1998

Personal acc @itsnotwendy Art & tattoos on @arcoiris.detinta

[girlmango]

[spanning-time]

[naturaekos]

“Never chase love. If it isn’t given freely, it is worthless”

—

[brazybunny]

I love spontaneous sex like oh...we just cooking now we fucking

[soundsnaked]

Source: @jatiputra

[viinnttaaggee]

You’re busy doubting yourself while so many people are intimidated by your potential

[bassiter]

i just learned that an old irish halloween tradition was that young girls were told that if they sat in a dark room and faced a mirror, the face of their future husband would appear, and if they saw a skull then it meant they would die before marriage. and uh. it’s a well-documented phenomenon that staring at a mirror in the dark makes your brain imagine scary shit. there’s almost no way any of those girls ever saw a normal man’s face. how did this myth possibly persist

[bassiter]

ok fair,

[milknjuice-deactivated20190908]

i’m trying a new thing called activities

[milknjuice-deactivated20190908]

“activities” is where you do different things like play an instrument or plant a garden

[flashfuneral]

tell me more

[milknjuice-deactivated20190908]

i’ve said too much already

[bewegungslos]

mood: wanna move to another city and start a new life

[glowdetails]

hi passing through your tumblr to remind you are that you are THAT BITCH. and also reminding you that the only person standing in your way to becoming your true version of you is yourself, so go and take that leap and just LIVE!! anyone else that doesn’t like you for you can GO. u can do anything you set your mind to!! really. if u’re going through a tough time, take your time to recover at your pace, remember that it’s not a race. also take care of yourself, hydrate yourself and spread love!!! 

[avvocarlo]

rich people should get robbed at least once a week

[dinosaurguts-deactivated2023091]

why ?

[avvocarlo]

builds character

[mercy-misrule]

one of the most amazing things that has been said to me in therapy is that self esteem doesn’t exist.

and that floored people and the psych went onto say that what she meant was that self esteem is a concept that actually includes a vast array of things and labelling them all as one thing is really limiting and prevents actual improvement

you could have real strong pride in the things you create and hate your body

you could hate your creations but also want to share them with people

you could not hate yourself at all but not take care of yourself, engage in reckless self endangerment

thats all bundled under ‘self esteem’ but saying ‘i need better self esteem’ doesn’t mean anything

whereas if you say ‘i need to work on ways to keeping myself safe, refusing to act on destructive urges’ or ‘i want to be in a place where i believe compliments trusted people give me’

thats concrete, thats a goal.

having it said in therapy helped a lot of people in my group stop saying ‘i have low self esteem’ and start specifying about the actual issue they have

[bead-bead-deactivated20190901]

Wow, that is so, so helpful.

[wordsaremylife]

Huh. Actually useful advice.

[tsimehcla]

[stupidocupido]

some more art I saw yesterday

[love]

“I wonder how much of what weighs me down is not mine to carry.” - unknown

Artwork by Nicole Rifkin. Original photo by internetfamous.

[quotemadness]

If you ask me what I came to do in this world, I, an artist, will answer you: I am here to live out loud.

Émile Zola (via quotemadness)

[marcii1900]