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I think that sometimes we just have to accept that people will not change, no matter how many chances, or fights, or tears, or love we give. Sometimes people just don’t want to change, and as hard as it is to accept it, we have to be okay with that, because we can not live in misery around why a person would not change for us. Why we were not or are not enough to be worthy of change. And we all have done it, but sometimes you just have to let it go, for the sake of your sanity, and for the sake of not being miserable. Let them go, unchanged into the world.

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Aftercare gestures and phrases (The basics)

✨Wrapping your sub in a blanket/comforter.

(Top tier affection for me personally)

✨Bringing your sub/Dom tea or water.

✨Bathing/Showering or getting it ready for them.

✨SNUGGLES!

✨ Massages (because you both have exerted your self and that latic acid buildup is a SOB)

“Thank you for this session,”

“You’re such a goodgirl/ Daddy”

“You were amazing”

-Sometimes sitting in silence and just acknowledging each other-

Sub drops and Dom drops are real. Whether sex is included or not, aftercare shouldn’t be an afterthought 💁🏾‍♀️. Feel free to reblog and include what you prefer