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Hey beautifuls 🥰

I found myself being filled with anger recently over a friend I had recently cut off.

I had set healthy boundaries and she took it personally and became a drama filled energy in my life, so I had to cut ties.

After doing so, I started to notice even more indirect hateful messages she would be posting on her social media’s and I held my tongue to not stoop to her level.

I’m noticing now that she’s started posting content similar to mine, making her hair like mine, dressing like me, speaking and posting content like mine and that was making me even more mad.

I’ve finally let go of my anger and realized I’m actually honoured! I understand that she is coming from a place of conditioned childhood traumas and other events that have made her the way she is today. I’m glad that I can be a person who indirectly inspires her because maybe through my healing journey, she’ll start to heal as well!

She was a part of my healing journey and I’m glad and feel honoured that I can be a part of her healing journey as well 🙏🏽✨

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Omg this is incredible

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“At some point you have to own up to how great you are, how beautiful you are, to how much inner dignity and potential you have. Drop complaining about what other people didn’t give you or do for you, or how they mistreated you. Take repossession of your Self and you will rise to a level of greatness that has been yours all along.”

— Michael Beckwith

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"If taking care of your mental health means letting someone down, then let them down."

- Conscious Conversations

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With emotional abuse, the insults, insinuations, criticism, and accusations slowly eat away at the victim’s self-esteem until he or she is incapable of judging a situation realistically. He or she may begin to believe that there is something wrong with them or even fear they are losing their mind. They have become so beaten down emotionally that they blame themselves for the abuse.

Beverly Engel, The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing