This blog is an accumulation of quotes, resources and advice for moving on from a breakup, how to recognize when a relationship is healthy or unhealthy, and the importance of having a good relationship with yourself first.
Love Letter to My Followers 💙
20 journal prompts for breakup healing
Content
love + relationships
breakups/heartbreak
codependency
attachment theory
abuse + recovery
personal development
mental health
self-compassion
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Advisory
I am not a therapist (yet), so if you’re in crisis and in need of someone to talk to about it, please seek out a mental health professional and/or a loved one. I’m open to giving mental health advice, but there are some issues I will not address (this is at my discretion, and I decide on a case-by-case basis). This is not a clinical setting. Tumblr can be helpful, but it is not a replacement for therapy/treatment.
If a post mentions a specific gender, it probably does not apply to only that gender.
Many posts are made with monogamous relationships in mind, but are often applicable to polyamorous relationships as well.
Many posts are made with romantic relationships in mind, but are often applicable to platonic and familial relationships as well.
I do not support cancel culture. I share quotes regardless of who wrote them. This blog is not political, it is meant to offer helpful resources. Sometimes, people we don’t like have good things to say.
None of these photos/quotes belong to me unless otherwise stated.
None of these posts are sponsored.
About
Posts are queued and posted once daily.
27k + followers
Est. 2015
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Content that belongs to me is tagged:
# Bella Love Coach
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~ Bella ✨💙 or Bella Love
Asks I answer:
# ask bella love
Posts I reply to:
# bella love responds
Personal posts:
# bella gets personal
Advisories/reminders
# bella gets serious
Photos I create using others’ quotes:
# remake
Occasionally, you will see curse/swear words. Such posts will be tagged:
# curse words
Occasionally, you will see posts on sexual education; sometimes, this will include sensitive subjects such as abuse/assault. These posts will be tagged with the appropriate trigger warnings.
If you’d like me to tag certain content or words that are triggering for you, just send me an ask or a dm and let me know, whatever it is. Even if the trigger is “odd” or something others might not consider a valid trigger. Your triggers are valid here.
Triggers/words I tag: curse words, sex mention, drug mention, self harm mention, suicide mention, death mention, abuse mention, rape mention, medical mention, religion mention, God mention
Rules for Interacting
Reblogging is preferred over reposting to avoid the spread of uncredited art.
If you repost, please include the source, as the artists I share on here deserve to be credited for their work. Each of the artists whose art I share have given consent to their work being reposted, so long as they are properly credited; they either stated it publicly (such as in an Instagram Story Highlight), or I messaged them directly to ask for permission to repost.
Harassment or abuse of any kind will be deleted, and perpetrators will be blocked. And depending on the severity, perpetrators may be reported as well. You may disagree, but you may not be cruel.
Reblogs and comments promoting violence will be deleted, and depending on the severity, perpetrators may be reported and blocked.
Cursing in reblogs/comments/asks/messages is fine.
This blog is not the place to search for dates/hookups; do not comment on posts for this purpose; they will be deleted, and you will get blocked and possibly reported as well.
Do not comment to fish for sugar babies or you will be reported and blocked.
Help Me Out
If you see someone commenting spam or inappropriate content, please send me a link to the post and let me know!
If you notice content by an “unknown” artist and you know whose it is, please let me know so I can credit the artist.
If you notice I’ve reblogged from someone on Tumblr who reposts without credit, please let me know, as I do not want to support these blogs.
If you notice that I’ve shared your intellectual property and would like it removed, or would like the post modified in some way, please let me know and I’ll have no problem doing so.
When I can’t find the source of a quote, I tag it with #unknown. If you’re good at finding stuff and enjoy doing so, I would really appreciate the help! I use Google Lens to search for stuff but sometimes I just can’t find the original source.
Suggestions/Submissions
I have the ‘submit’ feature turned off. If you’d like to suggest topics, resources, book recommendations, or other relationship/breakup related stuff, send me an ask or message. If you have music suggestions or want to share videos about relationships/personal growth, submit them to my Spotify playlist.
I track the tags: breakup, heartbreak, recovery, healing, moving on, self compassion, personal growth + many others (check any of my posts to see the other tags) so if you’re a content creator and wanna be reblogged, this is another way for me to see your posts! You can also just send them to me via direct message to make sure I see them.
Asks and Messages
Asks and messages are welcome; I will answer as soon as I can.
If you’re not looking for advice, let me know cause I don’t want to give unsolicited advice. If it’s in my ask box, it’s implied that my insight is wanted, but I’d prefer to be given explicit permission. I want you to feel heard, not talked at / preached to.
If you send an ask and it’s not anonymous, I will assume that you’re okay with my response being published publicly. If you’d like my response (and your ask) to remain private, please tell me.
Contact Me
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If you’re in an abusive relationship, you can message me on here or on Instagram @bellalovecoach. My capacities to help you are limited, but I can offer a listening ear and help you come up with a plan.
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Breakup Recovery Coaching
I help heartbroken, growth-oriented people detach and heal from their breakup, adapt to and thrive in singlehood, transcend the patterns that sabotage their love lives.
I believe that breakups are one of our greatest opportunities for deep healing and personal growth, as well as increased interpersonal wisdom.
My program,
Heartbreak To Breakthrough
includes:
Weekly 1:1 coaching calls with me
Daily messaging access
Weekly check-in/progress forms
Worksheets, journal prompts, self-assessments and more, to help you gain clarity about your breakup and deepen your relational self-awareness
Together, we will sort through your grief and unpack its lessons, so you can move forward with a clear heart and clean slate, and be ready for healthy love when it finds you — and it will find you. 💙
As a bonus, you can add a 5-10 minute guided meditation at the beginning of any and every coaching call.🧘♀️ Starting off each session centered and calm gives you a headstart in deepening self-awareness and healing.
If you’d like to work with me, click here to fill out an application form so we can figure out if we’re a good fit. If we are, you’ll be able to schedule a Clarity Call to ask any questions you may have, and to discuss your goals in more depth.
I can’t wait to meet you and I’m so excited about the progress we’re going to make together! 💙
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