An Anonymous Woman By The Name Of HumNbyrd.

www.HumNbyrd.com instagram: _HumNbyrd_

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HumNbyrd Presents... GRAWRLY . . . . . . #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomenwhoblog #Bujoideas #blackwomenwhoBujo #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #foodie #healthmatters #blackart #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #livinggood #TheBayArea

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www.HumNbyrd.com . The cabinet looks small but it is actually a big, oversized, old school, I live in the woods away from the world, cabinet. Being from SoCal, I am used to oversized homes with even bigger kitchen space full of cabinets and storage of plenty. Since moving to the South Bay Area, I quickly realized that I would be forced to downsize, organize and make space out of no space (something I’m still working on to date). Being someone who believes in natural medicine, the power of healing herbs and very mindful of what I consume (unless it is fries) I had to make a way to fit everything into a small space, more so, in this very expensive apartment I call home. . Consistently changing up the living quarters of these walls to suite the functions of raising a family, I find myself forever rearranging things so that it benefits, not only myself, but also for those I call kids and a husband, priority-wise. Visit my site for information on how I make life work Work for a working mother/wife at www.HumNbyrd.com. It’ll be up today. . . . . . #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomenwhoblog #Bujoideas #blackwomenwhoBujo #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #foodie #healthmatters #blackart #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #livinggood #TheBayArea

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Mammy titties, bed hair, bodycon dresses as nightgowns and daily to-do list that do not include me. Welcome to my life. . . . . . #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomenwhoblog #Bujoideas #blackwomenwhoBujo #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #foodie #healthmatters #blackart #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #livinggood #TheBayArea

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“I’d rather be in bed, watching trash tv until my eyes fall out my head but I have so much shit to do...” L. Youngblood-Wiggins . . . . . #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomenwhoblog #Bujoideas #blackwomenwhoBujo #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #foodie #healthmatters #blackart #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #livinggood #TheBayArea

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The older my kids get, the more I sound like the matriarchs in my immediate family. My voice roars loud with knowledge, my body storms in movement, showing the seriousness in its tone and my look is powerful. I am transitioning to lead. . “I have no time for games” I find myself saying most days when I give directions that have yet to be followed. I have learned a patience that is not known to man, and yet, the fire that burns within is deadly enough to kill. . I am a mother to two boys, a Cancer and a Capricorn. Ruling a house as a Sagittarius while being married to a Taurus. Sometimes the tension is unfathomable for most but we make it work. . I am a matriarch in training. This path is beyond me. Sometimes when I open my mouth, my mother comes out. . . . . . #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomenwhoblog #Bujoideas #blackwomenwhoBujo #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #foodie #healthmatters #blackart #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #livinggood #TheBayArea

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Dare I exist in this realm or is it already too late? . . . . . . #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomenwhoblog #Bujoideas #blackwomenwhoBujo #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #foodie #healthmatters #blackart #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #livinggood #TheBayArea

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www.HumNbyrd.com . . . . . . #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomenwhoblog #Bujoideas #blackwomenwhoBujo #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #foodie #healthmatters #blackart #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #livinggood #TheBayArea

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I work before I go to work. I’ve had to invest in my craft so that I may be able to sustain my own without a consistent check from someone else. Although I have a gift, over the last few months, I have realized that I fall short when it comes to confidence in completing what I start based on what others feel about my brand. I have taken the time to allow myself some growth, I have healed and found balance and now I am ready to get over my fear of failure and success and dive right in! I work before I work because it’s what completes me. www.HumNbyrd.com . . . . . . . #BlackWomenWhoBlog #blog #blogger #instablog #writer #blackWomenWriters #HealthAndWellness #holistic #HolisticHealth #homegardens #healthyfood #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #goodcompany #sanfrancisco #LosAngeles #TheBayArea #smallbusinessowner #blackbusiness #BlackBusinessOwners #gardening #BlackWomenInBusiness #blackwomen #bloggerlife

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www.HumNbyrd.com . . . . . . . #BlackWomenWhoBlog #blog #blogger #instablog #writer #blackWomenWriters #HealthAndWellness #holistic #HolisticHealth #homegardens #healthyfood #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #goodcompany #sanfrancisco #LosAngeles #TheBayArea #smallbusinessowner #blackbusiness #BlackBusinessOwners #gardening #BlackWomenInBusiness #blackwomen #bloggerlife

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I’m creating again. It’s been a minute but after some time spent on self exploration, business branding, creating new content and the temporary disconnection of my site, it is safe to say that GRAWRLY is back. Make sure to add @_HumNbyrd_ to stay up-to-date with the what’s what, meet-ups, retreats for 2018 and so much more! . . . . . . #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomen #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #vegetarian #food #foodie #healthmatters #blackwomenwhoblog #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #healthyfoodshare #eatingclean #livinggood #greenfood #TheBayArea #GRAWRLY

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Hello San Francisco. . . . . . . . . #BlackWomenWhoBlog #blog #blogger #instablog #writer #blackWomenWriters #HealthAndWellness #holistic #HolisticHealth #homegardens #healthyfood #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #goodcompany #sanfrancisco #LosAngeles #TheBayArea #smallbusinessowner #blackbusiness #BlackBusinessOwners #gardening #BlackWomenInBusiness #blackwomen #bloggerlife

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Foodie: CHICKEN STRIP GRILLED CHEESE WITH ROMAINE LETTUCE AND HOMEMADE FRIES. . Yo, when I see something that I want to eat, I make it! Yes, most of the time I am healthy in these streets. Homemade juices and vegetarian meals of plenty but then I have days when I just want what I want. This was that day. . . . . . . #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomen #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #vegetarian #food #foodie #healthmatters #blackwomenwhoblog #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #healthyfoodshare #eatingclean #livinggood #greenfood #TheBayArea #GRAWRLY

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No, fuck you. I was good enough. You weren’t.

~(I hate you to the moon and back) the Colors of White (via ironlady10)

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What is in my reflection? Who am I looking at? Do I really know her? As I stand bare ass, chubby belly, hair wet, titties out, looking at myself eye-to-eye, I can’t help and ask myself, “who are you?” There has been times when I have questioned my own identity, my parenting ability and if I was really able to love. Love who, you ask? Myself. I’ve spent, sometimes, hours staring into my own soul looking for something that we have in common. Who am I? I no longer represent the beautiful image most people see when seeing them in passing. Me and her do not have anything in common. I’ve lost that aspect of myself a long time ago. With the process I have learned to build my mind so if I ever had to ask myself “The question”, it will not be for me, but rather, “do you know who you are?” -HumNbyrd . . . . . . . #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomen #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #vegetarian #food #foodie #healthmatters #blackwomenwhoblog #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #healthyfoodshare #eatingclean #livinggood #greenfood #TheBayArea #GRAWRLY

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NAKED®: of something undisguised and/or blatant. To be bare, stark, powerless, defenseless unprotected, plain... upfront. These are the makings of where truth lie and where lies die. When asked about my journey, my response has been, “Being thirty-four has been a hell of a drug” because in the thirty-four years that I have claimed life, life has also claimed me. Love, heartache, pain, joy, child-birth, child-loss, abandonment issues, acceptance, indistinguishable characteristics, trauma, these have molded me into a place of harmony. A blessing in disguise, I must add. It has given me the fundamentals in surviving in my truth. An enlightenment most do not reach. It is also the introduction to the death of who I once was. What I seek now is not anything that includes contributions of any sort or monetary gains but the ability to be fruitfully NAKED®. . . . . . . . . #BlackWomenWhoBlog #blog #blogger #instablog #writer #blackWomenWriters #HealthAndWellness #holistic #HolisticHealth #homegardens #healthyfood #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #goodcompany #sanfrancisco #LosAngeles #TheBayArea #smallbusinessowner #blackbusiness #BlackBusinessOwners #gardening #BlackWomenInBusiness #blackwomen #bloggerlife

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I’m old school like my mama. A classic beauty that ages like wine. Home grown by the nutritious values of being a woman. Solid as first day, when I noticed the curves of my thighs. I am old school. As old as when it was okay to be natural. Where asses came from DNA and not a plastic surgeon. Child bearing hips with a waistline to match. Strong, willing and free. I am Lanette’s alter ego, the one no one is fearing enough to be. Through her spirit, I was birth. @sexiigran . . . . . . . #BlackWomenWhoBlog #blog #blogger #instablog #writer #blackWomenWriters #HealthAndWellness #holistic #HolisticHealth #homegardens #healthyfood #GRAWRLY #HumNbyrd #goodcompany #sanfrancisco #LosAngeles #TheBayArea #smallbusinessowner #blackbusiness #BlackBusinessOwners #gardening #BlackWomenInBusiness #blackwomen #bloggerlife