Hi! I just wanted to say that there are people that believe Miarren is real without liking Mia. I don't like her style, her music, her sense of humor etc and she isn't someone I'd want in my life. That said, I believe Darren could be in a real relationship with her because a) even though I've been a big fan of him for twelve years I don't actually know him and b) relationships don't have to fake to be toxic or just not great. I see so much stuff about how Darren wouldn't choose to be with someone like her but I've known tons of really great people that married/dated assholes. Believing he married her out of actual love doesn't mean he must be an awful person.
Hi anon. Firstly thank you for coming to my ask in a non confrontational way. That’s appreciated right now. So I will answer in kind.
I also agree to a point with you. That as fans (and I’m including ALL fandom) we don’t know him truly or by extension M either. What we know is what’s put out there on SM, by his Team, M and D. We have to base our opinions on that. That for the most part is my issue.
I also take your point that nice people marry assholes irl, but anon ‘tons’ I’m concerned for you and your multiple friends trapped in toxic relationships. In my experience when a friend marries an asshole or stays with one they are usually being manipulated guilted or gaslighted. When kids are involved it’s worse because they get damaged by that toxicity because they don’t have the emotional maturity to cope.
So I do get what you’re trying to say here, but there are too many inconsistencies over the last 10 years for me to believe they are remotely real.
I never said D was an awful person, but I did say if it was a real relationship then they likely deserved each other. They don’t treat each other well publicly and if it were real D doesn’t protect her. I also said that historically if it’s real, yet toxic (as you suggest) then they treat each other horribly so bring a child into that toxic environment?
There are way to many red flags for me regarding their relationship. Let me list them and this is keeping CC out of the equation. These are NOT opinions and can be evidenced.
Ben the lodger of 3 years
Valentines 2017 - with no D and a semi dressed M.
Early years evidence they weren’t a couple pre gl/ee from D.
Renting the house they said they’d sold while pretending it was their home for 2 years
Red carpet running away from her multiple times. Early videos are a gold mine, but it still persisted until very recently.
No real proposal story + japami location. @klaineownsmysoul I now have the Will Smith song altered to ‘Welcome to Japami’!!
Timing of encage and now baby announcements for max exposure to projects. From ACS to a baby during AB.
Having to back track on officiating their own wedding (because they legally can’t) by saying it was earlier.
The family honeymoon - hilarious
The ever present 3rd wheel to document mi@rren
The fact their romantic vacays including the honeymoon are #ads
The sponsorship of everything from the 5th encage ring to the wedding
The wedding which was aimed at fandom (no need if they are an iconic couple in love).
Kisses that miss - a lot. Kisses that don’t are staged
His physical uncomfortableness when lying
The team not allowing his mum to the awards ceremony.
The bar - D says he doesn’t own it.
D’s inability to talk about her and light up like he does about others
Recently calling the mother of his child s ‘mother fu*ker’ on video. Although that does tie in with the hideous wedding shot glasses.
The storybook fabrication of her CV to cover the fact her role is to beard for him.
Lack of chemistry- especially when caught off camera
These are just from the top of my head. I’m sure others will add. I guess RR has a go to list here to check.
It’s not about separating his work either. There is no separation and if it was a real relationship of 11 years anon it wouldn’t require this heavy lifting PR to prove it and by extension disprove CC.
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