I dont know who Ivy is and would like to know they are bad but Im lazy with actual researching
(If you dont to talk about it, then thats fine)
She was a very popular artist who was well known for her diverse content and poc/fat edits. she also used to go by Destinytomoon.
some time ago, kiwifarms doxxed her and leaked her birth certificate, claiming that she wasn't a trans girl because birth certificate was marked as female (however people from Chile claimed that you are allowed to change your birth certificate if you change your gender)
She disappeared for a bit, came back under the name Ivy. she then got into some controversy about using the double venus symbol in her bi/pan art (since its considered a lesbian symbol). however a lot of lesbians felt like it wasnt really a big deal, and the only ones really throwing a fit were some random edgy teenagers, one of them later getting chased off the website for being outed as a racefaker.
Then idk some discourse with her and her partner I dont really know, i heard she was accused of chasing her critics of the website, but the only one i'm aware of is when she rightfully called out people who were harassing her over a fucking symbol.
then i guess the kiwifarms shit came back AND got into more discourse because she started identifying as afro latino despite being white passing. im fine with her identifying as afro latino if she's white passing, im not one of those eugenics weirdos who thinks you need to look 100% black to be black. and she even shared photos of her own family to me that confirms it. However, she didn't even start identifying as afro latino until recently.
So she disappeared again, for good it seemed, I think her last post was in May. Then people found a Facebook account where the art was eerily similar to Ivy's, but the person making it was identifying as male and the art was blatantly more sexual and fetishistic (it was also way too clean). so of course, people who knew her, like me, did not believe it was her, and it looked like someone just imitating her for clout. I've had people pretend to be me to stir up more controversy, so i needed more than just having a similar art style.
I dm'd her to ask her if she was okay, because at this point it felt like things were getting out of hand. a lot of the "evidence" involved doxxing and people who were just spitefully saying shit bc they didnt like her.
Her response was basically the point where I realized I couldn't trust her.
She says she wants to run away again because she knew that defending herself would involve revealing personal information, which I understood. But then she wanted me to call her Javi, which implied she was going to fake her identity AGAIN. and then when I asked about that facebook account, she literally ghosted me for hours and then her "Friend" came back to tell me that she's gone for good on twitter, avoiding the question. So I blocked her.
But just a few hours ago she (and by she i mean her "friend" Angela) dm'd me on instagram, yelling at me for publicly saying that I no longer trust her, despite admitting that i still dont believe in a lot of allegations towards her.
Then, she fucking drops the ball here. She leaked the conversation I had with Ivy, but frames it like Kiwifarms somehow got a hold of it.
I didn't post our dms out of respect for Ivy's privacy, and you can see my icon in the side, meaning that this HER reading my messages.
And it's still possible she could be lying, because she knows I don't check Kiwifarms. but either response is still despicable. Lying about our dms getting leaked to kiwifarms, or actually leaking our convo to kiwifarms and then pretending like this somehow got leaked without her consent.
You can even see that this friend types similarly to her, which means Ivy is likely pretending to be her friend "angela" to guilt trip me and to stop posting about her.
So yeah, im both shocked and upset
