hybrid banana apple

banapple

[ineedmorepronouns]

💞 Pinned 💞

Call me Banana Apple or my username or something nice. Give me pronouns I need more. I am alterhuman (polykin) and queer. I am also an adult. My PFP is the pangender symbol on a pink background. I also soulbond with many.

More stuff-

I do not support the creator of Dr. Bright.

I use the block feature.

I'm honestly NOT in the SCP fandom and haven't read SCP stuff in years so I don't know what drama is going on. Don't ask or try to inform me about fandom stuff, I'm not in the fandom!! I don't know much at all about SCP and haven't touched it in a long, long while. I may be SCPkin but that doesn't make me a hyper fan, or a fan at all. That is to say I don't wish to bond with other SCP fans on here. I just want to live my life and post on Tumblr. Other SCPkin are fine though, I just don't want to be pestered about random things.

And also in general don't take what fictionkin say about their source as "the real truth." (Doesn't apply for OCkin, duh).

i dont come on here very often

I am foodkin get outta here if you don't believe in or hate foodkin beings. yes, i'm serious. foodkin out in the wild lol

I am also pangender get outta here if you don't believe in or hate pangender beings. "Pangender is a form of multigender in which someone experiences all multiple genders in their life experience, and/or culture."

i am also otherlink for some things.

maybe constel?

objectkin, conceptkin, aspecies, many things.

wait i can organize this better

who i am:

polykin (goes through: objectkin, conceptkin, foodkin, plantkin, aspecies, fictionkin, humanflux...)

otherlink

pangender

panpronominal

maybe constel idk

soulbonder

aspec to say the least

[thelovelesscatholic]

It feels weird being aplatonic and having friends. It’s like I will never think of you as a friend. I am happy I met you. You will never be an essential source of happiness for me. You make life more fun. I don’t miss you when you’re gone. I like that your company is an option for me. Saying I love you and giving me hugs disgust me. Saying you’re grateful for me and being considerate of me makes me happy. I will never love you the way you love me. I hope I’m a good person to you. We will never completely understand each other. I like I can be myself around you. I hope I don’t hurt you. You can’t hurt me. If I lost you I wouldn’t grieve our relationship. I think of you without longing and view our lessons and experiences without ache. Is all of this fair to you? Is it fair to me? Is this really all okay or is it just me being selfish?

[xx-kogumaneko-0x0---fr34kshow-xx]

thinks that when people say

"you should be friends with someone before you start dating" as advice

what they actually mean is

"you should trust and understand someone before you commit to a partnership where there are expectations and obligations on both sides"

but they use platonic and romantic relationships as shorthands for those ideas.. it irks koii

you don't need platonic attraction to have a bond!

romantic isn't just "one step up" from platonic!

some people never experience platonic attraction or have platonic bonds ever!

bothers so very much💢ՙ‎ᑦ‎︡₍ ۔ ܿ  ܿ‎𓏑ࣨᦡ‎𝁑‎ٌꪫﾞ

[magpies-and-crows74]

I think there’s a tendency to think of aspecs as ‘lacking’ something that the majority of people have, an absence from the baseline, even if they’re not judging, or if they’re aspec themselves. And it’s easy to do when society and labels revolve around attraction and certain types of relationships, but I think we need to remember that we are not living our lives without something, we are living our lives with a different mode of operation, different priorities, rich lives and so on. We are working on different axes, not the same axis at zero

[ineedmorepronouns]

bruhhhhh i need more vocabulary to replace calling people i'm "close" to just "acquaintances".

wait i got it. words to call a "close acquaintance". or something. idk its an aplatonic post do you know what i mean.

Companion

Ally (become my ally LOL)

Fellow (hey why does this have masculine connotations i never knew until now. also sounds a bit platonic...)

Familiar (works the best for me i think? don't like how it sounds like i'm "owning" someone)

Associate (eh pretty corporate but works pretty well)

Comrade (eh)

Cohort

Confidant

Affiliate (sounds corporate too)

Abettor (cool but associated with crime a lot though)

Collaborator (eheheh)

Equal (i guess??)

Peer

Supporter (ehe)

[heavyonthechaos]

can we normalize consent in platonic relationships

[heavyonthechaos]

a lot of people have made points about how you should always ask before touching someone (giving hugs, holding hands etc) and while that is true!! that's not what i meant

I specifically meant that it should be normalized to have conversations about what you're comfortable with in a platonic relationship.

Like with romantic relationships there's usually a conversation about whether you're in a relationship or not. That should apply to platonic relationships as well. I'm tired of being in situations where I'm considered someone's friend who i barely know. Because then i have to "aqcuintance-zone" them and i look like the bad guy when in reality i never consented to being in a platonic relationship with you.

I long for the day when it's normalized to have conversations with your friends what you're comfortable with and what you consent to... Are you comfortable with being called a friend? How often do you want to talk? How often do you want to hang out? What does hanging out mean to you?

[heavyonthechaos]

can we normalize consent in platonic relationships

[pleasantpostpeanut]

Because it still bothers me that people use A-spec like it only means asexual, here’s a list of all the identities under the a-spec umbrella. If I missed one, please tell me and I’ll add it.

A-spec stands for:

Anattractional

Aromantic 

Aplatonic

Afamilial 

Asexual

Alove

Asensual

Aphysical

A-alterous

Aemotional

A-aesthetic

Aqueerplatonic

And any combination of the above

[metacoining]

︶︶︶ GENERAL FOODKIN FLAG：🍴

definition： an alterhuman/otherkin flag for those who identify as any kind of food and/or fall under the foodkin umbrella

meaning + context： didnt find a general foodkin flag aside from some recolors so made one myself! i choose muted and earthly colors that remind me of food

╰ if already coined... consider this an alt flag! ╰ tagging... @radiomogai @kin-flags

[PT: general foodkin flag. definition: an alterhuman/otherkin flag for those who identify as any kind of food and/or fall under the foodkin umbrella. meaning and context: didn't find a general foodkin flag aside from some recolors so made one myself! i choose muted and earthly colors that remind me of food. if already coined, consider this an alt flag. END PT]

[metacoining]

︶︶︶ FRUITKIN FLAG：🍓

definition： an alterhuman/otherkin flag for those who identify as any kind of fruit and/or fall under the fruitkin umbrella

╰ if already coined... consider this an alt flag! ╰ tagging... @radiomogai @kin-flags

[PT: fruitkin flag. definition: an alterhuman/otherkin flag for those who identify as any kind of fruit and/or fall under the fruitkin umbrella. if already coined, consider this an alt flag. END PT]

[u5eername]

when your kin so absurd that all you see when looking it up are troll accs

[carnicoins]

[ Apple Plantkin flag ] 🍎

“Apple plantkin flag”

Plantkin flag for when your kintype or one of them is an apple, the plant & fruit.

Coined by bellamy the hyena - 💢 for Wally Darling (insys) - 🍎

[ineedmorepronouns]

cough cough where my foodkin at cough cough

[haribon-dog]

Do yall think that in another universe FireStar has an Abraham Lincoln fictotype or there's a Genshin character with a You fictotype

[otherkinotd]

Today's otherkin of the day is Xing Tianji, who is smartphonekin 📱

-requested by anon

[lovequeerblog]

Ok something I absolutely love is going full science nerd when it comes to relationships and making charts! When working on my previous post on the split attraction model (see link below) I started playing with radar charts for mapping different types and intensities of attraction and I just had to turn this into a little worksheet for mapping out attraction in relationships

And here's just the attraction chart:

I'm not looking to build new relationships at the moment but I am totally the sort of person who would whip this out on a date (I have an entire power point on platonic partnership that I do in fact use to ask people to be in a relationship with me. Yes this has worked. More than once :) )

The Split Attraction Model

An introduction to asexuality and aromanticism

[xxcalicofemmexx]

alterhuman wallpapers!

requested by @gooseblurr

flag credit: @gh0stspxce

Alterhuman: An umbrella term for anyone who identifies in a way that is alternative to the common societal idea of humanity. This includes therians, otherkin, spiritual self-identities like angelics and vampires, shared self-identification with nonhuman concepts such as animal-hearted and soulbond, identities rooted in non-neurotypical mental status, and even more