Immoral Suggestions

Why do we hide the dirty thoughts that are meant to be embraced?

[softhearted-dom]

you say you like teasing and i wonder just how far i can push that statement. do you still like teasing when i have you tied to the bed with your legs spread? do you still like it when i hold a vibrator to you until you’re almost screaming, begging me to stop because it feels too good? do you still like teasing when i draw light circles with my fingertip around where you want me most without giving you just exactly what you want? you say you like teasing and i have to say, with you tied up, panting, and begging, i like it too

[immoral-suggestions]

aight so.

idk how many of y’all are still around. first i want to thank everyone who ever was there. i’ve received nothing but kindness and (pretty much lol) all the asks and dms i’ve received have helped me gain a sense of pride in the very minuscule role i had.

i stopped writing for a long time because of depression, but then later because i thought i was just no longer able to write content as well as i used to. i realise now that that is true- not bc i’m untalented, but because my interests have shifted and that would no longer be authentic.

i’ll probably post more on this account, but the content will be a bit different, a bit more personal.

thank you for anyone who’s stuck around. despite the awful rep, i believe that many in this community are truly good people.

thanks.

[leaveful]

[cherrymtf]

i want to hold a sub naked in my lap with a mirror across from us and touch them and make them touch themself, all while making sure they’re looking at their reflection and talking about how hot they are. they’ll be all flustered and embarrassed, but if they don’t praise themself they don’t get touched.

[lace-deactivated]

God, you're so whiny today. I've got all of these documents due to Monday and all your horny, useless, selfish brain could think about was crawling beneath the table and push your face into my crotch, moan against the fabric even?

That's almost pathetic. No, it definitely is. Kneeling between my legs while I continue typing on my laptop, rubbing your cheeks, your lips, your nose against me, so desperate to distract and arouse me.

What are you going to do once you figure out that I don't care? Are you going to start humping my leg like a bitch in heat while sighing against my crotch? Whine and whimper and cry out my name while you ruin the leg parts of my jeans? Are you going to cum against them after an embarrassingly short time? Clean it up with your tongue while you're still breathing heavily - just before that cycle starts again, even though I couldn't care less, focusing on my task at hand instead?

You're such a slut, dear.

[sticksandmoans]

An ode from the masochist dom/mes

I love control but I live for the pain.

You assume the two contradict each other and oh will I have such fun teaching you otherwise.

Not untying you until you learn the exact right pressure to pull my hair

Seeing you weepy and needy as I make you slap my cheek when you just want to cuddle

Stretching my mouth and my throat so fucking good around you while you beg me to let you come.

I’ll take you apart piece by piece as you bite me, scratch me, leave fat purple bruises exactly where I tell you to.

And when I purposely wear clothing to let everyone else see those bruises understand that these are not marks of possession, they are not you staking your claim

No

My sweet, stupid little fucktoy

They are me gloating- showing off exactly what I can make my toy do.

[sticksandmoans]

Yeah pegging is fun, but jerking on a sub’s leash to make them fuck my ass deeper while they drool past their ball gag is something you just can’t beat

[immoral-suggestions]

imagining my daddy grabbing me firmly by the hair and facing me, telling me to kiss him in a stern voice...i lean in and get close to his lips and then pull away playfully, and he tightens his grip on my hair and fixes his other hand on my throat. he tells me to kiss him again and instead, i tease again, so he pulls my head back and chokes me til my eyes flutter back. he asks if i’m ready to behave now. i nod through his grip and he lets go, smiles, and kisses me

[immoral-suggestions]

why do straight girls who call their boyfriends d*ddy and think being abusive is a hot turn on think dom/sub is the same as being a top/bottom

there’s a huge difference between abuse and hard bdsm. i understand where you’re coming from, but they aren’t the same thing.

for months i’ve thought about how to explain everything in this ask. for example, you’re absolutely right to be uncomfortable w d*ddy being used in a sexual context... but that isn’t inherently bad. like, i’m only censoring it bc it seems it’s smth you’re uncomfortable w reading so i’m censoring it in response so you don’t feel uncomfortable w this response

you can take this as a cop out and i won’t be offended, but i’ve decided not to answer this because

1- it seems like your mind is made up, and that you don’t want to understand based on your tone

2- i don’t want to speak for the entire bdsm community

3- this isn’t a serious discourse page, and i don’t intend to turn it into one

last thing- if you think straight women are the only ones who call their partner(s) m*mmy or d*ddy, you are uh. sorely, sorely mistaken. sorry bro

[luthienne]

“I / am / everywhere exploited exhibited / exhausted / and I am still holy. / It doesn’t matter / what they do to you.”

— Catherynne M. Valente, The Bread We Eat in Dreams; “Mouse Koan”

[immoral-suggestions]

questions are always good, and fun to answer

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[immoral-suggestions]

Hi I really like your blog, I would go non anon but I’m a bit shy :( sorry but your blog is 10/10 in my book

awww thank you!!!! you’re a 10/10 too anon

[immoral-suggestions]

I'm so touch starved all I want is to be used and hurt but I can't have that :/

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[immoral-suggestions]

y’all ever get disappointed bc you can’t find good porn but then you realize that it wouldn’t be a problem if you weren’t into weird shit 😳🤡🤡

[sticksandmoans]

Netflix and chill but the whole movie you’re sitting in my lap, on my strap-on. Not allowed to ride it, or to move, just have to keep it warm and deal with every time I feel like readjusting or playfully fucking up into you for a couple seconds.

[lace-deactivated]

my kind of flirting is getting into a physical fight with someone and finally pressing them against a brick wall, a knee between their legs and my hand roughly grabbing their jaw, leaning in way too close into their personal space and whispering "you done already?"

[asexual-domme]

How to win a play-fight when your sub is physically stronger than you:

My go-to tactic: kiss them until they go weak and they forget you’re fighting.

Become overly affectionate, and once they think they’ve won, roll on top of them and pin them.

Have handcuffs and the like ready to grab and spring on them.

Limit your attacks to pain you know they like. Scratch and pinch and slap in the places they can’t help but enjoy. A good hard spank and some subs will buckle and drop instinctively.

Don’t fear a good old hair grab. Especially because it gives you access to vulnerable neck.

Detailing exactly what you will do to them when you win - and that’s not if, that’s when - will lower any sub’s morale considerably.

If they’re pushing an arm or leg down, pulling down yourself, faster, often pulls out of their grip.

Wriggle. Especially wriggle into them.

Use all your limbs. Lock your legs around them as well as your arms. Don’t be afraid to squeeze - you’ve got a safeword.

Are they ticklish? You know the score.

Bite. Everything.