ICVeteranDL

40yo Incontinent Disabled Veteran that discovered the supportive community of ABDL through my struggles with my also IC partners and now extended poly-family. We are two husbands, two wives, and two partners with big mixed extended families.

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Let’s see if they allow this one.

Big Guy was nice enough to let me show you how a diaper looks when he is leaking. I sped up the video but when his bladder spasms and leaks he has no control. He just has to wait it out. This took about 3-4 min in reality.

This is a post about incontinence. It should not have to be labeled mature.

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People often ask why we call him Big Guy.

Well that is a queen size bed.

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Check in. Big Guy at a new place with Mama Duck.

Bug Guy morning stretching with Mama and Daddy Duck.

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Big Guy was working out this morning and had a few accidents. He has lost a total of 57 lbs since last year. Although his IC has progressed. This gosupreme pull-up is full from just 1 hour.

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Just wanted to update everyone.

Big Guy got a big promo and does a TON of traveling now. He is gone a lot so the little time we get to spend we take advantage. Mama Bear is doing good. She and Mama Duck are both taking care of the little ones. One is now two and the other is almost a year old. Daddy Duck is still local working and has everything under control. He and Big Guy get the most time together these days as he makes everyone feel safe and loved.

Our other partner is doing well too. They and the Mamas have been holding everything down in this new dynamic.

Additionally, we had to take on our niece. She came to live with us this last year. She just turned 18 in December and her family is not accepting of her being gay. (Really stupid) so she stays with us now. She has cerebral palsy. It’s very light. She gets around just fine but it causes bladder problems and incontinence and wanted to live with us because she knows we have similar problems.

We have a great family full of loving people and we will get some of big guys back up here soon!

Thanks all

~Mama Duck

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Well it looks like all videos have to be like posted like this now or you get flagged.

Password is bigguy

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Big Guy had a long flight back last night and long car ride home. He was with Daddy Duck all week. Daddy put him in a trest to make sure we didn’t have any leaks during the travels. He filled that thing all the way up.

So I decided to get some cute pics of him in the garage while Mama Duck was getting ready to change then feed him. All he wanted was Mama Duck to feed him after being gone for a week.

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Please can you send mommy a direct text message please 🙏🥰🍼

We mommies would love to hear from other mommies!

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Well hello everyone. We know it’s been a while but life has finally slowed down.

Posting some pics of Big Guy per your request. He woke up with zero warning didn’t make it before he had a messy accident. Then talked to me as he finished. His stomach issues have not really improved despite several medical interventions. We have basically been told he will be using diapers for the foreseeable future.

Most of the time he can make it before there is too much mess but these last few months have been difficult for him, so send him your love.

As for family. Both I (mama bear) and our other partners are doing very well. Big Guy has gotten another promotion and our partner has moved into a new career field. Our other two partners are doing well too.

We are going to be moving. We bought some land with about 20 acres and are going to build a homestead for us and our committed partners.

We have two new babies and that has been the bulk of the work. Both I and our partner have been busy with that for this last year and a half.

Well that’s it for now. Enjoy the pics I snapped while Bug Guy wasn’t aware (he knows now and approves) and best wishes from ours!

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It’s been a long hard year. We had Big Guys 1 year anniversary for his mothers death. Big Guy spiraled for a long time but he is getting better and back on track. We all needed some therapy and a break but we are back! We won’t be as posty as before but we will be regular. Happy to be home everyone! ~ Mama Bear

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Hi everyone. It’s been a hard few months. Since September Big Guy lost his mom, his last living grandfather, his grandmother, his uncle and a few weeks ago we lost one of our partners. It wasn’t a partner that ever participated on here but the losses have stacked and we haven’t been able to be on here for you all. We will be back at some point. We don’t know when that is but please keep Big Guy in your prayers. He is the strongest man I know. He goes on like everything is ok but I know he is melting on the inside.

Take some time to call your loved ones today. Make the time. One day they could just be gone.

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Hey all. First. Let us thank you for all the support. It has help through a hard time. In September over Labor Day weekend, Big Guy lost his mother. They were very close. It has been incredibly hard on him and the rest of the family. She was always so supportive of him and whatever he decided. So the magnitude of his loss is nearly unmeasurable. He also lost his grandpa to cancer the same weekend. So his dad lost his father and his wife within theee days of each other. Big Guy has been trying to be with his dad as much as possible.

Additionally his last surgery didn’t go as well as they hoped. He has been in a lot of pain. Most of you know he travels a lot for work. After he gets home he just isn’t in the mood for pictures or any playtime really. Please bear with us as we get through this all and we will be back! He is an incredibly resilient person. He just needs some time. Apologies and thank you.

~ Mama Bear and Mama Duck

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People have asked us why we are posting less. The truth is tumblr has made it harder. Almost every post needs appealed these days and half the time it is denied. We will keep posting if we can but the reality is we are closing in on a time when that may no longer be possible. We don’t have plans to take this to other platforms for various reasons. So when that time comes we will let you know.

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Big Guy is home!! Snapped some sneaky pics while I was getting him ready for a bath this morning. I’m so glad he is home. I am need my cuddle and feeding time.

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Daddy Duck and I have had Big Guy to ourselves this weekend. A fun night of playtime and adult playtime 😏😉☺️ always leaves us with a full and messy boy. ~ Mama Duck

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Big Guy making breakfast after being spending a few weeks with our other partner. ~ Mama Duck

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Big Guy was up early. His new meds make let him go so much more. We had to change halfway through the night. ~ Mama Bear