I hate to break it to you but the misogynist agenda is already everywhere and understanding is the first step towards its dissolution
Where did i ever claim to be a happy woman
Jesus wept.
OK so like, one. Hi aggressively privileged person! Therapy is neither a universal solution not particularly freely available. An unsolicited "Bro you need therapy" is pretty much just platitudinous nonsense.
But overlooking that, I think maybe you need to understand that people form fetishes and kinks due to their context. Misogyny is part of our context because we live under patriarchy, so If you're going to tell people not to talk about their experiences and reactions to patriarchy - even the ones you find distasteful -, then you'll just be doing a great job shaming people for daring to be affected by the world we live in.
Maybe don't be police people talking about their feelings and experiences living under patriarchy. That's just reinforcing oppressive structures.
Obviously Lucy already said this more concisely, but you seem like the type who will hear it better if it's said using big words, and I think I know her well enough to know she'll appreciate a friend of hers backing her up.
How dare women have complex inner lives
Also this sounds like “you should smile more” but for kink
