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Welcome

Welcome to our new blog for those of you who may have known us before we changed over our old blog was @ivebeentornapartbefore

That blog is no longer active so please if you wish to continue to follow us, follow us here

Announcement

Starting today this will no longer be an active blog. Our mental health has been on a decline lately and we have come to the discovery that we have at least two alters. We want to start over with a new blog that is all of ours, so until then goodbye. For anyone who wishes to stick with us we will be tagging the new blog when it has been made.

Go follow @we-are-slowly-healing if you’d like to continue following us

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Tommy replied to Philza!

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he got his frogs :)

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my fuckin health teacher came in as a plague doctor for halloween and proceeded to say nothing to us for the whole class. he did hit a few desks with a walking stick tho.

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how do you know it was your teacher

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SCP-049: it was me it was always me

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😳

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Let! That! Baby! Eat!!!!!!

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Perfect tags

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This is like the best day of his life don't take that away from him

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lost in the sauce

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prince ranboo has had a very long day of dealing with poor people

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Crowfather and his fledgeling :D

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they are judging

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the crowfather's blessing of a withered soul.

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Quackity tweeted about him and Philza!

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A cropped screenshot of a tweet by Quackity @/Quackity. It reads “this was my friend Philza 🥺💔 nothing happened he’s just really old 💔”. Attached is a greyscale photo of Quackity and Philza. Quackity is leaning his elbow on Phil’s shoulder and Phil has his face pulled into some sort of smoulder? His lips are pursed and his eyes slightly squinted.

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Caption: [So, you're nonbinary. You've got your nouns figured out, you got your pronouns figured out. What could possibly go wrong? Until, there's a formal setting. You have to use a title. You don't have a doctorate! So you go online, you look "what are gender neutral titles", "nonbinary titles" and everything everywhere says "mx". It's fine. You just don't feel like its right for you. So what do you do?

Hi I'm Tuse, I'm nonbinary and I'm a huge linguistics and history nerd. And I want to share some alternate options for nonbinary titles. Let's start with what we already know. Mister and Missus. Those are the base gendered titles in English. Mrs. comes from Mistress. So, mister and mistress. The ending of those "-ter" and "-tress", those are the modern English forms of the Latin tor and trix.

So one great option is just removing the gendered ending. So just "Mist". I really like this because its simply, to the point. I like to shorten it with "M". But my favorite option is- Latin didn't have two grammatical genders. Latin had a neuter gender. And so, the neuter equivalent of "tor" and "trix", is "trum". So "Mistrum".

I really like this, I use it for myself. I like to shorten it as "Mm". And I really like it because it is unambiguous. It is very clearly not mister, not mistress, not missus, and not miss. That's what I like to use for myself. I love exploring other options for nongendered titles and nongendered language in general.

We have a tendency to come up with one option and then expect everyone who doesn't fit into the two binary options to use that third option. And we don't have to do that. If you have other options for what you like to use as your title as a nonbinary person, I would love to hear it. Please share!]

Note: Because this was being commented a lot on the original video, of course these work in English and not necessarily other languages. That doesn't mean that they can't be helpful, just that they might only be helpful in English.