Hi hi I'm an ENFP and my best friend is an INTJ. I never know if I'm annoying her or if she even enjoys being around me. I'm totally entranced by her but I hate thinking its a one way street. How do I be a better friend for her? Would it be stupid to ask her upfront how I can be a good friend to her specifically? #howdoiseeyourresponseonthisthing
Ask upfront!  INTJs appreciate honesty and directness so she definitely wouldn’t mind it.

















