MBTI/Enneagram relationship
Characters: ENFP 8w9(me), INFJ 4w5, ESFJ 1w9.
 ESFJ: “I just feel like I need an Enneagram 8 in a relationship”
INFJ: “…um…I don’t think that would work; you take things waay too personally, you almost always assume ENFP is trying to attack you “(I, ENFP, admittedly enjoy a rousing debate from time to time, often with ESFJ)
ESFJ: “No I don’t!”
Me (ENFP): “Um yeah you do, like, you totally do”
ESFJ and I proceed to get into an argument about why she wouldn’t get along with an Enneagram 8 in a relationship, ends up becoming an argument about how I am always right in arguments (ESFJ doesn’t think so). INFJ is passively watching all this.
Me (ENFP): “Remember that time…launches into a dispute me and ESFJ had 10 years ago… I WAS RIGT, I WAS TOTALLY RIGHT!!”
ESFJ: a little upset “I just always feel like you are attacking me”
Me (ENFP): “I WASINT ATTACKING YOU! You would definitely know if I was attacking you lol. INFJ back me up, I wasn’t attacking her!”
INFJ: “…this whole conversation just proved one thing…”
ESFJ: “What!?!?!”
INFJ: “you wouldn’t do well with an Enneagram 8…”
Me (ENFP): nearly dies from trying not to laugh