At some point, it might be worth taking a genuine look at your own behavior instead of repeating the same explanations. And before you bring up the usual "I'm still learning" or "I'm only 25" argument, people have been hearing that for years. The issue isn't making mistakes. it's using the same justification over and over while showing very little evidence that anything is actually changing.

it's also hard not to notice the way you handle anonymous messages. Whenever someone points out something questionable you've done, you rarely address the main criticism. Instead, you tend to focus on one minor detail that's easy to argue against while ignoring the actual point being made. It's a pattern that's become pretty obvious.

You spend so much time twisting the conversation toward the most convenient angle that it feels like you're responding to a completely different argument than the one people originally made.

when i posted today on x, my posts were quite vague and i posted on here as well as there are more issues on here. i’m not surprised it’s got traction. people need to be aware and need to stop. obviously i don’t want it reaching tom and dannie but unfortunately i think they already know more than what people will admit.

i do apologise and take responsibility that some of my own posts have potentially caused this and i do own up to this! whilst it’s not my intention, and i’m sure it’s no one’s intention, i’m aware it could still happen and i apologise. that comment you mentioned, i don’t remember posting that on instagram but if i did then i do apologise. i don’t think i have as im always careful not to bring anything directly to their instagram comments. if i posted something like that anywhere, id assume it was my x account as i have spoken up about the hate they recieve before!

when i get these ‘calling out’ asks, the reason i tend to ignore most parts is because a lot of it hasn’t happened or is taken out of context or it’s something i have already addressed and apologised for multiple times. thats why i don’t talk about it anymore, especially as i was harassed for a long time by the same group that still are hateful in my asks today.

i appreciate your ask and i will do better in the future in responding to any comments! also if any proof can be provided in future asks that would be great because a lot of the time, it’s stuff said that i’ve not done or have addressed.

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I think people blame you because you (again) put attentions to dramas most fans were not even aware of.. You brings tumblr drama on X (Or X on tumblr)... Like ? I'm pretty sure neither Tom or Dannie know what people on tumblr say (And they probably don't care a single second) being a knight is not necessary useful and can sometimes be harmful when you spread the said dramas to other social medias where people didn't care about it OR were not aware of.

but there’s no drama? it’s just calling out weirdo behaviour that not only happens in toms fandom but in multiple fandoms. if people are getting mad maybe they need to think about what they’re posting.

i’m not doing it for clout or to be a ‘knight’. i’m doing it because, as a whole, people have become too comfortable within any fandom being hateful etc and i don’t understand why fandom spaces are becoming so negative and why fans are becoming so entitled. just enjoy the new content when it comes. that’s what i’ve come to realise and that’s where i’m trying to grow.

there’s a lot of issues with fandom culture now in general and yes a lot of those issues have come over into toms fandom as well and it needs to be addressed and it needs to stop.

and we need to stop assuming tom and dannie are clueless to what’s said. we can’t use this as an excuse because that’s why people feel so comfortable with being hateful. it’s not right. we need to remember we are just fans.

if you want to be hateful, do it in private dms. not public spaces/blogs (still public even if it’s ‘hidden’. this blog unfortunately is well known in both tom and rachel fandoms.) that mean things can POTENTIALLY get back to them. again, this goes for fandoms in general.