the art of loving

olivia dean. 27. musician. grammy winner. go irons. DISCLAIMER: Unless stated otherwise, none of the gifs or photos used on this blog are mine (at the time of posting, content creators rules allow their media to be used). All credit goes to the respectable owners/creators. If something needs to be credited specifically or taken down, please message me politely and I will do so. (gifs were commissioned, don't take them)

[tiffyhq]

Do you have a comfort show? like, no matter how many times you watch it, you never get sick of it? I have a couple, to be honest but then again, it's nice to have the distraction when traveling. | @hfrpstarters

[itsoliviadean]

I love watching Love Island UK, it’s my go-to when nothing else grabs my attention, when I just want to zone out, grab some snacks, and let the drama unfold without thinking too much. It’s perfect for those lazy evenings or long flights where you just need a little escape. What’s yours though?

[cocojvnes]

Oh my goodness! You are so sweet. You have no idea how much you just made me smile, girlie. I really appreciate it. I was definitely nervous about coming back to music but I finally felt like I could juggle both things as long as I don't take on too much more than I can handle. You're definitely right! Nerves are a good thing. It means we care about what we're doing, right?

[itsoliviadean]

Just telling the truth here, but you’re welcome, gorgeous! I feel you. Sometimes it just feels right to take the leap, come back with all you’ve got and let those nerves take over you. They are such a beautiful reminder to just lean into it and enjoy the ride instead of overthinking it. You’ve got such a warm energy, it really makes these moments feel easier to handle.

[fameharry]

Yeah? How’s tour prep going? I have to see if our schedules align at some point so I can come out and see your pretty face. I’ve been alright. Here and there, you know how I roll haha how about yourself? You know, there’s an event happening on April 10th. The premiere for you, me and Tuscany. Want to join me? Seems like it could be a fun time for us and we can catch up there. I miss you.

[itsoliviadean]

It’s going really well. It has been full-on, lots of planning and rehearsing. I’m nervous and so, so excited at the same time. Took you long enough to realise you had to come see me! I loved seeing you and those eyes of you finally, Harry! I had an absolute blast, at least we managed to catch up once before we inevitably drift apart again. Here’s hoping we don’t go so long without seeing each others faces again.

[indenavarrete]

I saw that you have a tour coming up, yes? Or are you already doing shows? I need to make a show, because I think you are brilliant. I am going to take a look at your tour schedule, and try to match it up with mine. I sort of made a little challenge to myself this year to try and catch as many shows of my faves as I can.

@itsoliviadean

[itsoliviadean]

That’s actually the sweetest thing. The thought of you trying to line up your schedule just to come to a show is so lovely. I do have a tour coming up, yes, I’m just in that in between space of getting everything ready and counting down until it all starts. Please, let me know which dates you’re looking at because I would absolutely love to help you sort tickets if I can. I’d hate for you to miss it because of timing or things selling out. We’ll make something happen, I’m sure. I’ve been so in awe of everything you’ve been doing. You’ve been absolutely brilliant, truly. How’s your year been feeling so far with everything going on?

[srdcovka]

OLIVIA DEAN at the MOBO Awards wearing custom FEBEN dress (March 26, 2026)

[cocojvnes]

My new song 'LUVAGIRL' came out a few days ago. When I say that I was nervous, that is truly an understatement. I haven't released any new music in a hot minute because I've been so busy with other things. Does anyone else get the jitters when they're about to do something? Even if you know you've done it before? 'Cause it's definitely a re-occurring thing for me. Also, HI! I'm Courtney but most people call me Coco, feel free to do the same. | @hfrpstarters

[itsoliviadean]

Girl, I love LUVAGIRL so much. I was super excited to check it out, and being one of your biggest fans this was a special moment for me. I love that you’ve come back to music, it was about time. Can’t wait for a whole album. I think everyone gets those jitters sometimes, even when its something they have done before. I feel it a lot before shows or when I release new music too, or now that I’m going on tour. It never really goes away, but I think that’s kind of the point.

[fameharry]

Hey pretty. Been a minute since I’ve seen you. How’ve you been? We should grab dinner one night you’re free and catch up?

[itsoliviadean]

Hi babes! Its been forever. I have been great. I’m sorting it all out for my tour later this month! How have you been? Dinner is definitely overdue, I think. We absolutely need to make that happen soon, when we’re free

[famepaulm]

what's the weirdest thing you've ever gotten way too emotionally invested in? because i need you to know i had a full emotional support situation with a bird on my balcony today. this poor thing looked like it had just been through a devastating breakup, lost custody of the kids, and found out its ex had already moved on. and no, its feathers weren't even ruffled like that, it just had this absolutely haunted little aura about it. so naturally, as one does, i played it your song so easy. and i'm not being dramatic when i say i think that changed its life. like the vibes visibly shifted. the shoulders relaxed. the pain lifted. i may have witnessed avian healing in real time. so if you ever needed proof that your music has restorative powers and can potentially be used for emotional support wildlife, there you go. | @itsoliviadean

[itsoliviadean]

I love this and you. And the bird, ‘course. The story’s sending me. I get you, girl. I do this all the time. I get way too emotionally invested in the tiniest things. Like strangers on the train who look a bit sad, even if it's just my imagination, or a dog waiting outside a shop. I feel really bad about these and people love calling me out on it but are you really human if you don’t pity sad strangers and especially dogs? I’m slightly obsessed with the idea that somewhere out there is a bird who’s now emotionally recovering to my music. Please tell me it came back after that?

[frommyfeed]

[wildspringday]

olivia dean via instagram

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[strungcheese]

Olivia Dean in Mugler for “One Night Only Live in Paris”

📸: Jérémy Authier

[jennerskendall]

congratulations on the "best new artist" win at the grammys. your speech was so beautiful and ugh! i'm in awe of your talent, girlie. hopefully we get to do some work together at some point. [ @itsoliviadean ]

[itsoliviadean]

Thank you so much, beautiful! I’m still kind of in disbelief that I even won that award. The speech really just came from a place of love for my roots and deep gratitude. I don’t even know how I managed to get the words out, it all felt a bit surreal in the moment. We should definitely get together in the studio sometime, whenever you’re free. I have a feeling we could make something great.

[famebbunny]

I gotten so used to traveling around for my tour that this break is starting to drive me crazy, maybe what i need to an impromptu travel somewhere you know? just take a chance in a random place, probably in South America, cause you know i gotta go somewhere where is still Summer time, any suggestions?

@hfrpstarters

[itsoliviadean]

I feel the same when I have breaks between tours. I don't know what to do with all the downtime. Right now I am just waiting to start my new tour and I’m feeling a bit restless too. I am itching to be somewhere new, seeing new things, and just moving. If you’re thinking South America, I would say maybe Buenos Aires. Or Rio, because who can resist the beaches?

[trecoolfms]

Ever wake up and feel like your brain just chose chaos for no reason? Like… no warning, just boom—today we’re dramatic. That’s when I start hitting things. Very therapeutic. Highly recommend. Not people. Usually. Mostly drums. Big distinction. I feel like some people cry… I just increase volume and tempo. I think everyone secretly needs a moment where they just go full punk and stop explaining themselves. Like, no thoughts—just noise and commitment. Anyway, if things get overwhelming, just remember—you can always be louder than your problems. | @hfrpstarters

[itsoliviadean]

I love that you have your drum therapy. I think I might steal that idea. If I started hitting things, I feel like I would be absolutely terrible at stopping myself, I'll be breaking everything in sight. Definitely sounds like a good idea to let off steam. For me it’s usually singing at the top of my lungs, but the principle is the same, just release it.

[alexademiefm]

podría estar loco! i have promo coming up, though i know that i won't be as heavily featured as my castmates. i decided to pick up an old hobby that i swore i'd never go back to. i found myself designing some sunglasses. i might bully some friends into being models or someone could make take some pity on me? @hfrpstarters

[itsoliviadean]

I’m kinda curious though… like, what was it that made you swear you would never go back to that hobby? I do have a bit of a thing for sunglasses, it’s probably ridiculous at this point. I’m always on the hunt for more, really. So if we both just take a little pity on each other, I feel like we would totally come out winning here, like I’d be out there promoting you and everything, just making sure people know what’s up.

[xosiren]

Olivia Dean | NBC SNL 25