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How do you emotionally and mentally balance the need to be strategic and calculating on a daily basis while acknowledging the fact that you are human and you need to just be sometimes?

Great question.

-Diversifying my friends has not made everything about money. When I hang with sex workers, it feels like I am on the clock every time we hang out. I’m fond of the opportunistic mentality however, sometimes I want to have a drink at a rooftop and not freestyle. If you followed me from the beginning, you saw when I had burnouts. I was 100% in it. Nothing made sense unless there was an incentive. That was cute until I needed someone to speak to who I wasn’t f**king or couldn’t use my weakness as an advantage.

-I have become more mature, I didn’t know that was possible. My therapist asked me “Besides money and knowledge, what have you done for yourself?” I responded “My beauty, connections and fitness.” He nodded “Your external benefit is being fulfilled, your internal self is in a waiting room.”

-I meditate. When things going my way, I focus on my breathing and write a formula.

What’s Wrong + How Has It Is Directly Affected Me - How To Fix It= Problem Solved.

- Acknowledging that life is short and it doesn’t mean to do whatever you want, but to make sure you have fulfilled yourself. Spending more time with my grandmother, she has done so much for herself, she is able to sit down and say if I die today, I die happy. That hits me hard. She is fulfilled.

Good luck to all the ladies going to Cannes this year.

cocosugxr

Slowly cracking the code on how to sugar via Yelp🔥

Will update in a week or so after testing it out a little more!

cocosugxr

I know it has been well over a week, but here it is:

Step 1. Open Maps on your iPhone and zoom and click on Nice/expensive places in your area.

Note: you need to decide if you’re looking for clients that you likely won’t see unless they’re in town (click on nice hotels) or local POTs/clients (click on everything else ie: men’s clothing stores, cafes, bars, etc.)

Ex:

Step 2: scroll to the bottom and click on “Find out more on yelp” I then look for menn who have left reviews. I usually look for older men who mention that they come to this place all the time, favorite spot, etc. avoid the people who just come to talk shit or talk about how pricy items are.

Ex:

This review is okay, don’t necessarily like that he’s talking about saving on bloody Mary’s lol, but you get the picture.

Step 3: click on the profile.

Ex:

Now I not only have access to the fact he lives in LA, (local POT) I have access to all the places he’s left a review aka PLACES where high quality men frequent aka freestyle spots!! There is also access to his friends which could lead to others like him.

I now know new places to freestyle for what I’m looking for, which is a local POT, that I can see frequently and can eventually become a SD/sponsor.

The next possible step to this could be to comment on his posts, make friends, etc etc… but my goal here isn’t to be engulfed in the Yelp world, my goal is to find legit places to freestyle in order to find local potentials.

I can say that I use this method every now and then, and have found some really nice places in LA that I’ve never even heard of, or that I was somewhat unsure of, and think it’s worth trying.

Let me know what you guys think, any tweaks, successes or failures.

Xoxo🌹

emptyemptynow-deactivated201709

Screening

Here’s the information I request on my contact form, and how I use it.

Required information is marked with an asterisk*

*First name

*Middle name

*Last name

*Email address

*Phone number

*Do you prefer texting or calling?

Texting

Calling

Either

*Provider References

Please provide the name, email, website address or ad link, and contact number for AT LEAST TWO currently active companions, and the dates you last saw them.

Age

Employment Verification (REQUIRED if you have less than two provider references, STRONGLY RECOMMENDED otherwise)

Employer’s name, your position/title, company phone number, your direct line or extension, and story for me to use when I call (or other way for me to verify employment, such as an employee photo ID badge)

*Appointment Date and Time

*Appointment Duration

P411/TER/localboard/Datecheck Info

Outift request (not guaranteed)

*What are you looking to get out of our date?

*Where did you find me?

Is there anything else you’d like to tell me?

RECOMMENDED Driver’s License Upload

OPTIONAL Face Photo Upload

How I use this information:

Google their name, both with and without quotes around their name (quotation marks tell the engine to search specifically for that exact phrase, not similar phrases)

Google their email address, both with and without quotations

Google their phone number, both with and without quotations

Plug their phone number and email address into the search feature of my local board to see if they’ve ever been blacklisted

Go to your state’s courts website, and search their court records database for his name. If your state separates their database by county, search for your county, his county, and a few surrounding counties. In my state, all superior court cases are available to view. You can see what pleading/motion was filed, and when, as well as the final judgment. You do have to pay to request the actual documents to see their contents, and you probably cannot do this anonymously (in my county, you have to call the county clerk’s office). In my state, district and municipal cases cannot be viewed, but they will still show up in the search results. Your state may be different.

Search for them on Facebook. Often their wives or children have much more of their profiles publicly visible.

Search for any information on their family members.

(I will be buying a Spokeo subscription soon, so I can plug all their info into here, as well)

Google the providers (normally Googling their name and city will pop them up if they have any sort of online presence). Or just find them based on the info he gave you.

See what kind of reputation those providers have. What to they charge? Do they have any rob reports or bad reviews posted of them? Do they look like they have their shit together? Do they have their own website? Does it look nice? Are there a ton of typos? Having your own website legitimizes you. Do they have professional photos, or are they bathroom selfies?

Contact the providers. I start off by emailing them. “Hi Jessica, this is Foxxxy. Billy Joe is requesting a date with me and used you as a reference. Can you please tell me if he was safe, clean and respectful? Would you recommend him to another provider? Anything else you can tell me about him and his personality I would very much appreciate! Best, Foxxxy.” I follow up with a text. “Hi Jessica, this is Foxxxy. I just sent you an email with a reference request. If you could get back to me promptly, I would really appreciate it!”

See what they say. Duh.

Contact his employer. The one time I called a client’s company, it was quite well-known and Google-able. I called the main company line, and asked to be connected to the president of _____. He was already en route on the plane, but I was able to hear his voice during his voicemail recording. A simple phone call to his cell phone would match up his voice, verifying he does work there. I have had a few clients send me photos of their photo ID badge (military personnel, for example).

Obviously check to see how many Okay’s they have, or if they’re on the whitelists for the hobby IDs they provided you. Search their usernames/IDs to see if anything negative pops up.

If they sent you a photo of their driver’s license: search Google Maps for the address on the card. Do they live in a nice part of town? Google the address. Has it popped up on Zillow lately? Any homeowner info pop up? You might be able to search their driver’s license number, either by Googling or going to your state highway patrol site, though I haven’t tried this myself.

If they sent you a photo of their face: reverse Google image search that shit! Also reverse search for it on TinEye. Do they look friendly?

This sounds like a lot, but doesn’t take all too long once you get the hang of it. This doesn’t guarantee your safety, but it sure does reduce the risk of an assault or an arrest.

sartorialadventure

Azzi & Osta, spring 2015 couture

germansugarbaby

Rich Ho - Poor Ho

„Good Woman“ or Poor Ho?

Chances are you’ve wasted your good looks and time on relationships that didn’t put you ahead in life. It’s not that you were not a Ho, it’s that you were a dumb Ho.

Husbands and boyfriends can be pimps too. If a man has no job, income or ambition and a woman takes care of him by way of her “regular job” she’s his ho.

The only thing keeping a dumb ho with the man they’re with is that they are getting good sex or just afraid of being alone. Poor Hoes fancy themselves “good women” because they still believe in losers.

All you have to show for your sexual follies are a string of bad break-ups, bad credit, fatherless children and a shelf full of self-help books written to convince you that you need to heal and love yourself before you can find love. That’s the life of a poor ho.

Not only do poor Hoes carry around tainted reputations, bad memories of failed relationships with men and the burden of living up to the high moral standards of self-righteous people that criticize women in my world for putting prices on time- poor Hoes have to do so with little to no financial futures.

Would you rather retire poor or rich? Would you like dying while embracing beliefs, morals and values given to you by others that never helped you reach your potential or die living your own way?

Will your moral compass pay your bills, buy you a home, add money to your retirement savings? Are you a beautiful, vibrant, articulate and woman with beliefs, values and standards that make you feel like a good woman- but broke as hell?

Hoes know and use their power

Pussy is powerful enough to make men take the most seemingly idiotic risks to their livelihoods, safety, freedoms, reputations and even family statuses!

Just as cocaine, crack, and other highly addictive drugs enslave their patrons, women of the night find increasingly clever and enticing methods to lure, captivate, exploit and even tame some of the most powerful, influential men on the planet.

Hoe’ Genius!

What’s underestimated in ‚Hoes‘ is that these women have mastered reading into the psychological tendencies of men, to such a degree, that some crafty ladies can almost predict what a man will and won’t do.

They even dangle pussy at the noses of these men like a carrot on a long stick in just the right way and with perfect timing.

As a result, committed Hoes often reach plateaus of society that less sensual minded women will never get to.

Often, such women don’t have to actually master a trade or even be knowledgeable about specific industry related topics but the men will want to “teach” them, share knowledge and opportunities.

An ex-Ho will know more about men and relationships than a square bitch in the regular world trying to figure out why her husband or boyfriend won’t stop paying strippers and escorts with their savings. Ex-Hoes just accept and understand certain truths about human nature

Smart Ho’s play dumb

Smart hoes know how to play dumb just enough to be approachable and unassuming to men.

Disarming men of the need to think logically can’t be done by a ho bragging about her PhD.

Hoes that do ho shit and scream to the top of their lungs how smart and insightful they are only attract antagonistic men that want to fuck them, and show them how stupid they really are.

Men that think logically while dealing with hoes always end up getting something for nothing from dumb hoes that claim to be smart!

Men that feel no need to prove their intelligence when dealing with smart hoes that know how to play dumb, pay more money.

In this world, you don’t lead with your best weapon (brain), you hide it because you’ll need it to manipulate unsuspecting men.

The male psyche is competitive. Hoes need to know how to switch the focus of men from being smart and competitive to being foolish.

Men come to hoes to relax, not have the same so-called intellectual debates with a ho that they may have with a coworker, wife or girlfriend.

What these men will not be doing when they are relaxed and catered to properly is putting efforts into being defensive, competitive and antagonistic.

Disarmed men are great contributors to the financial causes of smart hoes.

By the time these men are entranced, the smart ho has been watching each of them, studying where their eyes roam and fixate, figuring out how they think and what turns them on.

A smart Hoe knows how to lie well

Dumb hoes tell the truth and hope for the best. Smart Hoes tell the truth needed at the moment

A woman that leads with her best feature doesn’t know how to tease and seduce a man into submission.

when her “best feature” fails to impress she’ll do desperate dumb shit to get attention and acceptance. That makes her vulnerable to settling for less, a future cheap thrill at best.

If a ho’s best feature is her personality, she should never admit it. Instead, claim that something else like tits, legs or ass are the best feature- no matter the appearance.

To bring attention to lesser qualities and still maintain the interest of men means that she is so clever that she can get a man that loves big boobs to love small breasts.

If you want a man to get hooked on your ass, pick the worst feature you have and tell him, “Most guys love my tits.” He’ll pretend to love your tits just to get to your ass

when a smart ho tells men that most men love her feet and ankles even though she knows that her mind is as sharp as a razor, she’s telling men where she wants their focus to start.

Even if the Ho knows that her feet and ankles are indeed her worst feature but watches men lie about how great her feet and ankles look, the ho learns how such men lie.

If a Ho can’t tell when her clients or fans are lying, she’s no longer in business, she’s a fool in love.

As a female capitalist, you will lie. You will deceive. You will have men believing that you care for them. Most of all they will believe in your illusion so wholeheartedly that they will reach into their pockets, hand you money and invite or even beg you to keep lying to them and feeding them their own fantasies.

Smart Hoes don’t give it up easily

Pussy is valuable. The stock of pussy rises when it’s not accessible to everyone.

Dumb Hoes resort to falling on their backs quickly under pressure. Smart Hoes create an entire world around prospects, lure men into the chase while milking them for money for as long as their teasing remains effective.

If sex enters the negotiations, it is never positioned with a price. Instead, setting up business deals and residual work which produces funds is the aim.

Any ho can fuck, but it takes a business woman with a Ho side to obtain residual income without fucking until the highest bid’s check clears and the next prospect is on tap.

This strategy allows smart Hoes to fuck for fun when the money is in place for other things.

Big money doesn’t pay for sex, big money pays for access to rarity and status

Play coy with the pussy, not with the business of positioning your package.

Know your Targets Motives

Men that deal with known escorts, groupies, adult entertainers and business women with ho tendencies are not extending their time and money for sex. They are paying for the illusion of possibly experiencing the most intimate parts of the women.

Men that have money and want to spend it on women are not victims. While they may behave as helpless sex addicts or shameless fans of erotic masterminds, these men want to be “handled.”

Men don’t want to always know or think that they must pay for sex. So more upscale spenders would rather throw money into gifts and be angel investors for business women with viable ideas and skills. Use this to your advantage! Cash is not the only valuable thing a man can give you.

You may be thinking, why don’t these men just get real girlfriends? Real girlfriends demand more. They require men to listen, feel, compromise and collaborate for an undetermined amount of time.

Hoes do not want to change a man’s life direction, they simply want to supplement the man’s life fulfillment

Train your Targets

The difference between the man that will keep buying your show versus the man that will wake up and want to burn your show to the ground rests in your ability to know how far to bond with a man.

Bond too much, he will expect more than you are willing to give. Bond too little, he will find another starlet to tell him lies. Work him just right and he will know when to stay and when to leave you alone.

Training your contacts means grooming people to communicate with you on your terms. In this world, you have to set boundaries between your personal and professional life

One of my girls has a unique way of training men to be prompt and follow her lead. When she gives them her phone number, she tells them to call at very specific times. She may instruct a guy to call her at 9:15 pm.

Whether the guy calls earlier or later than the established time, she never answers the first call. She tests the man to see if he will leave a voicemail and if he does, she carefully listens to what he says in the message to ensure that he respectfully communicates and is discreet.

In either case, when she calls men back she always tells them that she travels plenty for work, has a busy schedule and deals with the public frequently.

Then she says that she usually has to schedule her social life and if he’s comfortable with her hectic schedule he must always be prompt if she’s going to reserve time for him.

Most men fall right into line because they always want her to answer when they call and did not like the feeling of leaving messages on her voicemail. So she controls her communication channels at all times.

Source: Poor Ho, Rich Ho by Lair Haven

I haven't felt comfortable in a while but thats a reminder that I'm growing. If only I could learn to be patient and appreciate the growth. One thing at a time I suppose.

ilovelisabetch

misscherrylikesthediscourse

Incall Routine

Remove my name from the door, put all things with my name on them safely away.

Prepare fresh towels, shower gel, tooth brush and tooth paste in the bathroom, put a fresh sheet on the bed and my blankets and pillow safely away. I offer really lush plushy towels, like they get in hotels.

Pick guy up downstairs, take him to my apartment

Let him in, telling him to take his shoes off and put his stuff on the couch, he can sit down if he likes.

Politely ask for the money, glance if it seems the right amount and put it aside.

Tell him to undress and go into the bathroom, I’ll be right with him.

Count the money, put it in a safe place while he’s out of the room. Not just into a drawer, definitely hidden.

Take off my clothes, keep on the lingerie and step into the bathroom to soap him up. A good opportunity to clean his genitals thoroughly by giving him a soapy wank. Generally this establishes physical contact and it makes him feel spoiled and taken care of. Throwing in some compliments on his physique is a good idea, if you can come up with them. It’s relaxing, comforting and intimate to have someone wash you.

Wrap him in the towel and dry the back (more caring, also no dripping all over the place).

Get him into the bedroom, making him come as fast as possible.

Get a washcloth or small towel, soak it in hot water and clean him up. No matter if he came into a condom or on himself, this is another level of luxurious feelings, it’s effective in cleaning away the bodily fluids and it gives you and excuse to wash your hands and/or pull faces in the mirror, being grateful you’re done.

Offer a massage which is focused on the back so he doesn’t get any second round ideas.

Discreetly checking the clock or monitoring the playlist and suggesting another quick shower ten minutes before the time is up to remove the oil.

Another soaping up and towel wrapping.

He’s good to go and probably thinks I’m god’s gift to men. Which I am.

Once he’s ushered out the door, count the money again and feel smug/relieved/not well enough compensated based on how nice a client he was.

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For all my escorts out there ^^^^^

badboujeebaby

US Sex Worker PSA:

Just want you guys to know that SESTA and FOSTA can still get hold of your information and prosecute you if you’re hosting on overseas domains. So things like a proton email is pretty much useless because the government can bypass it! It may prolong the process or add complications but they will still get hold of it. There is more within the terms and conditions of each site but it stems from a treaty that allows the government to request the company to withhold your information.

Please reblog, spread the word, educate yourselves and stay up to date. stay safe X

cartierbarbiedoll

For my American babies 🤯

luxebrownbabe

So is the only option freestyling to get clients? The government keeps making it increasingly difficult to ho in peace. :/

xxmiamixxoo

One of the reasons I took my expensive ad and beautiful website I worked so hard on down. Not worth it unfortunately. Freestyling is dangerous too, as is meeting people online. Just be careful loves

vonauw

Red Island Beach, Indonesia

earthstory

My heart is starting to beat faster when I think about my beloved Cappadocia … Looks like all fairytales in one and like nothing you even see before 🎈 Is it in your bucketlist? ✨ 🎶 Izzamuzzic - Adventure

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My Guide to Escorting: Part 1

This is a comprehensive post about escorting! Under a readmore of course. Part 2 will include information about websites, how to cover your ass, pricing, payment, LLCs & DBAs, taxes, and how to up your game.

I. SETTING GOALS & EXAMINING WHY YOU WANT TO GET INTO IT

This should be your first step. What do you want to accomplish? Make sure that it isn’t out of desperation because you may put yourself in danger. If you are desperate, clear your mind. Escorting is fast money, but not all of it is good money. Please stay aware of that.

II. RESEARCH YOUR AREA

Is your area a place that you can market yourself in? Are there enough wealthy men looking to spend? If there are, you’re gold. While you’re at it, look up the legalities of escorting in your area. It’ll determine how you should operate. If you’re in the US, please educate yourself on the SESTA/FOSTA laws.

III. DECIDE HOW YOU WANT TO ESCORT/ADVERTISING

Do you want to be on a website (i.e. Eros), or freestyle? How would you go about either in your area? If you’re in a smaller city, freestyling in person may not be viable for you compared to someone in NYC. If you’re in a larger city, it may be easier for you to freestyle. More fish in the sea. It depends on your area and what you’re most comfortable with. If you will be advertising, will you use Twitter, Fetlife, Niteflirt, etc. as addons? If so, take extra precaution that your info can’t be tracked back. I don’t know much about Eros, so I’m not going to write a guide on how to use it. However, I will discuss freestyling.

Freestyling doesn’t always have to be in person. You can freestyle on Tinder, Hinge, OKC, Pure, Niteflirt, Fetlife, or anything that isn’t strictly for escorting. If you have a good bio and great pictures, you will be fine. Don’t mention money on the app, get his number and discuss money using your fake phone/fake number. If he doesn’t bite, goodbye. If he does, you have a client. Watch who you’re matching with for telltale signs of a cop though (i.e. they look poor as shit. Always pictures in public settings like public bathrooms). Set your location in areas that cops can’t afford, and make it specific to neighborhood if you can.

If you’re freestyling in person like at a bar, the way to avoid stings and to avoid lower end clients is to go to highly expensive areas on weekdays (when no specials are being run) to places that aren’t known for hoeing. Don’t dress indecently. Befriend the bartender, they know where the regular big spenders are and when they go. Tip them well and chat them up. However, you can freestyle at places beyond bars and restaurants. Bookshops, coffee shops, anywhere in affluent areas with men of quality. When it comes to speaking to a potential client, you don’t always have to allude to something sexual either. You can talk freely (with your persona on of course) with a few flirts here and there and give them your card with your site on it. Men who’re interested in you will look up your site and see what you’re about, and nothing was illegal about that exchange. How many clients you get based off of this is directly correlated to how much work you put into it.

You should also determine whether you’ll be doing incalls or outcalls.

IV. FIGURE OUT YOUR BRAND

How will you market yourself? This will be your genuine brand, the person your clients will see you as. Because of this, it should be something you can emulate easily. Are you a girl next door type? A vixen? An erudite? A mix of them? Whatever you choose, don’t stray from that lane. You should eat and breathe your persona whenever you are “on”. I recommend looking up the 13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes and seeing how you can play into yours. It’ll make snapping your persona “on” much easier. Also, you should pick a name based off of your brand. Ensure it’s not common, or taken by a popular escort. You should want your own shine.

Branding will not include all of your essence in its core. It is simply about the parts of you that your clients will most enjoy. To effectively brand, you have to envision your perfect client. What do they look like? What do they like to discuss? To eat? What are their likes and dislikes? What do they pride themselves on? After you’ve figured this out, do your research (again) on your area. Figure out how many of your perfect clients exist near you. Find everything they dislike and throw it out. Find everything they like and amp that up. For example, my perfect client I know would dislike any references to or about pop culture because they’re monied and ~cultured~. If my client hates pop culture, there is a good chance he will hate outfits that are not sophisticated and smart. So fast fashion and cheap-looking lingerie is out of the window. I know my perfect client would read Forbes, travel magazines, and investing magazines. The first and last items are business related. While he’ll want to discuss them (and while I have the range to discuss it), I am trying to be his getaway. So I will focus primarily on those travel magazines. Read those. What hot spots does your perfect client enjoy? Is it rustic, classic, or modern? What does he like to do in these hot spots?

Figure it out.

V. PICTURES

This is based off of what you are trying to market yourself as. However, you should choose different settings and poses that will appeal to your ideal client. If you are just starting and don’t have money for professional pictures, find a sub that can do your heaux pictures if you dominate them (real shit, there are men like this) or use well-taken selfies (NOT OF YOUR FACE & HAVE THEM TASTEFULLY DONE). Something I am valuing in my pictures is color theory. I am marketing myself as a getaway, so I noted which colors I saw most saturated in those travel magazines; which ones convey serenity and/or unadulterated passion. Reds, yellows, blues, whites/creams, pinks are my prime colors. I want to blend with the image of a getaway so that their minds associate me with luxurious peace. If you’re marketing yourself as the girl next door, your pictures will be vastly different from mine. However, you should always have uniform lingerie, some body makeup on, and some nice heels. It doesn’t have to be expensive as long as it’s good quality. Ensure that your clothed pictures get the same energy. PLEASE no spandex dresses or anything of the sort. The type of clients who’ll enjoy that will be low quality. If you’re not going with a hoetographer, learn how to blur your face out. Don’t pose in any reflections that would make blurring more tricky, and don’t pose in your apartment if you can help it. If so, do not give a big profile of the room out. If you know how to use Lightroom and Photoshop, all the better.

If you’re trying to be more high-end, do more clothing pictures than you do seductive/lingerie/naked pictures. Show the assets tastefully. Trust me. The more thought you put into your photos, the more your clients will pay.

VI. SAFETY

Do you have any friends that you can check in with while you’re with a client? If not, can you download apps that allow an app to check on you (i.e. Life360, bSafe, Kitestring) and call for help if you don’t check in on time? Do you have access to a taser, gun, knife, or pepper spray, and do you know how to use them? Have you taken a self defense class? Do you have a fake phone or fake number you can use? (Hoe emails can come later–use ProtonMail) If you’re doing an incall, have a trusted person with a key to your apartment just in case. Keep all personally identifiable information away from reach and locked up. Personally, I keep a separate apartment for incalls so that they don’t know where I live. If they do, they are one background check away from knowing your real first and last name. (I rented out this apartment through my LLC, so if they tried to backtrack into the apartment’s history, all they can find is my LLC name. That only links back to my DBA. My DBA can only be traced back to my name if they personally went to the county clerk’s office and illegally obtained it. You should work on being as anonymous as possible. I’ll talk about how to set one up later in the next post.)

If you’re doing an outcall, do a check of the entire place with weapon in hand to ensure that he is the only one in the room. Stay in large hotels with staff that’ll give a damn about you. Never go to his house, never do any drugs or get drunk. Have a “get out” plan and be able to formulate a quick one in your head. ALWAYS make sure you always get the money first and make sure it’s real. Have them give it to you in an envelope, book, or card inconspicuously. Never let them tie you up or put you in any position you can’t get out of. Bring your own condoms, they might poke holes in theirs or they might be expired. Check periodically to make sure the condom’s still on. If they’re trying to position you a certain way again and again, there may be a camera in the room. Make sure to check for one and ensure that both of your phones/laptops/whatever are off and far from reach.

VII. SCREENING

I felt that this deserves its own bulletpoint, although it does go hand in hand with safety. YOU MUST SCREEN. I don’t care if they’re a celebrity, you don’t know them. SCREEN. Ask for their first, middle, and last name, and their real number. You can ask for their home address, work address, anything or everything that will help you find info on them faster. Use Zabasearch, Stud or Dud, Whitepages, Google, Facebook, LinkedIn, PeopleFinders, LipstickAlley (if they’re a known hoe), Instagram, anything and everything that gives you their information. If you don’t have a good feeling about someone, TRUST IT. Don’t skimp on this step at all. If you find anything you don’t like, decline to see them.

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My Guide to Escorting: Part 2

This is the part of my guide that wanted to delete itself out of nowhere, so this is a rewrite. It’s under a readmore as well.

VIII. WEBSITES

Don’t host your site or servers in the US, that’s foolish with SESTA/FOSTA. You can research to find servers outside of the US that you can host your site on. If you don’t have the money for those yet, I would try a Wordpress or IMXPRS site until you can. Be aware that the site can be deleted at any time though. You also should avoid any American .___ names, like .com/.net. Keep it out of the US entirely. As for website design, you can either do it yourself or pay someone to do it. I paid someone to do it so that my ass would be ENTIRELY covered, and I’m very grateful for him. I’ll explain in the payment area.

Your website should be UX friendly! You know these niggas are old, don’t make them have to jump everywhere to find your prices and your pictures. Keep it simple but elegant. What you write on your site should be hands down amazing as well. You can pay someone to do it or do it yourself. I did mine myself because I’m a great writer. However, it should be written in an enticing and sultry way, no matter your persona. Leave it dreamy and pretty. What you add in it from there is up to you – like likes/dislikes, places you want to travel to, etc.

IX. COVERING YOUR ASS (FOR AMERICAN PROVIDERS)

Make it clear that you’re only selling your time, not ya pussy. Create disclaimers EVERYWHERE. Whenever you pay for something escort-related, use the Privacy app, Bitcoin, or a prepaid gift card. Use VPNs when you’re accessing these sites. Also, don’t ever mention money right with sex, even if it’s with a regular. Try not to incriminate yourself.

X. PRICING

When you’re starting out, you have to price yourself to the location. Unless you’re marketing to a specific area, or if you’re in a huge city, you’ll probably have to start out a bit lower. I would recommend starting lower (not low!) just to get a feel for escorting. Higher quality clients don’t do hourly bookings and I didn’t realize that until recently either. Big spenders want full GFE for hours on end. I have under 10 clients since I got rid of any dates under 5 hours, and I see 4 a month, but those 4 earn me on the upper end of xx,xxx a month + tips + gifts. So don’t worry about pricing high if you’re more experienced, as long as you have regulars that will pay. And they will if you feel like their friend. Trust me: don’t say you do GFE but only want them to fuck and leave. You need a good persona & to immerse yourself in it to earn this type of money.

XI. PAYMENT/HOW TO SET UP DBAs & LLCs

First, don’t accept payment from any apps unless you have a business profile set up (like Paypal Business). Cash app shows your real name on your clients’ bank statements and Venmo is a version of Paypal, meaning it’s equally as stupid. I like to keep everything uniform. There’s sort of no reason to have an LLC if you’re accepting large payments to your personal accounts. If anyone bothers to look, trust me: it won’t look right. Real merchants shouldn’t be accepting business payments through personal accounts.

If you have under 50k cash, I wouldn’t worry about everything else in this bulletpoint. You’ll be fine. We know how the cash depositing laws work (in the US) and how closely they watch for structuring. So, I created an LLC and a DBA. The LLC is the actual business, the DBA should be your escorting name. You’ll need both because a DBA without an LLC runs the risk of showing your real name on your clients’ bank statements. I made my LLC a matchmaking service. Whatever you choose should explain all male clients (like modeling, sexy art exhibit, etc etc). In my LLC, I have listed myself as an employee and I get paid from my heaux money twice a month directly to whatever account I choose. I use Gusto to set up direct deposit and to also pay payroll taxes. If you have a personal assistant or an independent contractor (web designer) that you need to regularly pay, put them on this payroll if they’re fine with you getting their personal info to do so.

All you need to do to pay yourself is to set up a business checking account. Before you do this, you need to register your DBA with your city before you can open one. Then you need to add your DBA under your LLC so that payments can be made out to either (which will be helpful if your client is trying to pay a check directly to your escort name). After this you’ll need to create a Tax ID number. Fill out Form SS-4 to do so. It’ll take a few weeks to process and then you’ll get one back. You’ll also need a state tax form to fill out. The bank you’re with will ask to see your LLC’s articles of incorporation, which you need a lawyer to help draw up. (By the way, you will need to renew some things every year/2 years/5 years depending on your state. Research!) Then you need to set up a merchant account in order to accept payment by debit/credit card. There are fees for this, but they honestly aren’t much in comparison to what I get paid. I use JP Morgan. If you want to swipe cards on sight, look into Stripe accounts. I don’t have one, but they look…interesting. I mentioned earlier that my web designer was amazing, and here’s why: I have a fake matchmaking website that I set up as extra proof that my shit is legit. I correlated all of my escorting prices with my matchmaking prices. When clients are to pay a deposit on my escorting website, the link will move to be a part of my matchmaking website. However, the link for payment on my matchmaking website is only accessible through the escorting website. That way, it appears as if payments are being made to my escorting website when they’re being made through my matchmaking website. It also drives traffic for the site so it doesn’t look like a total blank setup.

Because you have a business, you can expense shit that has to do with the business. You have a “modeling” business? You can write off makeup and high heels. As for my matchmaking business, I can expense food and transportation like crazy, along with rent for my heaux apartment. I use Divvy to keep track of it all, just to see how much Starbucks I’ve put on my business account honestly. Good to know where you are financially. I’m able to count the rent on my heaux apartment as an expense because I rent it directly through my LLC. LLCs count as separate entities legally, so you can rent/buy properties with it. All you have to do is tell the person you’re renting from that you’ll be paying for it through your LLC, and they should give you the appropriate paperwork. I do this so that no man can track this apartment back to my real name.

As for taxes, I file as a corporation so that my shit can get taxed as a separate taxpayer instead of me personally being liable for the LLC’s taxes. If you want to be personally liable, you’d do a Form 1040 and then Schedule C. I fill out Form 1120 for the corporation, and Form 1040 for me. You’ll want to list your title as whatever your cover LLC is. I will never advocate to just not pay taxes, because if your ass gets caught…

If you’re uncomfortable with doing any of this yourself, get a lawyer to help you set it all up. I had one help me because it’s a lot, lol.

XII. HOW TO UP YOUR GAME

The key to keeping steady clients if you’re doing GFE is to make it the best damn experience they’ve ever had. Make it special for them. It sounds cliche but they truly just want to feel cared about. If you feel like a girlfriend to them, they’ll keep coming back. So beyond sex, just talking with them, going places with them, massaging them, or even cooking for them (real shit, I knew a girl who did this) makes them feel like the money was worth it. I have regular and VIP prices. My VIP prices include things like a massage, penpal services, or any skill I have that would make them feel loved, appreciated, or catered to.

Regular prices are GFE of course, but not as specialized. If you have any similar skill put it out there!!! Make yourself truly unique. I even remember all the details they tell me so upon our next meet I can ask them about it. I’ve made some cookies and bought them gifts (under $100, it’s nothing compared to what they pay me tbh) personalized to their tastes. They like to feel like you’re present. Like a genuine girlfriend they can travel with and spoil without baggage. That’s where the big money comes from, and it’ll keep coming if you treat them like the love of your life when you’re together. Originality and how tight you run your branding ship are the keys to making yourself the best you can be. Embrace it.

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Anyone have tax tips for hookers? I want to buy a house one day so I think I should probably start reporting my income now that I’m a real functioning escort. Can I just get a business license and pretend it’s all from a fake/real business?

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You can (and should—not because ‘yay taxes’ but because it’s better for you in the long run) claim income no matter where it comes from. The issue is you’ll have to prove to a bank that you have years of steady, reliable, legal income to get a home loan.

Yes, many escorts file either a sole proprietorship or an LLC and claim a certain level of income through one of those. You can create any kind of business, but you need to be able to collect and maintain documentation for whatever the business is in case you ever get audited, or in case a bank needs more information for something.

I’m by no means an expert, so also ask the providers in your area what they’ve done and see what everyone says! :)

stinababy30

You can also file self employed taxes with Turbo Tax super easy. Just put you’re an entertainer, leave the specific field blank (because it’s optional), claim whatever you deposit into your bank the whole year, do an itemized deduction (advertising, hotel, taxi and keep the receipts), and voila! You’re done.

When I do my taxes every year, I just log onto my bank, pull up every ATM deposit from January 1 to December 31, and my bank website puts into a spreadsheet for me that I can easily add up, and that’s my income. Then I search for the term “MFP” in my bank account debits, and that’s all the Eros ads I payed for to write off. Then I do the same with “Hotwire” and “Lyft” and “VerifyHim” debits and and add them up and write all those off. In case I get audited, every time I get an email with my Eros receipt or Lyft or whatever I write off, I put a label tag named “tax receipts” so it’ll be super easy to back myself up if Uncle Sam gets a wild hair.

Turbo Tax also gives you Quicken for free when you pay to file your 1040se. I keep mine simple and have dependents and don’t make (claim) a lot, so I don’t need the Quicken, but if you make good money with no dependents, you’re gonna want to use the Quicken so you can nickel and dime your write offs and stretch them. Quicken has a phone app that you can take pics of your receipts (like for gas and condoms and lingerie and work things you buy at stores), and the app freaking reads them and files them digitally for you! It’s super cool.

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Ahhh so helpful!!! Thank you @stinababy30

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