It's cat in a box

38. Bi. she/her.

[redlipstickresurrected]

Chiho Makino aka 牧野千穂 aka まきのちほ (Japanese, b. 1965, Fukuoka Prefecture, Japan, based Mitaka, Tokyo, Japan) - Voice, Voice 2, Drawings: Pencil, Colored Pencil

[depsidase]

[only-cat-memes]

[reactionimagesdaily]

[depsidase]

[goth-queen]

[70sscifiart]

Uncredited cover art for After the Rain, by John Bowen, 1965

[tygerbug]

This is the money Marge. Reblog for good fortune

[cholerascum]

money marge

save me

save me money marge

give me one thousand dollars

[iced-coffee-chronicles]

openin’ the door to the microwave one second early because you don’t need all the hootin’ and hollerin’

[kosmogrl]

[gorbling]

Im enjoying the longevity of tumblrs recontextualization style of humor. a seemingly innocuous post followed by like "posts that a gnome would make" or like "are you a phone"

[gorbling]

[hapalopus]

[hapalopus]

More from the notes:

[vexwerewolf]

I love this post

[karifaevt]

The horse thinks as it scratches an itch

[fagcrisis]

i hate the word spicy can we bring back calling things erotic

[maryoliveoil]

rolling up to Wendy's to get an erotic chicken sandwich

[jame7t]

there’s a war between Sucking and Fucking

[jame7t]

you people cannot be trusted in the war room

[sometiktoksarevalid]

[grittymemewarehouse]

[hometoursandotherstuff]

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

I see that "learned helplessness" is the hot new psychological term getting wildly misused. the phrase you're looking for is "weaponized incompetence," babes

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

weaponized incompetence is when your partner does chores shitty on purpose so that you stop asking them to do chores. learned helplessness is when you've experienced so much trauma that you've developed the mindset that you can't meaningfully change your situation and have become accordingly passive.

if your partner is exhibiting learned helplessness they aren't manipulating you, they're displaying a trauma response.