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it is so easy to shift your state - let's practice!

ok beloveds.

it is tiiiiiiiime for a little exercise.

i want you to imagine real quick what it would be like to truly be a master at manifestation. yes i know we know we are all masters because we are always manifesting but! i mean a master at conscious manifestation. like, you ALWAYS get exactly what you want in the quickest and easiest way possible no matter what. you just imagine something, decide what you're going to experience next, and boom, it shows up. faster than fast. ayeeee, you did that.

ok, so now that you ARE that person, what's your experience like? what's your way of being within yourself, within the world? you're probably super fucking relaxed, even playful. you probably never worry about anything at all because what would there be to worry about when you know you always get what you want? you probably hardly expend any mental energy on your "desires" because the second you desire something you just--beep boop--claim it as yours and, well, now that's taken care of! you're probably the most present and loving person anyone has ever known. you probably have everyone around you not-so-jokingly asking you to manifest for them (iykyk). you probably feel like god. but not god who's desperately trying to assert some kind of control over a supposed-"outer" world. no. god who knows I AM the world. I AM all. how fun.

how fun indeed, that you just shifted your (drum roll please) state of being!

did that feel good? did you like being that person?

all that took place in your imagination.

you went from being an imaginal self who was maybe stressing about manifestation, watching too many tiktok vids and reading too many twitter threads, affirming affirming affirming but at what cost, to being an imaginal self who--in an instant--already had it all. and therefore could just kick it and watch a show or eat some tacos or go candlepin bowling (my new obsession) without stressing at all.

if that felt good, why not practice being that person? by which i mean consciously choosing to embody that identity until it's so natural that it no longer needs to be a conscious decision because you simply ARE it.

don't attach anything to this. just try the state on as if it's a new hoodie and see how it feels, and if you like it--you prob will, it's pretty snuggly in here!--well, keep wearing it.

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Aww someone to baby me like this 🥹

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How does your sister make those men dote on her and make her treat like a princess? What's her ways?

She only dates men who were raised in stable, two-parent households.

She is incredibly sweet and bubbly, to the point where people (particularly men) find immense joy in doing things for her.

She's clear about her boundaries and expectations at the onset of each relationship.

She's not afraid to ask men for what she wants.

She likes to play the "I'm so helpless because I donate all of my money to those in need and I have barely anything left to take care of myself card" and it works wonders for her.

She's very beautiful, which, let's be real, helps.

She gives men just enough attention to keep them hooked yet constantly in search of earning her affection.

She only dates givers because, by nature, she's a receiver.

She doesn't do 50/50. She does something more along the lines of 125/-25.

She takes a genuine interest in their lives, experiences, and opinions.

She's very generous with her affection, warmth, and care and extremely selfish with her resources.

When she doesn't get her way with men she disappears (taking all the light out of the room with her) and doesn't come back until she's gotten her original request and more.

In short, she's insufferable yet I aspire to be her when I grow up :)

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Do you have any tips for being a spoiled gf or how to be one, and get as much money as you can

The spoiled gf route can get you a lot more over time. I think the most important thing is to remember that when it comes to dating, most older men that prefer a “spoiled gf” don’t want to be seen as a SD. They want the fantasy that you need to create for them. They don’t want the relationship to seem transactional but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ask for what you deserve.

Keep your femininity. If you’d like for him to pay for your upkeep, (and you should) pose yourself as a woman who likes to be kept. If he’s not into giving a formal monthly allowance, you can still pose it as such in a less harsh way. For example if he wants to take you out to dinner. You can tell him “I always love going out and being shown off on your arms. You know I like to keep myself looking my best. Can you send me $xxxx to prepare for our date? Lookin forward to it 😘” Try and make him excited about the date. Tease, talk about how you can’t wait to see him, etc.

It’s also important to “show don’t tell” when dealing with men that prefer a spoiled gf. You don’t need to state that you’re a kept woman. You need to hint at it in mysterious ways. “I love when a man makes things happen ☺️” something along those lines of stroking his ego when asking for something you want. He will see you’re a certain type of prized and high value woman by your actions. So look and dress the part when on dates. Keep the fantasy going and he will find you irresistible.

Since this isn’t an arrangement and there’s nothing agreed upon for what you will be receiving from him, you need to make sure that you are getting what you want once you have established a relationship with him. The key into the spoiled gf route is to make him think you’re very much interested and into him first and foremost and his money second.

During the first few dates, feel him out and take notice. Where did he suggest to take you? Order a bottle of wine. Did he cringe or suggest something cheaper? Did he complain about the bill after your date?

Do not have sex with him. You really want to hold off for as long as you can. You should definitely tease him with kisses, sexual talk, and even a little groping but only as a reward. After he’s spent some money on you, you need to acknowledge and reward him somehow so that he keeps doing it. In the beginning (3-4 dates) is when you vet and prime him. If he’s cheap move on to someone else.

Phone or video sex is a great way to ask and get what you want immediately. I would start off describing a dream I had about him. Then go into detail about what I was wearing. When you feel you’ve been seductive enough (just a few short minutes usually does the trick) to get him started, break the fantasy. Say that you can’t get into it right now because now you’re thinking about how you don’t own that dress. You’d really like to own it and you saw something like it online. If he doesn’t ask how much, just keep saying how it would hug your curves and you’d love something new to wear for him for the next date. When he asks how much, tell him with confidence. I usually don’t say an amount less than $1k but you can say whatever makes sense in your world. If he complains about the price or acts astonished, don’t be rattled. You need to keep confident. Play dumb and say “I don’t understand, is that a lot for you?” He won’t want to look cheap and will fix his tone immediately if he’s worth your time. If he doesn’t or keeps complaining, make an excuse to get off the phone and end the call. If he agrees to sending the money, then great. You can resume phone/video sex if you’d like. If you don’t want to then you can steer the convo in another direction but do make sure to stroke his ego a few times before getting off the phone. This has always always worked for me. It’s important to note not to try this until a relationship has been established already. At least after 2-3 dates. Don’t be afraid to ask. Closed mouths don’t get fed!

These are a few pointers I have found to be successful when going the spoiled gf route. If you’d like a more in depth and detailed step by step breakdown, subscribe to my website! 😉

Good luck, with love 💕

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