Birthday Magic!!
Hello friends!! June is my birthday month (today being my birthday), so I thought I would take us through all the magical significance of a birthday, and include some exclusive spells, divination, and more than I like to do as my birthday approaches!! Your birthday is special, take some time to celebrate yourself!!! Whether you are with family or friends, or celebrating on your own, you have a lot to be excited for! Lets get started
What is the cultural significance of a birthday?
Before calendars were invented it was really hard to remember when someone may have been born, but it is said to have started in ancient Egypt where birthday parties were held to celebrate the commemoration of the new pharaoh! In the pagan world it was said that someone had a spirit present with them on the day of their birth and was said to help guide them through life, which is how the spirit guide was born!
Birthdays first started a form of protection, in ancient Greece they were the first to celebrate with birthday candles as a way to ward off evil spirits who would come during major events! The candles, friends, and good vibes were a way to protect the birthday person!
In ancient china, the first birthday was considered the most special, and was celebrated with a special ritual called 'Zhuazhou' where a cloth was placed in front of the baby with different objects and from there the baby and its family would see the future ahead!
The modern birthday, as we know it, is actually partially German who began adding cakes, candles, and eventually in the united states a pair of Kentucky school teachers came up with the birthday song after remixing it from a song called 'Good morning to all' and now we have the modern birthday!
How can I honor my own birthday?
Understand your birthday superstitions! Do you find yourself feeling more spiritual on your birthday? How about fending off bad luck if you were born on friday the 13th? Understanding your birthday traditions can help you connect more to new magical traditions that work for you
Understand what your birthday represents to you. When we get older, for some people birthdays can fill us with all sorts of emotions. Some people get excited and throw big parties, for some birthdays are really tender and sources of anxiety so its important to seek out friends and family. Understanding what your birthday corresponds too can be really important for how you choose to celebrate
Understand that you are human. Above all else, honor the fact that you are still standing, that you are here on this earth, and that you did it. It is a big achievement to be still here, and I am so proud of you. Take some time to be proud of yourself my love
Lets talk practices!
Lets go into common rituals, correspondences, tarot spreads, and more!
Practices:
When you blow out candles on a cake reflect on your wish and the history of that tradition
When singing the birthday song, add fun in-between's like "Cha cha cha" to welcome spirits of prosperity
Begin a journal, consecrate an altar or book of shadows, or deep clean your spiritual space for a total energetic refresh
Practice self care and open all those fancy soaps. Practice glamour magic with saved items for an energetic boost
Create a potion using mint, chamomile, and lemongrass for career and academic successes. This potion refreshes your mind and uses birthday energy for renewal
Create spells with renewal, celebration, and reflection in mind
design a spell using your birthdays moon phase and moon sign
Create a blessings spell for the year
Create a crystal grid that represents you and things that make you feel good like colors, energies, and shapes
Practice birthday rituals your ancestors would have practiced
Look up the moon phase and sign and design a birthday ritual with that in mind
Wear favorite colors to represent your sense of self and stability into the next year
Iris's Birthday Seed Spell:
Ingredients:
A pot
a seed of your choice (preferably ones in season on your birthday)
soil
The Steps:
On the bottom of the pot draw a sigil of prosperity and fortune
around the pot, write down goals you have for yourself
as you plant the seeds focus on your intentions for the year ahead and cover them with soil
OPTIONALLY add crystals like moss agate, tree agate, or pyrite on top of the soil for an energetic boost
As you tend to the plant, remember to tend to your dreams
Divination:
Compare and contrast todays astrological chart with the one from your day of birth
Find out what your birth card is and what it means for you
Use a pendulum around your house to find lost objects you may have forgotten about this year
Get yourself a new divination tool
Practice divination your ancestors would have used
Create a shufflemancy playlist by taking the top song on the charts every year on your birthday, then setting it to shuffle.
Calculate your life path number
Symbols:
Cake
candles
Favorite foods, items, and colors
Birth stones, cards, flowers, numbers, and signs
Flowers in general
Large gatherings
Birthchart sigils
Personal Symbols
Mundane:
Remember, Birthdays are filled with a lot of emotions for people. Some people are very excited to celebrate, and others may be stressed, experience feelings of depression, and regret. It is valid to feel any type of way, make sure you are feeling it! On your birthday seek out your support system, whether its friends, family, or teams. They want to celebrate you with you!
Another thing is actually take this time to celebrate you! This is a time to honor another rotation around the sun, it is valid to reflect on anything that comes up for you. Remember that you are not alone, and you are loved very much. Birthdays are special, even if we try to deny it sometimes. Birthdays are special, because you make them special!
If its not your birthday, and you have a friend or family members coming up, it costs nothing to make someones day with a simple text, happy birthday gif, or some time to just sit down and chat. Take care of your friends, as they take care of you. That friend may be excited to host a party, or that friend may want to be left alone, However they choose to celebrate is unique and valid. Make sure that they feel appreciated just like you would want to feel appreciated.
With that said, Here are a few ideas for how to celebrate your birthday in a mundane way, and some tips for birthday wellness
Ideas:
Host a small get together for your friends and family
Reflect on your past in the morning, Honor your present in the afternoon, and dream about your future in the evening
Enjoy your favorite meal
Try your hand at something new like painting, ceramics, or glass blowing
Get yourself a present
Rest!!! Catch up on your favorite show
Take an 'everything' shower
Relax with your favorite beverage
Enjoy a trail with your pets or just get active
Enjoy time out of the house people watching
Put the phone, work, and academia down, be present with yourself
Well with that said, i hope you all have enjoyed! Happy birthday to you, and I hope you have a prosperous journey around the sun once more!
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