Cute, inspirational LDR & love things

I hope I can help your long distance relationship or you in some way :)

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Does anyone else's heart break a little when you see a cute couple somewhere and that's all you want to be?

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It all depends on where you're going

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My ldr boyfriend comes home late a lot especially on weekends when he's with his friends. He promises to be back by 10 but comes home around 1-2am. Do I have a right to be upset?

Yes and no. I'm the exact same way with mine so thats why i'm saying "yes." I totally get where you're coming from. I get so mad if he goes out and drinks or doesn't tell me what's going on. I understand why you're upset and it really does hurt. It feels like theres a lack of respect but you also have to keep in mind that this is his chance to go out. I'm assuming you plan on moving in together at some point. He won't really have the time or ability to go out with his friends like that once you two live together. Thats where i get my "no" from. I know its confusing but you have to look at it from each other's perspectives. The key is communication and trust no matter how hard it is. Good luck!

-M

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I was planning to go see my bf in February and he just told me today It'll be next September before I can come it's so hard right now because all we have is text and cute little notes we send I've only gotten to see and hear him on vid twice in three months he can't even send me pics right now because he doesn't have a phone. The thing that bothers me really is he's so mellow about everything but it crushes me... Am I being melodramatic?

You're not being melodramatic. I know i definitely go crazy if i haven't seen or heard my SO in a long time. He may be trying to hide how he feels for your sake. It could be killing him, too. Things will get better :) just keep looking forward to when you see him. Good luck!

-M

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Do you ever get into a fight or an argument with your SO and all you want to do is talk to him/her but you can't because you're fighting? It sucks.

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Does anyone else go into a sudden panic when they haven't heard from their SO in over a day?

I know I do.

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Elvis Presley - I Cant Help Falling In Love With You

This is the song that i hope to be my first dance as husband and wife with my SO at our wedding :)

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Have you picked out the song for your first dance as husband and wife?

Do you think about getting married someday? I know I do. Are you married? What song do you want to have your first dance as husband and wife to? I'd love to hear your choices! I think our song will be "Can't Help Falling in Love" by Elvis Presley. We've slow danced to it in a hotel room before and the moment was breath taking. I'll post a link after for those who are unfamiliar. Let me know what you plan to dance to! 

-M

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It sucks because it's almost constant.

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I am so so so so so sorry. Please forgive me?

My dearest followers,

You are all so amazing. Each and every one of you. I am sincerely sorry for abandoning this site since May. Things have been crazy in my life and I hope you can understand. Luckily, things seemed to have slowed down for now so I hope to get back into helping all of you. I see you all as my friends and i cherish all of you. I feel as if i owe an explanation for my disappearance so here it goes. Things started to get crazy with my family. My sister had to have surgery and it failed so there was a lot of stress with that. However, some good news is that i got to spend a whole week with my SO in June so that was pretty neat. After that, i had to take a summer course for my college/university. That was pretty chaotic. Now, both my SO and i started college/university up again so things have seemed to slow down. 

How have you all been? Anything awesome happen? Anything bad happen? Feel free to share :) I love hearing your questions, tips, and stories. 

I love you all. I'm truly sorry for leaving. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me. 

-M

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I have a one hour time difference as well! I live in England and he lives in Germany ❤️

That's so cool! Sometimes i wish that we lived in different countries just to make things a little cooler. If you're going to be stuck in an LDR, might as well make it fun! Thanks for sharing! :) 

-M

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I do this thing occasionally where I post my kik on my tumblr and this one guy messaged me on my birthday. My first impression was "Wow He's hot and funny why is he talking to me" we flirted and I didn't think he was serious about me. He is exactly like me in so many ways. He kept saying "Damn distance" but after a few weeks of talking I asked if we were official and he seemed shocked that I didn't already think so. But it's almost been a month and things are going so well. 3842 miles apart

That sounds pretty similar to how my SO and i met! Even down to the "so are we dating..?" part. That's awesome to hear. I love hearing success stories. Congratulations! I hope you have the best of luck. Distance really is a struggle but love will prevail. Best of luck! 

-M

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Do you ever wish for like a friend that is in a LDR also, because its nice to talk with someone you trust about how much you miss them and such. Just wondering if you thought so also ?

I've never really thought about this. I don't have any friends in an LDR. I think it might be nice to have someone to compare things to but I'm also afraid it could turn into a "who has things worse" competition. A lot of my friends ask questions about how I'm able to survive an LDR and i think it's kind of fun to explain the logistics to them. I almost always get the response "oh, I could never do that!" 

Thanks for the question! 

-M

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my girlfriend wont show me affection even though i have repetedly ask for it and i shower her affection and when i don't get it ,it depresses me and tears me down but i love her and everything else is good but i don't feel the love and it kills me inside

Sometimes people have their own inner battles to fight. This can cause them to kind of shut down their other emotions, especially towards others. She may be really stressed out about something right now and is putting her energy and attention towards that. Try talking to her and being there for her just like you are now. You might not know everything that's going on. Just be open and understanding as to why this is happening. Hopefully it is just temporary. 

-M

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Stay safe to everyone in the US experiencing weather related tragedy

Lots of weather creating distaster all over the States. Prayers and love to everyone affected. I know we have tornado warnings up the wazoo where I'm at. 

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I've been ranting on my blog about how my boyfriend and I will be apart for the entire summer, which is just now until mid-August. We did it last year and it just about tore us apart. We both think we'll be okay in the end, but we do argue a lot. The distance makes us moody and I don't know how to avoid all that. How do I make this summer go as smoothly as possible?

Honestly, there can be a lot of arguing in an LDR and theres not much you can do about it. Some couples rarely argue and others, such as my relationship, argue everyday about the littlest things. It happens. Communication is key. I know with my boyfriend and i, we know how to get under each others skin and we're both very stubborn. That causes a lot of fights. You have to be positive and try your best to not get on each others nerves. Keep in mind that it'll most likely blow over in a few hours. Be considerate of one another and always remember that you both love each other very much and the distance is merely a bump in the road. Hope that helps :) Good luck this summer! Best wishes.

-M

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I get annoyed by cute couples because we can't be one of those cute couples