“Coming to you because I admire you so much, you don’t have to answer this but I’d really appreciate your help. I was diagnosed with genital hsv 1 months ago and I’m really losing the plot. Even though I know it’s not true, I genuinely believe I will never be loved again.
When I told my fwb of 2 years he said that things between us had to end immediately and then he told 2 of our mutual friends and that was already heartbreaking. Last night I was hanging with a guy that I have some history with and he was fingering me and I decided to disclose. He immediately started freaking out and said that he had to wash his hands because it’s contagious and he couldn’t believe I didn’t tell him before (even though I’ve only had the one outbreak 2 months ago.)
These are two guys I really trusted and it’s so painful to be rejected by both of them, even though I now know they’re dicks. I’m put off disclosing to anyone, I can’t deal with this pain. Maybe this is a sign I’m supposed to be alone.”
FUUUUHUUUUCKKKKK THESE GUYS
Girlfriend, I don’t even know why you chose these dudes to be FWB, they are legit assholes. Herpes has this awesome way of immediately flushing out absolute the turds and tards, and although it hurts and you feel like you’re going to be alone forever, I promise you there are so many more guys out there who would bow down at the chance to have you.
Seriously, forget these couple of douche canoes
And these guys were only FWB to begin with, it’s not like they held a special place in your heart shaped locket hanging from your neck everyday. Any reasonable, decent human being is smart enough to deduce that herpes is a fucking stupid, over-stigmatized “disease” that shouldn’t be a negative factor when it comes to another person. If ANYONE reacts the way these guys did, you RUN the hell away from them ASAP. Herpes does not say one word about you, but it speaks VOLUMES about the people around you.
Thank the lord Jesus himself that he saved you from these assholes and don’t let them stop you from doing ya sexy thang. As soon as you realize who you are and what you’re worth (Which is one powerful, strong, BABE of a woman who deserves nothing less than love, lust, a good fuck, a great fuck buddy, an amazing relationship, the whole shebang, the whole nine yards), rejection won’t touch you.
Fuck me because I have herpes?
Nah, fuck you bro, your loss