i set a new boundary between me and my ex. i felt like it is needed because i want to protect myself from what could happen (it happened in the past before). but now this boundary hurts her. im not sure if its the boundary itself or if its the words i chose to use or its both. do i have to feel guilty abt it? i really still stand by what i've said. i'm just worried about how shes taking it in own her own








