SubmissiveTrial

After several false starts, my wife and I have decided to try incorporating aspects of femdom into our marriage. It was something I pushed for (and I am still getting over the guilt of that) but my wife has happily ran with it. This blog serves as a way for me to vent without nagging her and show her what I like without "topping-from-the-bottom." I cannot wait to see where she leads me next.

[emtmercy]

So wild that instead of guidelines online moving towards no kind of body being considered inherently sexual and inappropriate we’ve gone onto like explicitly admitting that it’s the association of a body w womanhood that makes it inappropriate and dirty

[riocakes]

_( :3」∠ )_

[blauwstaal]

[petit-poisson-en-cage]

꧁❖꧂

[thealphawithin-deactivated20230]

Waiting

After a long day.

She wants to come home and take off her Super Woman Cape. 

She needs to be her Dominant’s submissive.

She has been making decisions all day.

She doesn’t want to make another one.

Not a single one.

She doesn’t want to dictate how things are going to go for one more second.

She needs YOU to take control of the ship.

She has been steering her planet all day.

Can you steer her now?

She is waiting.

[auroraleigherotica]

#accurate 

[haikyuunsfw]

100 NSFW Questions Ask Meme

Hey. This blog’s now a year old. And we hit 3,000 followers on the same day, so we figured we’d do something fun. Here’s 100 NSFW questions we’ve come up with. Send in some numbers and you get your answer.

First kiss?

First time masturbating?

First sex toy?

First kink tried?

First time doing oral?

First time having sex? Turn Ons

Biggest turn on?

Biggest turn off?

Quickest way to get horny?

Weirdest thing that ever turned you on?

Top 3 places to be touched?

Ultimate fantasy?

Do you like the idea of a three or moresome?

Do you send nudes? Do you like receiving them? Preferences

Sex or masturbation?

Spit or swallow?

Cut or uncut dicks?

Rough or sensual sex?

Oldest person you’d sleep with?

Loud or quiet partners?

How much foreplay do you like?

How much teasing do you like?

What is too big for you to take?

Do you do hookups or only sleep with a partner?

How much kissing do you like during sex?

What’s the most attractive part of the body? Location

Favourite place to have sex?

Would you have sex in public?

Last place you had sex?

Where would you most like to have sex?

Do you like spontaneous sex, or do you need to be in the mood?

Could you go through with a hookup at a strangers house? Kinks

What’s your biggest kink?

What’s your limit?

Are you okay with name calling in bed?

Would you do any BDSM?

Do you prefer to tie somebody up or be tied up?

Favourite type of bondage?

Do you like orgasm denial/forced orgasm?

Do you like overstimulation?

Do you like having pain involved?

Do you like biting/being bitten?

Have you ever been made to/made somebody beg for it?

Do you have any strange or extreme kinks?

Have any roleplaying preferences?

Send a kink with this number. Do you have that kink? Masturbation

Do you own sex toys? How many?

Favourite Sex Toy?

What do you masturbate to?

How often do you masturbate?

How often do you use sex toys to masturbate?

Do you masturbate with penetration?

Do you go for multiple rounds or settle at one or no orgasms? Oral

Do you enjoy giving oral?

Do you prefer giving or receiving oral?

What makes you orgasm the fastest when receiving oral?

Do you have a preferred technique for giving oral?

Can you deepthroat? For people with dicks…

How long and how thick is it?

Do you do anal? Top or bottom?

Are you circumcised?

Do you like your balls being played with?

Do you enjoy prostate stimulation? Ever came from it?

Where do you like to finish? For people with vaginas…

Do you like playing with your clit?

How do you prefer to do it?

What’s your breast size?

How often do you go braless?

Do you finger yourself?

How familiar are you with your g-spot?

Do you squirt? Sex

Favourite position?

How often do you do unprotected sex?

How loud are you in bed?

Do you enjoy having nipples played with?

Do you like/dislike/love/hate cum?

How good are you at dirty talk?

Do you get sleepy after an orgasm? Other

Do you like wearing/seeing people in lingerie?

Do you masturbate or have sex with clothes on?

What’s your favourite style of underwear?

Are stockings/thigh highs a turn on?

Ever had somebody say no to a kink you suggested trying?

Do you trim, shave or leave pubic hair untouched? How do you prefer partners?

How many orgasms can you have in a day?

How many other people know your dick/bra size?

What do you wear to bed?

Do you eat ass? Do you like having your ass eaten?

Try to describe how orgasm feels for you.

Have you ever been to a strip club? How was it? If not, would you? Fun questions!

Do you name your genitalia?

What would be your stripper name?

Any funny sex stories?

What food if any would you use during sex?

Would you give somebody a sex toy as a gift?

What’s the weirdest porn you’ve ever seen?

Do you often get horny in public?

Ever used something that isn’t made for sex in the bedroom?

Have you ever walked in on somebody or been walked in on?

Do you have any friends you’d sleep with?

[solita-never-tells]

OOOO SEND TO ME

[cupcakedarlingg]

The kind of asks I like to hear 😏 Ask me.

[satanicfluttershy-deactivated20]

PLEASE!!!

[subbyflip]

Send me ALL THE QUESTIONS

[husband-s]

I'd answer some of these if someone wanted to ask. ;)

[mostsadisticsmilez]

He’s a pretty good boy 

[marriedmillennials-deactivated2]

[husband-s]

In all honesty, I recommend this book to any couple. Some hard truths about marriage in this book that your mother dodn't tell you.

[cumarillo]

my biggest fantasy at the moment includes me laying down with a strap-on, his hands tied behind his back, and me playing with his nipples as he rides me until he comes untouched and screaming my name.

[illfuckingconscience]

[dommekinks]

THIS!!! If my boy says this to me, dang you are stuck with me for eternity buttercup. *heart eyes*

[husband-s]

Correct answer! :).

[sexykinkyfunnyandcurly]

[ladysaye]

Perfect way to spend a weekend ❤️

[husband-s]

This is my wife in so many ways.

[submissivegames-deactivated2018]

Are you owned at the moment? If you are, how long have you been owned?

i’ve been with my current partner over eleven years now. 

Eleven, we’re at her favorite doctor. 

[husband-s]

Reblog for the gif. ##relateable.

[baronwolfgangarts]

[husband-s]

Beautiful art.

[husband-s]

Posting

My wife and I want me to post more original content. I want to write more of my thoughts on this type of marriage. Would people be interested in that? Send me ideas of what to write about.

[christinebitg]

[flr-caged-n-collared]

flr-caged-n-collared

[intofemdomjourney]

Reaffirming O/our respective positions within the household and remain by Her feet until instructed otherwise.

[lapiin]

[husband-s]

Beautiful!

[diaryofadomme-blog]

The Mindset

Early in the evolution of our Master/slave relationship, I didn’t fully understand the implications of the power exchange. In essence, Steven had to train me on how to be a better dominant. One thing that he explained to me early was the importance of keeping him in the submissive mindset. When we were first starting, I’d often lapse out of “Domme mode” and let him get away with breaking our “rules” or ignoring the rituals.

After a time, this would upset Steven. I asked him why he couldn’t just adhere to the rules and rituals without me having to remind him all the time. He explained that while it was in his nature and it was his desire to submit, he still needed the expression of dominance from me in order to submit. Psychology is a funny thing, isn’t it? Maybe it was something ingrained in him from childhood, but for whatever reason he could not submit of his own “free will” – he had to be forced, or at least reminded of why he chose to submit.

Once I understood this, I began to be much harsher on him than I’d originally ever thought that I would. Then I began to understand what he meant by the “mindset.” I found that the more assertive I was in expressing my dominance when he made a mistake, the fewer mistakes he made. I had to spend a few weeks chiding him for forgetting to say, “Mistress,” but once I started keeping on top of him about it, he quickly became “trained” and even started saying it at times that I wasn’t even expecting him to!

It took some work, but it’s now second nature to me to keep Steven on his toes and subtly (or sometimes not so subtly) remind him who is in charge. It really doesn’t take much to keep him in the mindset. A simple text message or email at work instructing him to fulfill a task or telling him what I’m going to do with him when he gets home is usually enough to ensure that he’s ready and willing to submit when he gets home – even if he’s been going toe-to-toe with his business contacts all day long.

[unsureaboutthisidea-deactivated]

This is so true. 

[husband-s]

To any budding dommes: be a ball buster. You just might enjoy it.

[goodquoteco]

[kushandwizdom]

All good things here

[shyexhibitionists]

One of my favorite games to play with him is “You Pick.” I’ll lay out all of our dildos in front of him and tell him to pick one, but I’ve already written on a piece of paper what’s going to happen with the dildo. Sometimes the answer is he gets ass fucked with it, sometimes he has to demonstrate his blowjob technique with it. Other times I use it to get off in front of him. He never knows, but it’s fun to watch him try and think it through. “Relax sweetie, there is no wrong answer, at least not for me!” LOL

-W

[unsureaboutthisidea-deactivated]

That is a really neat idea….

[husband-s]

Brilliant!